Tsiku 6: Kukhululukidwa ku Ufulu

LETANI tikuyamba tsiku latsopanoli, zoyamba zatsopano izi: M’dzina la Atate, ndi la Mwana, ndi la Mzimu Woyera, ameni.

Atate Akumwamba, zikomo chifukwa cha chikondi Chanu chopanda malire, chondichulukira pamene sindinkayenera. Zikomo pondipatsa moyo wa Mwana wanu kuti ndikhaledi ndi moyo. Idzani tsopano Mzimu Woyera, ndipo lowani mu ngodya za mdima wa mtima wanga momwe mumakumbukirabe zowawa, zowawa, ndi kusakhululuka. Walani kuunika kwa choonadi kuti ndikuwone; lankhula mawu a choonadi kuti ndimve moona, ndi kumasulidwa ku unyolo wa m’mbuyo. Ndikupempha izi mu dzina la Yesu Khristu, ameni.

Pakuti ife kale tinali opusa, osamvera, onyengedwa, akapolo a zilakolako ndi zokondweretsa zamitundumitundu, akukhala m'dumbo ndi kaduka, odana ndi ife tokha, ndi kudana wina ndi mnzake. Koma pamene kukoma mtima ndi chikondi chaulere cha Mulungu Mpulumutsi wathu chinaonekera, osati chifukwa cha ntchito zathu zonse zolungama zomwe tinazichita, koma chifukwa cha chifundo chake, anatipulumutsa ife ndi kusambitsidwa kwa kubadwanso kwatsopano ndi kukonzanso mwa Mzimu Woyera… (Tit 3:3-7) )

Tisanapite patsogolo, ndikukupemphani kuti mutseke maso anu ndikumvetsera nyimbo iyi yolembedwa ndi mnzanga wokondedwa, Jim Witter:

kukhululuka

Mickey Johnson wamng'ono anali bwenzi langa lapamtima
M’giredi yoyamba tinalumbira kuti tikhala choncho mpaka mapeto
Koma m’giredi XNUMX munthu wina anandibera njinga
Ndinamufunsa Mickey ngati akudziwa amene anachita ndipo ananama
Chifukwa anali iye…
Ndipo nditazindikira kuti idandimenya ngati toni ya njerwa
Ndipo ndimawonabe nkhope yake pamene ndinanena
“Sindikufunanso kuyankhula nawe”

Nthawi zina timatayika
Sitikunena zinthu zomwe tiyenera kunena
Timagwiritsitsa ku kunyada kwamakani
Pamene tiyenera kuziyika zonse pambali
Kutaya nthawi yomwe tapatsidwa kumawoneka ngati kopanda pake
Ndipo liwu limodzi laling'ono lisakhale lovuta kwambiri…chikhululukiro

Kakhadi kakang'ono kanafika pa tsiku la ukwati wanga
“Zokhumba zabwino kuchokera kwa bwenzi lakale” zinali zonse zomwe zinayenera kunena
Palibe adilesi yobwerera, ayi, ngakhale dzina
Koma njira yosokoneza imene inalembedwera inasiya
Anali iye…
Ndipo ndidangoseka popeza zam'mbuyo zidasefukira m'malingaliro mwanga
Ndikadatenga foni ija nthawi yomweyo
Koma sindinapeze nthawi

Nthawi zina timatayika
Sitikunena zinthu zomwe tiyenera kunena
Timagwiritsitsa ku kunyada kwamakani
Pamene tiyenera kuziyika zonse pambali
Kutaya nthawi yomwe tapatsidwa kumawoneka ngati kopanda pake
Ndipo liwu limodzi laling'ono lisakhale lovuta kwambiri…chikhululukiro

Lamlungu m'mawa pepala linafika pamayendedwe anga
Chinthu choyamba chimene ndinaŵerenga chinadzaza mtima wanga ndi chisoni
Ndinaona dzina lomwe ndinali ndisanalione kwa nthawi yayitali
Anati anasiya mkazi ndi mwana
Ndipo anali iye…
Nditadziwa misozi inangogwa ngati mvula
Chifukwa ndinazindikira kuti ndaphonya mwayi wanga
Kuti ndilankhule naye kachiwiri ...

Nthawi zina timatayika
Sitikunena zinthu zomwe tiyenera kunena
Timagwiritsitsa ku kunyada kwamakani
Pamene tiyenera kuziyika zonse pambali
Kutaya nthawi yomwe tapatsidwa kumawoneka ngati kopanda pake
Ndipo liwu limodzi laling'ono lisakhale lovuta kwambiri…chikhululukiro
Liwu limodzi laling'ono lisakhale lovuta ...

Mickey Johnson wamng'ono anali bwenzi langa lapamtima ...

—Yolembedwa ndi Jim Witter; 2002 Curb Songs (ASCAP)
Sony/ATV Music Publishing Canada (SOCAN)
Nyimbo za Baby Squared (SOCAN)
Mike Curb Music (BMI)

Tonse Takhumudwa

Tonse tavulazidwa. Tonse takhumudwitsa ena. Pali munthu m'modzi yekha amene sanalakwitse aliyense, ndipo ndi Yesu yemwenso amakhululukira aliyense machimo ake. Ndi chifukwa chake akutembenukira kwa aliyense wa ife amene tidampachika Iye ndi amene adapachika wina ndi mzake, nati:

Mukakhululukira ena zolakwa zawo, Atate wanu wakumwamba adzakukhululukiraninso inu. Koma ngati simukhululukira anzanu, Atate wanu sadzakukhululukiranso inu zolakwa zanu. (Mat 6: 14-15)

Kusakhululuka kuli ngati unyolo womangidwa pamtima panu ndi mbali ina yomangidwa ku Gahena. Kodi mukudziwa chimene chiri chochititsa chidwi ndi mawu a Yesu? Sawaletsa mwa kunena kuti, “Inde, ndikudziwa kuti mwavulazidwadi ndipo munthu winayo anali wopusa” kapena “Si bwino kukhala wowawidwa mtima chifukwa zimene zinakuchitikirani zinali zoipa kwambiri.” Anangolankhula momveka kuti:

Khululukirani ndipo mudzakhululukidwa. (Luka 6:37)

Izi sizimachepetsa mfundo yoti inu kapena ine tinapwetekedwa kwenikweni, ngakhale kupweteka koopsa. Zilonda zomwe ena atipatsa, makamaka m'zaka zathu zaunyamata, zimatha kupanga zomwe tili, kufesa mantha, ndi kupanga zolepheretsa. Akhoza kutisokoneza. Zikhoza kupangitsa mitima yathu kuumitsa kumene timapeza kukhala kovuta kuti tilandire chikondi, kapena kuchipereka, ndipo ngakhale pamenepo, chikhoza kukhala chopotoka, chodzikonda, kapena chaufupi pamene kusatetezeka kwathu kuphimba kusinthanitsa kwa chikondi chenicheni. Chifukwa cha mabala athu, makamaka zilonda za makolo, mwina mwatembenukira ku mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa kapena kugonana kuti muchepetse ululu. Pali njira zingapo zomwe zilonda zanu zakukhudzirani, ndi chifukwa chake muli pano lero: kulola Yesu kuchiritsa zomwe zidatsala kuti zichiritsidwe.

Ndipo choonadi ndi chimene chimatimasula.

Mmene Mungadziwire Pamene Simunakhululukire

Kodi ndi njira ziti zomwe kusakhululuka kumasonyezedwa? Chodziwika kwambiri ndicho kulumbira: “Nditero konse mukhululukireni.” Mochenjera kwambiri, tingasonyeze kusakhululuka mwa kuchoka kwa winayo, chimene chimatchedwa “kuzizira”; timakana kulankhula ndi munthuyo; pamene tiwawona, timayang'ana mbali ina; kapena timakhala okoma mtima mwadala kwa ena, ndiyeno n’zachionekere kukhala opanda chifundo kwa amene wativulaza.

Kusakhululuka kungasonyezedwe m’miseche, kuwatsitsa pamlingo uliwonse tikapeza mpata. Kapena timasangalala tikawaona akulephera kapena akakumana ndi zinthu zoipa. Mwinanso tingachitire zoipa achibale kapena anzawo, ngakhale kuti iwowo ndi osalakwa. Pomaliza, kusakhululuka kungabwere mwaudani ndi kuwawidwa mtima, mpaka kumatinyengerera. 

Palibe cha izi chopatsa moyo, ku tokha kapena ena. Zimatibweretsera misonkho m'maganizo. Timasiya kukhala tokha ndikukhala ochita zisudzo pafupi ndi omwe atipweteka. Timalola zochita zawo kutipangitsa kukhala zidole zakuti maganizo ndi mitima yathu nthawi zonse imakokoloka ku mtendere. Timamaliza kusewera masewera. Malingaliro athu amagwidwa ndi kukumbukira ndi zochitika zongoganizira ndi kukumana. Timapanga ndikukonzekera zochita zathu. Timakumbukira nthawi ndi zomwe tikuganiza kuti tikanachita. M'mawu amodzi, timakhala a kapolo ku kusakhululuka. Timaganiza kuti tikuwaika m’malo awo pamene, kwenikweni, tikutaya athu: malo athu amtendere, chimwemwe, ndi ufulu. 

Kotero, ife tiima tsopano kwa kamphindi. Tengani pepala lopanda kanthu (losiyana ndi zolemba zanu) ndipo pemphani Mzimu Woyera kuti akuwululireni anthu m'miyoyo yanu omwe simunawakhululukirebe. Tengani nthawi yanu, bwererani momwe mungafunire. Ikhoza kukhala chinthu chaching'ono kwambiri chomwe simunachisiye. Mulungu adzakusonyezani inu. Khalani owona mtima nokha. Ndipo musachite mantha chifukwa Mulungu amadziwa kale kuya kwa mtima wanu. Musalole mdani kukankha zinthu kubwerera mumdima. Ichi ndi chiyambi cha ufulu watsopano.

Lembani mayina awo pamene abwera m'maganizo, ndiyeno ikani pepalalo pambali kwa mphindiyo.

Kusankha Kukhululuka

Zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, mkazi wanga, wojambula zithunzi, anali kupanga logo ya kampani. Anakhala nthawi yayitali kuyesa kukhutiritsa eni ake, ndikupanga malingaliro ambiri a logo. Pamapeto pake, palibe chomwe chingamukhutiritse, choncho adayenera kuponya thaulo. Anamutumizira bili yomwe inali ndi nthawi yochepa chabe ya nthawi yomwe adayika.

Atailandira, adatenga foni ndikusiya voicemail yowopsya kwambiri yomwe mungaganizire - yonyansa, yonyansa, yonyansa - inali kunja kwa ma chart. Ndinakwiya kwambiri, ndinalowa mgalimoto yanga, ndikupita ku bizinesi yake ndikumuopseza.

Kwa milungu ingapo, bamboyu ankandivutitsa maganizo. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndiyenera kumukhululukira, choncho ndinkangonena mawuwo. Koma nthawi zonse ndikadutsa pa bizinezi yake, yomwe inali pafupi ndi malo anga antchito, ndinkamva kuwawidwa mtima komanso mkwiyo ukukula mkati mwanga. Tsiku lina, mawu a Yesu anadza m’maganizo:

Koma kwa inu amene mukumva ndikunena kuti, kondanani nawo adani anu, chitirani zabwino iwo akuda inu, dalitsani iwo akutemberera inu, pemphererani iwo akuzunza inu. ( Luka 6:27-28 )

Ndipo kotero, nthawi ina ine ndinayendetsa galimoto ndi bizinesi yake, ine ndinayamba kumupempherera iye: “Ambuye, ine ndamukhululukira munthu uyu. Ndikukupemphani kuti mumudalitse iye ndi bizinesi yake, banja lake ndi thanzi lake. Ndikupemphera kuti munyalanyaze zolakwa zake. Dzionetseni nokha kwa Iye kuti akudziweni ndi kupulumutsidwa. Ndipo ndikukuthokozani chifukwa chondikonda, pakuti inenso ndine wochimwa wosauka.”

Ndinapitiriza kuchita zimenezi mlungu ndi mlungu. Ndiyeno tsiku lina ndikudutsa galimoto, ndinadzazidwa ndi chikondi chachikulu ndi chisangalalo kwa mwamuna ameneyu, kotero kuti ndinafuna kumuyendetsa galimoto ndi kumukumbatira ndi kumuuza kuti ndimamukonda. Chinachake chomasulidwa mwa ine; tsopano anali Yesu kumukonda kupyolera mwa ine. Mlingo umene kuwawawo unalasa mtima wanga unali mlingo umene ndinayenera kuumirira kulola Mzimu Woyera kuchotsa chiphecho… mpaka nditamasulidwa.

Mmene Mungadziwire Pamene Mwakhululuka

Kukhululuka si kumverera koma kusankha. Ngati tilimbikira kusankha zimenezo, maganizo athu adzatsatira. (Chenjezo: Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhalabe mumkhalidwe wankhanza. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala chotchinga pakhomo pa vuto la wina. Ngati mukuyenera kuchoka pamikhalidwe imeneyi, makamaka pamene akukuchitirani nkhanza, teroni.)

Ndiye mumadziwa bwanji ngati mukukhululukira munthu? Mukatha kuwapempherera ndikuwafunira chisangalalo, osati kudwala. Mukapempha Mulungu moona mtima kuti akupulumutseni, osati kuwadzudzula. Pamene kukumbukira bala sikuyambitsanso kumverera komira. Mukatha kusiya kuyankhula zomwe zidachitika. Mukatha kukumbukira kukumbukira ndikuphunzirapo, osamiramo. Pamene mutha kukhala pafupi ndi munthuyo ndikukhala nokha. Mukakhala ndi mtendere.

N’zoona kuti panopa tikulimbana ndi zilondazi kuti Yesu awachiritse. Mwina simunafikebe pamalo amenewo, ndipo zili bwino. Ndi chifukwa chake muli pano. Ngati mukufuna kukuwa, kufuula, kulira, ndiye chitani. Tulukani kunkhalango, kapena gwira pilo, kapena imani pamphepete mwa mzindawo - ndipo mutuluke. Tiyenera kumva chisoni, makamaka pamene mabala athu alanda kusalakwa kwathu, kusokoneza ubale wathu, kapena kusokoneza dziko lathu. Tiyeneranso kumva chisoni, chifukwa cha momwe tapwetekera ena, koma osabwereranso ku kudzidetsa tokha (kumbukirani. tsiku 5!).

Pali mawu akuti:^[1]Izi zanenedwa molakwika ndi CS Lewis. Pali mawu ofanana ndi wolemba James Sherman m'buku lake la 1982 kukanidwa: “Simungathe kubwerera m’mbuyo ndi kukayambanso mwatsopano, koma mukhoza kuyamba pakali pano n’kupanga mathero atsopano.”

Simungathe kubwerera ndikusintha chiyambi,
koma mutha kuyamba pomwe muli ndikusintha mathero.

Ngati zonsezi zikuwoneka zovuta, ndiye funsani Yesu kuti akuthandizeni kukhululukira, Iye amene anaphunzitsa ndi chitsanzo chake:

Atate, akhululukireni, sakudziwa zomwe akuchita. (Luka 23:34)

Tsopano tengani pepala limenelo, ndipo tchulani dzina lirilonse limene munalilemba, kuti:

"Ndakhululukira (dzina) chifukwa chokhala ndi ___________. Ndimudalitsa ndi kumumasula kwa inu, Yesu.”

Ndiroleni ndifunse: Kodi Mulungu anali pa mndandanda wanu? Ifenso tiyenera kumukhululukira. Sikuti Mulungu adakulakwirani inu kapena ine; Chifuniro chake chololera chalola zinthu zonse m'moyo wanu kuti zikubweretsereni zabwino kwambiri, ngakhale simungathe kuziwona pano. Koma ifenso tiyenera kuleka mkwiyo wathu kwa Iye. Lero (May 19) ndi tsiku limene mkulu wanga anamwalira pa ngozi ya galimoto ali ndi zaka 22 zokha. Banja langa linayenera kukhululukira Mulungu ndi kuikanso chikhulupiriro chathu mwa Iye. Iye amamvetsa. Amatha kupirira mkwiyo wathu. Iye amatikonda ndipo amadziwa kuti, tsiku lina, tidzaona zinthu ndi maso ake ndipo tidzasangalala ndi njira zake, zomwe zili pamwamba pa kumvetsa kwathu. (Ichi ndi chinthu chabwino kulemba mu buku lanu ndi kufunsa mafunso kwa Mulungu, ngati izo zikukhudza inu). 

Mukadutsa mndandandawo, muuphwanye kukhala mpira ndikuuponya pamoto wanu, poyatsira moto, BBQ, kapena mphika wachitsulo kapena mbale, ndi kutentha izo. Kenako bwererani ku malo anu opatulika ndikulola kuti nyimbo ili m'munsiyi ikhale pemphero lanu lotsekera. 

Kumbukirani, simuyenera kumva kukhululukidwa, muyenera kusankha. Mu kufooka kwanu, Yesu adzakhala mphamvu yanu ngati mungopempha Iye. 

Zosatheka kwa anthu ndi zotheka kwa Mulungu. ( Luka 18:27 )

Ndikufuna Kukhala Monga Inu

Yesu, Yesu,
Yesu, Yesu
Sinthani mtima wanga
Ndipo kusintha moyo wanga
Ndipo ndisinthe zonse
Ine ndikufuna kukhala monga Inu

Yesu, Yesu,
Yesu, Yesu
Sinthani mtima wanga
Ndipo kusintha moyo wanga
O, ndi kusintha zonse za ine
Ine ndikufuna kukhala monga Inu

Chifukwa ndayesera ndipo ndayesera
ndipo ndalephera nthawi zambiri
O, mu kufooka kwanga Inu ndinu wamphamvu
Chifundo Chanu chikhale nyimbo yanga

Pakuti chisomo chanu chindikwanira
Pakuti chisomo chanu chindikwanira
Pakuti chisomo chanu chindikwanira

Yesu, Yesu,
Yesu, Yesu
Yesu, Yesu,
Sinthani mtima wanga
O, sintha moyo wanga
Ndisinthe zonse
Ine ndikufuna kukhala monga Inu
Ndikufuna kukhala ngati Inu
(Yesu)
Sinthani mtima wanga
Sinthani moyo wanga
Ndikufuna kukhala ngati Inu
Ndikufuna kukhala ngati Inu
Yesu

-Mark Mallett, wochokera Ambuye adziwe, 2005 ©

 

 

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