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CHOONADI CHOLIMBIKITSA - GAWO II
 

 

N'CHIFUKWA CHIYANI? Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani Tchalitchi cha Katolika chitha kutsutsana ndi chikondi?

Limenelo ndi funso lomwe anthu ambiri amafunsa pankhani yoletsa Tchalitchi kuletsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anthu awiri amafuna kukwatira chifukwa amakondana. Kulekeranji?

Mpingo wayankha momveka bwino, pogwiritsa ntchito zifukwa zomveka komanso zomveka zozikika mu malamulo achilengedwe, Lemba Lopatulika, ndi Chikhalidwe m'malemba awiri achidule: Zoganizira Pamaganizidwe Opereka Mwalamulo Kuzindikiritsa Mgwirizano Pakati pa Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha ndi Kalata Yopita Kwa Aepiskopi Atchalitchi cha Katolika Yokhudza Kusamalira Abusa Kwa Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha

Mpingo wayankha momveka bwino komanso molimba monga umachitira pamene umanena kuti chigololo ndi cholakwika monga momwe amakhalira asanakwatirane, kuba, kapena miseche. Koma Papa Benedict (yemwe adasaina zikalata zonse ziwiri) adafotokoza mfundo yofunika yomwe ikuwoneka kuti yaiwalika:

Nthawi zambiri umboni wotsutsana ndi zikhalidwe za Tchalitchi umamveka molakwika ngati chinthu chammbuyo m'mbuyomu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kutsindika Uthenga Wabwino, uthenga wopatsa moyo komanso wopatsa moyo wa Uthenga Wabwino (cf. Jn 10: 10). Ngakhale ndikofunikira kunena motsutsana ndi zoyipa zomwe zikuwopseza ife, tiyenera kukonza lingaliro loti Chikatolika ndi "chabe chopinga".  -Kulankhula kwa Aepiskopi aku Ireland; MZINDA WA VATICAN, OCT. 29, 2006

 

MAYI NDI MPHUNZITSI

Titha kumvetsetsa udindo wa Mpingo ngati “mayi ndi mphunzitsi” mu utsogoleri wa Khristu:  Anabwera kudzatipulumutsa ku machimo athu. Yesu anabwera kudzatimasula ku ukapolo ndi ukapolo zomwe zimaononga ulemu ndi kuthekera kwa munthu aliyense wopangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu.

Zowonadi, Yesu amakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ogonana padziko lapansi. Amakonda munthu aliyense "wowongoka". Amakonda wachigololo aliyense, wachiwerewere, wakuba, ndi miseche. Koma alengeza kwa munthu aliyense, "Lapani, chifukwa ufumu wakumwamba wayandikira" (Mat. 4:17). "Lapani" pazolakwika kuti mulandire "ufumu wakumwamba". Mbali ziwiri ku Ndalama ya Choonadi.

Kwa wachigololo amene wagwidwa wamanja, Yesu, powona gulu la anthu ofiira akuponya miyala ndikuchokapo anati, “Inenso sindikukutsutsa…”. Ndiye kuti, 

Mulungu sanatume Mwana wake kudziko lapansi kuti adzaweruze dziko lapansi, koma kuti dziko lapansi lipulumutsidwe kudzera mwa Iye. (Juwau 3:17) 

Kapenanso monga momwe Papa Francis ananenera, "Ndine yani kuti ndiweruze?" Ayi, Yesu amalowetsa m'badwo wa Chifundo. Koma Chifundo amafunanso kumasula, motero amalankhula zowona. Kotero Khristu akuti kwa iye, "Pita usakachimwenso."

"... amene sakhulupirira aweruzidwa kale."

Amatikonda, motero, Iye akufuna kutimasula ndi kutichiritsa ife ku chinyengo ndi zotsatira za uchimo.

… Cholinga chake sichinali chongotsimikizira dziko lapansi kuti ndi ladziko ndikukhalanso mnzake, kusiya osasinthiratu. -POPE BENEDICT XVI, Freiburg im Breisgau, Germany, Seputembala 25, 2011; www.chiesa.com

Chifukwa chake, Mpingo ukalengeza malire a malamulo ndi malire pazomwe anthu akuchita, sikuti akupondereza ufulu wathu. M'malo mwake, akupitilizabe kuloza zodikirira ndi zikwangwani zomwe zimatitsogolera mosamala koona ufulu. 

Ufulu si kuthekera kochita chilichonse chomwe tikufuna, nthawi iliyonse yomwe tafuna. M'malo mwake, ufulu ndi kuthekera kokhala moyo mosamala chowonadi cha ubale wathu ndi Mulungu komanso wina ndi mnzake.  —POPA JOHN PAUL II, St. Louis, 1999

Ndi chifukwa cha chikondi cha Tchalitchi kwa munthu amene akulimbana ndi chilakolako chake chogonana kotero kuti amalankhula momveka bwino za kuopsa kotsatira zomwe amachita mosemphana ndi lamulo lachilengedwe. Amamuyitana munthuyo kuti alowe mu moyo wa Khristu amene ali "chowonadi chomwe chimatimasula." Akulozera Njira yomwe Khristu mwini adatipatsa, ndiye kuti, kumvera ku mapangidwe a Mulungu — msewu wopapatiza womwe umatsogolera ku chisangalalo cha moyo wosatha. Ndipo monga mayi amachenjeza kuti "mphotho yake ya uchimo ndi imfa," koma osayiwala kufuula ndi chisangalalo kumapeto kwa Lemba ili:

… Koma mphatso yaulere ya Mulungu ndiyo moyo wosatha wa mwa Kristu Yesu Ambuye wathu. ” (Aroma 6:23)

 

CHOONADI MCHIKONDI

Chifukwa chake, tiyenera kukhala omveka, tikunena zowona mwachikondi: Mpingo sukutanthauza kuti mawu oti "ukwati" atha kukhala a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha; akunena izi mgwirizano wa aliyense Kusankhana pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumakhala "kosokonekera". 

Malamulo aboma akupanga mfundo za moyo wamunthu mgulu la anthu, zabwino kapena zoyipa. Iwo "amatenga gawo lofunikira kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina amatenga gawo pofunikira pakukopa malingaliro ndi machitidwe". Makhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zimafotokozedwazi sizimangotengera mawonekedwe amtundu wa anthu, komanso zimasintha malingaliro a achinyamata komanso kuwunika kwamakhalidwe. Kuvomereza mwalamulo maukwati ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumaphimba mfundo zina zoyambira ndikupangitsa kutsika kwa ukwati. -Zoganizira Pamaganizidwe Opereka Mwalamulo Kuzindikiritsa Mgwirizano Pakati pa Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha; 6.

Sindiwo lamulo lopanda chifundo, koma ndi mawu a Khristu akuti "Lapani, chifukwa ufumu wakumwamba wayandikira." Mpingo umazindikira kulimbana, koma sukuchepetsa mankhwalawa:

… Abambo ndi amai omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha "akuyenera kuvomerezedwa ndi ulemu, chifundo ndi chidwi. Zizindikiro zilizonse zosankhana zopanda chilungamo ziyenera kupewedwa. ” Amayitanidwa, monga akhristu ena, kuti azikhala odzisunga. Mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "wosokonezeka kwenikweni" ndipo mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "machimo oipitsitsa otsutsana ndi kudzisunga."  — Ayi. 4

Momwemonso chigololo, dama, kuba, ndi miseche machimo akulu. Mwamuna wokwatira yemwe amakondana ndi mkazi wa mnzake chifukwa "zikuwoneka ngati zolondola" nawonso sangathe kutsatira zomwe amakonda, ngakhale atakhala olimba motani. Chifukwa cha zochita zake (ndiye), ndiye kuti zikutsutsana ndi lamulo la chikondi lomwe limawamanga m'malumbiro awo oyamba. Chikondi, pano, osakhala wachikondi, koma mphatso yakudzipereka kwa enawo "mpaka kumapeto".

Khristu akufuna kutimasula ku malingaliro omwe ali ndi zosokonekera-kaya ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

 

KUDZIYERETSA NDI KWA ONSE

Tchalitchi sichiitanira anthu osakwatira okha, atsogoleri achipembedzo, achipembedzo, kapena onse omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zogonana. aliyense Mwamuna ndi mkazi akuyitanidwa kuti akhale odzisunga, ngakhale okwatirana. Zikutheka bwanji, mwina mungafunse !?

Yankho lake lagona pachikhalidwe chenicheni cha chikondi, ndipo ndiko perekani, osati kulandira. Monga ndidalemba Umboni Wapamtima, zakulera sizomwe Mulungu amafuna kuti anthu okwatirana azikondana pa zifukwa zingapo — zomwe ndi zofunika kwambiri kuti banja likhale labwino. Chifukwa chake, munthu akalowa m'banja, sizongokhala "zaulere kwa onse" pankhani yakugonana. Mwamuna ayenera kutero lemekezani mikhalidwe yachilengedwe ya thupi la mkazi wake, yomwe imadutsa "nyengo" mwezi uliwonse, komanso "nyengo zakumverera" zake. Monga momwe minda kapena mitengo yazipatso "imapumulira" nthawi yozizira, palinso nthawi yomwe thupi la mayi limadutsanso. Palinso nyengo zomwe amakhala wobereka, ndipo awiriwo, pokhala otseguka ku moyo, amatha kusala nthawi ngati izi kuti akonzekere banja lawo motere mwachikondi ndi kuwolowa manja kwa ana ndi moyo. [1]cf. Humanae Vitae, N. 16 Nthawi ya kudzisunga muukwati nthawi imeneyo, mwamuna ndi mkazi amalimbikitsana ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake zomwe zimakhazikika pa moyo wosiyana ndi chikhalidwe chokhudzana ndi maliseche chomwe tikukhalamo.

Mpingo ndiye woyamba kuyamika ndikuyamikira kugwiritsa ntchito luntha laumunthu pantchito yomwe cholengedwa chanzeru monga munthu chimagwirizana kwambiri ndi Mlengi wake. Koma akutsimikiza kuti izi ziyenera kuchitika mkati mwa dongosolo la zenizeni zomwe zakhazikitsidwa ndi Mulungu. —PAPA PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, n. Zamgululi

Chifukwa chake, masomphenya a Tchalitchi pankhani zogonana ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi momwe dziko limagwirira ntchito. Masomphenya achikatolika amaganizira za lonse munthu, wauzimu ndi wathupi; imazindikira kukongola ndi mphamvu zenizeni zakugonana pamiyeso yake yoberekera komanso yosagwirizana; ndipo chomaliza, ndi masomphenya omwe amaphatikiza kugonana kukhala kopindulitsa onse, podziwa kuti zoyipa zomwe zimachitika mchipinda chogona zimakhudzanso anthu ambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kutsimikizika kwa thupi kumangowonedwa ngati "chinthu" chimenecho amagwiritsa, zimakhudza momwe timakhalira ndi kulumikizana ndi ena m'magulu ena, mwauzimu komanso mwamaganizidwe. Mwachiwonekere lero, zaka makumi ambiri zotchedwa "zachikazi" sizinathandize kwenikweni kupeza ulemu ndi ulemu womwe uli wa mkazi aliyense. M'malo mwake, chikhalidwe chathu cholaula chanyazitsa amuna ndi akazi mpaka kufika poti anthu okhala mu Roma wachikunja achite manyazi. Papa Paul VI anachenjeza, kuti, njira zakulera zingayambitse kusakhulupirika komanso kunyoza kugonana kwaumunthu. Anati, mwaulosi, kuti ngati njira zakulera zalandiridwa…

… Momwe mchitidwewu ungatsegulire mosavuta njira yakusakhulupirika kwa mbanja ndi kutsika kwa miyezo yamakhalidwe abwino. Palibe chidziwitso chambiri chofunikira kuti chikwaniritse bwino kudziwa kufooka kwaumunthu ndikumvetsetsa kuti anthu-makamaka makamaka achinyamata, omwe ali pachiyeso chachikulu-amafunikira zolimbikitsira kusunga malamulo amakhalidwe abwino, ndipo ndichinthu choyipa kuwapangitsa kukhala osavuta kuphwanya lamuloli. Choyambitsa china chomwe chimayambitsa mantha ndikuti munthu yemwe wazolowera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zolerera akhoza kuyiwala ulemu womwe umaperekedwa chifukwa cha mkazi, ndikunyalanyaza kufanana kwake kwakanthawi kathupi, kumamuchepetsa kuti akhale chida chongokomera iye zokhumba zake, osamuganiziranso ngati mnzake yemwe ayenera kumuzungulira ndi chisamaliro komanso chikondi. —PAPA PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, n. Zamgululi

Komabe, chikhalidwe choterechi masiku ano chimawoneka kuti ndi chopondereza komanso chosalekerera, ngakhale chikamalankhulidwa mofatsa ndi mwachikondi.

Pali phokoso lalikulu kwambiri lotsutsana ndi mawu a Mpingo, ndipo izi zawonjezekedwa ndi njira zamakono zolankhulirana. Koma sizodabwitsa ku Tchalitchi kuti iye, mosafanana ndi amene anayambitsa Mulungu, ayenera kukhala "chizindikiro chotsutsana." … Sikungakhale koyenera kuti iye anene zololedwa mwalamulo zomwe ndizosaloledwa, chifukwa, mwakutero, nthawi zonse zimatsutsana ndi zabwino zenizeni za munthu.  —PAPA PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, n. Zamgululi


EPILOGUE

Pomwe izi zidalembedwa koyamba (Disembala, 2006), bungwe yaku Canada, lomwe likupitilizabe kutsogolera Kumadzulo poyesa mayanjano, linali ndi mwayi wosintha lingaliro lomwe lidasinthiratu ukwati mchaka chatha. Komabe, "lamulo" latsopanoli lilipobe. Tsoka ilo, chifukwa likukhudzana ndi tsogolo la anthu, lomwe John Paul II adati "limadutsa m'banja." Ndipo kwa iye amene ali ndi maso openya ndi makutu akumva, iyenso ayenera kuchita naye ufulu wolankhula, ndi tsogolo la Chikhristu ku Canada ndi mayiko ena omwe akusiya lamulo lachilengedwe (onani Chizunzo! … Tsunami Yamakhalidwe.)

Chenjezo ndi chilimbikitso cha Papa Benedict ku Canada zitha kutumizidwa kudziko lililonse lomwe likayesa mosasamala za maziko amtsogolo…

Canada ili ndi mbiri yabwino yodzipeleka mowolowa manja ndikudzipereka kuchitira chilungamo ndi mtendere ... Nthawi yomweyo, komabe, zina mwazinthu zomwe zachotsedwa pamakhalidwe ndi tanthauzo lonse lopezeka mwa Khristu zasintha munjira zosokoneza kwambiri. M'dzina la 'kulolerana' dziko lanu lidayenera kupirira zopusa za kutanthauziranso kwa okwatirana, ndipo mdzina la 'ufulu wosankha' likukumana ndi chiwonongeko cha tsiku ndi tsiku cha ana omwe sanabadwe. Dongosolo laumulungu la Mlengi likanyalanyazidwa choonadi cha umunthu chimasochera.

Ma dichotomies abodza sadziwika m'gulu lachikhristu. Zimavulaza makamaka atsogoleri achipembedzo achikhristu akapereka umodzi wachikhulupiriro ndikuvomereza kusokonekera kwa malingaliro ndi mfundo zamakhalidwe achilengedwe, potengera mayendedwe akanthawi kochepa komanso zofuna zabodza zovota. Demokarase imangopambana pokhapokha ngati yakhazikitsidwa pachowonadi komanso kumvetsetsa kwamunthu kwa munthu… Pokambirana ndi andale komanso atsogoleri azachikhalidwe ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muwonetse kuti chikhulupiriro chathu chachikhristu, chomwe sichimalepheretsa kukambirana, ndi mlatho makamaka chifukwa chimabweretsa kulingalira ndi chikhalidwe.  —PAPA BENEDICT XVI, Kulankhula kwa Aepiskopi waku Ontario, Canada, Ulendo wa "Ad Limina", Seputembara 8, Vatican City

 

Idasindikizidwa koyamba pa Disembala 1, 2006.

 

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1 cf. Humanae Vitae, N. 16
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