KUSONYEZA kwa kusiyanasiyana ndi anthu ndi zomwe chikhulupiriro chachikhristu chimaphunzitsa, ayi, amafuna. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza "kulekerera" tchimo. '
… [Ntchito yathu] ndikupulumutsa dziko lonse lapansi ku zoipa ndikusintha mwa Mulungu: mwa pemphero, ndi kulapa, ndi chikondi, ndipo koposa zonse, ndi chifundo. -Thomas Merton, Palibe Munthu ndi Chilumba
Ndi chikondi osati kuvala amaliseche, kutonthoza odwala, ndi kuchezera mkaidi, koma kuthandiza m'bale wake osati kukhala amaliseche, kudwala, kapena kumangidwa poyamba. Chifukwa chake, cholinga cha Tchalitchi ndikutanthauzanso zomwe zili zoyipa, kuti zisankhidwe zabwino.
Ufulu sutanthauza kuchita zomwe timakonda, koma kukhala ndi ufulu wochita zomwe timayenera. —PAPA JOHN PAUL II
