Ukuthanda Ongathandekiyo

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kaJanuwari 11, 2014

Imibhalo yeLigugu Apha

 

KUNYE zexesha, xa singqina ngoKrestu, siza kujongana nako thanda into engathandekiyo. Ngale nto ndithetha ukuba thina zonke sinamaxesha ethu okuba sithandeke kakhulu. Elo ke lilizwe eyangena kulo iNkosi yethu nalapho uYesu asithumela khona ngoku.

Kufundo lokuqala lwanamhlanje, uSt. John usixelela ukuba masenze njani xa sibona umzalwana esenza isono, esithi “ukuba isono asibulali"...

… Kufuneka athandaze kuThixo amnike ubomi.

Ukuthandazela umntu endicaphukisayo linyathelo elihle eliya phambili eluthandweni, kunye nesenzo sokushumayela. —UPOPA UFRANCIS, IVangelii Gaudium, n. I-101

Akuyombopheleleko yamaKristu ukuba abe ngumgwebi kunye nejaji malunga nazo zonke iimpazamo kunye nokunyathela kommelwane wethu. Endaweni yoko, ithi iNgcwele uPaul, “thwalisanani ubunzima. " ^[1]Gal 6: 2 Owona mthwalo kufuneka siwuthwale bubuthathaka babazalwana bethu.

Ndiyabona ngoku ukuba uthando lokwenene luqulathe iimpazamo zabo bangathi, ungaze umangaliswe bubuthathaka babo, kodwa wakha nomqondiso omncinci wokulunga. —ISt. Thérèse de Liseux, Ubomi bukaSanta, Ch. 9; icatshulwe kwi IBhayibhile yeNavarre, "IiVangeli neZenzo", iphe. 79

Ndingathini sukumangaliswa xa ndibona umntakwethu okanye udade wethu ezikhohlisa kwaye ezicingela yedwa? I-antidote ihlala ikhumbula iimpazamo zam kunye nokuthanda kwam ukusilela ukuthanda uThixo nommelwane mihla le. Ndihlala ndinomthi kwiliso lam. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ndikhumbule indlela uYesu anenceba ngayo kum ukuze ndibonakalise inceba yakhe kwabanye.

Ukuthwala imithwalo yomnye akufani, nangona kunjalo, njengokunyamezela nje. Impendulo yanamhlanje yeNdumiso ithi,

UNdikhoyo uyakholiswa ngabantu bakhe.

UThixo Uthanda ngaphaya komphezulu kuba uyakubona ukulunga, i umfanekiso apho senziwe khona. Ukuze sithande izinto ezingathandekiyo, kufuneka siye ngaphaya kokukhubeka, ngaphaya kwamanxeba abantu, kwaye sibathande indlela uThixo abathanda ngayo. Kufundwa '' ubugcisa bokuhamba 'okusifundisa ukuba sikhulule iimbadada zethu phambi komhlaba ongcwele wenye.' ' ^[2]U-Evangelii Gaudium, n. I-169 Xa siqala ukubona abanye "njengomhlaba ongcwele," asikulungelanga ukugweba. Ngapha koko, siza kuqala ukuzonwabisa ngabo.

Umsebenzi okhawulezileyo ngumnqweno ngoYesu kunye nothando ngabantu bakhe. -IPOPE FRANCIS, IVangelii Gaudium, n. I-268

Rhoqo ndiza kuzama ukucinga ngomntu xa babelusana, babemsulwa, bengenabungozi, kwaye bexabisekile. Yiyo kanye le "eyona nto" ayibonayo uThixo kwaye uYesu wafela ukuyibuyisela. Yonke into emva koko yendalo iwile.

Xa ubona intaka enephiko elaphukileyo ixhumaxhuma emhlabeni, ungaze ucinge ngaphakathi, "Kutheni le ntaka izama ukuba ngunomatse nje?" Endaweni yoko, uyabona ukuba yenzakele kwaye isebenza "ngaphandle" kwamanxeba ayo. Ngokunjalo ke, abantu bahlala beyimveliso yokwenzakala kwabo, befuna ukubhabha “kumaphiko okhozi,” kodwa baphulwe zizono zabo, izono zabo, ukusilela kunye nokwenzakala kwabanye. Yiyo loo nto uYesu esithi sukugweba, kodwa yiba nenceba. Kufuneka sibakhaphe, sibancede baphilise, bakhule, kwaye baphaphazele kwakhona ngokujonga kubuchule babo bokomoya kwaye sonwabile "nakowona mqondiso mncinci wokulunga."

UYesu usibonisa indlela yokuthanda izinto ezingathandekiyo xa evumela uTomas othandabuzayo achukumise amanxeba akhe. Kuya kufuneka singachukumisi amanxeba abanye kuphela, kodwa mabachukumise ezethu. Abanye mababubone ubuthathaka bakho; baxelele ukuba nawe uyasokola; mababeke iminwe yabo ecaleni lakho, kuloo ndawo uYesu wawunyangayo umphefumlo wakho. Ndikhumbula umhlobo wam ongcwele endixelela kwakanye ukuba akatyi dessert. "Kutheni?", Ndibuze. Kuba xa sele ndiqalile ukutya ipayi, kufuneka ndiyitye ndiyigqibe! ” Ndamangaliswa kukunyaniseka kwakhe. Ngelixa amanye amaKristu efuna ukubalasela ngokupolisha ii-halos zawo phambi kwabanye, eyona nto ivula imiphefumlo eNkosini kuxa bebona ukungafihli kwaye bachukumise ukuthobeka okuyinyani.

UJohn uMbhaptizi uthi kwiVangeli:

Makakhule, ndinciphe mna.

Nanini na xa sincipha, sivula amanxeba ethu kwabanye, sibabone bangaboni kuphela indlela uKristu asiphilise ngayo kodwa nendlela aKhe ngayo nangoku bayasiphilisa, bayakwazi thinta ithemba ngaphakathi kwethu. Oku ke kuvula iintliziyo zabo ezingxwelerhekileyo ukuze sisebenzise ibhalsam ephilisayo yothando lukaKrestu olunenceba ngegama, esiBhalweni, njl.

Uluntu olushumayelayo lubandakanyeka ngamazwi nangezenzo kubomi babantu bemihla ngemihla; ivala imigama emide, ikulungele ukuzithoba xa kukho imfuneko, kwaye yamkela ubomi bomntu, ichukumisa inyama ebandezelekileyo kaKristu kwabanye. Abavangeli ke ngoko bathabatha “ivumba lezimvu” kwaye iigusha zikulungele ukuva ilizwi lazo. -IPOPE FRANCIS, IVangelii Gaudium, n. I-24

Rhoqo, izinto ezingathandekiyo zivakalelwa njalo ngenxa ye- ubulolo—ulibalekile, ungakhathalelwanga, ungakhathalelwanga kwilizwe elikhawulezayo, elingenabuntu. UMary Magdalene weza engcwabeni, elangazelela Lowo wamnika injongo, intsingiselo kunye nothando. Wathi akubona uYesu, wambiza igama. Kwakungo ukuba mzuzu, waMazi. Kufuneka siyeke ukuphatha abantu njengomnye odlula ngendlela engaziwayo. Kufuneka sazise wonke umntu oza ebusweni bethu ngoncumo lwethu kunye nokufumaneka, ngobubele obungcwele.

Kufuneka siziqhelise nobuchule bokumamela, obungaphezulu kokuva nje. Ukumamela, kunxibelelwano, kukuvuleka kwentliziyo okwenza ukuba ukusondela kungabikho kwenzeka ngokwasemoyeni. Ukumamela kusinceda sifumane isenzo esifanelekileyo kunye negama elibonisa ukuba singaphezulu nje kokubukela nje. —UPOPA UFRANCIS, IVangelii Gaudium, n. I-171

UCatherine Catherine Doherty wakha wathi "sinokumamela umphefumlo ubekho." Kwaye imiphefumlo inegama, elibhalwe kwisandla sikaThixo. Xa simamela omnye, xa sinciphisa ilizwi lethu, banokuliva ilizwi likaBawo ebabiza ngegama esithi, “Uyathandwa. "

Yonke imiphefumlo yahlukile, yonke imeko ifuna ukuqonda okutsha kunye novakalelo. Ngamanye amaxesha imiphefumlo ifuna "uthando olunzima," njengabaFarisi. Kodwa rhoqo, abantu bafuna nje nenceba uthando. Ukuba kufuneka sithande izinto ezingathandekiyo, kufuneka sithathe ixesha lokuba sibekho kubo, sibayeka baphefumle ivumba elimnandi likaKrestu elivela kubudlelwane bethu noYesu, athe wazala ngabo. yethu imithwalo, ichukumisekile yethu amanxeba, kwaye waphulaphula yethu imiphefumlo khona.

Ngaphezu kwako konke, khumbula ukuba lubabalo lonke. Sithanda kuphela luthando esithe sanikwa lona simahla. Kwaye nguMoya oyiNgcwele ogwebayo, nguMoya oyiNgcwele kuphela onokuvula intliziyo yomnye kwaye ubazise enguqukweni. Ukanti, sisitya esinyulwe nguThixo kubabalo lwaKhe, kwaye uloyiso oloyisa esingathandekiyo lolwethu ukholo…

Kwaye sishiya iziphumo kuThixo.

 

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