Kuyankhula

 

IN kuyankha nkhani yanga Podzudzula Atsogoleri, wowerenga wina adafunsa:

Kodi tiyenera kukhala chete pakakhala zopanda chilungamo? Amuna ndi akazi abwino achipembedzo ndi anthu wamba akakhala chete, ndimakhulupirira kuti ndiwachimo kuposa zomwe zikuchitika. Kubisala kumbuyo kwachipembedzo chonyenga ndiko kutsetsereka. Ndimaona kuti ambiri mu Mpingo amayesetsa kukhala oyera mwa kungokhala chete, chifukwa choopa zomwe anganene. Ndikadakhala wolankhula ndikusowa chidziwi podziwa kuti pakhoza kukhala mwayi wabwino wosintha. Kuopa kwanga pazomwe mudalemba, osati kuti mulimbikitsa anthu kuti azikhala chete, koma kwa iwo omwe mwina anali okonzeka kuyankhula bwino kapena ayi, akhala chete chifukwa choopa kuphonya kapena tchimo. Ndikunena kuti mutuluke ndikubwerera kukalapa ngati mukuyenera… ndikudziwa kuti mungafune kuti onse akhale ogwirizana koma…

 

M'NYENGO NDI KUTULUKA… 

Pali mfundo zabwino zambiri pamwambapa… koma zina zomwe ndi zabodza. 

Palibe kukayika kuti ndizovulaza pomwe akhristu, makamaka atsogoleri achipembedzo omwe apatsidwa udindo wophunzitsa chikhulupiriro, amakhala chete chifukwa chamantha kapena kuwopa kukhumudwitsidwa. Monga ndanenera posachedwa mu Yendani ndi Mpingo, kusowa kwa katekisisi, kukhazikika kwamakhalidwe, kulingalira mozama ndi zikhalidwe zofunikira pachikhalidwe chakumadzulo kwa Katolika zikukula mutu wawo wosagwira ntchito. Monga Bishopu Wamkulu Charles Chaput waku Philadelphia iyemwini adati:

… Palibe njira yosavuta yonena. Mpingo ku United States wagwira ntchito yovuta yopanga chikhulupiriro ndi chikumbumtima cha Akatolika kwa zaka zoposa 40. Ndipo tsopano tikukolola zotsatira zake - pabwalo la anthu, m'mabanja mwathu komanso mchisokonezo cha miyoyo yathu. -Bishopu Wamkulu Charles J. Chaput, OFM Cap., Kupereka Kwa Kaisara: Ntchito Zandale Zachikatolika, February 23, 2009, Toronto, Canada

M'mawu omwewo, akuwonjezera kuti:

Ndikuganiza kuti moyo wamasiku ano, kuphatikiza moyo wa mu Tchalitchi, umakhala ndi vuto lonyalanyaza kukhumudwitsa zomwe zimawoneka ngati nzeru komanso mayendedwe abwino, koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala zamantha. Anthu amafunika kulemekezana ndi ulemu woyenera. Tiyeneranso kukhala ndi ngongole ya choonadi kwa wina ndi mnzake — zomwe zikutanthauza kunena zoona. -Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, OFM Cap., "Kupereka Kwa Kaisara: Ntchito Zandale Zachikatolika", February 23rd, 2009, Toronto, Canada

Mwanjira ina, ife Akhristu ayenela thandizani choonadi ndikulengeza uthenga wabwino:

… Lalikira mawu, khala wofulumira nyengo yake ndi nyengo yake, tsimikizira, dzudzula, limbikitsa, osaleza mtima ndi chiphunzitso. (2 Timoteo 4: 2)

Taonani mawu akuti “kuleza mtima.” Inde, m'kalata yomweyi yopita kwa Timoteo, Woyera Paulo akuti ...

… Wantchito wa Ambuye sayenera kukhala wokonda kukangana koma wokoma mtima kwa aliyense, mphunzitsi waluso, woleza, wolangiza otsutsana naye modekha. (2 Tim 2: 24-25)

Ndikuganiza zomwe zikunenedwa pano ndizodziwikiratu. Paulo sakulimbikitsa kukhala chete kapena kuti "aliyense azikhala bwino ndikukhala abwino." Chimene akulimbikitsa ndikuti Uthenga Wabwino-ndikuwongolera omwe samatsatira-zichitike nthawi zonse potsanzira Khristu. Njira yofatsa iyi imaphatikizaponso momwe timaonera atsogoleri athu, kaya ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo kapena aboma. 

Akumbutseni kuti azimvera olamulira ndi olamulira, kuti akhale omvera, okonzeka kugwira ntchito iliyonse yoona mtima, osalankhula zoipa za wina aliyense, kupewa mikangano, kukhala odekha, komanso kukhala ndi ulemu kwa anthu onse. (Tito 3: 2)

 

KULANKHULA MOKWANIRA

Funso linali, kodi tiyenera kukhala chete tikamachita zopanda chilungamo? Funso langa mwachangu ndi, mukutanthauza chiyani? Ngati "kuyankhula" mukutanthauza, mwachitsanzo, kupita pazanema ndikudziwitsa anthu, izi zingakhale zoyenera. Ngati zikutanthawuza kuteteza wina yemwe akusowa chitetezo chathu, mwina inde. Ngati zimatanthauza kuwonjezera mawu athu kwa ena kuti tipewe kupanda chilungamo, mwina inde. Ngati zikutanthauza kuyankhula pomwe ena sangatero (koma akuyenera), mwina inde. Malingana ngati zonse zichitike malinga ndi chikondi, chifukwa monga akhristu, ndife omwe tili!

Chikondi chikhala choleza mtima ndi chokoma mtima ... sichidziwa kudzitamanda, sichichita mwano… sichikwiya kapena kuipidwa; sichikondwera ndi chinyengo, koma chikondwera ndi chabwino. (1 Akorinto 13: 4-6)

Komabe, ngati zikutanthauza kupita pawailesi yakanema kapena mabwalo ena ndikuukira munthu wina m'njira yomwe imaphwanya ulemu wawo, ndiye kupanda ulemu, etc. Munthu sangateteze Chikhristu kwinaku akuchita zinthu zosayenera zachikhristu. Ndizotsutsana. Malemba ndiwonekeratu kuti munthu sangangotuluka "ndikuchimwa kenako ndikubwerera ndikalapa ngati mukuyenera," monga wowerenga anga akunenera. Munthu sangathetse chisalungamo china ndi mnzake.

Kuphatikiza pa zomwe Katekisimu akunena popewa kunyoza, kunyoza komanso kuweruza ena, ^[1]onani Podzudzula Atsogoleri chiphunzitso chake chogwiritsa ntchito njira yolumikizirana ndichachidziwikire:

Kugwiritsa ntchito bwino ufuluwu [kulumikizana, makamaka ndi atolankhani] kumafuna kuti zonse zomwe zimayankhulidwazo zikhale zowona ndipo, malinga ndi malire a chilungamo ndi zachifundo, zikhale kwathunthu. Komanso, iyenera kufotokozedwa moona mtima ndi moyenera… malamulo amakhalidwe abwino ndi ufulu ndi ulemu wa munthu ziyenera kukwezedwa. Ndikofunikira kuti mamembala onse zachitukuko zimakwaniritsa zofuna za chilungamo ndi zachifundo mdera lino. -Katekisma wa Mpingo wa Katolika, n. 2494-2495

Palinso kufunika kwa "mkati" motsutsana ndi "gulu lakunja." Pakachitika zopanda chilungamo, ziyenera kuchitidwa pagulu la anthu wamba kapena "mkati" ngati kuli kotheka. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina akukuvulazani, kungakhale kulakwa kulowa pa Facebook ("gulu lakunja") ndikumuukira. M'malo mwake, iyenera kuchitidwa payekha ("m'bwalo lamkati"). Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito pakakhala zovuta m'banja lathu la parishi kapena dayosizi. Wina ayenera kulankhula ndi wansembe kapena bishopu wake asanatengere nkhani ku bwalo lakunja (ngati chilungamo chimafuna kuti atero). Ndipo ngakhale zili choncho, wina angachite izi bola ngati "malamulo amakhalidwe abwino ndi ufulu ndi ulemu" wa winayo ukulemekezedwa.

 

OSATI GULU 

Pali malingaliro ochulukirachulukira poyang'anizana ndi zoyipa zakugwiriridwa kapena zotsutsana ndi apapa mu Mpingo zomwe nthawi zambiri zimaphwanya chilungamo choyambirira ndi zachifundo; zomwe zimadutsa malo amkati kapena zimapereka chifundo ndikuchotsa wina kutali ndi kutsanzira kwa Khristu yemwe nthawi zonse amafuna chipulumutso cha ochimwa akulu kwambiri. Osatengeka ndi nkhanza, kuyitanira mayina kapena kufuna kubwezera. Mbali inayi, konse mantha kukhala wolimba mtima, kutsutsa ena mwachikondi kapena kulowa chete ndi liwu la chowonadi, kuwonetsa nthawi zonse “Ulemu wonse kwa anthu onse.”

Pakuti aliyense wofuna kupulumutsa moyo wake adzautaya; ndipo amene adzataya moyo wake chifukwa cha Ine, ndi chifukwa cha Uthenga Wabwino adzaupulumutsa… iye amene achita manyazi chifukwa cha Ine, ndi mawu anga mu m'badwo uno wachigololo ndi wochimwa, Mwana wa munthu adzachitanso manyazi chifukwa cha iyeyu, pakufika mu ulemerero wake. Atate ndi angelo oyera. (Maliko 8:35, 38)

Zowona, nthawi zina imakhala mzere wabwino pomwe timalankhula komanso pomwe sitiyenera. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timafunikira mphatso zisanu ndi ziwiri za Mzimu Woyera kuposa kale m'masiku athu, makamaka Nzeru, Kumvetsetsa, Kuluntha, ndi Kuopa Ambuye. 

Ine, ndiye wamndende wa Ambuye, ndikupemphani kuti mukhale ndi moyo woyenera mayitanidwe amene mudalandira, ndi kudzichepetsa konse, ndi chifatso, ndi chipiriro, kulolerana wina ndi mnzake, mwa chikondi; kuyesetsa kusunga umodzi wa Mzimu chomangira cha mtendere: thupi limodzi ndi Mzimu umodzi, monga munaitanidwanso ku chiyembekezo chimodzi cha mayitanidwe anu. (Aefeso 4: 1-5)

 

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