{"id":48821,"date":"2023-05-19T01:36:37","date_gmt":"2023-05-19T05:36:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/?p=48821"},"modified":"2023-05-20T10:57:36","modified_gmt":"2023-05-20T14:57:36","slug":"day-6-forgiveness-to-freedom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/day-6-forgiveness-to-freedom\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 6: Forgiveness to Freedom","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2-1024x821.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48841\" width=\"589\" height=\"471\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2-1024x821.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2-300x241.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2-768x616.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2-1536x1232.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgiveness-to-Freedom2.jpg 1870w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 589px) 100vw, 589px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>LET<\/strong> us begin this new day, these new beginnings: <em>In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, amen. <\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>Heavenly Father, thank you for Your unconditional love, lavished upon me when I least deserve it. Thank You for giving me the life of Your Son so that I may truly live. Come now Holy Spirit, and enter into the darkest corners of my heart where there still lingers painful memories, bitterness, and unforgiveness. Shine the light of truth that I may truly see; speak the words of truth that I may truly hear, and be freed from the chains of my past. I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.<\/em><!--more--><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align: left; padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, deluded, slaves to various desires and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful ourselves and hating one another. But when the kindness and generous love of God our Savior appeared, not because of any righteous deeds we had done but because of His mercy, He saved us through the bath of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit&#8230; (Tit 3:3-7)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before we go further, I invite you to close your eyes and listen to this song written by my dear friend, Jim Witter: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Forgiveness\" width=\"720\" height=\"540\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/_aONAYrHYaM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Forgiveness<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Little Mickey Johnson was my very best friend<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">In first grade we swore we&#8217;d stay that way to the end<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">But in seventh grade somebody stole my bike<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">I asked Mickey if he knew who did it and he lied<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Cause it was him&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And when I found out it hit me like a ton of bricks<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And I can still see that look in his face when I said<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">&#8220;I never want to talk to you again&#8221;<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Sometimes we lose our way<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We don&#8217;t say things we should say<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We hold on to stubborn pride<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">When we should put it all aside<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">To waste the time we&#8217;re given seems so senseless<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And one little word shouldn&#8217;t be so hard&#8230;forgiveness<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">A little card arrived on my wedding day<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">&#8220;Best wishes from an old friend&#8221; was all it had to say<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">No return address, no, not even a name<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">But the messy way that it was written gave it away<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">It was him&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And I just had to laugh as the past came flooding through my mind<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">I should have picked up that phone right then and there<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">But I just didn&#8217;t make the time<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Sometimes we lose our way<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We don&#8217;t say things we should say<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We hold on to stubborn pride<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">When we should put it all aside<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">To waste the time we&#8217;re given seems so senseless<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And one little word shouldn&#8217;t be so hard&#8230;forgiveness<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Sunday morning paper arrived on my step<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">The first thing I read filled my heart with regret<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">I saw a name I hadn&#8217;t seen in awhile<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">It said he was survived by a wife and a child<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And it was him&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">When I found out, the tears just fell like rain<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Cause I realized that I&#8217;d missed my chance<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">To ever talk to him again&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Sometimes we lose our way<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We don&#8217;t say things we should say<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">We hold on to stubborn pride<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">When we should put it all aside<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">To waste the time we&#8217;re given seems so senseless<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">And one little word shouldn&#8217;t be so hard&#8230;forgiveness<\/span><\/strong><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">One little word shouldn&#8217;t be so hard&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><br><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Little Mickey Johnson was my very best friend&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><br><br><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u2014Written by Jim Witter; 2002 Curb Songs (ASCAP)<\/span><br><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Sony\/ATV Music Publishing Canada (SOCAN)<\/span><br><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Baby Squared Songs (SOCAN)<\/span><br><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Mike Curb Music (BMI)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We Have All Been Hurt<\/h5>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-47886\" width=\"285\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/thecryoufthepoor.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 285px) 100vw, 285px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>We have all been hurt. We have all hurt others. There is only one person who has hurt no one, and that is Jesus \u2014&nbsp;the very one who forgives everyone their sins. And this is why He turns to each of us, we who crucified Him and who crucify each other, and says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">If you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your transgressions. (Matt 6:14-15)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Unforgiveness is like a chain tied to your heart with the other end tethered in Hell. Do you know what is interesting about Jesus&#8217; words? He doesn&#8217;t cushion them by saying, &#8220;Ya, I know you&#8217;ve really been hurt and that other person was quite a jerk&#8221; or &#8220;It&#8217;s okay to be bitter because what happened to you was terrible.&#8221; He just flat out says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Forgive and you will be forgiven. (Luke 6:37)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t diminish the fact that you or I have experienced genuine hurt, even terrible hurt. The wounds that others have given us, especially in our younger years, can shape who we are, sow fears, and create inhibitions. They can mess us up. They can cause our hearts to harden to where we find it difficult to receive love, or to give it, and even then, it can be distorted, self-centred, or short-lived as our insecurities eclipse the exchange of authentic love. Because of our wounds, notably parental wounds, you may have turned to drugs, alcohol or sex to numb the pain. There are a number of ways that your wounds have affected you, and this is why you are here today: to let Jesus heal what remains to be healed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it is the truth that sets us free. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Know When You Haven&#8217;t Forgiven<\/h5>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-2-682x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48829\" width=\"291\" height=\"437\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-2-682x1024.jpg 682w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-2-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-2.jpg 933w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 291px) 100vw, 291px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>What are the ways that unforgiveness is expressed? The most obvious is taking a vow: &#8220;I will <em>never<\/em> forgive him\/her.&#8221; More subtly, we can express unforgiveness by withdrawing from the other, what is called &#8220;the cold shoulder&#8221;; we refuse to speak to the person; when we see them, we look the other way; or we are purposely kind to others, and then obviously unkind toward the one who injured us.<\/p>\n<p>Unforgiveness can be expressed in gossip, taking them down a notch whenever we get the opportunity. Or we rejoice when we see them falter or when bad things come their way. We may even treat their family members and friends&nbsp; ill, even though they may be completely innocent. Finally, unforgiveness can come in the form of hatred and bitterness, to the point of consuming us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>None of this is life-giving, to <em>ourselves <\/em>or others. It taxes us emotionally. We stop being ourselves and become actors around the ones who have hurt us. We let their actions turn us into puppets such that our minds and hearts are constantly yanked from peace. We end up playing games. Our minds get caught in memories and imaginative scenarios and encounters. We plot and we plan our reactions. We relive the moment and what we think we should have done. In a word, we become a <em>slave&nbsp;<\/em>to unforgiveness. We think we are putting them in their place when, really, we are losing ours: our place of peace, joy, and freedom.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, we&#8217;re going to pause now for a moment. Take a blank sheet of paper (separate from your journal) and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you the people in your lives whom you still hold unforgiveness toward. Take your time, go back as far as you need to. It could even be the smallest thing that you have not let go. God will show you. Be honest with yourself. And don&#8217;t be afraid because God already knows the depths of your heart. Don&#8217;t let the enemy shove things back into the darkness. This is the beginning of a new freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Write their names down as they come to mind, and then set that paper aside for the moment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choosing to Forgive<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Decades ago, my wife, a graphic designer, was creating a logo for a company. She spent a lot of time trying to satisfy the owner, generating dozens of logo ideas.  In the end, nothing would satisfy him, so she had to throw in the towel. She sent him a bill which covered a mere fraction of the time she put in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When he received it, he picked up the phone and left the most horrible voicemail you can imagine \u2014 foul, filthy, degrading \u2014 it was off the charts. I was so angry, I got into my car, drove down to his business and threatened him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For weeks, this man weighed on my mind. I knew that I had to forgive him, so I would &#8220;say the words.&#8221; But every time I drove by his business, which was near my place of work, I would feel this bitterness and rage rise within me. One day, the words of Jesus came to mind:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">But to you who hear I say, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. (Luke 6:27-28)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And so, the next time I drove by his business, I began to pray for him: &#8220;Lord, I forgive this man. I ask you to bless him and his business, his family and his health. I pray that you would overlook his faults. Reveal Yourself to Him that He may know You and be saved. And thank You for loving me, for I, too, am a poor sinner.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I kept doing this week after week. And then one day while driving by, I was filled with an intense love and joy for this man, so much so, that I wanted to drive over and hug him and tell him that I love him. Something released in me; it was now Jesus loving him through me. The degree that the bitterness pierced my heart was the degree that I had to persevere in letting the Holy Spirit withdraw that poison&#8230; until I was free. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Know When You&#8217;ve Forgiven<\/h5>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3-345x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48830\" width=\"253\" height=\"751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3-345x1024.jpg 345w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3-101x300.jpg 101w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3-518x1536.jpg 518w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3-691x2048.jpg 691w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Forgive-3.jpg 755w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 253px) 100vw, 253px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Forgiveness is not a feeling but a choice. If we persevere in that choice, the feelings will follow. (<em>Caveat<\/em>: This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should remain in an abusive situation. It doesn&#8217;t mean you need to be the doormat for another&#8217;s dysfunction. If you have to remove yourself from those situations, particularly when they are physically abusive, then do so.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, how do you know when you are forgiving someone? When you are able to pray for them and wish them their happiness, not ill. When you genuinely ask God to save, not damn them. When the memory of the wound no longer triggers that sinking feeling. When you are able to stop talking about what happened. When you are able to recall that memory and learn from it, not drown in it. When you are able to be in the vicinity of that person and still be yourself. When you have peace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, right now, we are dealing with these wounds so that Jesus can heal them. You may not be in that place yet, and that is okay. That&#8217;s why you are here. If you need to scream, shout, cry, then do it. Go out into the woods, or grab your pillow, or stand on the edge of the city \u2014 and let it out. We need to grieve, especially when our wounds have stolen our innocence, messed up our relationships, or turned our world upside down. We need to feel sorrow, too, for the way that we have hurt others, but without falling back into that self-loathing (remember <a href=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/day-4-on-loving-thyself\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Day 5<\/a>!). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a saying:<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_48821_1('footnote_plugin_reference_48821_1_1');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_48821_1('footnote_plugin_reference_48821_1_1');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_48821_1_1\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[1]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_48821_1_1\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">This has wrongly been attributed to C.S. Lewis. There is a similar phrase by author James Sherman in his 1982 book <em>Rejection<\/em>: \u201cYou can\u2019t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_48821_1_1').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_48821_1_1', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top right', relative: true, offset: [10, 10], });<\/script>  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">You can\u2019t go back and change the beginning, <br>but you can start where you are and change the ending.<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>If all this seems hard, then ask Jesus to help you to forgive, He who taught by His example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Father, forgive them, they know not what they do. (Luke 23:34)<br><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Now take up that sheet of paper, and pronounce each name you wrote down, saying:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">&#8220;I forgive (name) for having ___________. I bless and release him\/her to you, Jesus.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Let me ask: was God on your list? We need to forgive Him too. Not that God has ever wronged you or I; His permissive Will has allowed all things in your life in order to bring about the greatest good, even if you cannot see it now. But we need to let go of our anger toward Him as well. Today (May 19) actually marks the day when my older sister died in a car accident when she was only 22. My family had to forgive God and put our trust in Him again. He understands. He can handle our anger. He loves us and knows that, someday, we will see things with His eyes and rejoice in His ways, which are far above our own understanding. (This is something good to write about in your journal and ask questions to God, if it applies to you).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After you have gone through the list, crumple it into a ball and then throw it into your fireplace, firepit, BBQ, or a steel pot or bowl, and <em>burn<\/em> it. And then come back to your sacred retreat space and let the song below be your closing prayer.&nbsp;<br><br>Remember, you don&#8217;t have to feel forgiveness, you just have to choose it. In your weakness, Jesus will be your strength if you simply ask Him.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">What is impossible for human beings is possible for God. (Luke 18:27)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-vimeo wp-block-embed-vimeo wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"I Want To Be Like You\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/92308097?h=74b41d8d12&amp;dnt=1&amp;app_id=122963\" width=\"720\" height=\"405\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">I Want To Be Like You<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Jesus, Jesus,<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Jesus, Jesus<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">Change my heart<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; 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font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">I want to be like You<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">&#8216;Cause I&#8217;ve tried and I&#8217;ve tried<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">and I&#8217;ve failed so many times<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">O, in my weakness You are strong<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Let Your mercy be my song<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">For your grace is sufficient for me<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">For your grace is sufficient for me<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\">For your grace is sufficient for me<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Jesus, Jesus,<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Jesus, Jesus<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Jesus, Jesus,<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Change my heart<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">O, change my life<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Change all of me<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">I want to be like You<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">I wanna be like You<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">(Jesus)<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Change my heart<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Change my life<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">I wanna be like You<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">I wanna be like You<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Jesus<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u2014Mark Mallett, from\u00a0<em>Let the Lord Know,\u00a0<\/em>2005\u00a9<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">To journey with Mark in\u00a0<strong><em>The <\/em><\/strong><em><strong>Now Word<\/strong><\/em>,<em><br \/>\n<\/em>click on the banner below to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/subscribe\/\">subscribe<\/a>. <br \/>\nYour email will not be shared with anyone.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/subscribe\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-25916\" src=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/now-word-banner.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"469\" height=\"153\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/now-word-banner.jpeg 850w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/now-word-banner-300x98.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.markmallett.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/now-word-banner-768x250.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 469px) 100vw, 469px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Now on Telegram. 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