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IF munayamba mwakhalako komwe ndinabisalako kale, ndiye mudzadziwa kuti ndimakonda kuyankhula kuchokera pansi pamtima. Ndimaona kuti zimapatsa mwayi Ambuye kapena Dona Wathu kuti achite chilichonse chomwe akufuna - monga kusintha nkhani. Chabwino, lero ndi imodzi mwanthawi. Dzulo, tidaganizira za mphatso ya chipulumutso, yomwe ndi mwayi komanso kuyitanitsa kubala zipatso mu Ufumu. Monga ananena Paulo Woyera ku Aefeso…
Pakuti mwapulumutsidwa ndi chisomo chakuchita mwa chikhulupiriro, ndipo ichi sichichokera kwa inu; ndi mphatso ya Mulungu; sikuchokera kuntchito, kuti asadzitamandire munthu aliyense. Pakuti ndife ntchito ya manja ake, olengedwa mwa Khristu Yesu kuti agwire ntchito zabwino zomwe Mulungu adakonzeratu, kuti tikhalemo. (Aefeso 2: 8-9)
Monga momwe Yohane Woyera M'batizi ananenera, "Onetsani zipatso zabwino ngati umboni wa kulapa kwanu." [1]Matt 3: 8 Chifukwa chake Mulungu watipulumutsa ndendende kuti tikhale ntchito za manja ake, Kristu wina mdziko lapansi. Ndi msewu wopapatiza komanso wovuta chifukwa umafuna kukana mayesero, koma mphotho yake ndi moyo mwa Khristu. Ndipo kwa St. Paul, kunalibe chilichonse padziko lapansi chomwe chimafanizira:
Ndimaona zonse kukhala zotayika chifukwa cha ubwino waukulu wakuzindikira Khristu Yesu Ambuye wanga. Chifukwa cha iye ndavomereza kutayika kwa zinthu zonse ndipo ndimawawona ngati zinyalala, kuti ndipindule Khristu ndikupezeka mwa iye… (Afil 3: 8-9)
Ndipo ndi izi, ndikufuna kugawana nanu umboni wapamtima, ndikuyitanitsa Narrow Pilgrim Road mchaka choyamba chaukwati wanga. M'malo mwake, izi zaperekedwa munthawi yake ndemanga zotsutsana za Papa posachedwa pankhani yolera….
LIKE Ambiri omwe anali atangokwatirana kumene, ine ndi mkazi wanga Lea sitinkadziwa zambiri za chiphunzitso cha Tchalitchi cha kulera. Sanatchulidwepo pamaphunziro athu a “chinkhoswe,” kapena nthawi ina iliyonse pokonzekera ukwati. Sitinamvepo chiphunzitso kuchokera paguwa, ndipo sichinali chinthu chomwe tinaganiza zokambirana zambiri ndi makolo athu. Ndipo ngati chikumbumtima chathu anali titabwanyulidwa, tinatha kunena kuti "ndizosayenera".
Kotero tsiku lathu laukwati litayandikira, bwenzi langa linachita zomwe akazi ambiri amachita: anayamba kumwa "mapiritsi".
Pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi itatu tili m'banja, tinkawerenga buku lomwe linawulula kuti piritsi la kulera itha kukhala yoperewera. Ndiye kuti, mwana yemwe wangobadwa kumene akhoza kuwonongedwa ndi mankhwala omwe ali ndi njira zina zakulera. Tinachita mantha! Tikadakhala kuti tidathetsa mosadziwa moyo wamodzi - kapena zingapo—za ana athu omwe? Posakhalitsa tidaphunzira ziphunzitso za Tchalitchi zakulera kopangira ndipo tidasankha nthawi yomweyo kuti tidzatsatira zomwe woloŵa m'malo wa Peter akutiuza. Kupatula apo, ndinali kukhumudwitsidwa ndi Akatolika "odyera" omwe amatenga ndikusankha ziphunzitso zilizonse za Tchalitchi zomwe amatsatira, ndi zomwe sangatero. Ndipo apa ndimachita zomwezo!
Tinapita ku Confession posakhalitsa ndipo tinayamba kuphunzira za njira zachilengedwe zomwe thupi la mayi limatsimikizira kuyambika kwa kubereka kuti banja likonzekere banja lawo mwachibadwa, mkati Mulungu kapangidwe. Nthawi yotsatira tidzagwirizana monga mwamuna ndi mkazi, kunali kumasulidwa kwamphamvu kwa chisomo zomwe zinatisiya tonse kulira, kumizidwa mu kukhalapo kwakukulu kwa Ambuye komwe sitinakumaneko nako kale. Mwadzidzidzi, tinakumbukira! Aka kanali koyamba kuti tidziphatikize tokha popanda kulera; nthawi yoyamba yomwe tidadzipereka tokha, wina ndi mnzake kwathunthu, osabisala chilichonse, kuphatikiza mphamvu ndi mwayi wobereka.
KONDOMU YA UZIMU
Pali zokambirana zambiri masiku ano za momwe kulera kumatetezera kutenga mimba. Koma pamakhala zokambirana zochepa pazinthu zina zomwe zimalepheretsa-kutanthauza, mgwirizano wathunthu wa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kulera kuli ngati kondomu pamtima. Ikuti sindine womasuka kuthekera kwa moyo. Ndipo Yesu sananene kuti Iye anali njira, choonadi, ndi moyo? Nthawi zonse tikapatula kapena kuletsa moyo, timapatula ndikuletsa kupezeka kwa Yesu kudzera mu mphamvu ya Mzimu Woyera. Pachifukwa ichi chokha, njira zakulera zagawanitsa amuna ndi akazi mwakachetechete m'njira zomwe sangamvetse. Zalepheretsa umodzi wozama kwambiri wamiyoyo, chifukwa chake, kuzama kwakukulu kophatikiza ndi kuyeretsa: moyo Mwiniwake, Yesu, yemwe ali mnzake wachitatu waukwati uliwonse wa sacramenti.
Kodi ndizodabwitsa kuti kafukufuku wasayansi apeza zotsatirazi pakati pa maanja omwe samagwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera? Iwo:
- khalani ndi zotsika zochepa (0.2%) zothetsera mabanja (poyerekeza ndi 50% pagulu);
- amakhala ndi maukwati achimwemwe;
- amakhala osangalala komanso okhutira m'moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku;
- kukhala ndi maubale ochulukirapo;
- kugawana kwambiri ndi wokondedwa wanu kuposa omwe amaletsa kulera;
- kuzindikira milingo zakuya kulankhulana ndi mkazi;
(Kuti muwone zotsatira zonse za kafukufuku wa Dr. Robert Lerner, pitani ku www.phinkhomba.org)
NGATI MTENGO
Pakadutsa chaka chimodzi kuchokera pomwe tidasankha kutsatira chiphunzitso cha Tchalitchi Humanae Vitae, tinatenga mwana wathu wamkazi woyamba, Tianna. Ndikukumbukira nditakhala pagome lakhitchini ndikumuuza mkazi wanga, "Zili ngati… zili ngati ndife mtengo wa apulo. Cholinga chenicheni cha mtengo wa apulo ndikubala zipatso! Ndi zachilengedwe ndipo ndi zabwino. ” Ana pachikhalidwe chathu chamakono nthawi zambiri amawonedwa ngati zosokoneza, kapena makamaka, mafashoni ovomerezeka ngati muli ndi m'modzi yekha, kapena awiri (ena opitilira atatu amawawona ngati osasangalatsa kapena osasamala.) Koma ana ndiwokuthamanga Za chikondi cha m'banja, kukwaniritsa gawo limodzi mwofunikira lomwe Mulungu adapangira mwamuna ndi mkazi: bereka ndi kuchulukana. [2]Gen 1: 28
Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, Mulungu watidalitsadi ndi ana ena asanu ndi awiri. Tili ndi ana akazi atatu otsatiridwa ndi ana aamuna asanu (tinali ndi olera poyamba… tikusekerera). Sanakonzekere zonse - panali zodabwitsa! Ndipo nthawi zina ine ndi Lea tinkakhala othedwa nzeru pakati pa kuchotsedwa ntchito ndi kupeza ngongole zochuluka… mpaka titawagwira m'manja ndipo sitingaganize zamoyo popanda iwo. Anthu amaseka akationa tikunyamuka pagalimoto yathu kapena paulendo wabasi. Timayang'aniridwa m'malesitilanti ndikuyang'anitsitsa m'masitolo ogulitsa zakudya ("Kodi onse izi anu?? "). Tsiku lina, tikukwera njinga yabanja, wachinyamata wina anatiwona ndipo anati, “Taonani! Banja! ” Ndimaganiza kuti ndili ku China kwakanthawi.
Koma tonse a Lea ndi ine timazindikira kuti lingaliro la moyo lakhala mphatso ndi chisomo chachikulu.
CHIKONDI SICHIDALEPHEKA
Koposa zonse, ubwenzi ndi mkazi wanga kuyambira tsiku lofunika kwambiri langokula ndipo chikondi chathu chakula, ngakhale zopweteka zikukula komanso masiku ovuta omwe amabwera paubwenzi uliwonse. Ndizovuta kufotokoza, koma mukalola kuti Mulungu alowe muukwati wanu, ngakhale mutakhala pachibwenzi, nthawi zonse pamakhala chatsopano, kutsitsimuka komwe kumapangitsa kuti wina ayambirenso kukondana pamene Mzimu wa Mulungu wopanga umatsegula njira zatsopano za mgwirizano.
Yesu anati kwa atumwi, Aliyense amene akumvera iwe akumvera ine. ” [3]Luka 10: 16 Ngakhale ziphunzitso zovuta kwambiri za Mpingo nthawi zonse zimabala zipatso. Pakuti Yesu anati:
Ngati mukhala inu m'mawu anga, mudzakhaladi ophunzira anga, ndipo mudzazindikira chowonadi, ndipo chowonadi chidzakumasulani. (Yohane 8: 31-32)
CHidule ndi LEMBA
Kuyitanidwa kwa mwendamnjira ndikuyitanitsa kumvera, koma kuyitanira ku chisangalalo.
Ngati musunga malamulo anga mudzakhala m'chikondi changa; monga Ine ndasunga malamulo a Atate wanga, ndipo ndikhala m'chikondi chawo. Izi ndalankhula ndi inu, kuti chimwemwe changa chikhale mwa inu, ndikuti chimwemwe chanu chikwaniridwe. (Yohane 15: 10-11)
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