PAKUremekedzwa kwemurume nemukadzi
PANO mufaro watinofanira kuona zvakare sevaKristu nhasi: mufaro wekuona kumeso kwaMwari mune imwe-uye izvi zvinosanganisira avo vakanganisa hutano hwavo. Munguva yedu yemazuva ano, St. John Paul II, Akakomborerwa Amai Teresa, Muranda waMwari Catherine de Hueck Doherty, Jean Vanier nevamwe vanouya mundangariro sevanhu vakawana mukana wekuziva mufananidzo waMwari, kunyangwe mukuzvivara kunoshungurudza kwehurombo, kuputsika. , uye zvivi. Vakaona, sokunge zvakadaro, "Kristu akarovererwa" mune imwe.
Pane katsika, kunyanya pakati pevaKristu vane hushingi nhasi, "kutuka" vamwe vasina "kuponeswa," kupomhodza "vasina hunhu", kuranga "vakaipa", nekushora "vakaora." Ehe, Rugwaro runotitaurira zvinozoitika kune chero wedu anoramba achiita zvakakomba uye zvinofa zvivi, iko kuramba zvachose kwaMwari. Avo vanoedza kudiridza chokwadi cheKutongwa Kwekupedzisira uye chokwadi cheGehena [1]cf. Gehena nderechokwadi ita kusaruramisira kukuru uye kukuvadza mweya. Panguva imwecheteyo, Kristu haana kubhadharira Chechi mhosva, asi kuti ive nyoro mukudzidzisa kwayo, [2]cf. VaG. 6:1 anonzwira tsitsi vavengi vake, [3]cf. Ruka 6: 36 uye vakashinga kusvika pakufa mukushandira chokwadi. [4]cf. Mako 8: 36-38 Asi mumwe haakwanise kuva netsitsi nerudo rwechokwadi kunze kwekunge paine kunzwisiswa kwechokwadi nezvehunhu hwedu hwevanhu hunosanganisira kwete chete muviri nemanzwiro, asi mweya wemunhu.
Nekuburitswa kuri kuuya kweiyo nyowani nyowani pane ecology, hapana imwe nguva iri nani yekuongorora kushungurudzwa kukuru kwechisiko munguva yedu, iyo…
… Kuparara kwemufananidzo wemunhu, nemhedzisiro yakaipa kwazvo. —Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger (BENEDICT XVI), Chivabvu, 14, 2005, Roma; kutaura kuzivikanwa kweEuropean; CatholicCulture.org
“CHIPO” CHOKWADI
Pfungwa isingazivikanwe yakasimudza musoro panguva yeSynod ichangoburwa paMhuri muRome. Mumushumo wenguva pfupi wakaburitswa neVatican, Chikamu 50 - icho chaive kwete vakavhoterwa nekutenderwa neMadzibaba eSynod, asi vakaburitswa zvakadaro - vanoti "Ngochani vane zvipo nehunhu zvavanogona kupa kunharaunda yevaKristu," uye vakabvunza kana nharaunda dzedu dzichikwanisa "kukoshesa kuita kwavo zvebonde, pasina kukanganisa dzidziso yechiKaturike pamhuri. nemuchato ”. [5]cf. Rondedzera post disceptationem, n. 50; wokudhinda.vatican.va
Kutanga, ini ndoda kutaura kuti pamusoro pemakore gumi apfuura, ndakaita hurukuro kumashure kwezviitiko nevarume nevakadzi vanoverengeka vakatambura nekukwezvwa nevanhurume. 
Mumamiriro ese ezvinhu, ivo vakauya kwandiri vane chishuwo chekuporeswa, nekuti ivo vaigona kuona kuti manzwiro avo haana kuenderana nepombi dzemvura yavo. Unogona kuyeuka Tsamba Yenhamo Ndakagamuchira kubva kune rimwe jaya rakadaro. Tsananguro yake yekurwira kwake ndeyechokwadi uye inoshungurudza, sezvazviri kune vakawanda - vamwe vari vedu vanakomana, vanasikana, vanun'una, hama, uye shamwari (ona Nzira Yechitatu). Wanga uri mukana unoshamisa kufamba nevanhu ava. Ndinovaona vasina kusiyana neni pachangu kana vamwe vandakapa mazano, maererano nevazhinji vedu kutakura kwakadzika uye kwakapararira kurwa kunotitadzisa kuva vakakwana muna Kristu uye kusiya mumwe achirwira rugare.
Asi kuve "ngochani" kunounza "zvipo nehunhu" kune Muviri waKristu here? Uyu mubvunzo wakakosha une chekuita nekutsvaga kwakadzama kwezvinoreva munguva yedu sezvo vanhu vazhinji vachienda kumafashoni, tatoos, kuvhiya kwepurasitiki uye "dzidziso yechikadzi" kuti vazvitsanangure zvekare. [6]“Gender dzidziso” ipfungwa yekuti bhayoroji yemunhu inogona kumisikidzwa pakuzvarwa, kureva. murume kana mukadzi, asi iyeye anogona kuona "murume" kunze kwebonde rake. Pope Francis vashora dzidziso iyi kaviri ikozvino. Ndakaisa uyu mubvunzo kune murume wandinoziva uyo aigara nemumwe murume kwemakore akati wandei. Akasiya mararamiro iwayo uye akazove muenzaniso wehunhu hwechiKristu kune vakawanda. Mhinduro yake:
Ini handifunge kuti ungochani hunofanira kukwidziridzwa kumusoro sechipo uye hupfumi mukati uye hwaro. Kune zvipo zvakawanda uye hupfumi, hupfumi hwepamoyo, muiri uye outside yeChechi iyo yakaumbwa kuva izvi zvipo uye
hupfumi muchikamu nekuda kwenzira yavakagara nayo uye kuburikidza nekunetsekana uku… ndauya kunzvimbo yekukudza nekuropafadza kurwa murwendo, ndisina kuvazivisa chimwe chinhu chakanaka mukati uye pachavo. Zvinoshamisa, chokwadika! Mwari anoda kushandisa kukakavara kwaMwari kuti vagadzire uye vasimudze uye vatisimbise uye vatitsvenese: Hupfumi hwake hwehumwari. Dai hupenyu hwangu, ndakararama ndakatendeka (Ndakundikana munzira uye ndofamba nebanga kunyange nhasi) rimwe zuva ndisati ndafa kana mushure mekufa kwangu, ratidza nzira yetariro, nzira yemufaro, muenzaniso unoshamisa webasa rakanaka raMwari mune zvisingatarisirwi yehupenyu.
Mune mamwe mazwi, Muchinjikwa - chero chimiro uye chimiro chaunotora muhupenyu hwedu pachedu - inogara ichitishandura uye ichibereka michero patinotendera isu kuti tisungirire pairi. Ndokunge, kana tichirarama, kunyangwe muutera hwedu nekurwa, mukuteerera Kristu, isu tinounza zvipo nehunhu kune vamwe vakatikomberedza semhedzisiro yekuwedzera kwedu se Kristu. Mutauro uri mushumo weSynod unoratidza kuti chinetso chekuzvarwa nacho pachawo Chipo, icho chisingatombovepo sezvo chiri kupesana nehurongwa hwaMwari. Mushure mezvose, ndiwo mutauro wakaramba uchishandiswa neChechi kurondedzera tsika yeungochani:
… Varume nevakadzi vane zvido zveungochani “zvinofanirwa kugamuchirwa neruremekedzo, tsitsi nekunzwisisa. Zviratidzo zvese zverusarura zvisina kukodzera munyaya yavo zvinofanirwa kudzivirirwa. ” Ivo vanodanwa, sevamwe maKristu, kuti vararame hunhu hwetsika. Kuda kweungochani zvakadaro "kwakanyonganiswa" uye zviito zveungochani "zvivi zvakakomba zvinopesana nehutsanana." -Kufunga Nezve Zvirongwa Zvekupa Kuzivikanwa Zviri Pamutemo kuMasangano Pakati Pevanhu Vane Ngochani; kwete. 4
Kukumbira nharaunda yeChechi kutanga "kukoshesa kwavo bonde, vasingakanganise dzidziso yeKaturike pamhuri uye kuroora" kupokana mumisimboti. Sezvo varume nevakadzi vasingaverengeke vakasiya ungochani "mararamiro" anogona kupupura, chiremerera chavo chinodarika hupombwe hwavo kune hwavo ose kuva. Seimwe yezvidzidzo mune yakanakisa zvinyorwa Nzira Yechitatu yakati: “Handisi ngochani. Ndiri Dave. "
Chipo chechokwadi chatinofanira kupa isu pachedu, kwete kungori bonde redu.
KUKUDZWA KAKAITIKA
Zvepabonde chinhu chimwe chete che zvatiri isu, asi icho chinotaura kune chimwe chinhu chakadzika 
kupfuura nyama chete: kuratidzwa kwemufananidzo waMwari.
Kusiyanisa musiyano uripo pakati peve murume nemukadzi… zvinyoronyoro zvinosimbisa dzidziso dzisina kujeka idzo dzinotsvaga kubvisa kukosha kwese kubva pahunhu hwemunhukadzi kana hwevanhukadzi, sekunge ichi chaive chinhu cheuzvarirwo. —PAPA BENEDICT XVI, WorldNetDaily, Zvita 30, 2006
Zvakangodaro, zvichipesana nezvinoitwa nevezvenhau nhasi, chiremerera chedu hachirevi zvachose pabonde. Kuitwa nemufananidzo waMwari zvinoreva kuti takasikwa nokuti Iye nekwanisi yekuMuda uye kudanana mumusangano wevanhu. Ndiko kukudzwa kwepamusoro uye kubwinya kuri kwemurume kana mukadzi.
Ndosaka hupenyu hwevakatsaurwa: hwevapristi, masista, uye vanhu vakagadzika mune kusaroora hunodaidzwa kuti "chiporofita" chapupu neChechi. Nekuti kwavo kwekuzvidira kusarudza kurarama vasina hunhu kunongedzera kune chikuru chakakura, kune chimwe chinhu chinopfuura, chimwe chinhu chinopfuura chakanaka uye chakadzikama asi chenguva chiito chepabonde, uye ndiko kubatana naMwari. [7]'Dai humbowo hwavo hwanyanya kuva pachena mugore iri reVakatsaurwa kuti Chechi parizvino iri kurarama.' cf. Tsamba yeApostori yaPapa Francis kune Vese Vanhu Vakatsaurwa, www.haav.va 
Chapupu chavo "chiratidzo chekupokana" muchizvarwa chinotenda kuti "hazvigoneke" kufara pasina kanagasm. Asi zvinodaro nekuti isu tiriwo chizvarwa chinotenda zvishoma uye zvishoma muhuMwari, uye nekudaro, zvishoma uye zvishoma musimba redu rehuMwari. Sekunyora kwakaita Pauro.
Nokuti imi mose makabhabhatidzwa munaKristu makazvipfekedza Kristu. Hakuna muJudha kana muGiriki, hakuna wakasungwa kana wakasununguka, hakuna murume kana mukadzi; nekuti imi mose muri vamwe muna Kristu Jesu. (VaG. 3: 27-28)
Sekupupurira kwaVatendi, kubatana naMwari kunodarika mufaro wepasi sekuwandisa kunoita Zuva mwenje wemwenje. Zvakadaro, hazvina kunaka, dzidziso dzakatsauka, kutarisa kusangana pabonde seimwe “chitadzo” chakakosha kune avo "vasina simba" kuti vagamuchire hupenyu hwekusaroora. Nekuti kana tichizotaura nezve "kubatana" naKristu, tinofanirawo kuona kuti bonde chiratidzo chakanaka uye kutarisira kubatana ikoko: Kristu anodyara "mbeu" yeShoko rake mumoyo weMwenga Wake, Chechi, inobereka. "Hupenyu" mukati maro. Chokwadi, iro rizere reMagwaro inyaya ye "sungano yemuchato" pakati paMwari nevanhu Vake iyo ichaguma pakupera kwenhoroondo yevanhu mu "zuva remuchato weGwayana." [8]cf. Zvak. 19:7 Panyaya iyi, dzakachena ndiko kutarisira kweMuchato wekusingaperi weMuchato.
KUCHENGA: KUSVIRA KUKURU
Zvepabonde redu hazvitsanangure zvatiri muna Kristu - zvinotsanangura zvatiri nenzira yezvisikwa. Nekudaro, munhu ari kunetsekana nehunhu hwake hwechikadzi haatombofanira kunzwa kunyimwa rudo rwaMwari kana neruponeso rwavo, chero bedzi vachirarama hupenyu hwavo vachienderana nemutemo wetsika. Asi izvo zvinofanirwa kutaurwa nezvedu tese. Muchokwadi, pfungwa yekuti hutsanana ndewe "kusaroorwa" chikamu chekushaiwa kwekunzwisisa kwedu kwemazuva ano nezvebonde.
Bonde rava mugumo pachawo zvekuti chizvarwa chedu hachigone kunyange kubata mukana wehupenyu hwakatsaurwa, ndoda mbiri 
vechidiki vachiramba vakachena kusvikira varoora. Uye zvakadaro, munharaunda yechiKristu yandinofamba nayo, ndinoona vakaroora vechidiki nguva dzose. Ivo ivowo "chiratidzo chekupokana" muchizvarwa chakaderedza zvepabonde kungoita kutandara. Asi izvi hazvireve kuti, kana wangoroora, chero chinhu chinoenda.
Carmen Marcoux, munyori we Maoko eRudo uye co-founder of Kwakachena Witness Ministries akamboti, "Kuchena hausi mutsetse watinoyambuka, idivi ratinoenda. ” Njere dzakadii dzekuchinja! Nekuti kazhinji kazhinji, kunyangwe maKristu anotsvaga kuve mukuda kwaMwari nemiviri yavo anoderedza magumo kumibvunzo yakadai sekuti, “Tinogona kuita izvi here? Tinogona kuzviita here? Chii chakaipa neizvi? nezvimwewo ” Uye hongu, ini ndichapindura iyi mibvunzo munguva pfupi iri muchikamu IV. Asi ini handina kutanga nemibvunzo iyi nekuti kuchena kune chekuita nekurega zviito zveunzenza uye zvimwe zvine chekuita ne mamiriro emoyo. Sekutaura kwaJesu,
Vakaropafadzwa vakachena pamoyo; nekuti ivo vachaona Mwari. (Mat. 5: 8)
Gwaro iri rine chekuita nazvo chinangwa uye chido. Izvo zvine chekuita nemafungiro ekuzadzisa mutemo: kuti ude Ishe Mwari wako nemoyo wako wose… uye nemuvakidzani wako sezvaunozviita. Neichi chimiro mumoyo memunhu, Mwari uye zvakanaka zvemuvakidzani wako zvichatanga kupinda mukati zvese, kusanganisira zvinoitika mubedroom. Muchirevo chepabonde, saka, hazvisi izvo zvandinga "tora" kubva kune imwe, asi izvo zvandinogona "kupa."
Nekudaro, kuchena chinhu chinofanirawo kuve chikamu chemuchato wechiKristu. Kuchena, muchokwadi, ndiko kunotisiyanisa nehumambo hwemhuka. Mune mhuka, hupenyu hwepabonde…
… Chiripo padanho rechisikigo uye hunhu hwakabatana nazvo, nepo muchiitiko chevanhu zviripo padanho remunhu nehunhu. -POPE JOHN PAUL II, Rudo uye Mutoro, Kindle vhezheni naPauline Mabhuku & Media, Loc 516
Ndokureva, zviri pachena, kuti murume haasi kuita rudo kumukadzi, asi ku mukadzi wake. Izvo zvakasikwa zvakapihwa naMwari zvekunakidzwa pabonde, saka, hausi mugumo pachawo, asi unofanirwa kunyatso kurudzirwa nekurairwa neese murume nemukadzi 
kune chisungo cherudo. Uku mufaro uye kugarika kweimwe, saka, zvino funga nezve masikirwo ezvisikwa emuviri wemukadzi pamwe nemanzwiro ake uye nemuviri kugona. Hucheno hunoitwa nevose vari vaviri murume nemukadzi munguva idzodzo dzekurega kusangana pabonde kungaita kuti vana vagare mukukura kwemhuri dzavo, kana kusimudzira rudo rwavo nekuronga zvishuwo zvavo kusvika ipapo. [9]cf. "Asi ichokwadi zvakare kuti zviri mune zvakaitika kare kuti murume nemukadzi vakagadzirira kurega kusangana pabonde panguva yakaorera kazhinji sezvikonzero zvine musoro kuberekwa kweumwe mwana hakudiwe. Uye kana nguva yekushaya mbereko ikadzokedzana, vanoshandisa hukama hwavo hwehukama kuratidza rudo rwavo uye kuchengetedza kuvimbika kwavo kune mumwe nemumwe. Mukuita izvi vanopa humbowo hwerudo rwechokwadi uye rwechokwadi. ” —PAPA PAURO VI, Humanae Vitae, kwete. 16
Asi hutsanana, nekuti pahunhu hwayo mamiriro emoyo, inofanirawo kuratidzwa munguva kusangana pabonde. Izvi zvinogoneka sei? Nenzira mbiri. Chekutanga ndechekuti kwete chiito chega chega chinokonzeresa kurara saka chine hunhu. Zvepabonde zvinofanirwa kuratidzwa zvinoenderana nemaitiro eMusiki, zvinoenderana nemutemo wetsika, sezvatakakurukura muZvikamu I ne II. Saka muChikamu IV, tichaongorora zvakadzama mubvunzo wekuti chii chiri pamutemo uye chii chisiri.
Chechipiri chinhu chehutsanana panguva yehukama hwepabonde chine chekuita nemamiriro emoyo kune imwe: yekuona chiso chaKristu mune mumwe wako.
Panyaya iyi, St. John Paul II anopa dzidziso yakanaka uye inoshanda. Zvepabonde kumutsa murume nemukadzi zvinosiyana zvakanyanya pakati pevakadzi. Kana tikasiiwa kune hunhu hwedu hwakadonha ndega, a
murume anogona "kushandisa" mukadzi wake, anotora nguva yakareba kuti asvike pakumuka. John Paul II akadzidzisa kuti murume anofanira kuedza kuunza muviri wake mukuenderana newemukadzi wake zvekuti…
… Mugumo wekumukirana pabonde kunoitika mumurume nemukadzi, uye kuti kunoitika zvakanyanya sezvinobvira muwanano mbiri panguva imwe chete. -POPE JOHN PAUL II, Rudo uye Mutoro, Kindle vhezheni naPauline Mabhuku & Media, Loc 4435f
Ndiko kunzwisisa kwakadzama uko inopfuura mufaro panguva imwechete uchichiremekedza nekuisa tarisiro yechiitiko chemuchato pane kuzvipa kuzvipa. Sokutaura kwakaita Pope Paul VI,
Chechi ndiyo yekutanga kurumbidza uye kurumbidza kushandiswa kwehungwaru hwevanhu kune chiitiko icho chisikwa chine musoro chakadai semunhu chakabatana zvakanyanya neMusiki wake. —PAPA PAURO VI, Humanae Vitae, N. 16
Uye pane kiyi yekunzwisisa basa rehutsanana mukati memuchato: chiitiko chemuchato pakati pemurume nemukadzi chinofanira kuratidza kuzvipira kwakazara kweMusiki akaisa hupenyu hwake pasi "pamubhedha wewanano" weMuchinjikwa. Kuita zvepabonde, izvo sakaramendi, inofanirwawo kuendesa imwe kuna Mwari. Munyaya yakaisvonaka yemuchato waTobhiya naSara, baba vake vanoraira iye munguva pfupi kuti azove mukuwasha pahusiku hwavo hwemuchato:
Mutore uuye naye zvakanaka kuna baba vako. (Tobit 7:12)
Izvi ndizvo zvinofanirwa kuitwa nemurume nemukadzi pakupedzisira: kutora mumwe nemumwe, uye nevana vavo, vakachengeteka kuna Baba vari Kudenga.
Nekudaro, "kuchena kwemoyo" kunosimudzira kwete chete kwehukama hwechokwadi pakati pevaviri, asi naMwari zvakare, nekuti inoziva chiremera chechokwadi chemurume nemukadzi. Nenzira iyi, hukama hwavo hunova "chiratidzo" kune mumwe nemumwe uye kunharaunda yechimwe chinhu mukuru: kutarisira kubatana kusingaperi apo isu tese tichava "vamwe muna Kristu."
RUDZIDZISO YOKUFUNDA
Mashoko Omuzasi
| ↑1 | cf. Gehena nderechokwadi |
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| ↑2 | cf. VaG. 6:1 |
| ↑3 | cf. Ruka 6: 36 |
| ↑4 | cf. Mako 8: 36-38 |
| ↑5 | cf. Rondedzera post disceptationem, n. 50; wokudhinda.vatican.va |
| ↑6 | “Gender dzidziso” ipfungwa yekuti bhayoroji yemunhu inogona kumisikidzwa pakuzvarwa, kureva. murume kana mukadzi, asi iyeye anogona kuona "murume" kunze kwebonde rake. Pope Francis vashora dzidziso iyi kaviri ikozvino. |
| ↑7 | 'Dai humbowo hwavo hwanyanya kuva pachena mugore iri reVakatsaurwa kuti Chechi parizvino iri kurarama.' cf. Tsamba yeApostori yaPapa Francis kune Vese Vanhu Vakatsaurwa, www.haav.va |
| ↑8 | cf. Zvak. 19:7 |
| ↑9 | cf. "Asi ichokwadi zvakare kuti zviri mune zvakaitika kare kuti murume nemukadzi vakagadzirira kurega kusangana pabonde panguva yakaorera kazhinji sezvikonzero zvine musoro kuberekwa kweumwe mwana hakudiwe. Uye kana nguva yekushaya mbereko ikadzokedzana, vanoshandisa hukama hwavo hwehukama kuratidza rudo rwavo uye kuchengetedza kuvimbika kwavo kune mumwe nemumwe. Mukuita izvi vanopa humbowo hwerudo rwechokwadi uye rwechokwadi. ” —PAPA PAURO VI, Humanae Vitae, kwete. 16 |