PHI izibini, uluntu, kunye neentlanga ziya zisanda ukwahlukana, mhlawumbi inye into esiphantse savumelana ngayo: intetho yoluntu iyanyamalala ngokukhawuleza.
Ukusuka kuMongameli wase-United States ukuya kwiposta engaziwayo, unxibelelwano oluhle luyaphela. Nokuba yindlela abathetha ngayo ababuki zindwendwe kunye nababuki zindwendwe abasikanayo, okanye indlela u-Facebook, u-YouTube, okanye iingxoxo zeforam ezihlala zihlaselwa ngabantu, okanye indlela yomsindo kunye nezinye izinto ezibonisa ukungabi namonde esidlangalaleni esizibonayo… abantu babonakala bekulungele ukukrazula abasemzini ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle. Hayi, asikuko ukwanda kwenyikima kunye neentaba-mlilo, ukubethwa kwamagubu emfazwe, ukuwa kwezoqoqosho okusondeleyo okanye imeko ekhulayo yoorhulumente — kodwa uthando lwabaninzi luphola lonto mhlawumbi ime njengowona mqondiso uphambili wamaxesha ngeli lixa.
… Ngenxa yokwanda kobubi, uthando lwabaninzi luya kuphola. (UMateyu 24:12)
Yiyo ke loo nto, nangokungahambisani nentando yethu, ingcinga ivuka engqondweni yokuba ngoku ezo ntsuku zisondele apho iNkosi yethu yaprofeta yathi: “Kwaye ngenxa yobuninzi bobugwenxa, luya kuphola uthando lwabaninzi” (Mat. 24:12). —I-POPE PIUS XI, I-Miserentissimus Redemptor, Encyclical on Revenue to the Sacred Heart, n. 17
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba le yimeko yezentlalo yomhla wethu, oko akuthethi ukuba mna nawe kufuneka silandele. Ngapha koko, kunyanzelekile ukuba sibe ziinkokheli kunye nemizekelo yonxibelelwano olulungileyo kunangaphambili.
UKUTSHINTSHWA KWAMAGAMA
Kufundo lokuqala lwanamhlanje, amazwi kaSt.Paul anento yokwenza neli lixa:
… Balumkise phambi koThixo ukuba bakuphephe ukuxabana ngamazwi, angancedi nto kodwa kuphela abonakalisa abo bamameleyo. (2 Tim 2:14)
Ngokufika kwamajelo eendaba ezentlalo, utyekelo lokuzibamba lubambe esi sizukulwana: ngequbuliso, wonke umntu unebhokisi yesepha. NgoGoogle ngasekhohlo kwabo kunye nekhibhodi ekunene, wonke umntu yingcali, wonke umntu une "nyaniso," wonke umntu uyazi yonke into. Ingxaki, nangona kunjalo, ayonelanga ukufikelela kulwazi, kodwa ukubanakho ubulumko, eyalela intliziyo kwaye iqonde kwaye ilinganise ulwazi. Ubulumko benene sisipho sikaMoya oyiNgcwele, kwaye ngenxa yoko, siyasilela kakhulu kwisizukulwana sethu sokwazi sonke. Ngaphandle kobulumko, ngaphandle kokuvuma ukuthobeka kunye nokufunda, inene, incoko iya kuthi ngokukhawuleza ibe yingxabano yamagama ngokuchasene nokumamela.
Ayikuko ukuba ukungavisisani kuyinto embi kwaphela; Yiloo ndlela esikucela ngayo umngeni ekucingeni ukukhubazeka kwaye sandise iimbono zethu. Kodwa rhoqo, ingxoxo namhlanje iyehla kwi-hominem uhlaselo apho “ingxoxo yokwenyani yesihloko esisesandleni ithintelwe ngokuthi kuhlaselwe umlinganiswa, injongo, okanye olunye uphawu lomntu ophikisanayo, okanye abantu abanxulumene nempikiswano, kunokuba bahlasele umxholo wengxoxo uqobo.” [1]wikipedia.org Xa oku kusenzeka esidlangalaleni phakathi kwamaKristu, kuyonzakalisa kwabo bamameleyo. Ye:
Ngayo le nto baya kwazi bonke, ukuba ningabafundi bam, ukuba nithe nathandana. (UYohane 13:35)
Ingathi esi sizukulwana asisakholelwa ukuba umonde, imbeko, kunye nokuzithoba kubalulekile kwingxoxo. Endaweni yoko, ukuba "olungileyo" kukungqina ngokwakho kunye nenyaniso kabani, nokuba kubonakala njani kwaye nokuba kungakanani na iindleko kulwalamano okanye isidima somnye.
Hayi indlela okwahluke ngayo oku kumzekelo asinike wona uKristu! Xa wayengaqondwa kakuhle, wavele wemka. Xa wayetyholwa ngobuxoki, Wathula. Kwaye xa wayetshutshiswa, wavumela impendulo yaKhe yoxolelo kunye noxolelo ukuba kuthethe. Xa wathi wazenza iintshaba zakhe, u-ewe wakhe wathi ewe kuye uhayi abe nguhayi. [2]cf. Yakobi 5:12 Ukuba babezingisa kwinkani yabo okanye kwikratshi, akazange azame ukubakholisa, nangona izibonda zaziphezulu — usindiso lwabo lwanaphakade! Le yayiyintlonipho uYesu awayenayo ngenkululeko yokuzikhethela yendalo yakhe.
Apha kwakhona, uSt. Paul uneengcebiso ezifanelekileyo kuthi ngokubhekisele kwabo bafuna ukulwa:
Nabani na ofundisa into eyahlukileyo kwaye angavumelani namazwi aphilileyo eNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu kwaye imfundiso yenkolo inekratshi, ayiqondi nto, kwaye inesimo sokuwohloka ngenxa yeengxoxo kunye neempikiswano zomlomo. Kwezi zinto kuphuma umona, usukuzwano, izithuko, ukukrokrelana okubi, ukungavisisani phakathi kwabantu abonakele iingqondo… Kodwa wena, mntu kaThixo, kunqande konke oku. (cf. 1 Tim 6: 3-11)
NDINGENZA NTONI?
Kufuneka sifunde ukumamela kwakhona kwenye. Njengomkhonzi kaThixo uCatherine de Hueck Doherty wakha wathi, “Singakwazi mamela umphefumlo womnye umntu ubekho. ” Xa uncokola nomntu, ngaba ujonga enye emehlweni? Ngaba uyeke le uyenzayo kwaye ujonge kubo kuphela? Uyabavumela bagqibe izivakalisi zabo? Okanye ngaba udlala nge-smartphone yakho, uyitshintshe isihloko, uyibuyisele kuwe incoko, ujonge kwigumbi, okanye ubagwebe?
Ewe enye yezona zinto zonakalisayo eziqhubeka zisenzeka kwimidiya yoluntu kukuba omnye umntu agwetywe. Kodwa ndivile le nto incinci yolumko ngenye imini:
Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, ndakhe ndangena kwingxoxo-mpikiswano nebhinqa malunga nokuthozama kumculo welizwe. Wayebukhali kakhulu kwaye ekrakra, ehlasela kwaye ehlekisa. Endaweni yokuphendula ngohlobo, ndiphendule ngokuzolileyo kwi-diatribe yakhe ene-asidi thanda ngenyaniso. Uye waqhagamshelana nam kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva, wandibulela ngokuba nobubele, wacela uxolo, emva koko wachaza ukuba ukhuphe isisu kwaye wenza into ngomsindo. Oko kwaqala ithuba elimangalisayo lokwabelana ngeVangeli naye (yabona Iscandal senceba).
Xa usebenza nomntu okanye kwi-intanethi kunye nomnye, musa ukuva nje oko bathethayo kodwa lalela. Usenokuphinda le bayithethileyo emva koko ubuze ukuba uyabaqonda ngokuchanekileyo na. Ngale ndlela, awuphulaphuli nje kodwa onothando kubo-kwaye oko kuvumela ubukho bukaThixo ukuba bangene kwincoko. Yile nto ithethwa nguPope Francis ngokuthi "ahambe nabanye":
Kufuneka siziqhelise nobuchule bokumamela, obungaphezulu kokuva nje. Ukumamela, kunxibelelwano, kukuvuleka kwentliziyo okwenza ukuba ukusondela kungabikho kwenzeka ngokwasemoyeni. Ukumamela kusinceda sifumane isenzo esifanelekileyo kunye negama elibonisa ukuba singaphezulu nje kokubukela nje. Kuphela kungokuphulaphula ngentlonelo nangobubele okunjalo apho sinokuthi singene ezindleleni zokukhula kwenene kwaye sivuse ulangazelelo lwenqobo yobuKristu: umnqweno wokuphendula ngokupheleleyo kuthando lukaThixo nokuzisa oko akuhlwayeleyo ebomini bethu…. Ukufikelela kwinqanaba lokuvuthwa apho abantu banokwenza izigqibo ngokukhululekileyo kunye noxanduva kufuna ixesha elininzi kunye nomonde. Njengoko usikelelekileyo uPeter Faber wayedla ngokuthi: "Ixesha ngumthunywa kaThixo". -U-Evangelii Gaudium, n. I-171
Kodwa emva koko, ukuba umntu akazimiselanga kwenza inyani, okanye ufuna nje ukufumana amanqaku engxoxo-mpikiswano, hamba uhambe-njengoYesu. NjengamaKristu, akufuneki sinyanzele inyaniso emilonyeni yabantu. Yile nto ithethwa ngoopopu xa besithi akufuneki “ukuguqula abantu. ” Ukuba umntu akanamdla wokungcamla, kungasathethwa kangako ngeLizwi likaThixo, ke uhambe. Musa ukuphosa iiperile zakho phambi kweehagu, njengoko isitsho njalo.
Nangona kuvakala kucacile, ukuhambisana ngokomoya kufuneka kukhokele abanye basondele ngakumbi kuThixo, esifumana inkululeko yokwenene kuye. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba bakhululekile ukuba bangamnqanda uThixo; Bayasilela ukubona ukuba bahlala beziinkedama, bengenakuzinceda, bengenamakhaya. Bayayeka ukuba ngabahambi ngezonqulo kwaye baba ngabakhukulisi, bezulazula ngeenxa zonke kubo kwaye bangaze baye ndawo. Ukuhamba nabo kuya kuba yinto engenzi nto ukuba iya kuba luhlobo lonyango oluxhasa ukuzibandakanya kwabo kwaye bayeke ukuba ngabahambi noKristu kuYise. -IPOPE FRANCIS, U-Evangelii Gaudium, n. I-170
Ukuguquka kwabo yingxaki kaThixo, hayi eyakho. Inkxalabo yakho kukungaphulukani noxolo kwaye uwele kumgibe wokurhuqelwa kwislugfest. Ndithembe-ndikhe ndaya ngaphambili, kwaye kunqabile ukuba ndikhe ndimqinisekise umntu ngaloo ndlela. Endaweni yoko, ayisiyiyo le ndiyithethayo, kodwa njani Ndiyayithetha, okanye indlela endiphendula ngayo ekugqibeleni, eye yashukumisa intliziyo yomnye.
Uthando soze lwehluleka. (1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 8)
Ndingangathi "ndingabhalwanga" kuFacebook. Ndingadelelwa ngabahlobo bam kunye nosapho. Ndingahlekwa ndigculelwe ngabantu endisebenza nabo. Kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphendula ngothando, ndityala a OyiNgcwele imbewu phakathi kwabo. Isenokungahlumi kangangeminyaka okanye amashumi eminyaka. Kodwa bona ngeke khumbula ngenye imini ukuba wawunomonde kwaye unobubele, unesisa kwaye uyaxolela. Kwaye loo mbewu inokuhluma ngequbuliso, itshintshe ikhondo lobomi babo.
Mna ndatyala, uApolo wankcenkcesha, ke nguThixo owahlumisayo. (1 kwabaseKorinte 3: 6)
Kodwa kufuneka ibe yimbewu ye uthando kuba uThixo is uthando.
Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, uthando lunobubele… alukhukhumali, alunabukrwada, alunabukrwada, alufuni ezalo izilangazelelo, alukhawulezi ukukhawuleza, alunanzondo ngenxa yobubi, alunemihlali ngokwenza ububi. luvuyisana nenyaniso. Luthwala iinto zonke, lukholelwa izinto zonke, luthemba izinto zonke, lunyamezela iinto zonke. (13 Kor. 4: 5-XNUMX)
UBULUNGISELELO BAM KUWE
Emva kokucamngca, ukuthandaza, kunye nokuxoxa nomphathi wam wokomoya, ndithathe isigqibo ngeli xesha lokuba ndirhoxe kunxibelelwano lwam kwi-intanethi. Ngelixa ndikwazile ukukhuthaza nokunceda abanye abantu kuFacebook okanye kwenye indawo, ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba inokuba yindawo ebangayo, njengoko ihlala indibandakanya nabanye abantu "aboyikisayo kwiingxoxo." Oku kungaluphelisa uxolo lwam kwaye kundiphazamise kwinjongo yam ephambili, eyokushumayela iVangeli- ukungakholisi abanye ngayo. Lowo ngumsebenzi kaMoya oyiNgcwele. Kwelam icala, uThixo undibeke ndedwa kwintlango yokomoya neyokwenyama ngeli xesha ebomini bam, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba ndihlale apho-ndingathinteli mntu - kodwa ndibakhonze ngcono ngeLizwi likaThixo, ngokuchaseneyo kwezam.
Kwaye ke, ngelixa ndiza kuqhubeka nokuthumela imibhalo yam apha nakuFacebook, uTwitter, uLinkedIn, njl.ukufikelela kwimiphefumlo emininzi kangangoko ndinako, ngekhe ndibandakanyeke kwizimvo okanye imiyalezo apho. Ukuba ufuna Qhagamshelana nam, Unokwenza njalo Apha.
Ndingumntu owoyikayo. Ndinomnqweno wemvelo wokulwa kum nanini na xa ndibona okungekho sikweni. Oku kunokuba kuhle, kodwa kuya kufuneka kuncitshiswe ngothando. Ukuba, kunxibelelwano lwam buqu nawe okanye kwiiforamu zikawonke-wonke, bendikhe ndaphelelwa ngumonde, ndinekratshi, okanye andinakulunga, ndicela uxolo. Ndingumsebenzi oqhubekayo; Yonke into endiyibhalileyo apha ngasentla ndizama ukuhlala ngcono nam.
Masibe ngumqondiso wokuphikisana kweli hlabathi. Siya kuba njalo xa siba bubuso, amehlo, imilebe, ulwimi, neendlebe zikaKristu…
Nkosi, ndenze isixhobo soxolo lwakho,
Apho kukho intiyo, mandihlwayele uthando;
apho kukho ukwenzakala, xolela;
apho kukho ukuthandabuza, ukholo;
apho kukho ukuphelelwa lithemba, themba;
apho kukho ubumnyama, ukukhanya;
apho kukho usizi, uvuyo;
Owu Nkosi eyiNgcwele, ndivumele ukuba ndingangabinako ukufuna ukuthuthuzelwa;
ukuqondwa njengokuqonda;
ukuthandwa njengokuthanda.
Kuba kukupha apho sifumana khona;
kukuxolela ke kuthi sixolelwe;
Kungokufa apho sizalelwa kubomi obungunaphakade.
-Umthandazo ka-St Francis wase-Assisi
Ke ngoko, nina bapostile bathandekayo bam, nina niyakwazi ukuthanda nokuxolela, nina ningagwebiyo, mna endikhuthazayo, yibani ngumzekelo kubo bonke abangahambi kwindlela yokukhanya nothando okanye iphambukile kuyo. Ngobomi bakho babonise inyaniso. Babonise uthando kuba uthando loyisa bonke ubunzima, kwaye bonke abantwana bam banxanelwe uthando. Ubunye bakho eluthandweni sisipho kuNyana wam nakum. Kodwa, bantwana bam, khumbulani ukuba ukuthanda kukwathetha ukunqwenela okuhle kummelwane wakho kunye nokunqwenela ukuguqulwa komphefumlo wommelwane wakho. Njengokuba ndikujongile nindihlanganisile, intliziyo yam ibuhlungu, kuba ndibona uthando lobuzalwana, uthando olunenceba… -Inenekazi lethu laseMedjugorje lityhola uMirjana, nge-2 kaJuni 2018
ILizwi ngoku yinkonzo yexesha elizeleyo leyo
iyaqhubeka ngenkxaso yakho.
Usikelele, kwaye enkosi.
Ukuhamba noMark kwi The Ngoku iLizwi,
cofa kwibhena engezantsi ukuya rhuma.
I-imeyile yakho ayizokwabelwana naye nabani na.
Imihlathi
| ↑1 | wikipedia.org |
|---|---|
| ↑2 | cf. Yakobi 5:12 |