Pachiyambi CHAKUGONANA
Pali mavuto owopsa lero-vuto lakugonana. Izi zikutsatira pakutsatira kwa m'badwo womwe sunatengeredwe konse pa chowonadi, kukongola, ndi ubwino wa matupi athu ndi ntchito zake zopangidwa ndi Mulungu. Nkhani zotsatirazi ndizokambirana moona mtima pamutu womwe udzayankhe mafunso okhudza mitundu ina yaukwati, maliseche, kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kugonana m'kamwa, ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa dzikoli limakambirana izi tsiku lililonse pawailesi, wailesi yakanema komanso intaneti. Kodi Mpingo ulibe kanthu konena pankhaniyi? Kodi timayankha bwanji? Zowonadi, ali nacho - ali ndi chinthu chosangalatsa kuti anene.
“Choonadi chidzakumasulani,” anatero Yesu. Mwina izi sizowona kuposa nkhani zakugonana. Nkhani izi ndizoyenera kwa owerenga okhwima… Idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Juni, 2015.
KUKHALA pa famu, kukhutira kwa moyo kuli paliponse. Patsiku lililonse, mutha kutuluka pakhomo lakumbuyo ndikuwona mahatchi kapena kukhathamiritsa ng'ombe, amphaka akupukutira mnzanu, mungu ukuwuluka pamtengo wa Spruce, kapena njuchi zikunyamula maluwa. Mphamvu yakulenga moyo yalembedwa mu cholengedwa chilichonse chamoyo. M'malo mwake, m'malo ambiri anyama ndi zomera, zolengedwa ndi zamoyo zimakhalapo, kunena kwake titero, kuberekana, kufalitsa, ndikuzichita chaka chamawa. Kugonana ndi gawo lachilengedwe komanso lokongola. Ndi chozizwitsa chamoyo tsiku ndi tsiku pamene tikuwona pamaso pathu "Mawu" amphamvu kumayambiriro kwa chilengedwe akupitilizabe kufalikira m'chilengedwe chonse:
… Iwo achulukane pa dziko lapansi, ndipo abereke, achuluke pamenepo. (Gen 1: 17)
LAMULO LA MOYO
Atatha kulenga dziko lapansi ndikudzaza ndi moyo, Mulungu adati adzachita china chachikulu. Ndipo kumeneko ndikupanga china chake, kapena kani, winawake amene akanapangidwa m'chifanizo chake.
Mulungu analenga anthu m'chifanizo chake; m'chifanizo cha Mulungu adawalenga iwo; adalenga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi. (Gen 1:27)
Monga chilengedwe chonse, mtundu wa anthu udabadwa molingana ndi "kayendedwe ka chilengedwe" ndi lamulo "lobala ndi kuchulukana" koma ndikuwonjezera kuti "mudzaze dziko lapansi ndi muzigonjetsa. ” [1]Gen 1: 28 Anthu, omwe amagawana nawo momwe Mulungu alili, adayikidwa kukhala adindo ndi oyang'anira chilengedwe chonse - ndipo kulamulira kumeneku kumaphatikizaponso, thupi lake lomwe.
Kodi thupi lake limapangidwira chiyani? Kuti bereka ndi kuchulukana. Zachidziwikire, maliseche athu amakhala ndi chowonadi chokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti "lamulo lachilengedwe" lidalembedwa m'chilengedwe, lolembedwa mthupi lathu lomwe.
Lamulo lachilengedwe sichinthu china koma kuunika kwakumvetsetsa komwe kumayika mwa ife ndi Mulungu; kudzera mu izi timadziwa zomwe tiyenera kuchita komanso zomwe tiyenera kupewa. Mulungu wapereka kuwala uku kapena lamulo polenga. -Katekisma wa Mpingo wa Katolika, N. 1955
Ndipo lamuloli limanena kuti kugonana kwathu ndikofunikira kwambiri pakubereka. Munthu amabala mbewu; mkazi amatulutsa dzira; ndipo akaphatikizidwa, mwamuna ndi mkazi amapanga zosiyana moyo. Chifukwa chake, lamulo lachilengedwe
limanena kuti ziwalo zathu zakugonana zidapangidwa kuti zibereke moyo. Limenelo ndi lamulo lophweka lokhazikitsidwa kawirikawiri m'chilengedwe chonse, ndipo munthu sali wotero.
Komabe, chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati nyama ndi mbewu zaufumu sizimvera malamulo omwe amayendetsedwa? Bwanji ngati atasiya kutsatira zikhalidwe zomwe amayendetsedwa nazo? Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani kwa zamoyozi? Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati mwezi usiye kutsatira njira yake yozungulira dziko lapansi, ndipo dziko likazungulira dzuwa? Kodi zotsatira zake zikanakhala zotani? Mwachidziwikire, zingaike pangozi kukhalapo kwa zamoyozo; zingaike moyo pachiswe padziko lapansi. "Mgwirizano" wa chilengedwe ukasweka.
Momwemonso, chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi asiya kutsatira malamulo achilengedwe omwe adalembedwa mthupi lawo? Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati atasokoneza dala ntchitozi? Zotsatira zake zingakhale zofanana: kuswa mgwirizano izo zimabweretsa chisokonezo, zimanyalanyaza moyo, ndipo ngakhale zimabala imfa.
ZOPOSA CHILENGEDWE
Mpaka pano, ndangoyankhula za amuna ndi akazi ngati mtundu wina. Koma tikudziwa kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ali oposa "nyama" chabe, kuposa "zopangidwa ndi chisinthiko". [2]werengani ndemanga yabwino kwambiri ya a Charlie Johnston yokhudza chinyengo cha Darwin: “Chowonadi ndi Chinthu Chamakani”
Munthu si atomu yotayika mu chilengedwe chonse: ndi cholengedwa cha Mulungu, amene Mulungu adamusankha kuti amupatse mzimu wosakhoza kufa komanso yemwe amamukonda nthawi zonse. Ngati munthu adangokhala chipatso cha mwayi kapena kufunikira, kapena ngati akadayenera kutsitsa zikhumbo zake kumalire ochepa a dziko lomwe akukhalamo, ngati zenizeni zonse zinali mbiri chabe ndi chikhalidwe, ndipo munthu alibe chikhalidwe chofunikira Kudzidutsa mu moyo wauzimu, ndiye munthu amatha kulankhula za kukula, kapena kusinthika, koma osati kukula.—PAPA BENEDICT XVI, Caritas ku Vomerezani, n. 29
Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi analengedwa "m'chifanizo cha Mulungu." Mosiyana ndi nyama, munthu wapatsidwa a moyo kuti sanalenge ndipo sangathe kupanga ndi iye yekha popeza mzimu ndiye "mfundo zauzimu" [3]CCC, N. 363 wa munthu.
… Chamoyo chilichonse chauzimu chimapangidwa nthawi yomweyo ndi Mulungu - “sichimatulutsidwa” ndi makolo… -CCC, N. 365
Moyo wathu ndi womwe umatilekanitsa ndi zolengedwa zonse: ndiye kuti ifenso tili zolengedwa zauzimu. Malinga ndi Katekisimu, 'Mgwirizano wa moyo ndi thupi ndiwofunika kwambiri kotero kuti munthu ayenera kuganizira kuti mzimu ndiwo 
“Mawonekedwe” a thupi… mgwirizano wawo umakhala chimodzimodzi. ' [4]CCC, N. 365 Chifukwa chomwe tidalengedwa choncho ndi mphatso yoyera: Mulungu adatilenga m'chifanizo chake kwa iye kuti titha kugawana nawo chikondi chake. Chifukwa chake, 'Mwa zolengedwa zonse, munthu yekhayo "amatha kudziwa ndi kukonda Mlengi wake." [5]CCC, N. 356
Mwakutero, kugonana kwathu, kumatenga "zamulungu". Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ngati tidapangidwa "m'chifanizo cha Mulungu", ndipo moyo wathu ndi thupi lathu zimapanga a single chilengedwe, ndiye kuti matupi athu ndi gawo la chiwonetsero cha "chifaniziro cha Mulungu." "Zamulungu" izi ndizofunikira monga "lamulo lachilengedwe" lofotokozedwera pamwambapa, ndipo limachokera. Popeza ngakhale lamulo lachilengedwe limafotokoza za chilengedwe chathunthu chogonana komanso ubale wathu wina ndi mnzake (mwachitsanzo, chiwalo chamwamuna chimapangidwira chiwalo chachikazi motero maziko a ubale pakati pa amuna ndi akazi), zamulungu za matupi athu amafotokozera kufunikira kwawo kwauzimu (ndipo chifukwa chake ubale womwe ulipo pakati pa amuna ndi akazi). Chifukwa chake, maphunziro azaumulungu ndi malamulo achilengedwe omwe amalamulira matupi athu nawonso ndi "amodzi" Tikamvetsetsa izi, titha kuyamba kugawa zochitika zakugonana m'magulu azabwino ndi zoyipa. Izi ndizofunikira chifukwa kuchita zosemphana ndi malamulo achilengedwe ndiko kuphwanya mgwirizano pakati pathu ndi Mulungu zomwe sizingachotsere zotsatira zina koma kutaya mtendere wamumtima, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale mgwirizano pakati pawo. [6]cf. Kodi Mudzawasiya Akufa?
NTHAWI YA MULUNGU
Potembenukira ku Genesis, onani kuti akunena za onse wamwamuna ndi wamkazi:
Mulungu analenga anthu m'chifanizo chake; m'chifanizo cha Mulungu adawalenga iwo; adalenga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi. (Gen 1:27)
Ndiye kuti, palimodzi, "wamwamuna" ndi "wamkazi" akuwonetsa chithunzi cha Mulungu.
Ngakhale mwamuna ndi mkazi ali gawo la chilengedwe, ndife olekanitsidwa chifukwa mwamuna ndi mkazi, pamodzi, amapanga Ake chithunzi kwambiri. Osangokhala amuna otero, osati akazi okha omwe ali otere, koma mwamuna ndi mkazi, monga banja, ali chithunzi cha Mulungu. Kusiyanitsa pakati pawo si funso lakusiyanitsa kapena kugonjera, koma m'malo mwa mgonero ndi mbadwo, nthawi zonse m'chifanizo ndi mawonekedwe a Mulungu. —POPA FRANCIS, Rome, pa 15 April, 2015; LifeSiteNews.com
Chifukwa chake, "ungwiro" wa mamuna ndi mkazi umawonetsera china chake cha ungwiro wa Mulungu wopanda malire… osati kuti Mulungu adawasiya ali opangidwa osakwanira: adawalenga kuti akhale mgonero wa anthu… Ofanana monga anthu… komanso owonjezera ngati amuna ndi akazi. ' [7]CCC, n. Chizindikiro Ndizowonjezera izi pomwe timapeza zamulungu mkati mwazikhalidwe zathu zakugonana.
Ngati tapangidwa "m'chifanizo cha Mulungu", ndiye kuti zikutanthauza kuti tapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Anthu Atatu a Utatu Woyera: Atate, Mwana, ndi Mzimu Woyera. Koma izi zingatanthauzire bwanji kwa okha awiri anthu — amuna ndi akazi? Yankho lagona mu vumbulutso kuti Mulungu ndiye chikondi. Monga Karol Wojtyla (John Paul II) adalemba kuti:
Mulungu ndiye chikondi m'kati mwamkati mwaumulungu m'modzi. Chikondi ichi chikuwululidwa ngati mgonero wa anthu. -Malingaliro a Max Scheler in Metafisica della persona, p. 391-392; wogwidwa mawu Kudziyanjana Kwabwino mu Papa Wojtyla lolembedwa ndi Ailbe M. O'Reilly, p. 86
Chikondi, monga umulungu, chimawonetsedwa motere:
Atate amene abala amakonda Mwana amene adabadwa, ndipo Mwanayo amakonda Atate ndi chikondi chomwecho chofanana ndi cha Atate… Koma chiyamikiro chawo, chikondi chawo chobwezera, chimachokera mwa iwo ndipo chimachokera mwa iwo. monga munthu: Atate ndi Mwana "amalimbikitsa" Mzimu wa Chikondi wogwirizana nawo. —POPA JOHN PAUL II, amene anatchulidwa Kudziyanjana Kwabwino mu Papa Wojtyla lolembedwa ndi Ailbe M. O'Reilly, p. 86
Kuchokera mu Chikondi cha Atate ndi Mwana Munthu Wachitatu amatuluka, Mzimu Woyera. Potero, mwamuna ndi mkazi, anapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu, onetsani zaumulungu izi kudzera mthupi ndi amoyo (popeza ndi chikhalidwe chimodzi): mwamuna ndi mkazi amakondana kwambiri, thupi ndi mzimu, kuchokera pamenepo 
Chikondi chobwezera chimapitilira munthu wachitatu: mwana. Kuphatikiza apo, Kugonana kwathu, kotchulidwa ukwati-Chomwe chikuwonetsera umodzi ndi umodzi wa Mulungu — ndi chitsanzo cha moyo wamkati mwa Utatu.
Zowonadi, kulumikizana kwakukulu pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi komwe Lemba limati, “Awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi.” [8]Gen 2: 24 Kupyolera mu kugonana, matupi awo amakhala "amodzi", titero; ndipo umodzi uwu umafikira ku moyo. Monga St. Paul analemba kuti:
… Kodi simudziwa kuti iye amene adziphatika kwa hule amakhala thupi limodzi ndi iye? Kwa iwo, "likuti," adzakhala thupi limodzi. " (1 Akor. 6:16)
Chifukwa chake, tili ndi maziko a kukhala ndi mkazi m'modzi: Mgwirizano wapabanja ndi wina ndi mnzake. Mgwirizanowu ndi womwe umatchedwa "ukwati". Izi ndizokhazikitsidwa chifukwa chakuti awiri amakhala amodzi. Kuswa "panganolo" pamenepo 
ndiko kuswa ubale womwe umakhalapo pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi womwe umafika pozama kupyola pakhungu ndi mafupa - umafika pamtima komanso pamtima. Palibe buku la zamulungu kapena malamulo ofunikira kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi amvetsetse kuzama kwachinyengo komwe kumachitika pamene mgwirizanowo wasweka. Chifukwa ndi lamulo lomwe, likasweka, limaswa mtima.
Pomaliza, kulengedwa kwa anthu ena mgwirizanowu kumabweretsa gulu latsopano lotchedwa "banja". Ndipo potero amapangidwa khungu losasunthika komanso losasinthika popitilira mtundu wa anthu.
Tanthauzo laukwati, ndiye, limachokera ku malamulo achilengedwe komanso zamulungu za thupi. Maukwati amatsogolera boma, silinatchulidwe ndi Boma, kapena sizingakhale, popeza zimachokera mu dongosolo lokhazikitsidwa ndi Mulungu Mwiniwake kuyambira "pachiyambi." [9]onani. Gen 1: 1; 23-25 Chifukwa chake makhothi apamwamba padziko lonse lapansi ali ndi ntchito imodzi yokha pankhaniyi: kukana kutanthauzira kulikonse kwa zomwe sizingathe kufotokozedwanso.
Mu gawo lotsatirali, tipitiliza kuganiza kwathu poganizira zakufunika kwamakhalidwe kapena "machitidwe" kuyambira lamulo lachilengedwe de A facto amapanga imodzi.
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