Mkuntho Wachigawo

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NGATI yakhala ndale zapadziko lonse lapansi, kampeni yapampando wapurezidenti waku America, kapena ubale wapabanja, tikukhala munthawi yomwe magawano akukhala owala kwambiri, owopsa komanso owawa. M'malo mwake, tikalumikizidwa kwambiri ndi malo ochezera, pomwe timagawanika kwambiri timakhala ngati Facebook, mabwalo, ndi magawo amomwe timakhalira nsanja momwe tinganyozere mnzake - ngakhale abale ake ... ngakhale papa wake. Ndikulandira makalata ochokera padziko lonse lapansi omwe akumva chisoni chifukwa cha magawano owopsa omwe ambiri akukumana nawo, makamaka m'mabanja awo. Ndipo tsopano tikuwona kusakhulupirika komanso mwina komwe kunanenedweratu "Makadinala otsutsana ndi makadinala, mabishopu olimbana ndi mabishopu" monga kunanenedweratu ndi Dona Wathu wa Akita mu 1973.

Funso, ndiye, ndi momwe mungadzibwerere nokha, ndipo mwachiyembekezo banja lanu, kupyola Mkuntho Wachigawo?

LANDIRANI LOTI LA CHIKHRISTU

Atangolankhula kumene Purezidenti Donald Trump, Purezidenti Donald Trump, wolemba nkhani adadzifunsa ngati zomwe mtsogoleri watsopanoyu amatchula "Mulungu" ndizoyesera kugwirizanitsa dziko lonse pansi pa chikwangwani chimodzi. Zowonadi, mapemphero otsegulira oyambira ndi madalitso nawonso mobwerezabwereza komanso mosapeputsa adayitanitsa dzina la Yesu. Unali umboni wamphamvu ku gawo la maziko aku America zomwe zimawoneka ngati zayiwalika. Koma Yesu yemweyo anati:

Musaganize kuti ndinabweretsa mtendere pa dziko lapansi; Sindinabwere kudzabweretsa mtendere, koma lupanga. Pakuti ndabwera kudzagawanitsa munthu ndi atate wake, ndi mwana wamkazi ndi amake, ndi mkazi wokwatiwa kutsutsana ndi apongozi ake; ndipo adani a munthu adzakhala a m'nyumba yake. (Mat. 10: 34-36)

Mawu achinsinsi awa amatha kumveka potengera mawu ena a Khristu:

Chiweruziro chake ndi ichi, kuti kuwalako kudadza ku dziko lapansi, koma anthu adakonda mdima koposa kuwunika, chifukwa ntchito zawo zidali zoyipa. Pakuti yense wakuchita zoipa adana nako kuunika, ndipo sakudza kwa kuunikako, kuti ntchito zake zisawonekere… Anandida Ine popanda chifukwa ... chifukwa simuli a dziko lapansi, ndipo Ine ndinakusankhani inu mwa dziko lapansi. , dziko likudana nanu. (Juwau 3: 19-20; 15:25; 19)

Chowonadi, monga chawululidwa mwa Khristu, sichimangomasula kokha, komanso chimatsutsa, kukwiyitsa, ndi kuthamangitsa iwo omwe chikumbumtima chawo chidakwiya kapena omwe amakana mfundo za Uthenga Wabwino. Chinthu choyamba ndi kuvomereza chowonadi ichi, kuti inunso adzakanidwa ngati mutadziyanjanitsa ndi Khristu. Ngati simungavomereze, ndiye kuti simungakhale Mkhristu, chifukwa Yesu anati,

Ngati wina adza kwa Ine, wosadana nawo atate wake ndi amake ndi mkazi wake, ndi ana, ndi abale, ndi alongo ake, inde, inde ngakhale moyo wake womwe, sakhoza kukhala wophunzira wanga. (Luka 14:26)

Ndiye kuti, ngati wina aswa chowonadi kuti alandiridwe ndikuvomerezedwa - ngakhale ndi banja lake lomwe - waika fano lakudzilemekeza ndi mbiri yawo pamwamba pa Mulungu. Mwandimva mobwerezabwereza ndikunena za John Paul II yemwe adati, "Tsopano tikukumana ndi kulimbana komaliza pakati pa Tchalitchi ndi otsutsana ndi tchalitchi, ndi zina zambiri". Ndikukhulupirira kuti tiwona magawano osapeweka pakati pa mdima ndi kuwunika kukulira miyezi ndi zaka zomwe zikubwera. Chofunikira ndikuti mukhale okonzekera izi, ndikuyankha monga Yesu adachitira:

… Kondanani ndi adani anu, chitirani zabwino iwo amene akudana nanu, dalitsani iwo omwe akutemberera inu, pemphererani iwo amene akukuzunzani. (Luka 6: 27-28)

CHIWERUZO: MBEWU ZA KUGawikana

Njira imodzi yobisalira yomwe Satana akugwiritsa ntchito masiku ano ndikubzala ziweruzo m'mitima mwathu. Ndikupatseni chitsanzo…

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, ndinamva kuti anthu ambiri akundikana kuchokera mbali zonse — chimodzi chabe mwa zovuta zomwe ndinkachita pochita utumikiwu. Komabe, ndinasiya mtima wanga osatetezedwa, ndipo munthawi yakudzimvera chisoni, ndinaloleza chigamulo kuti chikhale mumtima mwanga: kuti mkazi wanga ndi ana anga komanso ndikane. M'masiku ndi miyezi yotsatira, ndidayamba kunena mochenjera ndikuwapangira zinthu, ndikuyika mawu pakamwa pawo, izo zikusonyeza kuti iwo samandikonda kapena kundilandira. Izi zinawadabwitsa komanso kuwasokoneza… koma kenako, ndikukhulupirira iwonso anayamba kundidalira ngati mwamuna ndi bambo. Tsiku lina, mkazi wanga anandiuza china chake chomwe chinali chochokera kwa Mzimu Woyera: “Maliko, lekani kulola kuti ena akubwezereni m'chifaniziro chawo, kaya ndi ine kapena ana anu kapena wina aliyense.”Inali mphindi yodzala ndi chisomo pamene Mulungu adayamba kuvumbula bodza. Ndidapempha chikhululukiro, ndinasiya mabodza omwe ndimakhulupirira, ndikuyamba kulola Mzimu Woyera kundibwezeretsanso m'chifanizo cha Mulungu - Wake yekha.

Ndimakumbukira nthawi ina pamene ndinali kupereka konsati kwa gulu laling'ono. Mwamuna wokhala ndi scowl pankhope yake adakhala madzulo osamvera ndipo, scowling. Ndikukumbukira ndikuganiza mumtima mwanga, "Chavuta ndi chiyani ndi munthu ameneyu? Wouma mtima bwanji! ” Koma konsatiyo itatha, adadza kwa ine ndikundithokoza, mwachidziwikire kuti adakhudzidwa ndi Ambuye. Mnyamata, kodi ndinali kulakwitsa.

Ndi kangati pomwe timawerenga zonena za wina kapena zochita zake kapena maimelo ake taganizirani akuganiza kapena akunena zina zomwe sali? Nthawi zina mnzanu amachoka, kapena wina amene amakukomeretsani mwadzidzidzi amakunyalanyazani kapena samakuyankhani msanga. Nthawi zambiri sizikugwirizana ndi inu, koma ndi china chake chomwe akukumana nacho. Nthawi zambiri, zimapezeka kuti enanso amakhala osatetezeka ngati inu. M'magulu athu okakamira, tifunika kupeŵa kudumphira kumapeto ndipo m'malo mongoganiza zoyipa kwambiri, kuganiza zabwino kwambiri.

Khalani oyamba kufalitsa ziweruzozi. Nazi njira zisanu momwe…

I. Kunyalanyaza zolakwa za wina.

Ndizosapeweka kuti ngakhale anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene omwe amakondana kwambiri pamapeto pake amakumana ndi zolakwa za anzawo. Chimodzimodzinso ndi anzathu amene timagona nawo m'chipinda chimodzi, anzathu akusukulu, kapena anzathu ogwira nawo ntchito. Khalani ndi nthawi yokwanira ndi munthu wina, ndipo mukutsimikiza kuti mudzapusitsidwa m'njira yolakwika. Izi ndichifukwa onse a ife tiri pansi pa chikhalidwe chakugwa cha umunthu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake Yesu anati:

Khalani achifundo, monga Atate wanu ali wachifundo. Musaweruze, ndipo inunso simudzaweruzidwa; musatsutse, ndipo inunso simudzatsutsidwa… (Luka 6:37)

Pali Lemba laling'ono lomwe ndimakumbutsa ana anga nthawi zonse mukakhala ndi mikangano yaying'ono, makamaka, nthawi iliyonse yomwe takhala okonzeka kulakwitsa zolakwa za ena: "munyamulirane zothodwetsa. ”

Abale, ngatinso munthu agwidwa nako kulakwa kwakuthupi, inu auzimu mum'langize iye modekha, ndi kudzipenyerera wekha, kuti mungayesedwe. Nyamuliranani zothodwetsa, kuti mukwaniritse chilamulo cha Khristu. (Agal. 6: 1-2)

Nthawi zonse ndikawona zolakwa za ena, ndimayesetsa kudzikumbutsa msanga kuti sikuti ndangolephera mofananamo, komanso kuti ndili ndi zolakwa zanga ndipo ndikadali wochimwa. Nthawi imeneyo, m'malo mongodzudzula, ndimasankha kupemphera, "Ambuye, ndikhululukireni, chifukwa ndine munthu wochimwa. Ndichitireni chifundo ndi m'bale wanga. ” Mwa njira iyi, akutero Paulo Woyera, tikukwaniritsa lamulo la Khristu, lomwe ndilo kukondana wina ndi mnzake monga Iye adatikonda ife.

Ndi kangati pomwe Ambuye amatikhululukira ndi kunyalanyaza zolakwa zathu?

Aliyense asamaganizire zofuna zake zokha, komanso zofuna za ena. (Afil 2: 4)

II. Khululukirani, mobwerezabwereza

M'ndime yochokera kwa Luka, Yesu akupitiliza kuti:

Khululukirani ndipo mudzakhululukidwa. (Luka 6:37)

Pali nyimbo yotchuka pomwe nyimbo zimapita:

Ndizomvetsa chisoni, zachisoni kwambiri
Chifukwa chiyani sitingakambirane?
O zikuwoneka kwa ine
Pepani likuwoneka ngati lovuta kwambiri.
—Elton John, “Pepani Zikuwoneka Kuti Ndi Mawu Ovuta Kwambiri”

Kuwawidwa mtima ndi magawano nthawi zambiri kumakhala zipatso za kusakhululuka, komwe kumatha kukhala ngati kunyalanyaza munthu, kumamupatsa mphwayi, kumunena kapena kumuneneza, kumangoganizira zolakwa zawo, kapena kuwachitira malinga ndi zakale. Yesu, kachiwiri, ndiye chitsanzo chathu chabwino. Pamene adawonekera kwa Atumwi mchipinda chapamwamba kwa nthawi yoyamba atawukitsidwa, sanawanyoze chifukwa chothawa m'mundamo. M'malo mwake anati, "Mtendere ukhale ndi iwe."

Yesetsani kukhala mwamtendere ndi aliyense, ndi chiyero chimene, chifukwa chopanda chomwecho, palibe amene adzawona Ambuye. Onetsetsani kuti pasakhale wina aliyense amene angalandidwe chisomo cha Mulungu, kuti pasapezeke mizu yowawa ndi kuyambitsa mavuto, amene ambiri angayipitse nayo. (Ahebri 12: 14-15)

Muzikhululuka ngakhale zitakhala zopweteka. Mukakhululuka, mumaswa chidani ndikumamasula maunyolo amtima wanu. Ngakhale sangakhululukire, inunso ndinu mfulu.

III. Mverani kwa winayo

Magawano nthawi zambiri amakhala zipatso zakulephera kwathu kumverana, ndikutanthauza, kwenikweni mverani - makamaka tikamanga milandu yotsutsana ndi Yehova zina. Ngati pali wina m'moyo wanu amene mumagawanika naye, ndiye ngati zingatheke, khalani pansi kumvetsera kumbali yawo. Izi zimafuna kukhwima. Mverani iwo popanda kudzitchinjiriza. Ndipo, mukamamvera, muuzeni malingaliro anu mofatsa, moleza mtima. Ngati pali chifuniro chabwino mbali zonse ziwiri, nthawi zambiri kuyanjananso kumatheka. Khalani oleza mtima chifukwa zimatenga kanthawi kuti zisinthe ziweruzo ndi malingaliro omwe abweretsa zenizeni. Kumbukirani, zomwe St. Paul adanena:

… Kulimbana kwathu sikuli ndi thupi ndi mwazi koma ndi maulamuliro, ndi mphamvu, ndi olamulira adziko lapansi a mdima uno, ndi mizimu yoyipa yakumwamba. (Aefeso 6:12)

Aliyense wa ife-kumanzere, kumanja, wowolowa manja, wodziletsa, wakuda, woyera, wamwamuna, wamkazi - timachokera ku gulu lomwelo; tidataya magazi omwewo; ife tonse ndife amodzi a malingaliro a Mulungu. Yesu sanafere Akatolika abwino okha, koma chifukwa cha anthu osakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu, opanduka owuma mtima, komanso omenyera ufulu wawo. Anatifera ife tonse.

Zimakhala zosavuta kukhala achifundo tikazindikira kuti anzathu sindiwo mdani.

Ngati ndi kotheka, khalani inu mwamtendere ndi onse… Tiyeni titsatire zomwe zimabweretsa mtendere ndi kumangirirana. (Aroma 12:18, 14:19)

IV. Tengani sitepe yoyamba

Pomwe pali kusagwirizana ndi magawano mu ubale wathu, monga akhristu oona, tiyenera kuchita mbali yathu kuti tiwathetse.

Odala ali akuchita mtendere; chifukwa adzatchedwa ana a Mulungu. (Mat. 5: 9)

Ndiponso,

… Ngati ukupereka mphatso yako paguwa lansembe, ndipo uli pomwepo wakumbukira kuti m'bale wako ali ndi kanthu ndi iwe, siya mphatso yako patsogolo pa guwa pomwepo; Pita ukayanjane ndi m'bale wako choyamba, ndipo ukabwerako, pereka mphatso yako. (Mateyu 5: 23-24)

Mwachidziwikire, Yesu akufuna kuti inu ndi ine tichitepo kanthu.

Ndikukumbukira kumayambiriro kwa utumiki wanga zaka zingapo zapitazo, wansembe wina amawoneka kuti ali ndi ine. Pamisonkhano, nthawi zambiri ankandipweteka ndipo nthawi zambiri ankakhala ozizira. Chifukwa chake tsiku lina, ndidamuyandikira ndikuti, "Fr., ndazindikira kuti mukuwoneka kuti mwandikwiyira, ndipo ndimadzifunsa ngati ndakuchitirani chilichonse kuti ndikukhumudwitseni? Ngati ndi choncho, ndikufuna kupepesa. ” Wansembeyo adakhala tsonga, ndikupumira mwamphamvu nati, "O mai. Ine pano ndine wansembe, ndipo komabe, ndi inu amene mwabwera kwa ine. Ndachita manyazi kwambiri ndipo ndikupepesa. ” Anapitiliza kufotokoza chifukwa chake anali wopanda nkhawa. Momwe ndimafotokozera malingaliro anga, ziweruzo zidamasulidwa, ndipo palibe chomwe chidatsalira koma mtendere.

Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta komanso zochititsa manyazi kunena kuti, "Pepani." Koma ndinu odala mukamachita izi. Odala inu.

V. Lolani kupita…

Chovuta kwambiri kuchita magawano ndi "kusiya," makamaka ngati sitikumvetsetsedwa ndipo ziweruzo kapena miseche kapena kukanidwa pamutu pathu ngati mtambo wopondereza - ndipo sititha kuzichotsa. Kuti muchoke pa nkhondo ya Facebook, ku lolani wina akhale ndi mawu omalizira, kutha popanda chilungamo kuchitidwa kapena mbiri yanu kutsimikiziridwa… munthawi imeneyo, timadziwika kuti ndife ozunzidwa ndi Khristu: Wonyozedwa, wonyozedwa, wosamvetsetseka.

Ndipo monga Iye, ndi bwino kusankha "mtendere" mwakachetechete. ^[1]cf. Yankho Losakhala Chete Ndi chete chete yomwe imatipyoza kwambiri chifukwa tilibenso "Simoni a ku Kurene" oti atithandizire, makamuwo kuti atsimikizire, kapena akuwoneka ngati chilungamo cha Ambuye kuti chitetezedwe. Tilibe china koma nkhuni zowuma za pa Mtanda… koma munthawi imeneyi, ndinu ogwirizana kwambiri ndi Yesu mu zowawa zanu.

Inemwini, zimawoneka kuti ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa ndidabadwira ntchitoyi; kukhala wankhondo… (Dzina langa ndi Mark kutanthauza kuti “wankhondo”; dzina langa lapakati ndi Michael, pambuyo pa mngelo wamkulu wotsutsana; ndipo dzina langa lomaliza ndi Mallett - "nyundo")… koma ndiyenera kukumbukira kuti gawo lalikulu la umboni wathu sikuti umangoteteza chowonadi, koma kukonda kuti Yesu adawonetsa poyang'anizana ndi kupanda chilungamo konse, komwe sikunali kumenya nkhondo, koma kupereka chitetezo Chake, mbiri Yake, ngakhale ulemu Wake chifukwa chokonda mzake.

Musagonjetsedwe ndi choyipa koma gonjetsani choyipa ndi chabwino. (Aroma 12:21)

Monga makolo, ndizovuta kwambiri kusiya mwana yemwe tagawanika naye, mwana yemwe amapanduka ndikukana zomwe mudawaphunzitsa. Zimapweteka kukanidwa ndi mwana wako yemwe! Koma apa, tayitanidwa kuti titsanzire bambo wa mwana wolowerera: Zilekeni… Ndiyeno khalani nkhope ya chikondi chopanda malire ndi chifundo kwa iwo. Sitife Mpulumutsi wa ana athu. Mkazi wanga tili ndi ana eyiti. Koma iliyonse ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi inayo. Opangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu, kuyambira ali aang'ono, amakhala ndi mwayi wosankha malinga ndi chifuniro chawo. Tiyenera kuzilemekeza monga momwe timayesera kupanga. Zilekeni. Lolani Mulungu. Mapemphero anu nthawi imeneyo ndiamphamvu kwambiri kuposa mikangano yosatha…

ZITSANZO ZA MTENDERE

Abale ndi alongo, dziko lili pachiwopsezo chokwera chifukwa cha udani. Koma ndi mwayi wotani nanga kukhala mboni mumdima wogawa! Kukhala nkhope yowala ya Chifundo pakati pa nkhope za mkwiyo.

Pazolakwika zonse zomwe Papa wathu angakhale nazo, ndimakhulupirira zake pulani yolalikira mu Evangelii Gaudium ndi yoyenera nthawi izi. Ndi pulogalamu yomwe imayimba us kukhala nkhope yachimwemwe, us kukhala nkhope ya chifundo, us kuti tifikire kumalire komwe mizimu imangokhala yokhayokha, yosweka ndi yotaya mtima… mwina, makamaka makamaka, kwa iwo omwe tatalikirana nawo.

Gulu lolalikira limatenga nawo gawo pakulankhula ndi kuchita m'moyo wa anthu watsiku ndi tsiku; imalumikiza mitunda, ndi yofunitsitsa kudzichepetsa ngati kuli kofunikira, ndipo imakhudza moyo wa munthu, wokhudza thupi la Khristu lovutika mwa ena. —PAPA FRANCIS, Evangelii Gaudium, N. 24

Yesu adakwera kumwamba kuti atitumizire Mzimu. Chifukwa chiyani? Kotero kuti inu ndi ine tikhoza kuthandizana pomaliza ntchito ya Chiwombolo, poyamba mwa ife tokha, ndiyeno mkati mwa dziko lotizungulira.

Akhristu amayitanidwa kuti akhale mafano a Khristu, kuti awonetsere Iye. Tidayitanidwa kuti timupange iye kukhala amoyo m'miyoyo yathu, kuvala miyoyo yathu ndi Iye, kuti anthu athe kumuwona mwa ife, kumukhudza mwa ife, kumuzindikira mwa ife. -Mtumiki wa Mulungu Catherine de Hueck Doherty, kuchokera Uthenga Wosasunthika; onenedwa mu Nthawi Zachisomo, January 19th

Inde, Odala ali akuchita mtendere!