NDINE mutu wauzimu wa mkazi wanga ndi ana. Nditati, "Ndikutero," ndinalowa mu Sakramenti momwe ndinalonjeza kukonda ndi kulemekeza mkazi wanga mpaka imfa. Kuti ndilere ana omwe Mulungu atipatse malinga ndi Chikhulupiriro. Uwu ndiudindo wanga, ndiudindo wanga. Ndi nkhani yoyamba yomwe ndidzaweruzidwe kumapeto kwa moyo wanga, ngati ndakonda Ambuye Mulungu wanga ndi mtima wanga wonse, moyo wanga wonse, ndi mphamvu yanga yonse.
Koma amuna ambiri amaganiza kuti ntchito yawo ndikubweretsa nyama yankhumba kunyumba. Kuti apeze zofunika pamoyo. Kukonza chitseko chakutsogolo. Zinthu izi mwina udindo wakanthawiyo. Koma si cholinga chachikulu. [1]cf. Mtima wa Mulungu Ntchito yayikulu ya munthu wokwatiwa ndikutsogolera mkazi ndi ana ake kulowa mu Ufumu kudzera mu utsogoleri ndi chitsanzo. Pakuti, monga Yesu anena:
Zinthu zonse izi zomwe achikunja amafunafuna. Atate wanu wakumwamba akudziwa kuti mumafunikira zinthu zonsezi. Koma muthange mwafuna Ufumu wa Mulungu, ndi chilungamo chake, ndipo zonse zimenezo zidzawonjezedwa kwa inu. (Mat 6: 30-33)
Ndiye kuti, amuna, Mulungu akufuna bambo inu. He akufuna kukupatsani zosowa zanu. Akufuna kuti mudziwe kuti mwasemedwa mdzanja lake. Ndipo kuti zovuta zonse ndi ziyeso zomwe mukukumana nazo sizamphamvu ngati chisomo Chake chomwe chimapezeka ku moyo wanu…
… Pakuti iye amene ali mwa inu ali wamkulu woposa iye amene ali mdziko lapansi. (1 Yohane 4: 4)
Gwiritsitsani ku liwu limenelo, m'bale. Kwa nthawi zomwe tikukhala zikuyitanitsa amuna kuti akhale olimba mtima, osachita mantha; omvera, osati osakhulupirika; kupemphera, osadodometsedwa. Koma musachite mantha kapena kubwerera m'mbuyo pamlingo womwe mwayitanidwira ku:
Ndikhoza zonse mwa Iye wondipatsa mphamvuyo. (Afil 4:13)
Tsopano Ili ndiye ora limene Yesu akuyitanira anthu kubwerera ku maudindo athu oyenera monga ansembe mnyumba yathu yomwe. Pakuti nkomwe mkazi ndi ana athu sanafunikirepo mutu wa banja kukhala mwamuna weniweni, kuti akhale Mkhristu. Pakuti, monga malemu Fr. A John Hardon adalemba, mabanja wamba sadzapulumuka nthawi izi:
Ayenera kukhala mabanja odabwitsa. Ayenera kukhala, zomwe sindimazengereza kuzitcha, mabanja achikatolika. Mabanja wamba achikatolika sangafanane ndi mdierekezi popeza amagwiritsa ntchito njira zofalitsira nkhani kuti asasangalatse anthu ndikuwachotsa. Palibe Akatolika wamba omwe angapulumuke, motero mabanja wamba achikatolika sangakhale ndi moyo. Alibe chochita. Ayenera kukhala oyera — kutanthauza kuti oyeretsedwa — kapena asowa. Mabanja okhawo Achikatolika omwe adzakhalebe amoyo ndikupambana m'zaka za zana la makumi awiri mphambu chimodzi ndi mabanja a omwe adafera chikhulupiriro chawo. Abambo, amayi ndi ana akuyenera kukhala ofunitsitsa kufera zomwe amakhulupirira kuchokera kwa Mulungu… Chimene dziko lapansi likusowa kwambiri lero ndi mabanja a ofera, omwe adzaberekanso mu mzimu ngakhale chidani chauzimu chotsutsana ndi moyo wabanja ndi adani a Khristu ndi Ake Mpingo masiku athu ano. -Namwali Wodala ndi Kuyeretsedwa kwa Mabanjay, Mtumiki wa Mulungu, Fr. John A. Hardon, SJ
Kodi mungatani kuti muthandize banja lanu kukhala zodabwitsa banja? Kodi zikuwoneka bwanji? Chabwino, Woyera Paulo anayerekezera mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi ukwati wa Khristu ndi mkwatibwi Wake, Mpingo. [2]cf. Aef 5:32 Yesu alinso Mkulu Wansembe wa mkwatibwi ameneyo, [3]onani. Ahe 4: 14 potero, potembenuza choyimira cha Paulo, titha kugwiritsa ntchito unsembe uwu wa Yesu kwa mwamunayo ndi bambo ake. Potero…
… Tiyeni tisiye zolemetsa zathu zonse ndi tchimo lomwe limamatirira kwa ife ndikulimbikira kuthamanga liwiro lomwe likutitsogolera kwinaku tikupenyerera kwa Yesu, mtsogoleri ndi wokwaniritsa chikhulupiriro. (Aheb. 12: 1-2)
KUSALA PA MPESA
Kaya anali ngati mwana m'kachisi, kapena pachiyambi cha utumiki Wake m'chipululu, kapena pa nthawi ya utumiki Wake kwa anthu, kapena Asanakwane, Yesu nthawi zonse, amapemphera kwa Atate ake.
Adadzuka m'mawa kwambiri, natuluka napita ku malo achipululu, komwe adapemphera. (Maliko 1:35)
Kuti tikhale wansembe wogwira mtima ndi wobala zipatso mnyumba zathu, tiyenera kutembenukira kwa gwero la mphamvu zathu.
Ine ndine mpesa ndipo inu ndinu nthambi zake. Yense wakukhala mwa Ine, ndi Ine mwa iye, adzabala chipatso chambiri, chifukwa popanda Ine simungathe kuchita kanthu. (Juwau 15: 5)
Chilichonse chimayambira mumtima. Ngati mtima wanu suli bwino ndi Mulungu, ndiye kuti masiku anu onse atha kukhala pachiwopsezo.
Pakuti mumtima muchokera maganizo woyipa, zakupha, zachiwerewere, zachiwerewere, zakuba, zaumboni wonama, zamwano. (Mat. 15:19)
Kodi tingakhale bwanji atsogoleri a mabanja athu ngati tachititsidwa khungu ndi mzimu wa dziko? 
Mitima yathu yakonzedwa pomwe wathu zinthu zofunika kwambiri amawongoka, pamene "tifunafuna choyamba Ufumu wa Mulungu." Ndiye kuti, tiyenera kukhala amuna odzipereka kupemphera tsiku lililonse, chifukwa…
Pemphero ndi moyo wamtima watsopano. -Katekisimu wa Katolika, n. 2697
Ngati simukupemphera, mtima wanu watsopano ukufa — ukudzazidwa ndi kupangidwa ndi chinthu china osati Mzimu wa Mulungu. Tsoka ilo, kupemphera tsiku lililonse ndi a ubale wathu ndi Yesu ndi achilendo kwa amuna ambiri achikatolika. Sitimakhala "omasuka" ndi pemphero, makamaka pemphero lochokera pansi pamtima pomwe timalankhula ndi Mulungu monga bwenzi limodzi. [4]cf. CCC N. 2709 Koma tiyenera kugonjetsa kusungika kumeneku ndikupanga zomwe Yesu adatilamula kuti "muzipemphera nthawi zonse." [5]onani. Mateyu 6: 6; Luka 18: 1 Ndalemba posinkhasinkha mwachidule pa pemphero lomwe ndikuyembekeza likuthandizani kuti likhale gawo lofunikira tsiku lanu:
Ndipo ngati mukufuna kupita mwakuya, tengani pemphero langa la masiku 40 Pano, zomwe zitha kuchitika nthawi iliyonse pachaka.
Tengani mphindi zosachepera 15-20 patsiku kuti mulankhule ndi Ambuye kuchokera pansi pamtima ndikuwerenga Mau a Mulungu, yomwe ndi njira Yake yolankhulira nanu. Mwanjira iyi, timadzi ta Mzimu Woyera titha kuyenda kudzera mwa Khristu Mpesa, ndipo mudzakhala ndi chisomo chofunikira kuti muyambe kubala zipatso m banja lanu komanso pantchito.
Popanda pemphero, mtima wanu watsopano ukumwalira.
Chifukwa chake khalani achangu komanso oganiza bwino popemphera. (1 Pet. 4: 7)
UTUMIKI WODZICHEPETSA
In Gawo I, Ndidayankhula momwe amuna ena amafunira kulamulira m'malo motumikira akazi awo. Yesu adawonetsanso njira ina, njira yodzichepetsera. Pakuti ngakhale…
… Ngakhale anali mmaonekedwe a Mulungu, sanaone kufanana ndi Mulungu ngati chinthu chofunikira kumvetsetsa. M'malo mwake, adadzikhuthula yekha, natenga mawonekedwe a kapolo, nakhala wofanana ndi munthu; nampeza iye mawonekedwe a munthu, anadzichepetsa yekha, nakhala womvera kufikira imfa, ngakhale imfa ya pamtanda. (Afil 2: 6-8)
Ngati tili ansembe mnyumba mwathu, tiyenera kutengera unsembe wa Yesu, womwe udafika pachimodzimodzi mwa kudzipereka ngati nsembe yaunsembe
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Ndikupemphani abale, mwa zifundo za Mulungu, kuti mupereke matupi anu nsembe yamoyo, yopatulika ndi yokondweretsa Mulungu, kupembedza kwanu kwauzimu. (Aroma 12: 1)
Ndi chitsanzo ichi cha chikondi chodzipereka, chololera kuvutikira ena chomwe ndi chida chathu champhamvu kwambiri mnyumba. Ndi njira "yopapatiza komanso yolimba" kwambiri [6]onani. Mateyu 7: 14 chifukwa chimafuna kudzikonda komwe kuli kosowa masiku ano.
Zochita zimayankhula mokweza kuposa mawu; lolani mawu anu aphunzitse ndi zochita zanu ziyankhule. —St. Anthony waku Padua, Ulaliki, Malangizo a maola, Vol. III, p. 1470
Kodi ndi njira ziti zomwe tingachitire izi moyenera? Titha kusintha thewera la mwana m'malo mongowasiyira akazi athu kuti azichita. Titha kutseka chivindikiro cha chimbudzi ndikuyika mankhwala otsukira mano. Titha kuyala bedi. Titha kusesa kukhitchini ndikuthandizira mbale. Titha kuzimitsa wailesi yakanema ndikutenga zochepa mwazinthuzi pamndandanda wazomwe timachita. Kuposa apo, titha kumuyankha modzichepetsa m'malo modzitchinjiriza; onerani makanema omwe amakonda kuwonera; mverani iye mwatcheru m'malo momudula; kusamalira zofuna zake m'malo mokakamiza kugonana; kumukonda m'malo momugwiritsa ntchito. Muchitireni monga Khristu amatichitira.
Kenako anathira madzi mu beseni ndipo anayamba kusambitsa mapazi a ophunzira ake (Yohane 13: 5)
Ichi ndi chilankhulo chake chachikondi, m'bale. Osati chilankhulo chonyansa chomwe chili mdziko lapansi. Yesu sananene kwa atumwi, "Tsopano, ndipatseni thupi lanu kuti ndikwaniritse zolinga zanga zauzimu!" koma…
Tenga ndi kudya; Ili ndi thupi langa. (Mateyu 26:26)
Momwe Mbuye wathu amasinthira malingaliro amakono pabanja! Timakwatirana pazomwe tingapeze, koma Yesu "adakwatira" Mpingo pa zomwe Iye akanakhoza kupereka.
CHOPOSA KWAMBIRI MAWU
Chidule cha zomwe Paul Bishopu amayenera kuchita kwa bishopu zitha kugwiranso ntchito kwa ansembe a "mpingo wapakhomo":
… Bishopu ayenera kukhala wopanda chilema ... wodekha, wodziletsa, wamakhalidwe abwino, wochereza alendo, wokhoza kuphunzitsa, osati chidakhwa, wosachita ndewu, koma wofatsa, wosakangana, osakonda ndalama. Ayenera kuyang'anira bwino banja lake, kulera ana ake molongosoka… (1 Tim 3: 2)
Kodi tingaphunzitse bwanji ana athu ubwino wodziletsa ngati atiyang'ana 
timamwa mowa kumapeto kwa sabata? Kodi tingawaphunzitse bwanji ulemu ngati mchilankhulo chathu, mapulogalamu omwe timawonerera, kapena makalendala omwe timakhala nawo m'galimoto ndi zinyalala? Kodi tingawawonetsere bwanji iwo chikondi cha Mulungu ngati tikhala ofooka ndi ofatsa m'malo mokhala odekha ndi odekha, kunyamula zolakwa za abale athu? Ndiudindo wathu — mwayi wathu, kuchitira umboni kwa ana athu.
Kudzera mchisomo cha sakramenti laukwati, makolo amalandira udindo ndi mwayi wolalikira ana awo. Makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa ana awo adakali aang'ono kuzinsinsi za chikhulupiriro chomwe ali "otsogolera oyamba" a ana awo. -CCC, N. 2225
Musaope kupempha chikhululukiro mukadzagwa! Ngati ana anu kapena okwatirana sawona zabwino zomwe zikuwonetsedwa mwa inu munthawi inayake, asalephere kuwona kudzichepetsa kwanu mtsogolo.
Kudzikuza kwa munthu kumam'chititsa manyazi; koma wodzichepetsa mtima apeza ulemu. (Miy. 29:23)
Ngati takhumudwitsa abale athu, zonse sizitayika, ngakhale machimo athu ali akale.
… Chifukwa chikondi chimakwirira unyinji wa machimo. (1 Pet. 4: 8)
PEMPHERO LA BANJA NDI KUPHUNZITSA
Yesu sanangokhala ndi nthawi yopemphera yekha; sanangopereka moyo wake modzichepetsa chifukwa cha ana Ake; koma anawaphunzitsanso ndikuwatsogolera popemphera.
Anayendayenda mu Galileya monse, akuphunzitsa m'masunagoge mwawo, kulalikira uthenga wabwino wa ufumu. (Mat. 4:23)
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, kuphunzitsa kwathu kuyenera kubwera kudzera mu mboni m'zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku. Kodi ndimatani ndikapanikizika? Kodi zinthu zakuthupi ndiziziona motani? Ndimamusamalira bwanji mkazi wanga?
Munthu wamakono amamvetsera mboni mofunitsitsa kuposa aphunzitsi, ndipo ngati amamvera aphunzitsi, ndichifukwa chakuti iwo ndi mboni. —PAPA PAUL VI, Kulalikira Masiku Ano
Koma tiyenera kukumbukira malangizo a mneneri Hoseya akuti:
Anthu anga atayika posowa chidziwitso; (Hoseya 4: 6)
Nthawi zambiri, makolo ambiri amaganiza kuti ndi udindo wa wansembe wawo kapena sukulu ya Katolika kuphunzitsa ana awo chikhulupiriro. Komabe, kumeneko ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu komwe kumachitika mobwerezabwereza.
Makolo ali ndi udindo woyamba wamaphunziro a ana awo. Amachitira umboni zaudindowu poyamba pakupanga nyumba yomwe kukoma mtima, kukhululuka, ulemu, kukhulupirika, komanso ntchito yosachita chidwi ndi lamulo. Kunyumba ndi koyenera maphunziro mwabwino…
Makolo ali ndi udindo waukulu wopereka chitsanzo chabwino kwa ana awo. Podziwa momwe angavomerezere zolephera zawo kwa ana awo, makolo amatha kuwongolera ndikuwongolera. -CCC, N. 2223
Mwinamwake mwamvapo mawu otchuka, "Banja lomwe limapemphera limodzi, limakhala limodzi." [7]akuti Fr. Patrick Peyton Izi ndi zoona, koma osati mtheradi. Ndi mabanja angati omwe adapemphera limodzi, koma lero, ali pachisokonezo popeza ana awo asiya chikhulupiriro atachoka kwawo. Pali zambiri ku moyo wachikhristu koposa kungokhalira kupemphera pang'ono kapena kuthamanga mu Rosary. Tiyenera kuphunzitsa ana athu chabwino ndi choipa; kuwapatsa iwo zoyambira za Chikhulupiriro chathu cha Katolika; kuwaphunzitsa kupemphera; momwe mungakondere, kukhululuka, ndikuzindikira zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri pamoyo.
Makolo ali ndi ntchito yophunzitsa ana awo kupemphera ndikupeza ntchito yawo ngati ana a Mulungu… Ayenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti ntchito yoyamba ya Mkhristu ndi kutsatira Yesu ... --CC. n. 2226, 2232
Ngakhale zili choncho, ana athu ali ndi ufulu wosankha choncho akhoza kusankha njira "yotakata ndi yosavuta". Komabe, zomwe timachita monga abambo zimakhudza miyoyo yawo, ngakhale ana awo atatembenuka modzipereka amabwera pambuyo pake. Kodi izi zikuphatikizapo chiyani? Simuyenera kuchita kukhala azaumulungu! Pomwe Ambuye wathu amayenda pakati pathu, Amatiuza nthano ndi nkhani. Mwana Wolowerera, Msamariya Wabwino, Ogwira Ntchito M'munda Wamphesa… nkhani zosavuta kuzimvetsa zomwe zimafotokoza zamakhalidwe abwino komanso chowonadi chaumulungu. Momwemonso tiyenera kuyankhula pamlingo womwe ana athu amamvetsetsa. Komabe, ndikudziwa kuti izi zimawopseza amuna ambiri.
Ndimakumbukira ndikudya ndi Bishopu Eugene Cooney zaka zingapo zapitazo. Tinkakambirana zavuto lakulalikira m'mabanja ndi momwe Akatolika akumvera masiku ano kuti sakudyetsedwa paguwa. Iye anayankha kuti, “Sindikuwona kuti wansembe aliyense amene amakhala ndi nthawi yopemphera ndi kusinkhasinkha Mawu a Mulungu sangakhale ndi phwando labwino Lamlungu.” [8]cf. Kumasulira Chivumbulutso Chifukwa chake timawona kufunikira kwa pemphero mmoyo wa abambo! Kudzera mu kulimbana kwathu, machiritso, kukula ndi kuyenda ndi Ambuye, kuwunikiridwa ndi moyo wapakati wamapemphero, tidzatha kugawana nawo ulendo wathu kudzera mu nzeru zomwe Mulungu amatipatsa. Koma pokhapokha mutakhala pa Vine, zipatso zamtunduwu zimakhala zovuta kuzipezadi.
Bishop Cooney anawonjezera kuti: "Sindikudziwa wansembe m'modzi yemwe wasiya unsembe yemwe sanasiye kupemphera." Chenjezo labwino kwa ife omwe "tiribe nthawi" ya maziko a moyo wachikhristu.
Nazi zinthu zina zothandiza zomwe mungachite tsiku ndi tsiku ndi banja lanu kuti muwabweretse mu kusintha kwa Yesu:
Madalitso pa Nthawi Yakudya
… Ndipo anadalitsa, naunyema, napatsa ophunzira ake, iwonso adapereka kwa anthu. (Mat. 14:19)
Mabanja ochulukirachulukira akupereka limodzi ndi Grace nthawi yachakudya. Koma kupuma kwakanthawi komanso kwamphamvu uku kumachita zinthu zingapo. Choyamba, ndi kuvuta pamene timayika mabuleki pamthupi pathu ndi njala 
dziwani kuti "chakudya chathu cha tsiku ndi tsiku" ndi mphatso yochokera kwa "Atate Wathu". Ikuyikanso Mulungu pakati pa zochitika zapabanja. Zimatikumbutsa kuti…
Munthu samakhala ndi moyo ndi mkate wokha, koma ndi mawu onse akutuluka mkamwa mwa Mulungu. (Mat. 4: 4)
Izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kutsogoza mapemphero onse, monganso momwe Yesu anapatsira ophunzira ake kugawa mkate. Kunyumba kwathu, ndimakonda kufunsa ana kapena akazi anga kuti anene chisomo. Ana adaphunzira zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndikumva momwe mayi ndi bambo ananenera chisomo, kaya ndi mawu amodzimodzi, kapena pemphero lakale loti "Tidalitse O Ambuye ndi mphatso Zanu."
Pemphero pambuyo pa Chakudya
Chisomo pakudya, komabe, sichokwanira. Monga Woyera Paulo akuti,
Amuna inu, kondani akazi anu, monganso Khristu anakonda mpingo nadzipereka yekha kwa iye kuti umupatule; kumuyeretsa pomusambitsa ndi mawu. (Aefeso 5: 25-26)
Tiyenera kusambitsa mabanja athu m'Mawu a Mulungu, pakuti kachiwiri, munthu samakhala ndi mkate wokha. Ndipo Mawu a Mulungu ali wamphamvu:
… Mawu a Mulungu ndi amoyo ndi ochitachita, akuthwa koposa lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse, olowera ngakhale pakati pa moyo ndi mzimu, malo olumikizana ndi mafuta a m'mafupa, ndipo amatha kuzindikira zowonekera ndi zolingalira za mtima. (Aheberi 4:12)
Tapeza kwathu kuti nthawi yakudya ndiyabwino kupemphera popeza tasonkhana kale. Nthawi zambiri timayamba kupemphera poyamika chifukwa cha chakudya chomwe tidadya. Nthawi zina, timazungulira mozungulira, ndipo aliyense kuyambira pamwamba mpaka mwana wamng'ono amathokoza chifukwa cha chinthu chimodzi chomwe amathokoza chifukwa cha tsikuli. Izi ndi, pambuyo pa zonse, momwe anthu a Mulungu amalowera mkachisi mu Chipangano Chakale:
Lowani pachipata chake ndi chiyamiko, ndi kumabwalo ake ndi chilemekezo! (Masalmo 100: 4)
Kenako, kutengera momwe Mzimu ukutitsogolera, tiziwerenga mwauzimu kuchokera kwa oyera mtima kapena kuwerengera kwa Misa tsikulo (kuchokera kumisili kapena intaneti) ndikusinthana 
kuwawerenga. Choyamba, ndimakonda kupemphera modzipereka kuti Mzimu Woyera atsegule mitima yathu ndi maso kuti timve ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe Mulungu akufuna kuti tichite. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi mwana m'modzi akawerenga Kuwerenga koyamba, wina Masalmo. Koma motsatira chitsanzo cha unsembe wachisakramenti, nthawi zambiri ndimawerenga Uthenga Wabwino ngati mutu wakunyumba. Pambuyo pake, ndimakonda kutenga chiganizo chimodzi kapena ziwiri kuchokera powerenga zomwe zikukhudzana ndi moyo wabanja lathu, kupita kunyumba, kapena kuyambiranso kutembenuka kapena njira yakukhalira ndi moyo wabwino mu moyo wathu. Ndimangolankhula ndi anawo kuchokera pansi pamtima. Nthawi zina, ndimawafunsa zomwe aphunzira ndi kumva mu Uthenga Wabwino kotero kuti amatenga nawo gawo ndi malingaliro ndi mitima yawo.
Nthawi zambiri timatseka popereka mapembedzero kwa ena komanso zosowa za mabanja athu.
Rosary
Ndalemba kwina kulikonse pano pa mphamvu ya Rosary. Koma ndiroleni ine ndibwereze John Paul Wachiwiri Wodala potengera mabanja athu:
… Banja, gawo lalikulu la anthu, [liku ]opsezedwa kwambiri ndi mphamvu zakusokonekera kwa ndege komanso malingaliro othandiza, kutipangitsa kuti tiwope tsogolo la malo ofunikirawa, komanso ndi tsogolo lawo. zachitukuko chonse. Kutsitsimutsidwa kwa Rosary m'mabanja achikhristu, munthawi yautumiki wochuluka waubusa ku banjali, kudzakhala kotheka kuthandizira kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe zakhala zikuchitika m'badwo wathu. -Rosarium Virginis Mariae, Kalata Yautumwi, n. 6
Chifukwa tili ndi ana ang'onoang'ono, nthawi zambiri timaphwanya Rosary mzaka makumi asanu, imodzi tsiku lililonse la sabata (komanso chifukwa nthawi zambiri timaphatikizaponso mapemphero ena kapena kuwerenga). Ndimalengeza zaka khumi za tsikulo, ndipo nthawi zina ndimayankha momwe zikugwirira ntchito kwa ife. Mwachitsanzo, nditha kunena kuti tikasinkhasinkha za Chinsinsi Chachisoni chachiwiri, Kukwapula pa Mzati… ”Onani momwe Yesu anapilira mwakachetechete kuzunzidwa ndi kumenyedwa komwe amamupatsa, ngakhale anali wosalakwa. Tiyeni tipemphere pamenepo kuti Yesu atithandize kuthana ndi zolakwa za anzathu ndikukhala chete ena akamanena zoyipa. ” Kenako timayenda mozungulira, aliyense akunena kuti Tikuoneni Maria mpaka zaka khumi zitatha.
Mwanjira imeneyi, ana akuyamba ulendo wopita kusukulu ya Maria kumvetsetsa bwino za chikondi ndi chifundo cha Yesu.
Kusintha Kwa Banja
Chifukwa ndife anthu, ndipo motero ofooka komanso okonda kuchimwa ndi kuvulala, pakufunika kukhululukidwa ndi kuyanjananso mnyumba. Ichi chinali cholinga chachikulu cha Unsembe Woyera wa Yesu — kukhala nsembe yomwe ingayanjanitse ana a Mulungu ndi Atate wawo.
Ndipo zonsezi zichokera kwa Mulungu, amene adatiyanjanitsa kwa Iye yekha kudzera mwa Khristu ndikutipatsa ife ntchito yachiyanjanitso, kuti, Mulungu anali kuyanjanitsa dziko lapansi kwa iyemwini mwa Khristu, osawerengera zolakwa zawo ndikuwapatsa uthenga wa chiyanjanitso. (2 Akorinto 5: 18-19)
Chifukwa chake, monga mutu wanyumba, mogwirizana ndi akazi athu, tiyenera kukhala "ochita mtendere." Vuto losapeweka likamabwera, chachimuna 
Nthawi zambiri amayankha amakhala m'garaji, kugwirira ntchito galimoto, kapena kubisala kuphanga lina labwino. Koma nthawi ikakhala yoyenera, tiyenera kusonkhanitsa onse omwe akutenga nawo mbali pabanjali, kapena banja lonse, ndikuwathandiza kuyanjanitsa.
Chifukwa chake nyumba ndi sukulu yoyamba ya moyo wachikhristu komanso "sukulu yopindulitsa anthu." Apa munthu amaphunzira kupirira ndi chisangalalo cha ntchito, chikondi chaubale, kuwolowa manja - ngakhale kubwerezedwa - kukhululuka, komanso koposa zonse kupembedza kwa Mulungu popemphera ndi kupereka moyo wake. -CCC, n. Zamgululi
KUKHALA MNYAMATA M'DZIKO LAPANSI
Palibe funso kuti, monga abambo, tikukumana ndi imodzi mwamafunde achikunja odziwika kwambiri m'mbiri ya anthu. Mwina ndi nthawi yoti titsanzire pamlingo winawake Abambo Achipululu. Awa anali amuna ndi akazi omwe adathawa padziko lapansi ndikuthawira kuchipululu ku Egypt mzaka zachitatu. Kuchokera pakukana kwawo dziko lapansi ndikusinkhasinkha za chinsinsi cha Mulungu, miyambo yachipembedzo mu Mpingo idabadwa.
Ngakhale sitingathe kuthawa mabanja athu ndikupita kunyanja yakutali (monga momwe ena mwa inu mungakondwerere), titha kuthawa mzimu wadziko polowa mchipululu chakunja ndi zakunja kuwonongeka. Awa ndi mawu akale achikatolika omwe amatanthauza kugonjetsa mwa kudzikana-kudzimana, kupha zinthu izi mwa ife zomwe zimatsutsana ndi Mzimu wa Mulungu, kukana mayesero a thupi.
Pakuti zonse zomwe zili mdziko lapansi, kusilira kwa thupi, kukopa kwa maso, ndi moyo wonyada, sizichokera kwa Atate koma kuziko. Komabe dziko lapansi ndi zokopa zake zikupita. Koma amene achita chifuniro cha Mulungu akhala ku nthawi zonse. (1 Yohane 2: 16-17)
Abale, tikukhala m'dziko lolaula. Ili paliponse, kuyambira zikwangwani zolemera moyo m'misika yayikulu, mpaka mapulogalamu apawailesi yakanema, magazini, mawebusayiti, ndi nyimbo. Tadzala ndi malingaliro opotoka pankhani zakugonana - ndipo zikukopa abambo ambiri kuti awonongeke. Sindikukayikira kuti ambiri a inu mukuwerenga izi muli ndi vuto linalake. 
Yankho ndikutembenukiranso ndi chidaliro cha chifundo cha Mulungu, ndiku thawirani kuchipululu. Ndiye kuti, tifunika kupanga zisankho zazikuluzikulu zamunthu pamoyo wathu ndi zomwe timadziwonetsa. Ndikukulemberani pompano, nditakhala mchipinda chodikirira cha malo okonzera magalimoto. Nthawi iliyonse ndikayang'ana, pamakhala mkazi wamaliseche pakati pa otsatsa kapena m'mavidiyo anyimbo. Ndife anthu osauka kwambiri! Tasiya kuwona kukongola kwenikweni kwa mkazi, kumuchepetsa kukhala chinthu. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe sitikhala ndi TV mnyumba mwathu. Inemwini, ndine wofooka kwambiri kuti ndingayang'ane ndi kuphulika kwa zithunzizi. Izi, ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimayendedwe opanda pake, opanda pake akutsanulira chinsalu chomwe chimataya nthawi ndi thanzi. Ambiri amati alibe nthawi yopemphera, koma amakhala ndi nthawi yochulukirapo yowonera masewera a mpira wa ma ola atatu kapena maola angapo opanda pake.
Ndi nthawi yoti amuna azimitse! M'malo mwake, ndimadzimva kuti ndi nthawi yodula chingwe kapena Kanema ndikuwauza kuti tikudwala ndikulipira zinyalala zawo. Ndi mawu otani omwe angakhale ngati nyumba miliyoni za Akatolika sizinenenso. Ndalama zimayankhula.
Zikafika pa intaneti, munthu aliyense amadziwa kuti adadina kawiri kuchokera pamdima wakuda kwambiri womwe malingaliro amunthu amatha kuyerekezera. Apanso, mawu a Yesu amakumbukira:
Ngati diso lako lakumanja limakuchimwitsa, ulikolowole ndi kulitaya. Ndi bwino kuti ukhale wopanda chiwalo chimodzi kusiyana n'kuti thupi lako lonse liponyedwe m'Gehena. (Mat. 5:29)
Pali njira yopweteka kwambiri. Ikani kompyuta yanu pomwe ena amatha kuwona zenera nthawi zonse; ikani pulogalamu yoyankha; kapena ngati kuli kotheka, achotseni onsewo. Uzani anzanu kuti foni ikugwirabe ntchito.
Sindingathetse mayesero aliwonse omwe timakumana nawo ngati amuna. Koma pali mfundo imodzi yofunikira yomwe mungayambe kukhala nayo pano kuti, ngati mukukhulupirira, muyamba kusintha moyo wanu womwe mumaganizira kuti sizingatheke. Ndipo ndi izi:
Valani Ambuye Yesu Khristu, ndipo musapange zosowa zakuthupi. (Aroma 13:14)
Mu Act of Contrition tiyenera kupemphera titaulula, tikuti,
Ndikulonjeza, mothandizidwa ndi chisomo Chanu, kuti musadzachimwenso ndipo pewani nthawi yapafupi yauchimo.
Zoyeserera zamasiku ano ndizobisika, zolimbikira, komanso zokopa. Koma alibe mphamvu pokhapokha timawapatsa mphamvu. Gawo lovuta kwambiri ndikulola kuti Satana atilume kaye koyamba kuchokera pacholinga chathu. Kukana kuyang'ana kwachiwiri kwa mkazi wokongola. Kuti tisapange zofuna za thupi. Osangonena kuti tchimo, komanso kupewa ngakhale pafupi chochitika za izo (onani Matigari M'khola). Ngati ndinu munthu wopemphera; ngati mumapita kukalapa nthawi zonse; ngati mudzipereka nokha kwa Amayi a Mulungu (mayi wowona); ndipo umakhala ngati mwana wamng'ono pamaso pa Atate Wakumwamba, upatsidwa chisomo kuti ugonjetse mantha ndi ziyeso m'moyo wako.
Ndipo khalani wansembe amene mwayitanidwa kukhala.
Pakuti sitiri naye mkulu wa ansembe wosatha kumva chisoni ndi zofooka zathu, koma amene adayesedwa mofananamo, koma wopanda uchimo. (Ahebri 4:15)
Moyo wabanja ukhoza kubwezeretsedwanso mdera lathu pokhapokha ngati changu chautumwi cha mabanja oyera achikatolika - kufikira mabanja ena omwe akufunikira kwambiri masiku ano. Papa John Paul Wachiwiri adatcha ichi, "Kupatuka kwa mabanja m'mabanja." -Namwali Wodala ndi Kuyeretsedwa kwa Banja, Mtumiki wa Mulungu, Fr. John A. Hardon, SJ
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- Pa "kuthawa dziko lapansi": Tulukani mu Babulo!
- Komanso, onani gawolo m'mbali yammbali yotchedwa UZIMU zolemba zambiri zamomwe mungakhalire ndi moyo wabwino mu nthawi yathu ino.
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