Ukuzingela

 

HE ngekhe uhambe umboniso wepeep. Akayi kuze akhethe icandelo le-racy kwindawo yokubeka iimagazini. Akayi kuze ayiqeshe ividiyo ekalwe nge-x.

Kodwa ulikhoboka le-intanethi…

 

UKUHLASELWA KWESISEKO

Inyaniso kukuba, ngoku siphila kwihlabathi elinamanyala. Kubuso bethu naphina apho ujonga khona, kwaye ngenxa yoko urhintyela amadoda nabafazi basekhohlo nasekunene. Kuba akukho nto ehlabathini esisikhubekiso kunye nesilingo ngaphezu Ukwabelana ngesondo okungavumelekanga. Kutheni kunjalo? Kungenxa yokuba indoda nomfazi benziwe ngokomfanekiselo kaThixo, kwaye nesenzo sokwabelana ngesondo sisibonakaliso sothando lukaKristu kuMtshakazi wakhe, iBandla: UKristu utyala imbewu Ilizwi laKhe entliziyweni yoMtshakazi waKhe ukuzisa ubomi. Ngapha koko, umtshato ngokwawo ubonakalisa uBathathu Emnye oNgcwele: uYise umthanda uNyana kakhulu kangangokuba kuthando lwabo "luvela" kuMntu wesiThathu, uMoya oyiNgcwele. Ngokunjalo, indoda imthanda kakhulu umfazi wayo kangangokuba uthando lwabo luzala omnye umntu-umntwana.

Ke ngoko, luhlaselo olwenzelwe umtshato kunye nosapho, kuba ngayo, uSathana uhlasela ngokungangqalanga uBathathu Emnye.

Nabani na ohlasela ubomi bomntu, ngandlela thile uhlasela uThixo ngokwakhe. —UAPOPE JOHN PAUL II, U-Evangelium Vitae; n. 10

Ngaba iyasebenza? Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba iipesenti ezingama-77 zamadoda angamaKristu aphakathi kweminyaka eli-18 nengama-30 abukela iphonografi ubuncinci ngenyanga, kwaye ama-36 eepesenti ayibukela kube kanye ngosuku. ^[1]OneNewsNow.com, Okthobha 9th, 2014; indibaniselwano egunyazisiweyo yi-Proven Men Ministries kwaye iqhutywa liqela le-Barna Ngamafutshane, Ewe. Ukutsala ngeeleta endizifumanayo kunye namadoda endidibana nawo, Ewe. Ukujonga iziphumo zenkcubeko kwesi sizukulwana, Ewe.

Eyona ndlela yokujongela phantsi usapho, ukujongela phantsi umtshato, kukutshabalalisa isini esivela ngaso. umtshato kwaye usapho, ngoko, baye baba amabala okuzingela...

 

AMAZIKO OKUZINGA

Singabazingelwayo bazalwana noodade. Yonke indawo ojika kuyo, kukho omnye umfanekiso, enye ividiyo, enye intengiso, enye ibar yecala, enye ikhonkco ekumemela kwicala elimnyama. Ngokwenyani ngu Umkhukula yenkanuko ekhumbuza amazwi ka-St. John kwinkcazo yakhe yokuhlasela kukaSathana "umfazi" weSityhilelo:

Inyoka, nangona kunjalo, ikhuphe umlambo wamanzi emlonyeni wayo emva kokuba umfazi eyitshayele ngomsinga wamanzi. (ISityhi. 12:15)

Lo mlo sizifumana sikuwo… [ngokuchasene] namagunya atshabalalisa umhlaba, kuthethwa ngawo kwisahluko se-12 seSityhilelo… Kuthiwa inamba ikhokelela kumjelo omkhulu wamanzi ngokuchasene nomfazi obalekayo, ukumtshayela… ndicinga ukuba ukuba kulula ukuyicacisa into emele yona umlambo: yi-thLe misinga ilawula wonke umntu, kwaye ifuna ukuphelisa ukholo lweCawe, ebonakala ngathi ayinandawo yokuma phambi kwamandla ale misinga azinyanzela njengeyona ndlela yokucinga, ekuphela kwendlela yobomi. —UPOPE BENEDICT XVI, iseshoni yokuqala yesinodi ekhethekileyo kuMbindi Mpuma, nge-10 ka-Okthobha ka-2010

Ngaba amagama anyanisekileyo anokuthethwa? Lo mkhukula wenkanuko ufuna ukuphinda uchaze injongo kunye nomxholo wesini esempilweni nesingcwele, ngale ndlela:

Ukuba nokholo olucacileyo, ngokobungqina beCawa, kuhlala kubizwa ngokuba sisiseko.-Ukhadinali Ratzinger (UPAPA BENEDICT XVI) pre-conclave Homily, Epreli 18th, 2005

Singabazingelwayo, kwaye inamba, uSathana, ngumzingeli. ^[2]cf. Efe 6:12 Usebenzisa ubuchule be amehlo ukubambisa ^[3]cf. 1 Yohane 2: 16-17 njengokuba amehlo enjalo koko uYesu akubiza ngokuba “sisibane somzimba.”

… Ukuba iliso lakho alilunganga, umzimba wakho uphela uba sebumnyameni. (Jonga uMat. 6: 22-23)

Xa uThixo wadala izulu nomhlaba, isiBhalo sithi “UThixo khangela kuyo yonke into awayenzayo wayifumana ilunge kakhulu. ” ^[4]I-X 1: 31 Kuba senziwe ngokomfanekiselo kaThixo, ubugcisa be Khangela iyafana nobugcisa be onothando. USathana usilinga ukuba senze njalo khangela kwisiqhamo esalelweyo, okanye mandithi nqwenela into yomgunyathi, ngaloo ndlela ugcwalise umphefumlo ngobumnyama.

[UEva] wabona ukuba umthi ulungele ukudliwa, uyathandeka emehlweni… (Gen 3: 6)

Ke isithiyelo kumhlaba wokuzingela sisithiyelo ngamehlo. Kodwa akukho mntu ubonakala ebubona ubungozi namhlanje. Yintoni eyayinokubangela ingqumbo kwindalo yonke kwiminyaka engama-60 eyadlulayo ayinakuphakamisa ngoku. Awunakho ukuhamba ezantsi kwivenkile ngaphandle kokudibana neepowusta ezimalunga nabasetyhini abanxibe iimpahla zangaphantsi ezinomzimba. Iindaba eziphambili zewebhusayithi ziye zaba yindawo yabafazi abahamba ze kunye nokuvezwa kuye nabani na odumileyo ukuba asuse iimpahla zakhe. Umzi mveliso womculo wehlise isantya kwinto ebonisa inkanuko nobugqi. Kwaye phantse veki nganye ngoku, imeko entsha iboniswa "njengesiqhelo" kumabonwakude wangokuhlwa; phantse ubusuku bonke, i-sad0-masochism, ii-swingers, ii-orgies, isini esithandanayo, isini esini ... konke kuthethwa ngokuvulekileyo ngokungathi yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ayinabungozi ukuyihlola. (Kwaye le yincam yomkhenkce. Njengoko ndibhalile kutshanje, singene kwixesha ngoku apho ububi mabuzidinise, ^[5]cf. Ukugcwala kwesono: Ububi kufuneka buziKhuphe kwaye ke, iya kuya isiba mandundu ngakumbi ngaphambi kokuba ibengcono.)

Ndiyazi amadoda angamaKristu alungileyo acaphuka ngenxa yokuzingelwa. Iikhompyuter zabo, oomabonakude, ii-smartphones zabo-ezi Izixhobo uluntu oluhlala lufuna ukuba sizisebenzise ngakumbi nangakumbi ukunxibelelana, ibhanki kunye nokuhlalisana-yindawo entsha yokuzingela. Kukho ukukhwela okungapheliyo, ithuba eliqhubekayo elinamaqhosha amabini kude nesono. Izinto ziyavela kwizikrini zethu esingazifuniyo, esingakhange sizikhangele, kwaye kungcono singaboni… kodwa nantso, phambi kwamehlo. Ke singenza ntoni? Singahlala njani “ehlabathini” kodwa hayi “ehlabathini”?

Ndichithe iminyaka esibhozo yokugqibela kolu lungiselelo ndisebenza phambi kwekhompyuter. Kuya kufuneka ndikhangele kwaye ndifumane amawaka emifanekiso ngokudibeneyo nale mibhalo. Nokuba olona phendlo lubi kakhulu, ngelishwa ngamanye amaxesha, luye lwandityhila kumjelo weengcinga ezonakeleyo. Kwaye ke, iNkosi indifundise izinto ezimbalwa eziye zandinceda ukuba ndihambe kula masimi am, kwaye ndabelana nawo apha nawe.

Kodwa mandithi kuqala: lixesha lokuba ucinge nyani, kunzima ngenene malunga nokuba uyafuna na obu bugcisa. Ngaba uyayifuna i-smartphone, okanye ngaba iselfowuni elula efumana izicatshulwa isebenza? Ngaba ufuna ikhompyutha? Ngaba ufuna ukusefa kwiwebhu, okanye ungamamela iindaba kunomathotholo? Ngaba uyayifuna ngenene? Amagama kaKristu afika engqondweni:

… Ukuba iliso lakho likukhubekisa, linyothule ulilahle kude; Kulunge kuwe ukuba ungene ebomini uneliso elinye kunokuba uthi unamehlo omabini uphoswe eGehena lomlilo. (Mat 18: 9)

Ndiqinisekile uninzi lwenu luya kuthi Ewe ndiyavuma yidinge. Emva koko, masifunde ku…

 

UKUBA NOMNOTHO KUBULALA IKAT

Yintoni elula, kukumka kumlo wamanqindi, okanye ukuphumelela? Kulula kakhulu ukuhamba kunokuba uzame ukulwa nomchasi wakho umhlaba. Kunjalo ke nangokuthanda kwethu. Kulula ukungazibandakanyi kwasekuqaleni kunokuzama ukubambana nabo emhlabeni. Banokuzama ukukhetha umlo kunye nawe, kwaye akukho nto unokuyenza malunga noko, ngaphandle kwakho musa Kufuneka ungene.

Ukufuna ukwazi kwabulala ikati, njengoko isitsho le nto. Ukuba siyazingelwa, yeyethu ukwazi ukuba uSathana uzama ukubambisa. Esi sisicwangciso emva kwewebhusayithi ezinje ngeYouTube nakwezinye iisayithi: bukela ividiyo enye, kwaye uluhlu lwabanye luphume kwibar esecaleni, kwaye ngequbuliso, ikati inomdla! Ingxaki kukuba ububi buxhaphaza oku rhoqo… kuxhaphaza umdla wethu wokufuna ukwazi. Masingabi nalwazi. Uyazi ukuba iwebhu kunye nomabonakude abarhwebi kunye neenqwelomoya zetreyila njl. Ke kufuneka uzilungiselele ukuba uza kwenza ntoni…

 

UMZEKELISO WOKUZIPHATHA NGOKUGQIBELELEYO

Umfazi womntu akasekho ngempela-veki kwaye ke ugqiba kwelokuba ahambe ayokuhambahamba. Umendo wakhe umsa kufutshane nesitrato apho azi khona ukuba kukho iklabhu yokuqhekeza. Uba nomdla ngesiquphe ngaphandle 'kokudlula.' Kodwa ugqiba nje ukuthatha enye indlela eya ekhaya. Iminqweno yakhe yabhengeza imfazwe, umdla wakhe watyibilika, kodwa waphumelela edabini kuba engavumi ukungena edabini.

Ngobusuku obulandelayo, uphuma ahambe kwakhona. Ngeli xesha uthatha isigqibo sokudlula esiphelweni seso sitalato… Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba bangaphi abafana abaya kwezi zinto, uzixelela oku, akukho ngozi kuloo nto. Kodwa kwasebusuku kakhulu, ngoko uyahamba ujikeleze ibhloko kwakhona. Ngeli xesha unyanzelekile ukuba ehle ngesitrato, kodwa kwelinye icala (ukuzikhumbuza, ewe, indlela acaphuke ngayo ngala maziko). Kungekudala, ujikeleza kwakhona, ngeli xesha uhamba ngasekunene kokungena. Intliziyo yakhe ibetha ngoku (akakho ekhaya). Ucango luyavuleka luze luvalwe ngelixesha ukuhleka nomculo onzima uzalisa izitrato; ubamba ukukhanya kwezibane, umsi kunye neepali ezikhazimlayo. Hayi, kanye nje kuphela, ucinga, emva koko ndiza kugoduka. Uhamba kwakhona, ngeli xesha elandela ngasemva abafana "abaqhelekileyo" abajongeka. Njengokuba efika emnyango, uthi kuye (okanye "ingqiqo" yakhe iyamxelela)Ewe, lixesha lokuba ndifunde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwezi ndawo zegazi… kwaye uhamba nabo.

Ngobo busuku, uhleli ecaleni kwebhedi yakhe izandla zakhe ebusweni, uneentloni ngokupheleleyo, wothukile kwaye uyonyanya ngokwakhe.

 

XA KUKHUSELEKILE…

Inqaku yile: Kulula kakhulu ukuphuma kwisilingo xa "sikude kude" kunokuba sidanise ebusweni bakho. Kodwa ukhetho kufuneka lwenziwe kwangoko. Kwaye oko kuthetha ingqeqesho.

Ngeli xesha, lonke uqeqesho lubonakala ngathi alungonobangela wovuyo kodwa intlungu, ukanti kamva luzisa isiqhamo soxolo sobulungisa kwabo baqeqeshiweyo siso. (Heb 12:11)

Ngoku, ungafaka iiplagi ukususa iintengiso ezingafunekiyo okanye isoftware yokuphendula evumela abanye ukuba babone into oyibonayo kwi-Intanethi. Kulungile. Kodwa ukuba awusebenzisi ikati yokufuna ukwazi, awushukuxeki umba wengcambu apha: isidingo se ingqeqesho. Hayi, ulithiyile elo gama, eh? Kodwa mamela, le yinto awayeyithetha uYesu xa wayesithi, Thatha umnqamlezo wakho kwaye uzikhanyele. ^[6]cf. Mat 16:24 “Ngokuqinisekileyo,” sihlala sisithi, “Ndiza kulala emnqamlezweni — kodwa ezo zikhonkwane nameva kuye kwafuneka zihambe!”

Uqeqesho lubonakala lulubi kwabo baphambukayo; Othiya isohlwayo uya kufa. (IMizekeliso 15:10)

Ewe uyakuziva indleko enyameni yakho, isikhonkwane esihlaba iminqweno yakho, isabhokhwe esibetha iimvakalelo zakho nanini na usenza ukhetho hayi ukufikelela kwisiqhamo esalelweyo. ^[7]cf. Roma 7: 22-25 Eli lixesha likaSathana: uyakuxoka ebusweni bakho akuxelele ukuba imfuneko ukubona lo mfanekiso, wena imfuneko ukwazi ukuba libukeka njani eli candelo lomzimba, kufuneka ubone lomlingisi kule nto okanye elunxwemeni okanye kwiteyiphu yesondo, imfuneko iphuma, wena ndiyifuna, ndiyidinga, ndiyidinge.

Kukho indawo kumdlalo bhanyabhanya Imfazwe Yehlabathi apho utata enza konke anako ukugcina unyana wakhe angadluli kummango aye kwindawo yemfazwe apho iinqanawa zamanye amazwe kunye neetanki zomkhosi ziyalwa nazo. Kodwa unyana ucenga ephindaphinda: Ndifuna ukuyibona! ” Ke utata ngokungathandabuzekiyo uvumela unyana ukuba ahambe… kwaye emva kwemizuzu kamva, wonke umqolo ugcwele amadangatye.

Ngaba ngokwenene ufuna ukubona iphonografi? Umbuzo okwangoku awuyonto oyifunayo, kodwa yintoni oyenzayo ngokwenene ufuna? Luxolo, uvuyo, ulonwabo, umsulwa? Ke ngekhe uqale phantsi ukuCinga iSitalato; awuyi kuyifumana into oyikhangela ezantsi. Into ebalulekileyo ngesono kukuba, ayisishiyi nje singenakuhlutha, kodwa isishiya silambe ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Eli libali le-porn elibalisa amaxesha abhiliyoni ngemini kwihlabathi liphela. Buza uAdam noEva ukuba ngaba iziqhamo abazityileyo zoneliseka… okanye ukuba zizaliswe ziimpethu. Ngokuchasene noko, intando kaThixo kukutya okuhluthisa ngaphezulu kwamagama, ^[8]cf. Yohane 4:34 Ukugcina imithetho yakhe kuyonwabisa. ^[9]cf. INdumiso 19: 8-9

 

ANATOMY YOKULINGWA

Umntu okwishumi elivisayo wandixelela indlela awathi walila ngayo xa wayebona iphonografi okwesihlandlo sokuqala. Wakhala, watsho, kuba wayezazi ukuba imifanekiso ayibonayo iphosakele kangakanani, indlela abaya kuba namandla ngayo. Elo yayilixesha lokuba ahambe esuka kwisitalato iCuriosity. Kodwa khange ayenze, kwaye uyazisola ngaloo minyaka ilahlekileyo yobumsulwa.

USt.James uchaza imeko yesilingo eqala ngayo ukufuna ukwazi:

Umntu ngamnye uhendwa xa ehendwa kwaye ehendwa ngumnqweno wakhe. Emva koko umnqweno uyakhulelwa uze uvelise isono, kwaye xa isono sifikelela ekuvuthweni sizala ukufa. (Yakobi 1:14)

Ndiyindoda enegazi elibomvu njengaye wonke umntu. Ndicinga ukuba indalo kaThixo ebalaseleyo neyothusayo yile umfazi-Naye uAdam wayeza kuvuma. Kodwa ndiyaqonda, kuyilo lukaThixo, ukuba andenzelwanga yona zonke umfazi, kodwa kuphela my umfazi, kanye njengokuba uEva wayenzelwe uAdam kuphela ngokubhidana.

Wathi uAdam, Eli ke ngoku lithambo lasemathanjeni am, yinyama yasenyameni yam; uya kubizwa ngokuba ngumfazi, ngokuba ethatyathwe endodeni. Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke. (IGenesis 2: 23-24)

Ngaphandle kweli lungiselelo-umanyano lwendoda nomfazi emtshatweni-abukho obunye ubundlobongela obunika ubomi. Kunokubakho ulonwabo oludlula ngokukhawuleza, kusenokubakho nokubaleka komzimba, kusenokwenzeka izinto zomgunyathi… kodwa akusayi kuze kubekho ubomi obungaphezu kwendalo kukaThixo obububo, enyanisweni, bubudlelane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi emtshatweni. Kanye njengokuba inyanga ibanjelwe emjikelezweni ngumthetho womxhuzulane, ngokunjalo, iintliziyo zethu zigcinwe kumjikelezo wobabalo (ovelisa uxolo lwethu lwangaphakathi) ngokuthobela umthetho womtshato. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba emva kweminyaka ephantse ibe ngama-24 sitshatile, andidinwa kwaye andidikwe kuba uThixo usisazulu somtshato wethu. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba engenasiphelo, uthando lwethu alunamida.

Ke, xa umfanekiso uvela ecaleni kwebali leendaba okanye umfazi ehamba esitalatweni, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuqaphela ubuhle — kanye njengokuba uAdam noEva babeya kubuvuma ubuhle boMthi woLwazi eGadini. Kodwa xa ukujonga kujika kube inkanuko, emva koko ityhefu yesiqhamo esalelweyo sele iqala ukungena entliziyweni.

Ndithi kuni, wonke umntu Bukeka umfazi okhanukayo sele ekrexezile naye entliziyweni yakhe. (Mat 5:28)

Kwaye ke, ubulumko beTestamente eNdala busasebenza nanamhlanje njengangaphambili:

Susa amehlo akho emfazini; sukujonga kubuhle obungebobakho; ngobuhle babasetyhini uninzi lonakalisiwe, kuba uthando lwayo luvutha njengomlilo… Sukuluvusa, okanye uluvuselele uthando lude lulunge… Andiyi kubeka phambi kwamehlo am nantoni na esisiseko. (Sirach 9: 8; Solomon 2: 7; Nd 101: 3)

Ngamanye amagama, qhubeka uqhubeke; musa ukulibala; sukucofa eli khonkco; sukuqala kwisitalato seCuriosity. Enye indlela yokukutsho oku “kukuthintela imeko esondeleyo yesono.” ^[10]cf. Ukuphantse kwenzeke isono Awuyi kuphumelela ngenye indlela kuba awuyiyo igxunyekwe ukuphumelela elo dabi. Wenziwe ukuba ufumane ukuzaliseka kumfazi omnye (okanye kwindoda). Olu luyilo olukhulu. Yithembe lonto. Kwaye ke uSt Paul uyayikhonkxa xa esithi:

… Ungenzi malungiselelo kwiminqweno yenyama. (Roma 13:14)

Ndiza kukuxelela oku ngoku ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo: iphonografi iyakunditshabalalisa. Nokuba ngumtshato wam kunye nomphefumlo wam ongunaphakade, okanye ukonwaba ngokukhawuleza. Ke ngoko, kukho indlela enye phambili… indlela yoMnqamlezo.

 

UBUXOKI BAMANDULO

Ubuxoki bamandulo bobokuba UThixo ugcina into kuwe; Icawe iyaluthintela ulonwabo lwakho; qhubeka, thatha ... ^[11]cf. IGenesis 3: 4-6 Kukangaphi kufuneka utye i-apile kwaye uziva ungenanto?

Wathi ke uYesu kubo, Isonka sobomi esi ndim; lowo uzayo kum, akasayi kulamba; lowo ukholwayo kum, akasayi kunxanwa naphakade. (UYohane 6:35)

Akukho ndoda okanye mfazi ungumKristu uyakuze akhule ebungcweleni, uyakuze aqhubele phambili kubomi bomoya, bade bazimisele ukumelana nomtsalane Isitrato sokuCinga. Ndingathi uninzi lweCawa yamaKrestu namhlanje ibambekile kwesi sitrato: abangcwele bakaThixo baqaqanjiswe zizibane ze-neon, imidlalo yevidiyo, iividiyo ezingenangqondo, ewe, iphonografi. Kwaye ke ihlabathi alikholelwa kwiVangeli yethu kuba sijongeka njengabo. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sithathe umzila obizwa ngokuba "Ukoyika iNkosi", njengokuthemba komntwana kwindlela Yakhe, hayi eyethu. Intlawulo iphume kweli hlabathi:

Ukuqala kobulumko kukoyika iNkosi… (Prov 9:10)

Ungalikholelwa ixoki, okanye uyakholelwa eNkosini:

Isela alizi lingazele ukuze libe, lixhele, litshabalalise; Mna ndizele ukuze babe nobomi, babe nabo ke ngokugqithiseleyo. (UYOHANE 10:10)

Kukho iindleko nangona kunjalo! Kukho indleko ukulandela uYesu! Kwaye kunjalo uguquko. Akukho ndlela iyenye ejikeleze iKalvari; akukho ndlela imfutshane iya ezulwini:

Indlela yokugqibelela idlula ngendlela yoMnqamlezo. -IKatekism yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. I-2015

Ngandlela thile, ndicinga ukuba la magama, nangona enokubangela umdla, akwazisa nengqondo yenjongo… ukuba kukho into enkulu ekulindeleyo kunokuba uphile nje ngoku. Inyaniso iya kunikhulula. Uyabona, wadalelwa ukuba ube ngcwele, udalelwe ukuba ulawule, wenziwe ukuba uphile. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiyithethayo apha, into ethethwa yiVangeli, ingenakuphikiswa kwaye iya kukushiya ungonwabisi ubomi bakho bonke-de uphumle kuyo.

Ukumamela uKristu nokumnqula kusikhokelela ekubeni sizikhethele ngenkalipho, sithathe izigqibo ngamanye amaxesha zobuqhawe. UYesu uyafuna, kuba unqwenela ulonwabo lwethu lwenene. Icawe ifuna abangcwele. Bonke babizelwe ebungcweleni, kwaye abantu abangcwele bodwa banokuhlaziya ubuntu. -YABUSISWA UJOHN PAUL II, uMyalezo weSuku loLutsha kwiHlabathi liphela wowama-2005, eVictoria City, Agasti 27, 2004, Zenit.org

Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngomnye wabo?

 

UKULUNGISELELA IBANDLA

Kodwa mamela, mna nawe asinakuhamba ngale Ndlela, le ndlela imxinwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazimisele ukuhamba…. kwaye uhambe kuphela. UYesu akalindelanga ukuba senjenjalo, kwaye akafuni ukuba senjenjalo.

“Ukuba yindoda” namhlanje ngokwenene iba "ngumntwana" wokomoya. Ukuthi kuThixo: Andinakwenza nto ngaphandle kwaKho. Ndiyakudinga. Yiba namandla am; Yiba luncedo lwam. yiba ngumkhokeli wam. Hayi, kufuna umntu athandaze ngoluhlobo; kuthatha indoda yokwenene ukuba ithobeke ngolu hlobo. ^[12]cf. Ukubumba kwakhona ukuba nguTata Ke le ndiyithethayo kuphela amadoda okwenyani yiya ezulwini:

Inene, ndithi kuni, Ukuba anithanga niguquke, nibe njengabantwana aba, aniyi kukha ningene ebukumkanini bamazulu. (Mat 18: 3)

Kodwa kuthatha ngaphezulu kokumemeza lo mthandazo, nangona sisiqalo esihle: kuthetha ukungena kubudlelwane bobuqu noKristu anokuthi abenako ondle, omeleze kwaye akufundise yonke imihla ngendlela yokuba ngumntu kaThixo. Vumela la mazwi kaYesu ahambisane nobunzulu bomphefumlo wakho:

Lowo uhleli kum, ndibe mna ndihleli kuye, yena uthwala isiqhamo esininzi, ngokuba ngaphandle kwam aninakwenza nto. (UYohane 15: 5)

Masibuyele umva kwakhona kwaye sifunde lonke eli binzana nguSt.

Yambathani iNkosi uYesu Kristu, kwaye ungenzi malungiselelo kwiminqweno yenyama. (Roma 13:14)

Kufuneka 'sambathe uKrestu,' oko kukuthi, sambathe iimpawu ezintle, umzekelo wakhe, nothando lwaKhe. Nantsi indlela: ngobomi bomthandazo, ukwamkelwa rhoqo kweSakramente, kunye nokudlulela kwabanye.

Ndiyathandaza

Uza kubona ezininzi izinto ziqala ukutshintsha ebomini bakho xa usiba yindoda ye zihambelana umthandazo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ubekele bucala ixesha suku ngalunye lokufunda iZibhalo, uthethe noThixo ngokusuka entliziyweni, kwaye umvumele aphendule. Ngaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na into ebomini bam, umthandazo unditshintshile kuba umthandazo kukudibana noThixo. ^[13]cf. On Umthandazo

II. Iisakramente

Yenza ukuvuma isono kube yinxalenye yobomi bakho bokomoya. UPadre Pio noJohn Paul II bobabini bacebisile ngeveki uvumo. ^[14]cf. Ukuvuma izono ngeveki Ukuba uyasokola kunye noononophala, ke oku kuyimfuneko. Apho, "kwinkundla yenceba", hayi kuphela ukuxolelwa kwezono zakho kunye nesidima sakho esibuyiselweyo, kodwa kukho nokuhlangulwa kwimimoya engcolileyo oye wayivumela emnyango. 

Nje ukuba uchithe inkunkuma endlwini yakho, kufuneka uyigcwalise ngomthandazo nange Umthendeleko. Hlakulela uthando ngoYesu olufihlwe apho kwimigodi yesonka. Thatha yakhe Umzimba ungene kweyakho ukuze inyama yaKhe iqale ukutshintsha eyakho ibe nyulu kwaye ibe nyulu efanelekileyo kwimeko yakho yobomi.

III. Jonga ngaphaya kwakho

Uninzi lwabafana lungena engxakini kuba bachitha ixesha labo ngokungenanjongo bejonga kwii-smartphones nakwizikrini zekhompyuter. Elo xesha lokungasebenzi lifana nokuma kwikona yesitalato esinqwenelekayo ulinde nje isilingo sokudlula. Endaweni yokuchitha ixesha, yiba ngumkhonzi ekhayeni lakho, kwipherishi yakho, kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Yiba khona kwakhona kubantwana bakho ukuze udlale kwaye uthethe nabo. Lungisa loo nto ungumfazi ekucele kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo. Sebenzisa elo xesha ukufunda iincwadi zokomoya kwaye uthandaze, ubekhona emfazini wakho, ubekhona kuThixo. Bangaphi kuthi abangcwaba "italente" yethu emhlabeni ngenxa yokuba sibulala ixesha endaweni yoko?

Kunzima kakhulu ukubhengeza iphonografi xa ungekho kwiwebhu.

 

KUVALWA IINGcinga…

Iphonografi ayisiyongxaki yamadoda kuphela, kodwa iya isanda nakwabafazi. Khumbula, yayinguEva owalingwa kuqala bubuhle beziqhamo… Hayi 50 Amathunzi kagreyi, funda ngoku zizigidi zabafazi, nkqu UmKristu abafazi, umzekeliso olusizi wexesha lethu? Into endiyithethileyo apha ngasentla iyasebenza nakwabasetyhini nakwezokungabikho kwezibonelelo zokufuna ukwazi. Umthandazo, iSakramente, inkonzo… zezinye izinto ezichasayo.

Kananjalo akukho ndlela ingasentla yokujongana neziyobisi ezingamanyala. Utywala, ukungabikho kokulala, uxinzelelo zizinto zonke ezinokuthi zinciphise ukuxhathisa kwendalo kunye nokusombulula (ke kungcono ukuhlala kude neekhompyuter xa itanki lakho lingagcwele). Ukuqonda imfazwe yokomoya, ukuba nobudlelwane obusondeleyo noMama oBusisiweyo, kunye nokuthinta kwezinye izixhobo ziyinxalenye yomfanekiso omkhulu ngokunjalo:

• UJason Evert Unobulungiseleli obukhulu obujongana neziyobisi ezingamanyala.

• Abagcini boMnqophiso bakaSt inokukunceda ube yindoda engcono, indoda notata ongcono.

• Kukho amanqaku amaninzi kwiwebhusayithi yam ukukunceda uhlakulele ukomoya oqinisekileyo wamaKatolika. Jonga ibha esecaleni (kunye neebar zam ezisecaleni zikhuselekile).

Okokugqibela, xa ndigqibile ukubhala le nto, ndakhumbula ngesiquphe ukuba ngumthendeleko ka-St. Joseph, “elona qabane linyulu” leNtombikazi enguMariya. Ngengozi? ISt. Joseph icelwe njengoMkhuseli noMkhuseli weCawa kunye "noloyiko lweedemon." Nguye owakhusela uMariya noYesu entlango. Yayinguye lowo wabathwala ngeengalo zakhe. Yayinguye owafuna uYesu xa wayebonakala elahlekile…. Kwaye ke, le Ngcwele inkulu iya kukhusela nawe lowo ubiza igama lakhe; uya kukuthwala ngokuncenga kwakhe; kwaye uyakukufuna xa ulahlekile, akubuyisele kuYesu. Yenza uSt.Joseph abe ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni.

Sonke siyazingelwa ngoku… kodwa ngoKristu, singaphezu koyisi.

St. Joseph, sithandazele.

 

Unoyolo umntu ohlala enyamezele ukulingwa, kuba xa athe wavavanywa, uya kwamkela isithsaba sobomi, awabuthembisa abo bamthandayo. (Yakobi 1:12)