Times Square Parade, Wolemba Alexander Chen
WE tikukhala m'nthawi zowopsa. Koma ochepa ndi omwe amazindikira. Zomwe ndikunena sizowopseza uchigawenga, kusintha kwanyengo, kapena nkhondo yankhondo, koma china chobisika komanso chobisalira. Ndikupita patsogolo kwa mdani yemwe wapeza kale m'nyumba ndi m'mitima yambiri ndipo akukwanitsa kuwononga zowopsa pamene zikufalikira padziko lonse lapansi:
phokoso.
Ndikulankhula za phokoso lauzimu. Phokoso lalikulu kwambiri kumoyo, logonthetsa mtima, kuti likangolowa, limasokoneza mawu a Mulungu, limasokoneza chikumbumtima, ndipo limachititsa khungu kuwona zenizeni. Ndi m'modzi mwa adani owopsa a nthawi yathu ino chifukwa, pomwe nkhondo ndi ziwawa zimapweteketsa thupi, phokoso ndilopha moyo. Ndipo mzimu womwe watseka mawu a Mulungu umakhala pachiwopsezo kuti usadzamumvanso kwamuyaya.
phokoso
Mdaniyu nthawi zonse wakhala akubisalira, koma mwina kuposa kale. Mtumwi Yohane Woyera anachenjeza kuti phokoso ndiye chizindikiro cha mzimu wokana Kristu:
Musakonde dziko lapansi kapena zinthu za mdziko. Ngati wina akonda dziko lapansi, chikondi cha Atate sichiri mwa iye. Pakuti zonse zomwe zili mdziko lapansi, kusilira kwa thupi, kukopa kwa maso, ndi moyo wonyada, sizichokera kwa Atate koma kuziko. Komabe dziko lapansi ndi zokopa zake zikupita. Koma amene achita chifuniro cha Mulungu akhala ku nthawi zonse. Ananu, ili ndi nthawi yotsiriza; ndipo monga mudamva kuti wokana Kristu alikudza, momwemo tsopano okana Kristu ambiri awonekera. (1 Yohane 2: 15-18)
Chilakolako cha thupi, kukopa kwa maso, moyo wonyada. Izi ndi njira zomwe maulamuliro ndi maulamuliro akutsogolera kuphulika kwa phokoso motsutsana ndi anthu osakayikira.
Phokoso LA CHISONI
Munthu sangathe kusewera pa intaneti, kuyenda pabwalo la ndege, kapena kungogula zinthu popanda kumenyedwa ndi phokoso la kusilira. Amuna, kuposa akazi, amatha kuchita izi chifukwa amuna amayankha mwamphamvu. Ndi phokoso lowopsa, chifukwa samangokoka m'maso mokha, koma limakokeranso thupi lake. Kunena ngakhale lero kuti mkazi wovala-theka ali wosadzichepetsa kapena wosayenera adzadodometsedwa ngati sanyozedwe. Zakhala zovomerezeka pagulu, komanso pazaka zazing'ono komanso zazing'ono, kuti agonane ndikukwaniritsa thupi. Sichotengeranso chotengera, modzicepetsa ndi zachifundo, chowonadi choti munthu ndi ndani, koma chakhala cholankhulira chikufuula uthenga wopotoka: kukwaniritsidwa kumeneku kumadza makamaka kuchokera ku kugonana ndi kugonana, osati Mlengi. Phokoso lokhalo lokha, lomwe tsopano likufalitsidwa kudzera muzithunzi zachiyankhulo ndi chilankhulo pafupifupi m'magulu onse amakono, likuchita zambiri kuwononga mizimu kuposa mwina wina aliyense.
MPHAMVU YA KUSANGALALA
Makamaka m'maiko Akumadzulo, phokoso lokonda chuma — kukopa zinthu zatsopano — lafika povuta kwambiri, komabe ndi ochepa amene akulikaniza. Ipads, ipods, iBooks, ma iphone, ifashions, mapulani amachitidwe ... Ngakhale maudindo omwewo amavumbula zina mwaziwopsezo zomwe zingabwere chifukwa chofuna kudzisangalatsa, kusangalala komanso kusangalala. Zonse ndi za "Ine", osati m'bale wanga amene akusowa. Kutumiza kwa kupanga ku dziko lachitatu 
maiko (omwe nthawi zambiri amabweretsa zopanda chilungamo mwa iwo okha ndi malipiro omvetsa chisoni) abweretsa tsunami wa zinthu zotsika mtengo, motsogozedwa ndi kutsatsa kosalekeza komwe kumadziyikira nokha, osati oyandikana nawo, pamwamba pa totem yazofunikira.
Koma phokosolo latenga kamvekedwe kosiyana komanso kochenjera masiku athu ano. Intaneti ndi ukadaulo wopanda zingwe nthawi zonse zimakhala ndi tanthauzo lalikulu, uthengawu, miseche, zithunzi, makanema, katundu, ntchito, zonse pakadutsa mphindi. Ndiko kusakanikirana kwabwino kwa glitz ndi kukongola kuti miyoyo isangalatse-ndipo nthawi zambiri samamva njala ndi ludzu mu miyoyo yawo chifukwa cha opambana, kwa Mulungu.
Sitingakane kuti zosintha zomwe zikuchitika mdziko lathu lapansi zikuwonetsanso zododometsa za kugawanika ndikubwerera m'mbuyo mwaumwini. Kukula kwa njira yolumikizirana pakompyuta nthawi zina kudabwitsa kwake kwadzetsa kudzipatula kwakukulu… —POPE BENEDICT XVI, nkhani ku Tchalitchi cha St. Joseph, pa 8 April, 2008, Yorkville, New York; Catholic News Agency
PANGO LABWINO
Yohane Woyera amachenjeza za kuyesedwa kwa "kunyada ndi moyo." Izi sizikutanthauza kungofuna kulemera kapena kutchuka. Lero, yatenga chiyeso chochenjera kwambiri, kamodzinso, kudzera muukadaulo. "Zachikhalidwe 
kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti ", pomwe nthawi zambiri imagwiritsa ntchito kulumikizana ndi abwenzi akale ndi abale, kumayambitsanso kukhala ndi malingaliro achikhalidwe chatsopano. Ndi ntchito yolumikizirana monga Facebook kapena Twitter, chizolowezi ndikuyika malingaliro ndi zochita zonse zakunja kuti dziko liziwone, ndikulimbikitsa kukula Izi zimatsutsana kwambiri ndi cholowa chauzimu cha Oyera Mtima momwe kuyenera kuyankhula zopanda pake kuyenera kupewedwa, chifukwa amalimbikitsa mzimu wakudziko komanso kusasamala.
CHIKHALIDWE CHA MTIMA
Zachidziwikire, phokosoli siliyenera kuonedwa ngati loyipa kwenikweni. Thupi lamunthu ndi kugonana ndi mphatso yochokera kwa Mulungu, osati choletsa chamanyazi kapena chonyansa. Zinthu zakuthupi sizabwino kapena zoyipa, zili chabe… mpaka tiziike pa guwa la mitima yathu ndikuzipanga kukhala mafano. Ndipo intaneti itha kugwiritsidwanso ntchito bwino.
M'nyumba ya Nazareti ndi muutumiki wa Yesu, munali 
Nthawi zonse phokoso lakumbuyo kwadziko. Yesu anafika mpaka “m'phanga la mikango,” ndipo anali kudya limodzi ndi okhometsa msonkho ndi mahule. Koma adachita izi chifukwa nthawi zonse amasamalira Kusunga kwa mtima. St. Paul analemba kuti,
Musafanizidwe ndi makhalidwe am'badwo uno, koma sandulikani mwa kukonzanso kwa mtima wanu… (Aroma 12: 2)
Kusungidwa kwa mtima kumatanthauza kuti sindimakhazikika pazinthu zadziko lapansi, kutsatira njira zake zopanda umulungu, koma pa Ufumu, njira za Mulungu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kupezanso tanthauzo la moyo ndikugwirizanitsa zolinga zanga ndi izi…
… Tiyeni tisiye zolemetsa zathu zonse ndi tchimo lomwe limamatirira kwa ife ndikulimbikira kuthamanga liwiro lomwe likutitsogolera kwinaku tikupenyerera kwa Yesu, mtsogoleri ndi wokwaniritsa chikhulupiriro. (Ahebri 12: 1-2)
M'malonjezo athu obatizidwa, timalonjeza kuti "tidzakana kukongola kwa zoyipa, ndikukana kuti tichitidwe uchimo." Kusungidwa kwa mtima kumatanthauza kupewa njira yoyamba yakupha iyi: kutengeka ndi kukongola kwa zoyipa, zomwe, ngati titenga nyambo, zimatsogolera kuzolowera.
… Aliyense amene amachita tchimo ndi kapolo wa tchimo. (Juwau 8:34)
Yesu anayenda pakati pa anthu ochimwa, koma Iye anasunga Hi
Mtima wosakhazikika poyang'ana kaye chifuniro cha Atate. Anayenda mu chowonadi kuti akazi sanali zinthu, koma ziwonetsero za chifanizo Chake; m'choonadi kuti zinthu zakuthupi ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito polemekeza Mulungu komanso kuthandiza ena; ndipo pokhala wocheperako, wodzichepetsa, ndi wobisika, wofatsa ndi wofatsa mtima, Yesu adapewa mphamvu yakudziko ndi ulemu zomwe ena akadamupatsa.
KUSUNGA CHIKHALIDWE CHA MAGANIZO
Mu Lamulo la Contrition lomwe limapemphedwa movomereza sacramenti, wina atsimikiza kuti 'asadzachimwenso ndikupewanso tchimo.' Kusungidwa kwa mtima sikutanthauza kungopewa tchimo lokha, koma misampha yodziwika yomwe ingandigwetsere muuchimo. "Pangani palibe chakudya cha thupi, "adatero St. Paul (onani Nyalugwe M'khola.) Mnzanga wina wapamtima akuti sanadye maswiti kapena kumwa mowa kwazaka zambiri. "Ndili ndi chizolowezi chomwa mowa," adatero. "Ndikadya keke imodzi, ndikufuna thumba lonse." Kutsitsimula koona mtima. Munthu amene amapewa ngakhale nthawi yapafupi yochimwa -ndipo mutha kuwona ufulu pamaso pake.
chilakolako
Zaka zambiri zapitazo, mnzake wogwira naye ntchito adasilira azimayi omwe amadutsa. Atazindikira kusowa kwanga kochita nawo, adafuula, "Munthu akhoza kuyang'anabe pamndandanda popanda kuyitanitsa!" Koma Yesu ananena china chosiyana:
… Aliyense amene ayang'ana mkazi momusilira wachita naye kale chigololo mumtima mwake. (Mateyu 5:28)
Nanga bwanji pachikhalidwe chathu cha zamaliseche, munthu angatani kuti asagwere muuchimo wa chigololo ndi maso ake? Yankho ndikuti asunge menyu 
zonse pamodzi. Choyamba, akazi si zinthu, zogulitsa. Ndi zowonetsera zokongola za Mlengi Waumulungu: kugonana kwawo, komwe kumafotokozedwa ngati cholandirira mbewu yopatsa moyo, ndi chithunzi cha Mpingo, womwe ndi cholandirira Mawu a Mulungu opatsa moyo. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale kuvala mopanda ulemu kapena mawonekedwe okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi msampha; ndikutsetsereka komwe kumapangitsa kuti uzifuna zochulukirapo. Chofunika, ndiye, kusunga kusunga maso:
Nyali ya thupi ndiye diso. Ngati diso lako lili lolunjika pa chinthu chimodzi, thupi lako lonse lidzayatsidwa kuwala; koma ngati diso lako lili loipa, thupi lako lonse lidzakhala mumdima. (Mat 6: 22-23)
Diso ndi "loipa" ngati titalola kuti lizikopeka ndi "kukongola kwa zoyipa": ngati titalola kuti lizizungulira mchipindacho, ngati tiziwunika zomwe zili m'magaziniwa, zithunzi za pa intaneti, kapena kuwonera makanema kapena ziwonetsero zosayenera .
Chotsa maso ako kwa mkazi wokongola; usayang'ane kukongola kwa mkazi wa wina - - chifukwa cha kukongola kwa akazi ambiri amafa, popeza kulakalaka kumayaka ngati moto. (Siraki 9: 8)
Si nkhani yongopewa zolaula, koma zamanyazi zamtundu uliwonse. Zimatanthawuza - kwa amuna ena kuwerenga izi - kusintha kwathunthu kwa malingaliro amomwe akazi amazindikiridwira komanso momwe timadzionera tokha - kusiyanasiyana komwe timatsimikizira kuti, m'menemo, amatikola, ndikutikokeretsa kuzowawa zauchimo.
Kukonda chuma
Wina amatha kulemba buku lonena za umphawi. Koma St. Paul mwina amafotokozera mwachidule kuti:
Ngati tili ndi chakudya ndi zovala, tidzakhutira nazo. Iwo amene akufuna kukhala olemera akugwera m'mayesero ndi mumsampha ndi zilakolako zambiri zopusa ndi zowononga, zomwe zimawagwetsa mu chiwonongeko ndi chiwonongeko. (1 Tim 6: 8-9)
Timataya ufulu wamtima wathu nthawi zonse tikamagula zinthu zabwino, kuti tipeze chinthu chabwino chotsatira. 
Limodzi mwa Malamulo ndikuti musasirire zinthu za mnzanga. Chifukwa chake, Yesu adachenjeza, ndikuti munthu sangathe kugawa mtima wake pakati pa Mulungu ndi chuma (chuma).
Palibe amene angathe kutumikira ambuye awiri. Atha kudana ndi mmodzi ndi kukonda winayo, kapena adzipereka kwa mmodzi ndi kunyoza winayo. (Mat. 6:24)
Kusunga pamtima kumatanthauza kupeza, makamaka, zomwe ife amafunika osati zomwe ife ndikufuna, osadzikundikira koma kugawana ndi ena, makamaka osauka.
Chuma chapamwamba kwambiri chomwe mudasunga ndikuchilola kuti chikhale chowola mukadawapatsa mphatso zachifundo kwa ovutika, zovala zapamwamba zomwe mudali nazo ndikusankha kuti ziwoneke ndi njenjete m'malo movalira osauka, ndi golide ndi siliva zomwe mwasankha kuwona bodza mukungokhala m'malo modyera osauka, zonsezi, ndikukuuzani, pa Tsiku Lachiweruzo. — St. Robert Bellarmine, Nzeru za Oyera Mtima, Jill Haakadels, p. 166
Kutengera
Kusungidwa kwa mtima kumatanthauzanso kuyang'anira mawu athu, kukhala nawo kusunga malilime athu. Pakuti lilime liri ndi mphamvu yakumanga kapena kuwononga, kutchera msampha kapena kumasula. Nthawi zambiri, timagwiritsa ntchito lilime chifukwa chonyada, kunena (kapena kutayipa) izi kapena izi ndi chiyembekezo chodzipangitsa kudzionetsa kuti ndife ofunika kwambiri kuposa ife, kapena kukondweretsa ena, kupeza chivomerezo chawo. Nthawi zina, timangotulutsa khoma lamawu kuti tisangalale ndi kungolankhula.
Pali liwu mu uzimu wachikatolika lotchedwa "kukumbukira." Zimangotanthauza kukumbukira kuti ndimakhala pamaso pa Mulungu nthawi zonse, ndikuti nthawi zonse amakhala cholinga changa ndikukwaniritsa zokhumba zanga zonse. Zikutanthauza kuzindikira kuti chifuniro Chake ndiye chakudya changa, ndikuti, monga wantchito Wake, ndidayitanidwa kuti ndimutsatire iye mu njira ya zachifundo. Kukumbukira ndiye, kumatanthauza kuti "ndimadzisonkhanitsa" nditataya mtima wanga, ndikudalira chifundo chake ndi chikhululukiro, ndikudziperekanso ndikumukonda ndikumutumikira mphindi yapano ndi mtima wanga wonse, moyo wanga wonse, nzeru zanga zonse, ndi mphamvu zanga zonse.
Pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, tiyenera kusamala. Kodi ndi kudzichepetsa kudziphatika zithunzi zanga zomwe zimangodzionetsera ngati zopanda pake? Ndikamagwiritsa ntchito ma tweet, ndimangonena zomwe zili zofunikira kapena ayi? Kodi ndikulimbikitsa miseche kapena kuwononga nthawi ya ena?
Ndithu ndikukuuzani, Pa tsiku lachiweruzo anthu adzayankha mlandu pa mawu alionse osasamala amene amalankhula. (Mat. 12:36)
Ganizirani za mtima wanu ngati ng'anjo. Pakamwa pako ndiye khomo. Nthawi iliyonse mukatsegula chitseko, mumalola kutentha kutuluka. Mukatseka chitseko, ndikukumbukirabe pamaso pa Mulungu, moto wa chikondi Chake Chaumulungu uzikula motentha kotero kuti, nthawi ikakhala yoyenera, mawu anu atha kulimbikitsa, kumasula, ndikuthandizira kuchiritsa kwa ena - kuti kutentha ena ndi chikondi cha Mulungu. Nthawi imeneyo, ngakhale timalankhula, chifukwa ndi liwu la Chikondi, zimathandizira kuyatsa moto mkati. Kupanda kutero, mzimu wathu, ndi wa ena, umazizira tikatsegula chitseko chopanda tanthauzo kapena s
macheza osewerera.
Chiwerewere kapena chodetsa chilichonse kapena umbombo siziyenera kutchulidwa konse pakati panu, monga kuli koyenera pakati pa oyera mtima, osati zonyansa kapena zopusa kapena zonena zopanda pake, zomwe sizoyenera, koma m'malo mwake, kuthokoza. (Aef 5: 3-4)
Alendo ndi alendo
Kusunga pamtima ndikumveka kwachilendo komanso kosagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe. Tikukhala m'dziko lomwe limalimbikitsa anthu kuti ayesere kuchita zachiwerewere ndi moyo, kudzipaka paliponse pa YouTube, kufuna kukhala oyimba kapena kuvina "Mafano", ndi kukhala "ololera" chilichonse ndi aliyense (kupatula Akatolika) . Pokana phokosoli, Yesu adati tingawoneke osamveka pamaso pa anthu; kuti atizunze, kutiseka, kutinyalanyaza ndikutida chifukwa kuwala kwa okhulupirira kumatsimikizira mdima mwa ena.
Pakuti yense wakuchita zoipa adana nako kuunika, ndipo sakudza kwa kuunikako, kuti ntchito zake zionekere. (Juwau 3:20)
Kusunga mtima wamunthu, ndiye kuti si machitidwe achikale akale, koma msewu wokhazikika, wowona, komanso wopapatiza wopita Kumwamba. Ndi ochepa okha omwe ali okonzeka kuzitenga, kukana phokoso kuti athe kumva liwu la Mulungu lomwe limatsogolera ku moyo wosatha.
Pakuti kumene kuli chuma chako, komweko udzakhala mtima wako. Lowani pachipata chopapatiza; pakuti chipata chiri chachikulu, ndi njira yakumuka nayo kukuwonongeka ili yotakata; ndipo aloŵa pa icho ndi ambiri. Njira yake ndi yopapatiza komanso yolowera njira yopita kumoyo. Ndipo omwe amawapeza ndi ochepa. (Mat 6:21; 7: 13-14)
Kukonda chuma chakudziko ndi mtundu wina wa nyengo ya mbalame, yomwe imakola moyo ndikulepheretsa kuwulukira kwa Mulungu. —Augustine wa Mvuu, Nzeru za Oyera Mtima, Jill Haakadels, p. 164
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