KA MEA o kaʻu mau hoaaloha i pili paha i ka nohona kāne, a i ʻole i loko o ia manawa. ʻAʻole wau i aloha iki iā lākou (ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻae pono me kekahi o kā lākou koho.) No kēlā me kēia mea i hana ʻia i ke ʻano o ke Akua.
Akā hiki ke hōʻeha i kēia kiʻi. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻeha ʻia i loko o kākou āpau i nā kekelē a me nā hopena ʻokoʻa. Me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻole, nā moʻolelo aʻu i lohe ai i nā makahiki i hala aku nei mai kaʻu mau hoaaloha a mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i loaʻa i ke ola gay e hāpai i kahi pae maʻamau: he ʻeha makua hohonu. ʻO ka pinepine, kahi mea nui i ka pilina me kā lākou makua ua hele hewa. Ua haʻalele paha ʻo ia iā lākou, ua hele ʻole, hoʻomāinoino, a i ʻole he hele wale ʻole i ka home. I kekahi manawa, hui ʻia kēia me kahi makuahine koʻikoʻi, a i ʻole makuahine me nā pilikia koʻikoʻi nona ponoʻī e like me ka wai ʻona, nā lāʻau, a i ʻole nā kumu ʻē aʻe.
Ua kuhi wau no nā makahiki he ʻeha ka makua ʻo ia kekahi o nā kumu nui i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kahi hilahila i ka moekolohe. Kākoʻo kahi noiʻi hou loa i kēia.
Ua hoʻohana ka noiʻi i kahi laʻana ma luna o ka lehulehu ma mua o ʻelua miliona mau Danes ma waena o nā makahiki he 18 a me 49. ʻO Denmark ka ʻāina mua i kū kānāwai i ka "male gay", a kaulana ʻia no kona ʻae ʻana i nā kaila ʻokoʻa. E like me ia, lawe ka male kāne ma kēlā ʻāina i ka stigma liʻiliʻi. Eia kekahi o nā mea i loaʻa.
• Ua hānai ʻia nā kāne e male i ka homosexual i kahi ʻohana me nā pilina paʻa ʻole o nā mākua - ʻo ia hoʻi, nā makuakāne i hele a ʻike ʻole ʻia a i ʻole nā mākua hemo.
Ua hoʻonui ʻia ka helu o ka male male ma waena o nā wahine i ʻike i ka make makuahine i ka wā ʻōpio, nā wahine me ka lōʻihi o ka male makua, a me nā wahine me ka lōʻihi o ka noho pū ʻana o ka makuahine me ka makuakāne.
• ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine me nā "makuakāne ʻike ʻole" e hoʻoliʻiliʻi loa i ka male ʻana i kekahi kanaka o ka wahine ʻē aʻe ma mua o kā lākou mau hoa me nā makuakāne i ʻike ʻia.
• ʻO nā kāne i ʻike i ka make ʻana o nā mākua i ka wā kamaliʻi a i ʻole ka wā ʻōpio ua ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka male male heterosexual ma mua o nā hoa nona nā mākua e ola ana i ka lā hānau 18.
• ʻO ka pōkole o ka lōʻihi o ka male makua, ʻo ke kiʻekiʻe ka likelihood o ka male kāne male.
• ʻO nā kāne a ko lākou mau mākua i hemo ai ma mua o ko lākou hānau ʻana i ka makahiki hānau he 6% ʻoi aku ka nui o ka male male ma mua o nā hoa mai ka male makua ʻole.
Wahi kūkā: “ʻO nā pilina ʻohana kamaliʻi o ka male male male male male male male male male male male male male male male male male male male.”Na Morten Frisch lāua ʻo Anders Hviid; Ka Hale Moʻolelo o ka Haʻawina Haʻawina, ʻOkakopa 13, 2006. E ʻike ai i nā ʻike piha, e hele i: http://www.narth.com/docs/influencing.html
KE KULA
Pau nā mea kākau o ke aʻo, "ʻO nā mea a kēlā me kēia mea e hoʻoholo ai i ka makemake moekolohe a ke kanaka a me nā koho male, hōʻike kā mākou papa helu heluna kanaka he mea nui nā pilina a nā mākua."
Hoʻomaopopo kēia i ka ʻāpana no ke aha i hiki ai i nā kāne a me nā wahine me nā wahi like like wahine i ʻimi i ka hoʻōla i hiki ke haʻalele i ka "nohona kāne" a noho i nā nohona heterosexual maʻamau. ʻO ka hoʻōla ʻana i ka ʻeha makua Ua ʻae ʻo ia i ke kanaka e hoʻōla hou iā wai lākou i loko o Kristo a nāna lākou i hana ai. Eia nō naʻe, no kekahi, he lōʻihi a paʻakikī hoʻi ke kaʻina o ka hoʻōla, a no laila ke koi mai nei ka Ekalesia iā mākou e loaʻa nā kāne kāne kāne me ka "mahalo, ke aloha, a me ka noʻonoʻo".
Eia nō naʻe, koi ka hale pule i ke aloha like no kēlā me kēia mea e hakakā nei me nā kuko hewa e kūʻē ana i ke kānāwai pono o ke Akua. I kēia lā aia kekahi maʻi ahulau o ka waiʻona, hoʻopilikia i nā ponokala kiʻi, a me nā psychosis pīhoihoi e luku nei i ka ʻohana. ʻAʻole koho ka hale pule i nā homosexuals, akā ke kau nei iā mākou āpau, no ka mea he lawehala mākou āpau, ke ʻike nei mākou āpau i kahi ʻano o ka hoʻokauwā. Inā he mea, ua hōʻike ka hale pule Katolika i kāna paʻa mau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻololi ʻole i nā kenekulia. No ka mea ʻaʻole hiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ʻoiaʻiʻo inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo i kēia lā, akā wahaheʻe i ka lā ʻapōpō.
ʻO ia ka mea e hana ai no kekahi, ka paakiki ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Manaʻo ka hale pule… e hoʻomau i ka hāpai i kona leo i ka pale ʻana i ke kanaka, ʻoiai ke neʻe nā kulekele o nā Aupuni a me ka hapanui o nā manaʻo lehulehu i kahi ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoiaʻiʻo, huki i ka ikaika mai iā ia iho a ʻaʻole mai ka nui o ka ʻae e ala ʻia. —POPE BENEDICT XVI, Vatican, Malaki 20, 2006
