Joseph wanga, Wolemba Tianna (Mallett) Williams
KUKHALA KWA ST. YOSEFE
BANJA LA MTSIKANA WODALITSIDWA MARIYA
AS bambo wachichepere, ndinawerenga nkhani yozizira zaka zambiri zapitazo yomwe sindinaiwale konse:
Taganizirani za miyoyo ya amuna awiri. Mmodzi wa iwo, a Max Jukes, amakhala ku New York. Sanakhulupirire Khristu kapena amaphunzitsa ana ake Chikhristu. Anakana kutengera ana awo kutchalitchi, ngakhale atawapempha kuti azipita kutchalitchi. Anali ndi mbadwa 1026 — 300 mwa iwo anatumizidwa kundende kwa zaka pafupifupi 13, ena 190 anali mahule pagulu, ndipo 680 anali zidakwa. Achibale ake adawononga boma kupitilira $ 420,000 — mpaka pano — ndipo sanaperekepo chilichonse chothandizira anthu.
Jonathan Edwards amakhala m'boma lomwelo nthawi yomweyo. Iye ankakonda Ambuye ndipo ankawona kuti ana ake anali kutchalitchi Lamlungu lililonse. Adatumikira Ambuye mwakukhoza kwake. Mwa mbadwa zake 929, 430 anali nduna, 86 adakhala aprofesa aku yunivesite, 13 adakhala mapurezidenti aku yunivesite, 75 adalemba mabuku abwino, 7 adasankhidwa ku US Congress, ndipo m'modzi adakhala Wachiwiri kwa Purezidenti wa United States. Banja lake silinatenge ndalama kuboma limodzi, koma adathandizira kwambiri.
Dzifunseni… ngati banja langa linayamba nane, ndi zipatso zotani zomwe zingabereke zaka 200 kuchokera pano? -Bukhu Laling'ono La Kudzipereka Kwa Abambo (Lemekezani Mabuku), p. 91
Ngakhale chikhalidwe chathu chimayesetsa kuthetsa umuna ndi kuthetsa abambo, malingaliro a Mulungu pa banja la anthu sadzalephereka, ngakhale "banja" likadutsa pamavuto akulu. Pali zachilengedwe komanso zauzimu zomwe zikugwira ntchito zomwe sizinganyalanyazidwe kuposa lamulo la mphamvu yokoka. Sikuti udindo wa amuna ndi okhawo osati Zosatha, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuposa kale. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ana anu amuna ndi akazi ali kuyang'anira inu. Mkazi wanu ali kuyembekezera zanu. Ndipo dziko liri kuyembekeza zanu. Kodi onse akuyang'ana chiyani?
Real amuna.
AMUNA OONA
Mawu awiriwa amatenga zithunzi zambiri, ndipo ambiri a iwo amalephera: zamphamvu, zamphamvu, zolimba mtima, 
otsimikiza mtima, opanda mantha, ndi zina zambiri. Ndipo mudzawona pakati pa achinyamata masiku ano chithunzi cholakwika kwambiri cha "mwamuna weniweni": wokongola, waluso, wokhala ndi zoseweretsa zazikulu, kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "f", abwino, okonda kutchuka, ndi zina zambiri. M'malo mwake, ngakhale magulu ambiri achikhristu achita zambiri kuthandiza abambo kuti akhale amuna, pangakhale chiyeso chogwiritsa ntchito khamulo kukhala wankhondo, msirikali wachikhristu, wopitilira muyeso padziko lapansi. Ngakhale kuteteza moyo ndi chowonadi ndizabwino, izi nazonso zimasowa umuna weniweni.
M'malo mwake, Yesu akuwululira pachimake paunyamata pausiku wa Chikhumbo Chake:
Adadzuka mgonero ndikuvula malaya ake akunja. Anatenga chopukutira nachimanga mchiuno mwake. Kenako anatsanulira madzi m'beseni ndi kuyamba kusambitsa mapazi a ophunzira ndi kuwapukuta ndi chopukutira mchiwuno mwake .. Kotero pamene anasambitsa mapazi awo ndi kubvalanso zovala zawo nakhala pansi patebulo, anati kwa iwo , "...Chifukwa chake, ngati ine mbuye ndi mphunzitsi, ndasambitsa mapazi anu, muyenera kusambitsana mapazi. Ndakupatsani chitsanzo choti muzitsatira, kuti momwemonso ndakuchitirani, inunso muzichita. ” (Yohane 13: 4-15)
Poyamba, zithunzizi zingawoneke ngati zotsogola, ngakhale zonyansa. Zidamutulutsa Peter. Koma ngati mulidi 
yambani kukhala moyo womwe Yesu adatsanzira, ndiye kuti mwazindikira msanga mphamvu yakuda ndi kufunitsitsa kofunikira kutero gonani moyo wa munthu…. Kuyika zida zanu kuti musinthe thewera. Kutseka kompyuta kuti muwerengere ana anu nkhani. Kuyimitsa masewerawa kuti mukonze matepi osweka. Kupatula ntchito yanu kuti mupange saladi. Kuti mukhale otseka pakamwa mukakwiya. Kutulutsa zinyalala osapemphedwa. Kuwombera chisanu kapena kutchetcha kapinga popanda kudandaula. Kupepesa mutadziwa kuti mwalakwitsa. Osatemberera mukakhumudwa. Kuthandiza ndi mbale. Kukhala odekha komanso okhululuka pomwe mkazi wanu satero. Kupita ku Confession kawirikawiri. Ndipo ndikugwadira ndikupatula nthawi ndi Ambuye tsiku lililonse.
Yesu adafotokozera chithunzi cha a kwenikweni munthu kamodzi kwatha:
Mukudziwa kuti iwo omwe amadziwika kuti ndi olamulira amitundu amawapondereza, ndipo akulu awo amachititsa kuti ulamuliro wawo pa iwo umveke. Koma sikudzakhala chomwecho kwa inu ayi. M'malo mwake, aliyense amene akufuna kukhala wamkulu mwa inu adzakhala mtumiki wanu; (Mateyu 10: 42-43)
Ndipo kenako adagona pamtanda ndikukuferani.
Nayi chinsinsi cha chifukwa Chake moyo zantchito sizinali zakukhala ngati chopondera chopendekera:
Palibe amene andichotsera [moyo wanga], koma ndiutaya ndekha. Ndili nayo mphamvu yakuutaya, ndi mphamvu yakuutenganso. (Juwau 10:18)
Yesu sanakakamizidwe kutumikira: Adasankha kukhala kapolo kuwulula chikondi chenicheni.
Ngakhale anali mmaonekedwe a Mulungu, sanawone kufanana ndi Mulungu ngati chinthu chofunikira kumvetsetsa. M'malo mwake, adadzikhuthula yekha, natenga mawonekedwe a kapolo… (Afil 2: 8-9)
Ngakhale mutakhala wansembe wanyumba yanu komanso mutu wa mkazi wanu, tsatirani kudzichepetsa wa Yesu. Khala wopanda kanthu, ndipo upezeka; khala kapolo, ndipo udzakhala munthu; perekani moyo wanu chifukwa cha ena, ndipo mudzaupezanso, monga kuyenera kukhalira: konzanso m'chifanizo cha Mulungu.
Popeza chifanizo Chake chikuwonetsanso a bambo weniweni.
EPILOGUE
Ngakhale tilibe mawu olembedwa a St. Joseph mu Lemba, pali nthawi yofunika kwambiri m'moyo wake pomwe adakhala munthu weniweni. Tsiku lomwe adalota maloto ake - pomwe adadziwa kuti Mary ali ndi pakati.
Mngelo adawonekera kwa iye m'kulota ndikuwulula njira yake yamtsogolo: kupereka moyo wake chifukwa cha mkazi wake ndi Mwana wake. Zinatanthauza kusintha kwakukulu pamalingaliro. Zinatanthauza kunyazitsidwa kwina. Zinatanthauza kudalira kwathunthu Mulungu 
Kupereka.
Yosefe atadzuka, anachita monga mngelo wa Ambuye anamulamulira ndipo anatenga mkazi wake napita naye kwawo. (Mat. 1:24)
Ngati mukufuna kukhala mwamuna weniweni, osangotsanzira Yesu komanso tengani Mariya kunyumba kwanu, ndiye kuti yanu mtima. Mulole amayi ake akuphunzitseni, akuphunzitseni, ndipo akutsogolereni panjira yolumikizana ndi Mulungu. St. Joseph adatero. Yesu anatero. Chomwechonso St.
“Taona mayi ako.” Ndipo kuyambira ola lomweli wophunzirayo adapita naye kunyumba kwake. (Juwau 19:27)
Dzipatule wekha kwa Mkazi uyu, monga adachitira, ndipo athandizadi kuti mukhale munthu wa Mulungu. Kupatula apo, ngati adamuwona kuti ndi woyenera kulera Mwana wa Mulungu, ndiyedi woyeneradi kwa ifenso anyamata.
St. Joseph… Yohane Woyera… Mariya, Amayi a Mulungu, mutipempherere ife.
YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA
Wansembe M'nyumba Yanga Yomwe - Gawo I & Part II
Ngati mungafune kuthandiza zosowa za banja lathu,
dinani batani pansipa ndikuphatikizira mawuwo
"Kwa banja" mu gawo la ndemanga.
Akudalitseni ndikukuthokozani!
Kuti muyende ndi Mark in The Tsopano Mawu,
dinani pachikwangwani pansipa kuti Tumizani.
Imelo yanu sidzagawidwa ndi aliyense.
