Uthando lwam, uhlala unalo

 

NGOBA Ingaba udakumbile? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba uphinde wayivuthela kwakhona? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba uneempazamo ezininzi? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba awuhlangabezani "nomgangatho"? 

Ndiyayiqonda loo mvakalelo. Kwiminyaka yam yobutsha, ndandidla ngokujamelana nokungaziphathi kakuhle — ukuziva ndinetyala kakhulu xa ndibona ezona mpazamo zincinci. Ke, ukumka kwam ekhaya, ndandiqhutywa yimfuno engapheliyo yokuvunywa kwabanye kuba andinakuze ndizivume, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, uThixo akangekhe andamkele. Oko abazali bam, abahlobo kunye nabanye abantu bakucingayo ngam ngobuqhetseba bagqiba kwelokuba ndilungile okanye ndibi. Oku kwaqhubeka emtshatweni wam. Umfazi wam wandijonga njani, indlela abantwana bam abasabela ngayo kum, ukuba abamelwane bam bacinga ntoni ngam… nayo le nto igqibe ekubeni ingaba “ndilungile” okanye hayi. Ngapha koko, oku kuye kwandiphaphazela ekubeni ndikwazi ukwenza izigqibo-ndicinga ukuba ndenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo okanye hayi.

Ke, xa ndithe ndasilela ukufikelela "umgangatho" engqondweni yam, impendulo yam yayihlala ingumxube wokuzisizela, ukuzithoba kunye nomsindo. Isiseko sayo yonke le nto yayiluloyiko olukhulayo lokuba andinguye la mntu ndimelwe ukuba yiyo, kwaye ke, ayithandeki. 

Kodwa uThixo wenze lukhulu kwiminyaka yakutshanje ukundiphilisa kwaye andikhulule kulengcinezelo yoyikekayo. Babubuxoki oboyisayo kuba kwakusoloko kukho inyani kuzo. Hayi, andifezekanga. Mna am umoni. Kodwa loo nyaniso iyodwa yanele ukuba uSathana abambe iingqondo zabantu abasesichengeni, njengam, ukholo lwabo kuthando lukaThixo lwalungekabi nzulu ngokwaneleyo.

Yilapho loo nyoka ixokayo ifika kwimiphefumlo enjalo ngexesha labo leengxaki:

Ukhala esithi: “Ukuba ungumoni, akunakukholisa uThixo! Alitsho na iLizwi laKhe ukuba ubuyiyo “Ungcwele, njengoko engcwele”? Kufuneka ube njalo “Ugqibelele, njengokuba yena egqibelele”? Akukho nto ingcolileyo eya kungena ezulwini. Ke ungabanjani kubukho bukaThixo ngoku ukuba awungcwele? Angaba njani kuwe ukuba unesono? Ungamkholisa njani xa ungathandeki? Akukho nto niyiyo ngaphandle kobuhlwempu nembungu, nina… ukusilela. ”

Uyabona ukuba bunamandla kangakanani obu buxoki? Zibonakala ziyinyani. Zivakala njengeZibhalo. Abona bantu banyanisekileyo, kwaye okona kubi, ngokungqalileyo Ubuxoki. Masibathathe ngokwahlukeneyo. 

 

Ukuba ungumoni, akunakukholisa uThixo. 

Ndingutata wabantwana abasibhozo. Bahluke kakhulu omnye komnye. Zonke zinamandla kunye nobuthathaka. Banokulunga kwabo, kwaye baneempazamo zabo. Kodwa ndibathanda bonke ngaphandle kwemeko. Ngoba? Kuba ngabam. Bona zezam. Kuko konke! Ngabam. Naxa unyana wam ewela kwimifanekiso engamanyala, eyayiphazamisa ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nemvisiswano phakathi kwekhaya lethu, ayizange imise uthando lwam kuye (funda Ukubekwa mva kwexesha)

Ungumntwana kaTata. Namhlanje, ngoku, Utsho nje:

(Faka igama lakho), ungowam. Sithandwa sam, uhlala unaso. 

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni engamkholisiyo uThixo? Ayizizo izono zakho. Uyazi ukuba kwakutheni? Ngenxa yokuba uYise akazange amthume uNyana wakhe ukuba asindise ubuntu obugqibeleleyo, kodwa owileyo. Izono zakho azimothusi. Kodwa nantsi into engamkholisiyo uBawo: ukuba emva kwako konke uYesu akwenze ngoMnqamlezo wakhe, usenokukuthandabuza ukulunga kwakhe.

My mntwana, zonke izono zakho zingayenzakalisanga Intliziyo yam kabuhlungu njengokungazithembi okwenzileyo emva kokuba kwenziwe iinzame ezininzi zothando nenceba yam, kusafuneka ukuthandabuze ukulunga kwam.  —UYesu ukuya eSt Faustina, Inceba kaThixo kuMphefumlo wamIidayari, n. 1486

Nasi iSibhalo esishiywe nguSathana kwi-monologue yakhe encinci:

Ngaphandle kokholo akunakwenzeka ukumkholisa, kuba nabani na osondela kuThixo kufuneka akholelwe ukuba ukho kwaye uyabavuza abo bamfunayo. (Hebhere 11: 6)

Ayikuko ukungabikho kwemfezeko kodwa kwe ukholo ukuba buhlungu uThixo. Ukuze uphiliswe kwisiraphu, kuya kufuneka ufunde themba kuthando lukaBawo kuwe buqu. Kukuthembela oku komntwana-ngaphandle kwezono zakho-okwenza ukuba uBawo abaleke eze kuwe, akuphuze, aze akwamkele lonke ixesha elinye. Kuni abanobukrelekrele, camngca ngokuphindaphindiweyo umzekeliso woNyana wolahleko.[1]cf. ULuka 15: 11-32 Into ebangele ukuba utata abalekele kwinkwenkwe yakhe yayingengombuyekezo wonyana wakhe okanye nokuvuma kwakhe izono. Yayisisenzo esilula sokubuyela ekhaya esatyhilwayo uthando ebelukhona uhlala ulapho. Utata wayemthanda unyana wakhe kakhulu ngosuku lokubuya kwakhe njengangosuku awaqala ngalo ukuhamba. 

Ingqondo kaSathana ihlala ingumbono oguqulweyo; Ukuba ukuqonda kokuphelelwa lithemba okwamkelwe nguSathana kuthetha ukuba ngenxa yokuba singaboni abangahloneli Thixo, sitshatyalalisiwe, ukuqiqa kukaKristu kukuba ngenxa yokuba sitshatyalaliswe zizo zonke izono nako konke ukungahloneli Thixo, sisindisiwe ngalo igazi likaKristu! —UMateyu olihlwempu, UMthendeleko wothando

 

II. Awungcwele njengokuba yena engcwele; ugqibelele, njengokuba yena egqibelele…

Kuyinyani, ewe, ukuba iZibhalo zithi:

Yibani ngcwele, ngokuba ndingcwele mna ... Yibani ngabagqibeleleyo, njengokuba uYihlo osemazulwini efezekile. (1 Petros 1:16, Mateyu 5:48)

Nanku lo mbuzo: ingaba ukuba ngcwele kuyinzuzo yakho okanye kukwaThixo? Ngaba ukuba ngogqibeleleyo kongeze nto ukugqibelela kwakhe? Akunjalongo noko. UThixo uvuya ngokungapheliyo, uxolo, ukoneliseka; njl. Njengoko benditshilo kwenye indawo, isono ayisosikhubekiso kuThixo-sisikhubekiso kuwe. 

USathana ufuna ukuba ukholelwe ukuba umthetho wokuba "ube ngcwele" kwaye "ugqibelele" utshintsha indlela uThixo azokubona ngayo umzuzu nomzuzu, kuxhomekeke kwindlela oqhuba ngayo. Njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla, bubuxoki obo. Ungumntwana waKhe; ngoko ke, Uyakuthanda. Ixesha. Kodwa ngokuchanekileyo kuba uyathanda Ufuna ukuba wabelane novuyo lwaKhe olungapheliyo, uxolo kunye nolwaneliseko. Njani? Ngokuba yiyo yonke into owawudalelwe ukuba ube yiyo. Kuba wenziwe ngokomfanekiselo kaThixo, ubungcwele ngokwenene yimeko nje ukuba ukuba wadalwa ukuba ungubani; Ukugqibelela yimeko ye sowenza ngokwalo mfanekiso.

Njengoko ndibhala le nto, imihlambi yamarhanisi ibhabha ngaphezulu njengoko ithobela amaxesha onyaka, umhlaba womazibuthe kunye nemithetho yendalo. Ukuba ndinokubona kummandla womoya, mhlawumbi bonke baya kuba nee-halos. Ngoba? Kuba benza ngokugqibeleleyo ngokwendalo yabo. Zihambelana ngokugqibeleleyo noyilo lukaThixo kubo.

Yenziwe ngokomfanekiso kaThixo, indalo yakho injalo ukuthanda. Ke endaweni yokubona "ubungcwele" kunye "nokugqibelela" njengemigangatho eyoyikisayo kunye engenakwenzeka yokuphila ngoku, babone njengendlela eya kulwaneliseko: xa uthanda njengoko wakuthandayo. 

Kubantu oku akunakwenzeka, kodwa kuye uThixo zonke izinto zinokwenzeka. (UMateyu 19:26)

UYesu uyafuna, kuba unqwenela ulonwabo lwethu lwenene. —IPOPA ST. UJOHN PAUL II, uMyalezo woSuku loLutsha kwiHlabathi liphela wowama-2005, eVatican City, Agasti 27, 2004, Zenit.org 

 

III. Akukho nto ingcolileyo eya kungena ezulwini. Ke ungabanjani kubukho bukaThixo ngoku ukuba awungcwele?

Kuyinyani ukuba akukho nto ingcolileyo eya kungena ezulwini. Kodwa liyintoni izulu? Kubomi basemva kobomi, yimeko ye- ogqibeleleyo ukunxibelelana noThixo. Kodwa nabu ubuxoki: ukuba izulu livalelwe ngonaphakade. Akuyonyani oko. UThixo uyathetha nathi ngoku, nakubuthathaka bethu. Inkqubo ye- “Ubukumkani bamazulu busondele,” UYesu angatsho.[2]cf. Mat 3:2 Kwaye ke, iphakathi kwe- abafezekanga

"Ngubani osezulwini" ayithethi indawo, kodwa kubungangamsha bukaThixo kunye nobukho bakhe ezintliziyweni zamalungisa. Izulu, indlu kaBawo, lilizwe lokwenyani esiya kulo kwaye, sele, singabakhe. -ICatechism yeCawa yeCathlolic, n. I-2802

Ngapha koko, oku kungakumangalisa — uThixo uyancokola nathi nakwiziphoso zethu zemihla ngemihla. 

… Isono sasemoyeni asiwaphuli umnqophiso noThixo. Ngobabalo lukaThixo inokubuyiselwa ebantwini. "Isono esinyanisekileyo asimenzi ohluthwe ubabalo olungcwalisayo, ubuhlobo kunye noThixo, uthando kunye nolonwabo olungunaphakade." -ICatechism yamaKatolika Icawe, n. I-1863

Yiyo le nto Iindaba Ezilungileyo zikuzo Iindaba ezimnandi! Igazi likaKrestu elixabisekileyo lisidibanisile noBawo. Ke abo kuthi bazibethayo kufuneka baphinde bacinge ukuba ngoobani kanye uYesu awathetha nabo, batya, basela, bathetha, bahamba nabo xa babesemhlabeni:

Kwathi, akubon 'ukuba uhleli ngasesithebeni endlwini yakhe, kweza kuye into eninzi yababuthi berhafu naboni, yeza yahlala ndawonye noYesu nabafundi bakhe. Bakukubona oko abaFarisi, bathi kubafundi bakhe, Kungani na ukuba umfundisi wenu adle nababuthi berhafu naboni? Ekuvile ke oko uYesu, wathi, Akufuneki gqirha kwabaphilileyo, lifuneka kwabafayo. Hamba uyokufunda intsingiselo yamagama athi, 'Ndifuna inceba, hayi umbingelelo.' Andize kubiza malungisa, ndize kubiza aboni ukuba baguquke. ” (Mat 9: 10-13) 

Umoni oziva ngaphakathi kwakhe ehluthwe konke okungcwele, okumsulwa, nokunyaniseka ngenxa yesono, umoni ozibona esekumnyameni ngokupheleleyo, ekhutshwe kwithemba losindiso, ekukhanyeni kobomi, naku umthendeleko wabangcwele, inguye umhlobo owamenywa nguYesu esidlweni sangokuhlwa, lowo wayeceliwe ukuba aphume ngasemva kweeheji, lowo wacelwa ukuba abe liqabane emtshatweni wakhe kwaye abe yindlalifa kaThixo… Nabani na ohluphekileyo, olambileyo, isono, ukuwa okanye ukungazi lundwendwe lukaKristu. —UMateyu olihlwempu, UMthendeleko wothando, p.93

 

IV. Akukho nto niyiyo ngaphandle kobuhlwempu neentshulube,… ukusilela.

Yinyani. Ukuthetha ngokungathandabuzekiyo, konke ukona kulusizi. Kwaye ngandlela ithile, ndingumbungu. Ngenye imini ndiza kufa, umzimba wam ubuyele eluthulini. 

Kodwa ndingumbungu othandwayo—kwaye konke oko kungumahluko.

Xa uMdali enikela ngobomi baKhe ngenxa yezidalwa zaKhe, ithi loo nto-into uSathana ayikhwele. Kuba ngoku, ngoku Umthendeleko woBhaptizo, siye saba njalo abantwana Osenyangweni.

… Kwabo bamamkelayo wabanika amandla okuba babe ngabantwana bakaThixo, abo ke bakholwayo kwigama lakhe; abangazalwanga ngokwendalo, nangokhetho lomntu, nangokwesigqibo somntu; (UYohane 1: 12-13)

Kuba ngokholo nonke ningabantwana bakaThixo kuKristu Yesu. (Galati 3: 26)

Xa uMtyholi ngobuqhetseba ethetha nawe ngendlela ehlekisayo, uyathetha (kwakhona) kwiinyani. Akakutsaleli ekuthobekeni okuyinyani, kodwa kwiinzondo zokuzonda. Njengokutsho kuka-St. Leo Omkhulu, "ubabalo lukaKristu olungachazekiyo lusinike iintsikelelo ezingcono kunalezo zazisuswe ngumona weedemon." Kuba “Kwakungenxa yomona kaSathana ukuba ukufa kwangena ehlabathini” (Ubulumko 2:24). [3]cf. Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. Ngo-412-413 

Sukuya apho. Sukuthatha ukungakhathali kukaSathana kunye nentetho yokuzicekisa. Nanini na xa uthenga kolo hlobo lokuzithoba, uhlwayela iingcambu ezinengcwangu eziza kuqala ukuvuna kubudlelwane bakho nakwezinye iindawo zobomi bakho. Ndithembe ngale nto; yenzekile nakum. Siba ngamazwi ethu. Ngcono nangoku, thembela uYesu:

Inceba yam inkulu kunezono zakho kunye nehlabathi lonke. Ngubani onokulinganisa ubungakanani bokulunga kwam? Ngokuba ndihle ezulwini, ndize emhlabeni; ndavumela wena ukuba ndibethelelwe emnqamlezweni; kuwe Ndivumela iNtliziyo yam eNgcwele igqojozwe ngentambo, ngaloo ndlela ndivula umthombo wenceba kuwe. Yiza, ke, ngokuzithemba uzobabalo kulo mthombo. Andizange ndilahle intliziyo etyumkileyo. Intlupheko yakho inyamalale kubunzulu benceba yam. Musa ukubambana nam ngobubi bakho. Uya kundivuyisa ukuba ubeka kum zonke iinkxwaleko neentlungu zakho. Ndizakufumba phezu kwakho ubuncwane bobabalo lwaM… Mntwana, ungasathethi ngosizi lwakho; sele ilibalekile.  —UYesu ukuya eSt Faustina, Inceba kaThixo kuMphefumlo wamIidayari, n. 1485

Ngokubhekisele ekusileleni… awusoze usilele ukuwa; kuphela xa usala ukuvuka kwakhona. 

 

KHUKULEKA

Ukuqukumbela, ndiyakumema ukuba uthathe amanyathelo kwiindawo zobomi bakho apho ukholwe khona obunye okanye bonke obu buxoki. Ukuba unayo, kukho amanyathelo amahlanu alula onokuwathatha.

 

I. Buyisa ubuxoki 

Umzekelo, ungathi, “Ndiyabulahla ubuxoki bokuba ndiyinkunkuma engenamsebenzi. UYesu wandifela. Ndiyakholelwa kwigama laKhe. Ndingumntwana kaPhezukonke. ” Okanye, "Ndiyabulahla ubuxoki bokuba ndaliwe nguThixo," okanye obo buxoki.

 

II. Bopha, ukhalimele

Njengomntu okholwayo kuKrestu, une "amandla 'okunyathela phezu kweenyoka' noonomadudwane nokomelela kotshaba ” ebomini bakho. [4]cf. ULuka 10:19; Imibuzo malunga noHlangulo Ukuma kweli gunya njengomntwana wOsenyangweni, vele uthandaze into enje:

“Ndibopha umoya (umz. “ukuzithoba,” “ukuzicaphukela,” “ukuthandabuza,” “ukuzingca,” njl. Kwaye sakuyalela ukuba uhambe ngegama likaYesu Krestu. ”

 

III. Ukuvuma izono

Naphi na apho uthenge khona kobu buxoki, kufuneka ucele ukuxolelwa nguThixo. Kodwa ayikokufumana uthando lwakhe, akunjalo? Sele unayo loo nto. Endaweni yokuba iSakramente soXolelwaniso sikhona ukucoca la manxeba nokuhlamba isono sakho. KuVuma, uThixo uyakubuyisela kwimeko efanelekileyo yokubhaptizwa. 

Ukuba umphefumlo ubufana nesidumbu esibolayo ukuze ngokwembono yomntu, kungabikho [themba] lokubuyiselwa kwaye yonke into sele ilahlekile, akunjalo kuThixo. Ummangaliso weNceba kaThixo ubuyisela loo mphefumlo ngokupheleleyo. Owu, hayi indlela abalusizi ngayo abo bangayisebenzisiyo imimangaliso yenceba kaThixo! -Inceba kaThixo kumphefumlo wam, Iidayari, n. 1448

 

IV. Ilizwi

Gcwalisa indawo emphefumlweni wakho — owake wahlalwa nazo bubuxoki — ngo nyaniso. Funda iLizwi likaThixo, ngakumbi ezo Zibhalo Qinisekisa uthando lukaThixo kuwe, amalungelo akho kaThixo, kunye nezithembiso zaKhe. Kwaye vumela inyani yakhulula.

 

V. UMthendeleko

Vumela uYesu akuthande. Makhe asebenzise i-balm yothando lwaKhe kunye nobukho nge-Ekaristi Engcwele. Ungakholelwa njani ukuba uThixo akakuthandi xa ezinikela kuwe ngokupheleleyo-uMzimba, uMphefumlo, noMoya- kule ndlela ithobekileyo? Ndingakuthetha oku: ibilixesha lam phambi kweSakramente elisikelelekileyo, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kweMisa, eye yenza eyona nto iphilisayo intliziyo yam indinika nokuzithemba kuthando lwaKhe.

Ukuphumla kuYe.

“Sithandwa sam, uhlala uhleli ndinayo, ” Utsho kuwe ngoku. “Ungayamkela?”

 

 

 

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Imihlathi

Imihlathi
1 cf. ULuka 15: 11-32
2 cf. Mat 3:2
3 cf. Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. Ngo-412-413
4 cf. ULuka 10:19; Imibuzo malunga noHlangulo
exhonyiweyo EKHAYA, UMOYA.