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KUSINTHA ndi choyipa, sichoncho? Koma, moona, timasalirana tsiku ndi tsiku…

Tsiku lina ndinali wofulumira ndipo ndinapeza malo oimikapo magalimoto pafupi ndi positi ofesi. Ndili pamzere pamzere wanga, ndinawona chikwangwani cholembedwa kuti, "Kwa amayi apakati okha." Anandisankha kuchokera pamalo oyenera kuti ndisakhale ndi pakati. Pomwe ndimayendetsa galimotoyo, ndidakumana ndi tsankho lamitundumitundu. Ngakhale ndimayendetsa bwino, ndinakakamizika kuyima pamphambano, ngakhale panalibe galimoto. Ngakhale mwachangu sindinathamangitse, ngakhale msewu waukulu unali omveka.   

Ndikagwira ntchito pa TV, ndikukumbukira kuti ndinapempha kuti ndikhale mtolankhani. Koma wopanga pulogalamuyo anandiuza kuti akufuna wamkazi, makamaka munthu wolumala, ngakhale amadziwa kuti ndinali woyenera kugwira ntchitoyi.  

Ndipo palinso makolo omwe samalola mwana wawo kupita kunyumba ya wachinyamata wina chifukwa amadziwa kuti zingakhale zoyipa kwambiri. ^[1]“Kuyanjana ndi anthu oipa kumawononga makhalidwe abwino.” 1 Akorinto 15:33 Pali malo osangalalirako omwe sangalole ana okhala ndi kutalika kwina kuti akwere; malo ochitira zisudzo omwe sangakulole kuti uzisungabe foni yam'manja nthawi yawonetsero; madokotala omwe sangakuloleze kuyendetsa galimoto ukalamba kwambiri kapena kuona kwako kuli kovuta kwambiri; mabanki omwe sangakubwerekeni ngati ngongole yanu ili yosauka, ngakhale mutayendetsa bwino ndalama zanu; ma eyapoti omwe amakukakamizani kudzera pama scan osiyana ndi ena; maboma omwe amakukakamizani kuti mupereke misonkho pamwamba pa ndalama zina; ndi opanga malamulo omwe amakuletsani inu kuba pamene mwaphwanyidwa, kapena kupha mukakwiya.

Chifukwa chake mukuwona, timasankhana wina ndi mnzake tsiku lililonse kuti titeteze zabwino za onse, kupindulitsa omwe salemekezedwa, kulemekeza ulemu wa ena, kuteteza chinsinsi ndi katundu, komanso kusunga bata. Kusankhana konseku kumachitika ndikudziyang'anira pawokha komanso kwa ena. Koma, mpaka pano zaposachedwa, zoyeserera zamakhalidwezi sizinabwere kuchokera kuzinthu zopanda pake kapena malingaliro chabe….

 

LAMULO LABWINO

Kuyambira pachiyambi cha chilengedwe, munthu wakhala akuyesa zochitika zake, mochuluka kapena pang'ono, pa machitidwe a malamulo ochokera ku "lamulo lachilengedwe", malinga ndi momwe adatsatirira kuunika kwa kulingalira. Lamuloli limatchedwa "lachilengedwe," osati kutengera chilengedwe cha zopanda nzeru, koma chifukwa cha chifukwa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale za umunthu:

Nanga malamulowa adalembedwa kuti, ngati sizili m'buku la kuwunikako komwe timatcha chowonadi?… Lamulo lachilengedwe sichina koma kuunika kwakumvetsetsa komwe tidapatsidwa ndi Mulungu; kudzera mu izi timadziwa zomwe tiyenera kuchita komanso zomwe tiyenera kupewa. Mulungu wapereka kuwala uku kapena lamulo polenga. —St. Athanas Achinas, Dis. Præc. I; Katekisma wa Mpingo wa Katolika, N. 1955

Koma kuwerako kumvetsetsa kumatha kuphimbidwa ndi tchimo: kusilira, kusilira, mkwiyo, kuwawa, kutchuka, ndi zina zotero. Mwakutero, munthu wakugwa nthawi zonse ayenera kufunafuna kuwunika kwakumwambaku komwe Mulungu adalemba mu mtima wa munthu mwa kugonjeranso ku "chikhalidwe choyambirira chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kuzindikira mwa kuzindikira chabwino ndi choipa, chowonadi ndi bodza. ” ^[2]CCC, N. 1954 

Ndipo uwu ndi udindo woyamba wa Chibvumbulutso Chauzimu, choperekedwa kudzera mwa aneneri, kupitilira mwa makolo akale, kuwululidwa kwathunthu m'moyo, m'mawu, ndi ntchito za Yesu Khristu, ndikupatsidwa Mpingo. Kotero, cholinga cha Tchalitchi, mwanjira ina, ndikupereka…

… Chisomo ndi vumbulutso zowona za chikhalidwe ndi zachipembedzo zitha kudziwika "ndi aliyense wokhazikika, motsimikiza osadodometsa kulakwitsa." —Pius XII, Humani wamkulu: DS 3876; onani. Ndi Filipo 2: DS 3005; CCC, N. 1960

 

MITANDA YA PAKATI

Pamsonkhano waposachedwa ku Alberta, Canada, Bishopu Wamkulu Richard Smith adanena izi, ngakhale kupita patsogolo, kukongola, ndi ufulu zomwe dzikolo lakhala nazo pakadali pano, zafika "pamphambano". Zowonadi, anthu onse ayima pamphambano iyi "tsunami wosintha," monga ananenera. ^[3]cf. Tsunami Yamakhalidwe ndi Tsunami Yauzimu "Kutanthauziranso ukwati," kuyambitsa "kuyerekezera amuna kapena akazi", "euthanasia" ndi zina zomwe adanenetsa pomwe lamulo lachilengedwe likunyalanyazidwa ndikusokonezedwa. Monga Roman Orator wotchuka, Marcus Tullius Cicero, ananenera:

… Pali lamulo loona: chifukwa chabwino. Zimagwirizana ndi chilengedwe, ndizofalikira pakati pa anthu onse, ndipo sizisintha komanso ndizamuyaya; malamulo ake amayitanitsa ntchito; Zoletsa zake sizimakhumudwitsanso ena ... Kusinthanitsa ndi lamulo losagwirizana ndikutonza; kulephera kugwiritsa ntchito ngakhale gawo limodzi lamalamulo ake ndikoletsedwa; palibe amene angachotseretu kwathunthu. -Kupeleka. III, 22,33; CCC, N. 1956

Pamene Mpingo ukukweza mawu ake kunena kuti izi kapena zochita ndi zosayenera kapena zosagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe chathu, akupanga tsankho basi ozikika mu malamulo achilengedwe komanso amakhalidwe abwino. Iye akunena kuti kutengeka kapena kulingalira kwa munthu payekha sikungayitane "zabwino" zomwe zimatsutsana ndi zomwe lamulo lachilengedwe limapereka ngati chitsogozo chosalephera.

"Tsunami wosintha" womwe ukufalikira padziko lonse lapansi ukukhudzana ndi maziko a kukhalapo kwathu: ukwati, kugonana, ndi ulemu wamunthu. Ukwati, Mpingo umaphunzitsa, ungathe okha kutanthauziridwa ngati mgwirizano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi makamaka chifukwa cha kulingalira kwaumunthu, kozikika muzochitika za chilengedwe ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, akutiuza choncho, monganso Lemba. 

Kodi simunawerenge kuti kuyambira pachiyambi Mlengi 'adawapanga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi' nati, 'Pa chifukwa ichi mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake nadzaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake, ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi'? (Mat. 19: 4-5)

Zowonadi, ngati mungatenge maselo amunthu aliyense ndikuwayika pa maikulosikopu - kutali ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, mphamvu ya makolo, luso laukadaulo, kuphunzitsidwa, ndi maphunziro amtundu wa anthu - mupeza kuti ali ndi ma chromosomes XY okha ngati ali ma chromosomes achimuna, kapena XX ngati ali achikazi. Sayansi ndi Lemba zimatsimikizirana-fides et chiŵerengero. 

Chifukwa chake opanga malamulo, ndi oweruza omwe ali ndi mlandu wokomera malamulo, sangateteze lamulo lachilengedwe pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro odziyimira pawokha kapena malingaliro ambiri. 

… Malamulo aboma sangatsutse zifukwa zomveka popanda kutaya chikumbumtima chawo. Lamulo lirilonse lopangidwa ndi anthu ndilovomerezeka malinga ndi momwe likugwilizirana ndi lamulo lachilengedwe, lozindikiridwa ndi chifukwa chomveka, ndikulemekeza ufulu wosasunthika wa munthu aliyense. -Zoganizira Pamaganizidwe Opereka Mwalamulo Kuzindikiritsa Mgwirizano Pakati pa Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha; 6.

Papa Francis akufotokozera mwachidule chomwe chimayambitsa vutoli. 

Kuphatikizana kwa amuna ndi akazi, msonkhano wa chilengedwe chaumulungu, ukufunsidwa ndi omwe amatchedwa malingaliro azikhalidwe, mdzina la anthu omasuka komanso achilungamo. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi si kutsutsana kapena kugonjera, koma kwa zachiyanjano ndi m'badwo, nthawi zonse "m'chifanizo ndi chikhalidwe" cha Mulungu. Popanda kudzipereka nokha, palibe amene angamvetse mnzake mozama. Sakramenti la Chikwati ndi chizindikiro cha chikondi cha Mulungu pa umunthu komanso pakupereka kwa Khristu yekha kwa Mkwatibwi wake, Mpingo. —POPA FRANCIS, amalankhula ndi Mabishopu aku Puerto Rico, Mzinda wa Vatican, pa June 08, 2015

Koma tayenda modabwitsa kuti tikangopanga kuchokera ku "mpweya woipa" malamulo aboma omwe amatsutsana ndi zifukwa zomveka, koma amatero m'dzina la "ufulu" komanso "kulolerana." Koma monga momwe John Paul II anachenjezera:

Ufulu si kuthekera kochita chilichonse chomwe tikufuna, nthawi iliyonse yomwe tafuna. M'malo mwake, ufulu ndi kuthekera kokhala moyo mosamala chowonadi cha ubale wathu ndi Mulungu komanso wina ndi mnzake. —POPA JOHN PAUL II, St. Louis, 1999

Chodabwitsa ndichakuti iwo omwe akuti palibe zolakwika akupanga Mtheradi mapeto; iwo omwe amati malamulo amakhalidwe abwino omwe Tchalitchi chimapereka ndi achikale, akupanga makhalidwe abwino chiweruzo, ngati sichikhalidwe chatsopano. Ndi oweruza azandale komanso andale kuti akakamize malingaliro awo ...

… Chipembedzo chopanda tanthauzo, choyipa chikupangidwa kukhala chankhanza chomwe aliyense ayenera kutsatira. Umenewo ndiye ukuwoneka ngati ufulu-chifukwa chokhacho chomwe chimamasulidwa ku zomwe zidachitika kale. —PAPA BENEDICT XVI, Kuwala Kwa Dziko, Kuyankhulana ndi Peter Seewald, p. 52

 

KUDZIPEREKA KWENIWENI

Zomwe zili ndi udindo, zomwe zili zabwino, zomwe ndi zolondola, sizomwe zimakhalira. Zimachokera kumgwirizano womwe umatsogoleredwa ndi kuwala kwa kulingalira ndi Kuwululidwa Kwaumulungu: lamulo lachilengedwe. Pa Julayi 4, pomwe anzanga aku America akukondwerera Tsiku la Ufulu, pali "ufulu wina" wodziyimira pa ola lino. Ndi kudziyimira pawokha popanda Mulungu, chipembedzo, komanso ulamuliro. Ndikupandukira kulingalira, kulingalira, ndi chifukwa chenicheni. Ndipo ndi izi, zotsatirapo zoyipa zikupitilirabe patsogolo pathu-koma popanda anthu omwe akuwoneka kuti akuzindikira kulumikizana pakati pa ziwirizi. 

Pokhapokha ngati pakhale mgwirizano pazinthu zofunika, pomwe malamulo azigwira ntchito. Mgwirizano wofunikirawu womwe tachokera ku cholowa chachikhristu uli pachiwopsezo… Kunena zowona, izi zimapangitsa kukhala osazindikira zomwe zili zofunika. Kukana kadamsana aka kaganizidwe ndikusunga kuthekera kwake kowona zofunikira, powona Mulungu ndi munthu, powona chabwino ndi chowonadi, ndichisangalalo chomwe chimafunikira kuti chigwirizanitse anthu onse okhala ndi chifuniro chabwino. Tsogolo lenileni la dziko lapansi lili pachiwopsezo. —POPE BENEDICT XVI, Kulankhula ku Roman Curia, Disembala 20, 2010

Pamene adakumana ndi mabishopu aku America mu Malonda a Limina paulendo wake mu 2012, Papa Benedict XVI anachenjeza za “kudzikonda kokhwima” komwe sikuti kumangotsutsana ndi "ziphunzitso zoyambirira za miyambo ya Chiyuda ndi Chikhristu, koma (kumatsutsana) ndi chikhristu." Adatinso Tchalitchichi "munthawi yake komanso munthawi yake" kupitiliza "kulengeza Uthenga Wabwino womwe umangopereka mfundo zosasinthika za chikhalidwe koma umawuneneranso kuti ndiye chinsinsi cha chisangalalo cha anthu ndi chitukuko cha anthu." ^[4]PAPA BENEDICT XVI, Kulankhula kwa Mabishopu aku United States of America, Ad Limina, Januware 19, 2012; v Vatican.va  

Abale ndi alongo, musachite mantha kukhala wolengeza uyu. Ngakhale dziko likuwopseza ufulu wanu wolankhula ndi wachipembedzo; ngakhale atakutchulani kuti ndinu osalolera, odana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, komanso odana nanu; ngakhale atawopseza moyo wanu… musaiwale kuti chowonadi sichimangounikira kokha, koma ndi Munthu. Yesu anati, “Ine ndine choonadi.” ^[5]John 14: 6 Monga momwe nyimbo zilili chilankhulidwe chokha chomwe chimaposa chikhalidwe, momwemonso, lamulo lachilengedwe ndi chilankhulo chomwe chimalowa mumtima ndi m'malingaliro, kuyitanira munthu aliyense ku "lamulo lachikondi" lomwe limayang'anira chilengedwe. Mukamalankhula zoona, mukulankhula "Yesu" pakati pa winayo. Khalani ndi chikhulupiriro. Chitani gawo lanu, ndipo mulole Mulungu achite Zake. Pamapeto pake, Choonadi chidzagonjetsa…

Izi ndalankhula ndi inu kuti mukhale ndi mtendere mwa Ine. Mdziko lapansi mudzakhala ndi mavuto, koma limbani mtima, ine ndaligonjetsa dziko. (Yoh 16: 33)

Ndi miyambo yake yayitali yolemekeza ubale woyenera pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi kulingalira, Mpingo uli ndi gawo lalikulu pothana ndi miyambo yomwe, chifukwa chodzikonda kwambiri, ikufuna kulimbikitsa malingaliro a ufulu wopatukana ndi chowonadi chamakhalidwe. Chikhalidwe chathu sichimayankhula kuchokera pakukhulupirira mwakachetechete, koma kuchokera pamalingaliro anzeru omwe amalumikizitsa kudzipereka kwathu pakukhazikitsa gulu loona mtima, labwino komanso lotukuka kutsimikizika kwathu kwakuti chilengedwe chili ndi malingaliro amkati ofikiridwa ndi kulingalira kwaumunthu. Chitetezo cha Tchalitchi pamalingaliro amakhalidwe abwino potengera malamulo achilengedwe chimakhazikika pakukhulupirira kwake kuti lamuloli silowopseza ufulu wathu, koma ndi "chilankhulo" chomwe chimatipangitsa kumvetsetsa tokha ndi chowonadi cha kukhalako kwathu, motero pangani dziko lolungama komanso labwino. Chifukwa chake akupereka malingaliro ake amakhalidwe abwino ngati uthenga osati wokakamiza koma wamasulidwe, komanso monga maziko omangira tsogolo labwino. —POPE BENEDICT XVI, Kulankhula kwa Aepiskopi a United States of America, Ad Limina, Januware 19, 2012; v Vatican.va

 

YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA

Pa Ukwati wa Gay

Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu

Kutha kwa Chifukwa

Tsunami Yamakhalidwe

Tsunami Yauzimu

 

  
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