Mwana wosabadwa miyezi isanu
NDILI NDI sanakhale pansi, ndikulimbikitsidwa kuyankha mutu, komabe analibe choti anene. Lero, ndimasowa chonena.
Ndinaganiza patatha zaka zonsezi, kuti ndimamva zonse zomwe zimafunikira kumva za kuchotsa mimba. Koma ndinali kulakwitsa. Ndinaganiza zoopsa za "kuchotsa padera kubadwa"ikadakhala malire ku gulu lathu" laulere komanso la demokalase "lololeza kupha ana omwe sanabadwe (kufotokozera kuchotsa pang'ono Pano). Koma ndinali kulakwitsa. Palinso njira ina yotchedwa "kuchotsa mimba pobadwa" yomwe imachitika ku USA. Ndingoleka namwino wakale, a Jill Stanek, akuuzeni nkhani yake:
Ndinakhala ndikugwira ntchito kwa chaka chimodzi ku Christ Hospital ku Oak Lawn, Illinois, ngati namwino wovomerezeka mu Labor and Delivery department, pomwe ndidamva mu lipoti kuti timachotsa mwana wakhanda wachiwiri ndi matenda a Down's syndrome. Ndinadabwa kwambiri. M'malo mwake, ndidasankha kugwira ntchito pa Chipatala cha Christ chifukwa chinali chipatala chachikhristu ndipo sichidakhudzidwepo, chifukwa chake ndimaganiza, kuchotsa mimba….
Koma chomwe chinali chovuta kwambiri chinali kuphunzira za njira yomwe Christ Hospital imagwiritsa ntchito pochotsa mimba, yotchedwa kuchotsa mimba, yomwe tsopano imadziwikanso kuti "kutaya mimba pobadwa." Munjira iyi yochotsa mimba madotolo samayesa kupha mwana m'mimba. Cholinga chake ndikungobereka mwana yemwe wamwalira asanabadwe kapena atangobadwa kumene.
Kuti achotse mimbayo, dokotala kapena wokhalamo amaika mankhwala mu ngalande ya amayi pafupi ndi khomo lachiberekero. Khomo lachiberekero ndilo lotseguka pansi pa chiberekero lomwe nthawi zambiri limakhala lotseka mpaka mayi atakhala ndi pakati pa masabata 40 ndikukonzekera kubereka. Mankhwalawa amapweteketsa chiberekero ndipo amachititsa kuti ayambe kutsegula msanga. Izi zikachitika, mwana wachiwiri kapena wachitatu trimester pre-term, wakhanda mokwanira amagwa m'chiberekero, nthawi zina amakhala wamoyo. Mwalamulo, ngati mwana wochotsedwa mimba wabadwa wamoyo, zilembo zonse zobadwa ndi kumwalira ziyenera kuperekedwa. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, ku Chipatala cha Christ chomwe chimapha ana omwe amatayidwa ndi "kusakhwima kwambiri," kuvomereza kwa madotolo kuti ndi amene adamupha.
Si zachilendo kuti mwana wakhanda amene wataya mimba akhale kwa ola limodzi kapena awiri kapena kupitilira apo. Ku Chipatala cha Christ m'modzi mwa makandawa amakhala pafupifupi kwa maola asanu ndi atatu. Ana ena omwe achotseredwa amakhala athanzi, chifukwa Chipatala cha Christ chidzachotsanso moyo wawo wonse kapena "thanzi" la mayi, komanso kugwiriridwa kapena kugona pachibale.
Zikachitika kuti mwana amene wataya mimba amabadwa wamoyo, iye amalandira "chisamaliro," chomwe chimafotokozedwa ngati kumusunga mwana bulangeti kufikira atamwalira. Makolo atha kumugwira mwanayo ngati angafune. Ngati makolowo sakufuna kunyamula mwana wawo wophedwa yemwe waphedwa, wogwira ntchito amasamalira mwanayo mpaka amwalira. Ngati ogwira ntchito alibe nthawi kapena chikhumbo choberekera, amutengera kuchipatala cha Christ Hospital Malo Otonthoza, yomwe ili yokwanira ndi Makina Ojambula Oyambirira ngati makolo akufuna zithunzi zamaluso za mwana wawo yemwe wachotsa mimba, zinthu zobatizira, malaya amkati, ndi ziphaso, zida zosindikizira kumapazi ndi zibangiri za ana za mementos, ndi a akugwedeza mpando. Chipinda cha Chitonthozo chisanakhazikitsidwe, makanda adatengeredwa ku Malo Owonongeka kuti akafere.
Usiku wina, wogwira naye ntchito unamwino anali kutenga mwana wa Down's syndrome yemwe adamupatsa moyo wamoyo kupita kuchipinda chathu cha Soiled Utility chifukwa makolo ake sanafune kumugwira, ndipo analibe nthawi yomugwira. Sindikanatha kulingalira zakuti mwana wovutikayu amafera yekha mu Malo Owonongeka Owonongeka, chifukwa chake ndinamunyamula ndikumugwedeza kwa mphindi 45 zomwe amakhala. Anali pakati pa masabata 21 ndi 22, anali wolemera pafupifupi mapaundi 1/2, ndipo anali wamtali pafupifupi mainchesi 10. Anali wofooka kwambiri kuti sangayende kwambiri, kutaya mphamvu iliyonse yomwe amayesera kupuma. Chakumapeto adakhala chete kwakuti sindimatha kudziwa ngati akadali moyo. Ndidamugwira kuti ndikuwone kudzera pachifuwa pake ngati mtima wake ukugundabe. Atadziwika kuti wamwalira, tinapinda mikono yake yaying'ono pachifuwa pake, ndikumukulunga ndi kansalu kakang'ono, ndikumutengera kuchipatala komwe odwala athu onse akufa amutengera.
Nditangomugwira mwanayo, zomwe ndimadziwa zidakhala zolemera kwambiri kwa ine kuti ndizinyamula. Ndinali ndi zisankho ziwiri. Chisankho chimodzi chinali kuchoka kuchipatala ndikupita kukagwira ntchito kuchipatala chomwe sichimachotsa mimba. China chinali kuyesa kusintha mchitidwe wochotsa mimba wa Chipatala cha Christ. Kenako, ndinawerenga Lemba lomwe limalankhula ndi ine komanso mavuto anga. Miyambo 24: 11-12 akuti,
Pulumutsani amene aweruzidwa kuti aphedwe popanda chifukwa; osayimirira ndikuwalola kuti afe. Musayese kukana udindo ponena kuti simukudziwa. Pakuti Mulungu, amene amadziwa mitima yonse, amadziwa anu, ndipo amadziwa kuti mumadziwa! Ndipo iye adzabwezera mphoto kwa aliyense malinga ndi ntchito zake.
Ndinaganiza kuti kusiya nthawiyo ndikakhala wopanda udindo komanso wosamvera Mulungu. Zachidziwikire, ndikhoza kukhala womasuka ndikachoka mchipatala, koma makanda adzapitiliza kufa.
Ulendo womwe Mulungu wandipititsa kuyambira pomwe ndinatuluka koyamba pomvera kulimbana ndi kutaya mimba pachipatala chotchedwa Mwana Wake wakhala wopambana! Ndikuyenda mdziko muno tsopano, ndikufotokozera zomwe ine kapena ena ogwira ntchito tawona. Ndachitira umboni kanayi pamaso pa Komiti Yaikulu Ya National National ndi Illinois. Misonkho ikuyendetsedwa kuti aletse njira yochotsa mimba yomwe imabweretsa kupha ana. Mutu wa Chipatala cha Christ komanso kuchotsa mimba pathupi wapangitsa chidwi cha anthu ambiri. Malongosoledwe a "kuchotsa pathupi pobadwa" tsopano afotokozedwa pawailesi yakanema, pawailesi, posindikiza, komanso opanga malamulo am'deralo komanso mayiko.
Namwino wina waku Christ Hospital adandichitira umboni ku Washington. Allison adalongosola kuti amalowa mchipinda chogwiritsa ntchito chadothi maulendo awiri kuti akapeze ana omwe adachotsedwa m'mimba atasiyidwa amaliseche pamiyala komanso pompopompo pazitsulo. Ndidachitira umboni za wogwira ntchito yemwe mwangozi adaponya mwana wamoyo yemwe adachotsa zinyalala. Mwanayo anali atasiyidwa pakauntala ya Soiled Utility Room wokutidwa ndi chopukutira choti ataye. Mnzanga amene ndimagwira naye ntchito atazindikira zomwe adachita, adayamba kupyola mu zinyalala kuti apeze mwanayo, ndipo mwanayo adagwa thaulo ndikuponya pansi.
Zipatala zina tsopano zavomereza kuti zimachotsa pathupi pobereka. Zikuwoneka kuti si njira yodziwika yochotsera mimba. Koma Chipatala cha Christ chinali chipatala choyamba ku United States kuwululidwa poyera chifukwa chochotsa mimbayi.
Pa Ogasiti 31, 2001, nditamenya nkhondo ndi chipatala zaka 2-1 / 2, ndidachotsedwa ntchito. Ndine womasuka tsopano kuti ndikambirane poyera za kutaya mimba nditatha kuwona zowopsa ndi maso anga. Ndikhoza kuchitira umboni ndekha kuti Iyeyo + Mulungu = ambiri. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi liwu lomwe ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito kuyimitsa nkhanza zochotsa mimba.
(*Nkhaniyi idasinthidwa mwachidule. Nkhani yonse ingapezeke Pano.)
Ku Canada, nkosavomerezeka kupereka mankhwala omwe cholinga chake ndikutenga padera. Uku si kupha munthu, koma cholakwa chomwe munthu ayenera kumumanga mpaka zaka ziwiri (Pezani: Jill Stanek adandilembera ndikundipatsa ulalo wazidziwitso zakuchotsa mimba pobadwa. zikuchitika ku Canada. Mutha kuwerenga za izi Pano.) Komabe, nkololedwa kupha mwana wosabadwa nthawi iliyonse mayi ake asanabadwe — amodzi mwa mayiko ochepa padziko lapansi omwe amalola kuti imfa yokhayokha ya ana obadwa nthawi zonse. (Gwero: National Campus Life Network)
