Ukufa komfazi

 

Xa inkululeko yoyilo iba yinkululeko yokuzenzela,
emva koko uMenzi ngokwakhe uyaliwa kwaye ekugqibeleni
umntu naye uhluthwe isidima sakhe njengesidalwa sikaThixo,
njengomfanekiso kaThixo embindini wobukho bakhe.
… Xa uThixo enqatshelwe, isidima somntu siyanyamalala.
—UPOPE BENEDICT XVI, Idilesi yeKrisimesi kwiRomania
NgoDisemba 21, 20112; IVatican.va

 

IN Iintsomi zakudala ze-Emperor's New Clothes, amadoda amabini afika edolophini kwaye anikezela ngokuluka iimpahla ezintsha zomlawuli-kodwa eneempawu ezizodwa: iimpahla ziye zingabonakali kwabo bangakwaziyo ukwenza umsebenzi okanye ubudenge. U-Emperor uyawaqesha la madoda, kodwa ke, bebengenzanga ngubo konke konke njengoko bezenza ngathi bayamnxiba. Nangona kunjalo, akukho namnye, kubandakanya umlawuli, ofuna ukuvuma ukuba ababoni nto kwaye, ke ngoko, babonwa njengesidenge. Ke wonke umntu unxiba impahla entle abangayiboniyo ngelixa umlawuli ehamba ezitratweni ehamba ze. Ekugqibeleni, umntwana omncinci uyakhala, “Kodwa akanxibi kwanto!” Okwangoku, umlawuli okhohlisiweyo akamhoyi umntwana kwaye uqhubeka nomngcelele wakhe wobudenge. 

Inokuba yintsomi ... ukuba ibingelilo ibali eliyinyani. Okwangoku, abalawuli bexesha lethu batyelelwe ngamadoda angama-con ukuchaneka kwezopolitiko. Ukulukuhlwa yi-vainglory kunye nomnqweno wokuva ihlombe, bona Bazihlubile umthetho wokuziphatha ngokwendalo kwaye bazinxibisa izizathu ezingenantsingiselo ezinje ngala "umtshato ungachazwa ngokutsha," "'eyindoda' kunye 'neyasetyhini' zizinto zokwakha zentlalo," kwaye "abantu bangazichonga ukuba banjani na."

Ewe, abalawuli bahamba ze.

Kodwa kuthekani ngenginginya yabafundisi-ntsapho, izazinzulu, iingcali zebhayoloji, iingcali zokuziphatha kunye nabezopolitiko abemi emgceni wokudumisa iimpahla ezintsha zomlawuli? Ngokwala izazela zabo, bengayamkeli ingqiqo kunye nokwala intetho ekrelekrele, nabo bayazibandakanya nomngcelele wenkohliso ohamba ngokukhawuleza okhawuleza ube liqela lokuphikisana emva kokuphikisana. 

Oku akubonakali ngakumbi kunombutho wabasetyhini othi, ngokungaqhelekanga, ubutshabalalise ubufazi. 

 

ULAWULO LOBUXOKI

Iinjongo zentshukumo yabasetyhini, eyadubula kwiminyaka ye-1960s, yavela ekulweleni inkululeko kunye nokulingana kwezopolitiko, ezemali kunye nenkcubeko… ukukhusela inkululeko yesondo (ukufikelela kulawulo lokuzalwa), amalungelo okuzala (ukufikelela kwisisu), kunye nokukhuthaza amaqela ahlelelekileyo. (umz. amalungelo abantu abathandana besini esinye kunye nabesilisa nabasetyhini).  

Kukho imiba eliqela yokuhamba kwamanina ngokungathandabuzekiyo elungileyo kwaye eyimfuneko. Umzekelo, xa umfazi wam wayeqala umsebenzi wakhe wokuzoba imifanekiso, wayehlawulwa umvuzo omncinci kunamadoda enza umsebenzi ofanayo kwiofisi yakhe. Oko akulunganga. Ngokunjalo, iimfuno zokuphathwa ngentlonipho, ilungelo lokuvota, kunye nethuba lokuthatha inxaxheba kumaziko oluntu ziinjongo ezintle ezisekwe kubulungisa kwaye zithathwe kwinyani yokuba abantu basetyhini kunye namadoda lingana kwisidima. 

Ngokudala 'indoda nebhinqa,' uThixo unika indoda nebhinqa isidima esilinganayo. ” Indoda ngumntu, indoda nomfazi ngokulinganayo, kuba bobabini badalwa ngokomfanekiselo nangokufana noThixo ongumntu. -Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. I-2334

Isidima eso, ewe, sonakaliswa sisono sokuqala. Kuphela kungokungena kwakhona kumyalelo kaThixo apho amadoda nabafazi befumana eyabo oyinyaniso isidima kwakhona. Kwaye kulapho ubufazi buye, ngelishwa, bemkile kwiziporo. 

Ekulahleni imiqobo yokuziphatha, umbutho wabasetyhini ngokungazi uye warhuqela abafazi ebukhobokeni obunzulu-obobumoya ngokwendalo. INgcwele uPaul wabhala:

Yimani ngoko enkululekweni, athe uKristu wasikhululela kuyo; yima uqinile kwaye ungabuyeli kwakhona kwidyokhwe yobukhoboka. (Gal 5: 1)

"Inkululeko," watsho uSt. John Paul II, "asibobuchule bokwenza nantoni na esiyifunayo, nanini na sifuna." 

Endaweni yokuba, inkululeko kukukwazi ukuhlala uxanduva inyani yobudlelwane bethu noThixo kunye nabanye. —IPOPA ST. UJOHN PAUL II, eSt. Louis, 1999

"Ubungqondi bobufazi", utshilo uJohn Paul II, ubengezela ngokuqaqambileyo emhlabeni, hayi ngendlela eyoyikisayo kaEva yokuzingca, kodwa ngokuchanekileyo "kwinkonzo yothando." 

… I “Ubungqondi babafazi” [ayifumaneki nje kuphela kwabo] bafazi abadumileyo nabadumileyo bexesha elidlulileyo okanye langoku, kodwa nabo eziqhelekileyo Abasetyhini abatyhila isipho sabo ubufazi ngokuzibeka kwinkonzo yabanye kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Kuba ngokuzinikela kwabo kwabanye yonke imihla abantu basetyhini bazalisekisa ezona bizo zabo zinzulu. Mhlawumbi ngaphezulu kwamadoda, abafazi mazise umntu, kuba babona abantu ngeentliziyo zabo. Bababona ngokuzimeleyo kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zezopolitiko okanye ezopolitiko. Babona abanye kubukhulu babo kunye nokusikelwa umda; bazama ukuphuma baye kubo kwaye bancede. Ngale ndlela icebo elisisiseko loMdali lithatha inyama kwimbali yoluntu kwaye kuhlala kutyhilwa, kuhlobo lobizo, ubuhle—kungekuphela nje ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, ngokomoya-awathi uThixo kwasekuqalekeni wabanika bonke, ngokukodwa ke kwabasetyhini. —IIPOPE ST. UYOHANE PAUL II, Ileta eya kwabasetyhini, n. I-12, kaJuni 29, 1995

Ukuba amadoda anokubonakaliswa ngokubanzi ngabo amandla kwaye ubukrelekrele, iimpawu ezibonakalayo zabafazi ukuthamba kwaye intuition. Ayithathi intelekelelo enkulu ukubona ukuba ezi mpawu ziyancedisana ngokupheleleyo kwaye ziyinyani ngokulinganayo. Kodwa ubufazi obugqithisileyo babucekisile “ubungqondi bababhinqileyo” njengobuthathaka nokubanjwa. Ukuthantamisa kunye nokuqonda kuthathelwe indawo ngumsebenzi wesondo kunye nokulukuhla. "Inkonzo yothando" iye yafuduswa yi "nkonzo ye-eros." 

Nabani na ofuna ukuphelisa uthando ulungiselela ukuphelisa umntu enjalo. -POPE BENEDICT XVI, Incwadi Encyclical, UDeus Caritas Est (UThixo uluthando), n. 28b

 

UKUFA KOMFAZI

Umonakalo wesibambiso sokuhamba kwabasetyhini kwimikhwa yokuziphatha kukumangalisa. Ukulahlwa kwazo zonke izithintelo kunelizwi, ubuyela umva. "Ukuba uThixo akakho," watsho uDostoevsky, "yonke into ivumelekile."

Kwi-2020, oorhulumente ngoku babetha igama "umfazi" kunye "nendoda" kwiifom zikarhulumente. “Umama” notata bathatyathelw 'indawo ngu "Mzali 1" kunye "noMzali 2." Kanye xa igama elithi “umfazi” lalifumana imbeko efanelekileyo kuluntu, ngoku liyapheliswa. Idabi elide lolwimi olubandakanyayo, ukwamkelwa kwabasetyhini kwezemidlalo, kwezoshishino nakwezopolitiko, i-Oprah “intombazana amandla ”iintshukumo… kulungile, ucalucalulo lwabo ngoku, akunjalo? Amadoda nabafazi ngamagama ekungafuneki ukuba abekho. Ubufazi ngoku buya ngaphaya ukudluliswa kobuntu. 

Ekuqalekeni kwakukho indoda nenkazana. Kungekudala kwabakho ubufanasini. Emva kwexesha kwabakho abantu abathandana nabesini esinye, kwaye emva koko uninzi lwamafanasini, abathandana besini esahlukileyo, abesini esahlukileyo kunye nooqweqwe… Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku (ngexesha ufunda le nto, usapho… lwezesondo zinokuba zandile kwaye zanda) zezi: transgender, trans, transsexual, intersex, androgynous, Agender, crossdresser, tsala ukumkani, tsala ukumkanikazi, ubungqingili besini, isini, i-intergender, i-neutrois, i-pansexual, i-pan-gendered, isini sesithathu, isini sesithathu, udade oyintombazana kunye nomntakwabo… -UDeacon Keith Fournier, "Ukutshintsha Inyaniso kaThixo Uxoke: Amatshantliziyo eTransgender, iNkcubeko yeRevolution", nge-28 kaMatshi ngo-2011, zintngline.com

Namhlanje, amadoda angachonga njengabafazi-ngokutsho nje oko. Ke, ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba amadoda endalo anelungelo lokungena kwiindawo zokuhlambela zabasetyhini kwiindawo ezininzi (ngaloo ndlela bebeka abafazi kunye neentombi zethu kwiziphene ezinokubakho), banokungena kwimidlalo yabasetyhini kwelona nqanaba liphezulu. Kwinto ekufuneka ibe yenye yezona zinto zimangalisayo zokubuyela umva kumaxesha anamhlanje, abasetyhini abasebenze nzima kwiindawo zabo zeembaleki ngoku baphulukana kakubi nabantu abachonga njengabafazi, nokuba kunjalo racing, ngebhayisikile, ukulwa, ukwenyusa iintsimbi or kickboxing. Abafazi babenyanzelisa inkululeko yesini, kwaye ngoku banayo kwimisele. Ibhokisi kaPandora ivuliwe- bebengalindelanga ukuba amadoda aphume (kunye nelipstick kunye neotard).

Kodwa ayisiyomidlalo kuphela. Phantsi komgaqo-nkqubo ka-2017 okhutshwe yi-United Kingdom Ministry of Justice, amabanjwa angamadoda angadluliselwa kwiintolongo zabasetyhini ukuba baveza "umnqweno ongaguquguqukiyo wokuhlala ngokusisigxina kwisini abazichonga kunye naso." Ukumangaliswa, ukumangaliswa, unyaka apho umgaqo-nkqubo wenziwa, inani lamadoda elichonga njengabafazi latsiba ngama-70%. Ngoku, amabanjwa amabhinqa axelwa ukuba aphethwe gadalala ngokwesondo ejele ngamadoda "aguqukayo".^[1]ebridgehead.ca  

Owu, kwaye uCovergirl ngenene ngu Umfana ogqubayo… Owayeyimbaleki eyindoda uCaitlyn ("Bruce") uJenner wabizwa Umfazi woNyaka… Ndaze ndakhankanya indlela ezithandeka ngayo iimpahla zikakumkani?

Elinye icala kule ngqekembe yeenzima lilusizi ngokulinganayo. Ngomzamo wokukhululwa "kwinkqubo yoosolusapho" eyehlisela abasetyhini kwinqanaba lokuzala-iinkomo (bathi ke), abalweli-femin bafuna ukunyanzeliswa kolawulo lokuzalwa ukuze "babakhulule ngesondo" abasetyhini ebunzimeni bambeke kwindawo yokusebenzela. ecaleni koogxa babo abangamadoda (emva xa “amadoda” ayekhona, ewe). Kodwa le, nayo, ihlaziye ngokumangalisayo. UPopu uSt.Paul VI wakubona kusiza xa, ngo-1968, walumkisa ngento eza kwenziwa yinkcubeko yokuthintela ukukhulelwa:

Makhe baqale baqwalasele ukuba le ndlela yesenzo inokuyivula ngokulula ngayo indlela yokungathembeki emtshatweni kunye nokwehla ngokubanzi kwemilinganiselo yokuziphatha… Esinye isiphumo esinika isizathu sokuxhalaba kukuba umntu oqhele ukusebenzisa iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa angakulibala ukuhlonipha ngenxa yomfazi, kwaye, ukungahoyi ukulingana komzimba kunye neemvakalelo, ukumnciphisa ukuba abe sisixhobo nje sokwanelisa iminqweno yakhe, ungasamthathi njengeqabane lakhe ekufuneka elijikeleze ngononophelo nothando. -IHumanae Vitae, n. I-17; IVatican.va

Kude ekumkhululeni, uguquko kwezesondo lumoyisile umfazi, limnciphisela kwinto. Imifanekiso engamanyala luphawu lokwenene lobufazi. Ngoba? Njengombhali wentatheli uJonathon Van Maren, 'abafazi abanesini "abanesifo somfazi wesithathu bayala ukugweba ikhona Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo-nokuba kubandakanya amadoda ukuphuma kumabhinqa atshabalaliswa ngokwasemzimbeni kwikhamera ukonwaba kwabanye. '^[2]Ngomhla kaJanuwari 23, 2020; elamav.com Ukuba ulawulo lokuzalwa lufana nembewu, inkcaso yomzimba wabasetyhini sisiqhamo sawo.

Akuzange ngaphambili kwimbali yehlabathi umfanekiso wesifazana uthotywe kangaka, udilizwe kakhulu, wophulwe njengokuba kunjalo nanamhlanje. Omnye wabasetyhini ongumlawuli we-porn kutshanje uthe "Ukuqhwaba ubuso, ukukrwitsha, ukugxeka, kunye nokutshica kuye kwaba yi-alpha kunye ne-omega yayo nayiphi na into engamanyala ... Ezi ziboniswa njengeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokwabelana ngesondo xa, enyanisweni, zilungile."^[3]"Erika Inkanuko", elamav.com the Atlantic uxele ukuba iphonografi ikhokelele ekunyukeni okubukhali kwindlela yokwenza ukukrwitshwa Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo (phantse ikota yabasetyhini abadala baseMelika bexela ukuba baziva benoloyiko ngexesha lokusondelelana njengesiphumo).^[4]Nge-24 kaJuni, 2019; thelantic.com Iguqulelwa njani le nto? ECanada, kuqikelelwa ukuba i-80% yamadoda aphakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-18 abukele iphonografi mihla le.^[5]Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesixhenxe ku-24 kaJanuwari; cbc.ca Ngoku abantwana, ngokufikelela ngokulula kwi-porn, bahlasela abanye abantwana ngendlela eyoyikisayo ejolise kumantombazana aneminyaka eyi-4 - 8 ngobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo.^[6]Nge-6 kaDisemba ka-2018; Christian Post Nditsho nomhlekisi okhuselayo okhululekileyo uBill Maher sele eqalisile ukulumkisa ukuba abazali mabagcine abantwana babo kwi-porn kuba sele isiba "sisidlwengu".^[7]Ngomhla kaJanuwari 23, 2020; elamav.com 

Kwaye isikhalo esikhulu esivela kubafazi? Akukho nanye. Abakaqapheli ukuba banokuzifumana njani iingxaki zesondo ngaphandle kokuthintelwa ngokwesondo. Ngamanye amagama, umlawuli usenayo impahla. Yiyo loo nto lo mfanekiso wokwenyani womfazi — intokazi, intuitive, intokazi, ubumnene, nokondla umfazi-konke kufile, ngokuqinisekileyo kwinkcubeko yaseNtshona. Kuhlalutyo lomkhenkce lokuwa kweNtshona, uKhadinali uRobert Sarah uphawula kakuhle:

Xa ubudlelwane bakhe nendoda benziwa kuphela phantsi kwenkanuko yesini, umfazi uhlala eyilahleko… Engazi, umfazi uye waba yinto kwinkonzo yendoda. -Usuku lukude, (Ignatius Cofa), iphe. 169

Kwelinye icala, kwilizwe laseMpuma, umfazi onethenda, onomdla, obhinqileyo, onobulali, nokondla ugqunywe ngokupheleleyo yi-burqa (ngumthetho) naphina apho u-Shariah aphumelela khona (okanye "kwimimandla ye-Shariah" njengaleyo ise-London, England nase ezinye izixeko ezifudukayo). Kwakhona, sesinye isigqebelo esimangalisayo: njengezizwe zaseNtshona kunye nezopolitiko zabo zobufazi vula amasango ezikhukula ukuya kumashumi ezigidi zabafuduki abathi yamkela inkcubeko ephatha abantu basetyhini ngesidima esincinci kunanini na ngaphambili kwabonwa eNtshona, ubufazi ekugqibeleni buyazithoba kwakhona.^[8]cf. Ingxaki yeNgxaki yeMbacu  

Uphando lwePew Uphando lwamaMuslim-baseMelika abangaphantsi kwamashumi amathathu luveze ukuba amashumi amathandathu eepesenti kubo baziva bethembekile kubuSilamsi kunaseMelika…. A Uphando kwilizwe lonke Iqhutywa yiNkampani yokuVota yeZiko loMgaqo-nkqubo woKhuseleko ityhila ukuba ama-51 eepesenti amaSilamsi avumile ukuba "amaSilamsi aseMelika kufuneka akhethe ukulawulwa ngokweSharia." Ukongeza, iipesenti ezingama-51 zabo bavotyiweyo bakholelwa ekubeni kufuneka bakhethe iinkundla zaseMelika okanye zeSharia. -William Kilpatrick, "Yazi-Akukho nto yamaKatolika kwi-Muslim Immigration", ngoJanuwari 30, 2017; Imagazini yeCrisis 

Kodwa mhlawumbi ukufa komfazi akusekho kubuhlungu kunakuyo ngokoqobo ifom. “Ilungelo lokukhupha isisu” elifunwa ngamalungelo abantu abomeleleyo kukhokelele ekuphelisweni ngokuthe ngqo amashumi ezigidi zabafazi. Kwaye oku, ngakumbi, kumazwe aseAsia apho ukukhulelwa kunqanyulwa xa umntu obhinqileyo efunyanwa esibelekweni kodwa inkwenkwe inqweneleka ngakumbi. Yintoni efika engqondweni lidabi lokomoya elichazwe nguSt. ngokuthelekiswa ngokuthe ngqo "kwinkcubeko yobomi" ngokuchasene "nenkcubeko yokufa":

Wayekhulelwe kwaye elila ngokuvakalayo ziintlungu njengoko wayesebenza ngokuzala… Yaza inamba yema phambi komfazi owayeza kuzala, ukuba imdle imgqibe umntwana wakhe. (ISityhi. 12: 2-4)

Abalawuli basixelela ukuba ukuqhomfa “kuyayikhulula. "Kodwa umfundi obhinqileyo kutshanje eWashington, DC ngoMatshi woBomi uveza obu buchwephesha bokuba buyintoni:

Oko kuyandithuka njengomfazi ukucinga ukuba ukuqhomfa ngandlela thile sisipho kum okanye ukundinceda ndizikhulule. Andisoze ndafuna ukuzikhulula ngokwaphula umthetho womnye umntu. Ayisiyo inkululeko, bubuxoki obo. Bubuxoki obondliwe kubafazi kuyo yonke indawo. -Kate Maloney, aBafundi boBomi baseMelika, nge-24 kaJanuwari, 2020, elamav.com

Yenye into eyoyikisayo ukuba esona sipho sikhulu kwaye amandla eyeyomfazi iphulukene nentshukumo yabasetyhini.

Ewe, umfazi uphakamile ngokwemvelo kunendoda, kuba iphuma kuye yonke indoda ehlabathini.  -Ukhadinali Robert Sarah Usuku lukude, (Ignatius Cofa), iphe. 170

Ngaloo ndlela,

Ekuzameni "ukukhulula" umfazi "kubukhoboka bokuvelisa kwakhona", njengoko uMargaret Sanger, umseki weParent Parenthood, watsho, bamnqumla kubukhulu bokuba ngumama, esisesinye seziseko zesidima sakhe… Abasetyhini bayakwenza oko. bakhulule, hayi ngokwala ubufazi babo obunzulu, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ngokubamkela njengobutyebi.  —Ibhidi., Iphe. 169

 

BUYELA EDEN

Ongasekhoyo uFr. UGabriel Amorth, owayeyintloko ye-exorcist yaseRoma, wanika olu lwazi lubalulekileyo kwizinto awayezenzile:

Umfazi obanjiswe nguSathana ingakumbi abo bancinci kwaye banenkangeleko ekholisayo… Ngexesha lokukhutshwa kwezimilo, idemon, ngezwi eloyikisayo, liye lagquma ukuba lifuna ukungena emfazini kunamadoda ukuze liziphindezele kuMariya ngenxa yokuba uhlaziswa nguye. —Fr. UGabriel Amorth, Ngaphakathi eVatican, NgoJanuwari, i-1994

Ukuba uSathana akanabo abafazi abaninzi, ngokuqinisekileyo ucinezele abantu abaninzi. Kwenye yezona nkcubeko zintsha zingaqhelekanga, abafazi baguqukile bunzima ku-Instagram nakuFacebook ukuthumela unogumbe wee "selfie" ezingandilisekanga, bejika bazenza izinto phambi kwamadoda amaninzi angaziwayo. Kwaye phantse kuwo onke amashishini, nokuba ziindaba zikamabonwakude, umculo, ifilimu, kunye nezemidlalo, ziye zabelana ngesondo nomntu ongowasetyhini. Kunjengokungathi sibuyile kumyezo wase-Eden apho inyoka iphinde yaxhoma isilingo ku-Eva ukuba azibone njengothixokazi onokuthi asebenzise amandla nobuhle bakhe abunikwe nguThixo ngokungathi ziintsika ze-ego yakhe:

Wabona umfazi ukuba umthi ulungele ukudliwa; kwakumnandi emehlweni, nokuba wawunqweneleka ukwenza ubulumko, wathabatha eziqhameni zawo, wadla. Aqabuka amehlo abo bobabini, bazi ukuba bahamba ze… (Genesis 3: 6-7).

Olo mzuzu yayikukufa okungaphezulu komfazi, ukufa kwe umfanekiso oyinyani yomfazi njengombonakaliso woMdali kunye nesiqhamo esincedisayo kumyeni wakhe. 

Ngethamsanqa, ukunyamalala komfazi kula maxesha ethu akunasiphelo. Kuba "umfazi owambethe ilanga" owenza isohlwayo sakhe kumaxesha okugqibela, okanye inzala yakhe, woyiswa yinyoka. Ngapha koko, uyalawula, nangoku, njengoKumkanikazi wezulu kwaye Umhlaba ngasekunene koNyana wakhe.

ICawe ibona kuMariya eyona ntetho iphakamileyo "yobungqondi babasetyhini" kwaye ufumana kuye umthombo wokhuthazo oluqhubekayo. UMariya wazibiza ngokuba "sisicakakazi seNkosi" (Lk 1:38). Ngokuthobela iLizwi likaThixo wamkela ubizo lwakhe oluphakamileyo kodwa olungelulanga njengomfazi nomama kusapho lwaseNazarete. Ukuzibeka enkonzweni kaThixo, wazibeka nakwinkonzo yabanye: a inkonzo yothando. Ngokuchanekileyo ngale nkonzo uMariya wakwazi ukufumana ebomini bakhe imfihlakalo, kodwa eyiyo "yokulawula". Ayenzekanga ngengozi ukuba abizwe njengo "Ndlovukazi wezulu nomhlaba". Uluntu lonke lwamakholwa luyamcela; Iintlanga ezininzi nezizwe zimbiza njengo "Kumkanikazi" wazo. Kuye, "ukulawula" kukukhonza! Inkonzo yakhe “kukulawula”!—IIPOPE ST. UYOHANE PAUL II, Ileta eya kwabasetyhini, n. I-10, kaJuni 29, 1995

Ewe, ngubani omkhulu ebukumkanini bamazulu?

Nabani na ozithobayo njengalo mntwana ngoyena mkhulu ebukumkanini bamazulu… Oyena mkhulu phakathi kwenu makabe sisicaka senu. (Mateyu 18: 4, 23:11)

Yilaa mfazi mnye, kwiminyaka engama-400 eyadlulayo, waxela kwangaphambili ukufa komfazi ngamagama amaninzi:

Ngamaxesha lawo umoya ococekileyo uya kuthi uzaliswe ngumoya wokungcola othi, njengolwandle olungcolileyo, ugubungele izitalato neendawo zikawonke-wonke ngelayisensi engakholelekiyo.… Ukungafumani tyala kuya kufunyanwa ebantwaneni, okanye ukuthozama kubafazi. Imiphefumlo engazani nandoda ehlabathini… Intyatyambo ethe-ethe yobuntombi bayoyikiswa ngokutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo. -Inenekazi lethu leMpumelelo eyiVen. Umama uMariana kumthendeleko wokuhlanjululwa, 1634 

Intombikazi enguMariya, ngobungqina bayo, ukuthozama, ukuthobela, inkonzo kunye nokuzithoba kukuchasana ne anti-umfazi eyenziwe ngumbutho wabasetyhini; Unguye ngqongqo lobufazi. Ngomama wakhe wokomoya, uMama wethu ngu ubomi bomfazi kuba ubanika uYesu, 'oyindlela, nenyaniso, nenyaniso ubomi. ” Abo bafazi bayabamkela obo Bomi baya kufumana ubuyena babo bokwenyani kunye nobufazi obuyinyani, obunamandla okuzisa ubomi emhlabeni kunye nokuloba ikamva ngothando lokuzinikela. 

Kodwa ngeli lixa, bambalwa abahoye naliphi na ilizwi lalo Mfazi okanye uMntwana wakhe, ukukhala kwakhe kunokuvakala kwakhona kwizitrato zethu: “Umlawuli akanxibi kwanto!” 

Kuba uthi, Ndisisityebi, ndizityebisile, andiswele nto; ukanti akuqondi ukuba uludwayinge, ulusizana, ulihlwempu, uyimfama, uhamba ze; Ndikucebisa ukuba uthenge kum igolide esulungekiswe ngomlilo ukuze ube nobutyebi, neengubo ezimhlophe zokunxiba ukuze ubuze bakho obulihlazo butyhileke, uthenge neoyile yokuthambisa emehlweni akho ukuze ubone. Abo ndibathandayo ndiyabohlwaya ndibohlwaye. Qiniseka, ke ngoko, uguquke. (ISityhi. 3: 17-19)

 

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