Tsiku 8: Zilonda Zakuya Kwambiri

WE tsopano tikuwoloka pakati pa malo athu othawirako. Mulungu sanathe, pali ntchito ina yoti achite. Wopanga Opaleshoni Yaumulungu akuyamba kufika ku malo ozama kwambiri a mabala athu, osati kutivutitsa ndi kutisokoneza, koma kutichiritsa. Zingakhale zopweteka kukumana ndi zikumbukirozi. Iyi ndi nthawi ya chipiriro; iyi ndi nthawi yoyenda mwa chikhulupiriro osati mwa kuona, kudalira njira imene Mzimu Woyera wayamba mu mtima mwanu. Wayimirira pambali panu ndi Amayi Wodala ndi abale ndi alongo anu, Oyera, onse akupembedzerani inu. Iwo ali pafupi ndi inu tsopano kuposa momwe analiri m’moyo uno, chifukwa ali ogwirizana kotheratu ku Utatu Woyera mu muyaya, amene amakhala mwa inu chifukwa cha ubatizo wanu.

Komabe, mutha kudzimva kuti ndinu nokha, ngakhale kuti munasiyidwa pamene mukuvutika kuyankha mafunso kapena kumva Ambuye akulankhula nanu. Koma monga Wamasalimo amanenera, “Ndidzapita kuti kuchokera ku Mzimu wanu? Ndithawire kuti kuchoka pamaso panu?^[1]Salmo 139: 7 Yesu analonjeza kuti: “Ine ndili pamodzi ndi inu masiku onse, kufikira chimaliziro cha nthaŵi ya pansi pano.^[2]Matt 28: 20

Chifukwa chake, popeza tazingidwa ndi mtambo waukulu wotere wa mboni, tiyeni tichotse zolemetsa zonse ndi uchimo uliwonse umene wamatimatira, ndi kulimbikira kuthamanga pa mpikisano umene uli patsogolo pathu, pamene maso athu ali pa Yesu, mtsogoleri ndi wokwaniritsa. chikhulupiriro. Cifukwa ca cimwemwe cinali pamaso pace, anapirira mtanda, nanyoza manyazi ace, nakhala pa dzanja lamanja la mpando wacifumu wa Mulungu. (Werengani Aheberi 12″ 1-2)

Chifukwa cha chisangalalo chomwe Mulungu wakusungirani, ndikofunikira kubweretsa uchimo ndi mabala athu pa Mtanda. Ndipo kotero, itanani Mzimu Woyera kachiwiri kuti abwere ndi kukulimbikitsani inu mu mphindi ino, ndi kupirira:

Bwerani Mzimu Woyera ndikudzaza mtima wanga wosatetezeka. Ndidalira chikondi chanu pa ine. Ndikudalira pamaso Panu ndi thandizo mu kufooka kwanga. Ndikutsegulirani mtima wanga kwa Inu. Ndipereka kwa Inu ululu wanga. Ndikudzipereka ndekha kwa Inu chifukwa sindingathe kudzikonza ndekha. Ndiululireni mabala anga akuya kwambiri, makamaka a m’banja langa, kuti pakhale mtendere ndi chiyanjanitso. Bweretsani chimwemwe cha chipulumutso chanu, ndi kukonzanso mzimu wolungama mwa ine. Bwerani Mzimu Woyera, mundisambitse ndi kundimasula ku zomangira zopanda thanzi ndikumasula ngati cholengedwa chanu chatsopano.

Ambuye Yesu, ndimabwera patsogolo pa Mtanda Wanu ndikugwirizanitsa mabala anga ndi Anu, chifukwa "ndi zilonda zanu tachiritsidwa." Ndikukuthokozani chifukwa cha Mtima wanu Wopatulika, wosefukira pakali pano ndi chikondi, chifundo ndi machiritso kwa ine ndi banja langa. Ndimatsegula mtima wanga kuti ndilandire machiritso awa. Yesu, ndidalira mwa Inu. 

Tsopano, pempherani kuchokera pansi pamtima ndi nyimbo yotsatirayi…

Konzani Maso Anga

Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu, Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu
Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu (bwerezani)
Ndimakukondani

Nditsogolereni ku Mtima Wanu, kwaniritsani chikhulupiriro changa mwa Inu
Ndiwonetseni Ine Njira
Njira yopita ku Mtima wanu, ndimayika chikhulupiriro changa mwa Inu
Ndikuyang'ana maso pa Inu

Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu, Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu
Ikani maso anga pa Inu
Ndimakukondani

Nditsogolereni ku Mtima Wanu, kwaniritsani chikhulupiriro changa mwa Inu
Ndiwonetseni Ine Njira
Njira yopita ku Mtima wanu, ndimayika chikhulupiriro changa mwa Inu
Ndikuyang'ana maso pa Inu

Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu, Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu
Yang'anani maso anga pa Inu (bwerezani)
Ndimakukondani, ndimakukondani

-Mark Mallett, wochokera Ndilanditseni kwa Ine, 1999 ©

Banja ndi Zilonda Zathu Zakuya Kwambiri

Ndi kudzera mu banja ndipo makamaka makolo athu kuti timaphunzira kugwirizana ndi ena, kukhulupirira, kukula m’chidaliro, ndipo koposa zonse, kupanga unansi wathu ndi Mulungu.

Koma ngati ubale wathu ndi makolo athu uli wolephereka kapena palibe, ungakhudze osati chifaniziro chathu chokha komanso cha Atate wathu wakumwamba. Ndizodabwitsa kwambiri - komanso zodetsa nkhawa - momwe makolo amakhudzira ana awo, zabwino kapena zoyipa. Ubale wa atate ndi amayi ndi mwana, pambuyo pa zonse, wapangidwa kukhala chisonyezero chowonekera cha Utatu Woyera.

Ngakhale tili m’mimba, timakanidwa ndi mzimu wathu wakhanda. Ngati mayi akakana moyo umene ukukula mwa iye, makamaka ngati izo zikupitirizabe pambuyo pa kubadwa; ngati sakanatha kukhalapo mwamaganizo kapena mwakuthupi; ngati sanayankhe kulira kwathu kaamba ka njala, chikondi, kapena kutitonthoza pamene tinamva chisalungamo cha abale athu, chomangira chosweka chimenechi chingasiye munthu kukhala wopanda chisungiko, kufunafuna chikondi, chivomerezo ndi chisungiko zimene ziyenera kuphunziridwa poyamba kuchokera kwa ife. amayi.

Momwemonso ndi bambo yemwe palibe, kapena makolo awiri ogwira ntchito. Kusokoneza uku kwa ubale wathu ndi iwo kumatha kutisiya pambuyo pake m'moyo ndi kukaikira za chikondi cha Mulungu ndi kupezeka kwake kwa ife ndikupangitsa kulephera kukhala paubwenzi ndi Iye. Nthawi zina timatha kuyang'ana chikondi chopanda malire kwina. Ndizodziwikiratu mu kafukufuku waku Denmark kuti omwe amapanga zikhumbo zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri amachokera m'nyumba za makolo osakhazikika kapena kulibe.^[3]Zotsatira zamaphunziro:

• Amuna amene amakwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri amakhala oti akuleredwa m'banja lomwe makolo awo amakhala osakhazikika, makamaka abambo awo omwe sapezeka kapena osadziwika kapena makolo osudzulidwa.

• Miyezo yaukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha idakwezedwa pakati pa azimayi omwe amwalira ndi umayi paunyamata, azimayi omwe amakhala ndi nthawi yochepa yokwatirana ndi makolo, komanso azimayi omwe amakhala nthawi yayitali atakhala limodzi ndi abambo.

• Amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ndi "abambo osadziwika" anali ndi mwayi wochepa wokwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo kuposa anzawo.

• Amuna omwe anamwalira ndi makolo adakali ana kapena achinyamata anali ndi mabanja ocheperako kusiyana ndi anzawo omwe makolo awo anali amoyo patsiku lawo lobadwa la 18. 

• Kutalika kwa nthawi yaukwati wa kholo, mwayi wakukwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ukukulira.

• Amuna omwe makolo awo adasudzula asanakwanitse zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zakubadwa anali ndi mwayi wokwanira 6% wokwatiwa ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo kuposa anzawo ochokera m'mabanja a makolo.

Malangizo: “Maubwenzi Amabanja Achinyamata Amabanja Ogonana Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha: Kafukufuku Wadziko Lonse Wamayiko Awiri A Danes,”Wolemba Morten Frisch ndi Anders Hviid; Archives of Sexual Conduct, Oct 13, 2006. Kuti muwone zonse zomwe zapezedwa, pitani ku: http://www.narth.com/docs/influencing.html

Pambuyo pake m’moyo, pokhala atalephera kupanga zomangira zabwino zamaganizo muubwana wathu, tingatseke, kutseka mitima yathu, kumanga linga, ndi kuletsa aliyense kuloŵa. Tikhoza kupanga malumbiro kwa ife tokha monga: “Sindidzalola aliyense kulowanso,” “Sindidzalola kuti ndikhale pachiopsezo, “Palibe amene adzandipwetekanso,” ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ndithudi, zimenezi zidzagwiranso ntchito kwa Mulungu. Kapena tingayese kuchepetsa zosoŵa za m’mitima yathu kapena kulephera kwathu kugwirizana kapena kudzimva kukhala aulemu mwa kuwachiritsa ndi zinthu zakuthupi, moŵa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kukumana kopanda pake, kapena maunansi odalirana. M’mawu ena, “kufunafuna chikondi m’malo onse olakwika.” Kapena tidzayesa kupeza cholinga ndi tanthauzo kudzera mu zomwe tapindula, udindo, kupambana, chuma, ndi zina zotero - chidziwitso chonyenga chomwe tidalankhula dzulo.

Atate

Koma kodi Mulungu Atate amatikonda bwanji?

Yehova ndiye wachifundo ndi wachisomo, wosakwiya msanga, ndi wachifundo chochuluka. Sadzapeza cholakwa nthawi zonse; kapena kukhalabe m’mkwiyo wake kosatha. Samatichitira monga mwa zolakwa zathu… Monga kum’mawa kuli kutali ndi kumadzulo, momwemo amatichotsera machimo athu kutali ndi ife… Akudziwa zimene tinalengedwa; akumbukira kuti ife ndife fumbi. ( Werengani Masalmo 103:8-14 .

Kodi ichi ndi chithunzi chanu cha Mulungu? Ngati sichoncho, tingakhale tikulimbana ndi "bala la abambo".

Ngati atate athu anali otalikirana ndi malingaliro, opanda chifundo, kapena kukhala ndi nthaŵi yochepa ndi ife, ndiye kuti kaŵirikaŵiri tingasonyeze izi kwa Mulungu, motero timamva kuti chirichonse chimadalira pa ife m’moyo. Kapena ngati iwo anali oumirira ndi aukali, ofulumira kukwiya ndi osuliza, osayembekezera kanthu kena kochepera kuposa ungwiro, ndiye kuti tingakule tikumalingalira kuti Mulungu Atate ndi wosakhululukira zolakwa zirizonse ndi zofooka zirizonse, ndi wokonzeka kutichitira ife mogwirizana ndi zolakwa zathu—Mulungu. kuopedwa koposa kukondedwa. Titha kukhala ndi moyo wocheperako, wopanda chidaliro, timachita mantha kuchitapo kanthu. Kapena ngati palibe chimene munachita chimene chinakhala chabwino mokwanira kwa makolo anu, kapena anasonyeza kukoma mtima kwakukulu kwa mbale wanu, kapena ngakhale kunyodola kapena kunyodola mphatso zanu ndi zoyesayesa zanu, pamenepo tingakule mopanda chisungiko, kudzimva kukhala onyansa, osafunidwa, ndi kuvutikira kupanga. maubwenzi atsopano ndi mabwenzi.

Apanso, mabala amtundu uwu akhoza kusefukira kukhala zowonera za Mulungu. Sakramenti la Chiyanjanitso, m'malo mokhala chiyambi chatsopano, limakhala chothandizira kutembenuza chilango chaumulungu - mpaka titachimwanso. Koma malingaliro amenewo samagwirizana ndi Salmo 103, sichoncho?

Mulungu ndi Atate wabwino koposa. Iye ndi tate wangwiro. Iye amakukondani inu mopanda malire, monga inu muliri.

Musandisiye, kapena kunditaya; O, Mulungu thandizo langa! Ngakhale atate ndi amayi andisiya, Yehova adzandilandira. ( Salimo 27:9-10 )

Kuchokera Kupweteka Kumachiritsa

Ndikukumbukira kuti pa parishi ina zaka zapitazo pamene ndinali kupemphera ndi anthu kuti achiritsidwe, mayi wina wa zaka pafupifupi XNUMX anabwera kwa ine. Pokhala ndi ululu m’nkhope, ananena kuti bambo ake anamuchitira nkhanza ali kamtsikana ndipo anakwiya kwambiri moti sakanatha kumukhululukira. Nthawi yomweyo, ndinakhala ndi chithunzi m'maganizo. Ine ndinati kwa iye, “Tangoganizani kamwana kakang’ono kakugona mu kabedi. Onani tsitsi lake ting'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono ta tsitsi lake tagona mwamtendere. Amenewo anali abambo anu… koma tsiku lina, wina anamuvulaza mwana ameneyo, ndipo anabwerezanso zomwezo kwa inu. Kodi mungamukhululukire?” Anagwetsa misozi, kenako ndinagwetsa misozi. Tinakumbatirana, ndipo analeka zowawa kwa zaka zambiri pamene ndinali kumupempherera kuti andikhululukire.

Sikuti tichepetse zisankho zomwe makolo athu adapanga kapena kunamizira kuti alibe udindo pazosankha zawo. Ali. Koma monga tanenera kale, “Kuzunza anthu kumavulaza anthu.” Monga makolo, kaŵirikaŵiri timalera mmene tinaleredwera. M'malo mwake, kukanika kumatha kukhala kwanthawi zonse. Katswiri wa zamatsenga Msgr. Stephen Rossetti analemba kuti:

N’zoona kuti ubatizo umayeretsa munthu ku banga la Tchimo Loyambirira. Komabe, sichichotsa zotsatira zake zonse. Mwachitsanzo, kuzunzika ndi imfa zikukhalabe m'dziko lathu lapansi chifukwa cha Tchimo Loyambirira, ngakhale pali mphamvu ya ubatizo. Ena amaphunzitsa kuti sitili olakwa chifukwa cha machimo a mibadwo yakale. Izi ndi Zow. Koma zotsatira za machimo awo zingatikhudze ndipo zingatikhudze. Mwachitsanzo, ngati makolo anga onse anali okonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, sindine wolakwa chifukwa cha machimo awo. Koma zotsatira zoipa za kukulira m’banja lokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo zikanandikhudzadi. - "Exorcist Diary #233: Generational Temberero?", Marichi 27, 2023; catholicexorcism.org

Chotero nawu Uthenga Wabwino: Yesu akhoza kuchiritsa onse za mabala awa. Sili nkhani ya kupeza munthu woti atiimbe mlandu pa zophophonya zathu, monga makolo athu, kapena kukhala mkhole. Ndikungozindikira momwe kunyalanyazidwa, kusowa chikondi chopanda malire, kudzimva kukhala wosatetezeka, kudzudzulidwa, osazindikirika, ndi zina zotero. zatipweteka komanso kukhwima maganizo ndi mgwirizano wathanzi. Awa ndi mabala omwe amafunika kuchiritsidwa ngati sitinakumane nawo. Zitha kukhala zikukukhudzani pakali pano pankhani ya banja lanu ndi moyo wabanja komanso kuthekera kwanu kokonda ndi kugwirizana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kapena ana anu, kapena kupanga ndikusunga maubwenzi abwino.

Koma mwina tavulazanso ena, kuphatikizapo ana athu, mwamuna kapena mkazi wathu, ndi zina zotero. Kumene tili nako, tingafunikenso kupempha chikhululukiro.

Chifukwa chake ngati wabweretsa mtulo wako pa guwa la nsembe, ndipo pomwepo wakumbukira kuti mbale wako ali nawe kanthu, siya mphatso yako paguwa la nsembe pomwepo, nuyambe kuyanjana ndi mbale wako, ndipo pamenepo idza nupereke mtulo wako. ( Mateyu 5:21-23 )

Sizingakhale zanzeru nthawi zonse kupempha munthu wina kuti akukhululukireni, makamaka ngati mwasiya kapena wamwalira. Ingouzani Mzimu Woyera kuti ndinu wachisoni chifukwa cha choyipa chomwe mwayambitsa ndikupereka mwayi woyanjanitsa ngati nkotheka, ndikubweza (kulapa) mwa kuvomereza.

Chofunikira mu Kubwerera Kwamachiritsochi ndikuti mubweretse zonse mabala awa amtima wako m'kuwala kuti Yesu awayeretse m’mwazi wake wamtengo wapatali.

Ngati tiyenda m’kuunika monga Iye ali m’kuunika, ndiye kuti tiyanjana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo mwazi wa Mwana wake Yesu utisambitsa kutichotsera uchimo wonse. ( 1 Yohane 5:7 )

Yesu wabwera “kudzalalikira uthenga wabwino kwa osauka . . .
ndi kupeŵanso kuona kwa akhungu, kumasula otsenderezedwa amuke; kuwapatsa korona m’malo mwa phulusa, mafuta achikondwerero m’malo mwa maliro, chofunda cha matamando m’malo mwa mzimu wolefuka.” ( Luka 4:18 ) 61:3). Kodi mukumukhulupirira Iye? Kodi mukufuna izi?

Kenako muzolemba zanu…

• Lembani zinthu zabwino zimene mumakumbukira muubwana wanu, kaya zikhale zotani. Zikomo Mulungu chifukwa cha zikumbukiro zamtengo wapatali izi ndi mphindi.
• Funsani Mzimu Woyera kuti akuwululireni zokumbukira zilizonse zomwe zimafunikira machiritso. Bweretsani makolo anu ndi banja lanu lonse pamaso pa Yesu, ndipo mukhululukire aliyense wa iwo pa njira ina iliyonse imene anakukhumudwitsani inu, kukukhumudwitsani, kapena kulephera kukukondani monga kufunikira.
• Pemphani Yesu kuti akukhululukireni panjira ina iliyonse imene simunakonde, kulemekeza, kapena kutumikira makolo anu ndi achibale anu monga munayenera kuchitira. Pemphani Yehova kuti awadalitse ndi kuwakhudza ndi kubweretsa kuwala ndi machiritso pakati panu.
• Lapani zowinda zilizonse zimene munapanga, monga “Sindidzalola aliyense kuyandikira kuti andipweteketse” kapena “Palibe amene adzandikonde” kapena “Ndikufuna kufa” kapena “Sindidzachiritsidwa,” ndi zina zotero. Pemphani Mzimu Woyera kuti amasule mtima wanu ku chikondi, ndi kukondedwa.

Pomaliza, yerekezani kuti mwaima pamaso pa Mtanda wa Khristu wopachikidwa ndi banja lanu lonse, ndipo pemphani Yesu kuti chifundo chisefukire pa membala aliyense, ndikuchiritsa banja lanu pamene mukupemphera ndi nyimbo iyi…

Chifundo Ayende

Ndiyimirira pano, Ndiwe mwana wanga, mwana wanga mmodzi yekha
Iwo wakukhomerera iwe mu khuni ili
Ndikanakusungani ngati ndingathe… 

Koma Mercy akuyenera kuyenda, ndisiye
Chikondi chanu chiyenera kuyenda, chiyenera kukhala chomwecho

Ine ndikukugwirani Inu, wopanda moyo ndipo mukadali
Chifuniro cha Atate
Komabe manja awa - O ndikudziwa atero
Pamene Inu mwawuka

Ndipo Chifundo chidzayenda, ndiyenera kusiya
Chikondi chanu chidzayenda, ziyenera kukhala chomwecho

Apa ndaima, Yesu wanga, tambasulani dzanja Lanu…
Chifundo ayende, ndithandizeni kundisiya
Chikondi chanu chiyenera kuyenda, ndikukufunani Ambuye
Chifundo ayende, ndithandizeni kundisiya
Ndikufuna Inu Ambuye, ndikukufunani Ambuye

-Mark Mallett, Kudzera Pamaso Ake, 2004©

 

Kuti muyende ndi Mark in The Tsopano Mawu,
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