Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu - Gawo Lachitatu

PA ULEMERERO WA MAMUNA NDI MKAZI

APO ndichisangalalo kuti tikuzindikiranso monga akhristu masiku ano: chisangalalo chowona nkhope ya Mulungu mwa ena-ndipo izi zikuphatikizira iwo omwe asiyapo chiwerewere. M'nthawi yathu ino, St. John Paul II, Wodala Amayi Teresa, Mtumiki wa Mulungu Catherine de Hueck Doherty, Jean Vanier ndi ena amabwera m'maganizo monga anthu omwe adatha kuzindikira chithunzi cha Mulungu, ngakhale atavala umphawi, kusweka , ndi tchimo. Iwo adawona, titero kunena kwake, "Khristu wopachikidwa" mwa winayo.

Pali chizolowezi, makamaka pakati pa akhristu okhazikika masiku ano, "kunyalanyaza" ena omwe "sanapulumutsidwe," kuwombera "achiwerewere", kukalipira "oyipa", ndikudzudzula "onyansa." Inde, Lemba limatiuza zomwe zidzachitike kwa aliyense wa ife amene apitilizabe kuchita tchimo lalikulu komanso lakufa, komwe ndiko kukana lamulo la Mulungu. Iwo omwe akuyesera kutsitsa chowonadi cha Chiweruzo chomaliza ndi zenizeni za Gahena ^[1]cf. Gahena ndi weniweni amachitira chisalungamo chachikulu ndikuvulaza miyoyo. Nthawi yomweyo, Khristu sanalamule Mpingo kuti uweruze, koma kuti akhale odekha pophunzitsa. ^[2]onani. Agal. 6: 1 achifundo kwa adani ake, ^[3]onani. Luka 6:36 ndi olimbika mtima kufikira imfa kuti atumikire chowonadi. ^[4]onani. Maliko 8: 36-38 Koma munthu sangakhale wachifundo komanso wachikondi pokhapokha atakhala ndi chidziwitso chotsimikizika cha ulemu wathu womwe umangophatikizira osati thupi ndi malingaliro, koma moyo wa munthu.

Ndi kutuluka kwatsopano kwatsopano kwachilengedwe, palibe nthawi yabwinoko yowunika nkhanza zazikulu zachilengedwe m'nthawi yathu ino,…

… Kutha kwa chifanizo cha munthu, ndi zotsatira zoyipa kwambiri. -Kardinali Joseph Ratzinger (BENEDICT XVI), Meyi 14, 2005, Roma; chilankhulo chodziwika ku Europe; KatolikaCulture.org

“MPHATSO YOONA”

Lingaliro lachilendo lidakula pamsonkhano waposachedwa wa Sinodi Yabanja ku Roma. Mu lipoti lakanthawi lomwe atulutsa a Vatican, Gawo 50-lomwe linali osati anavotera kuvomerezedwa ndi a Sinodi Fathers, koma adafalitsidwabe - akuti "Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi mphatso komanso mikhalidwe yopatsa mwayi wachikhristu," ndipo adafunsa ngati madera athu angathe "kuyamikiranso kugonana kwawo, osasokoneza chiphunzitso chachikatolika pa banja ndi kukwatirana ”. ^[5]cf. Fotokozerani malingaliro a positi, n. 50; atolankhani.vatican.va

Choyamba, ndikufuna kunena kuti pazaka khumi zapitazi, ndalankhula mobisa ndi amuna ndi akazi angapo omwe ali ndi vuto lokopeka amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'mikhalidwe yonse, amandiyandikira akufuna kuchiritsidwa, chifukwa amatha kuzindikira kuti momwe akumvera sizikugwirizana ndi maumboni awo, titero kunena kwake. Mungakumbukire Kalata Yachisoni Ndinalandira kuchokera kwa m'modzi wachinyamata wotere. Malongosoledwe ake akumenyera kwake ndikowona komanso kowawa, monganso ambiri - ena omwe ndi ana athu, ana athu, abale athu, abale athu, ndi abwenzi (onani Njira Yachitatu). Wakhala mwayi wopambana kuyenda ndi anthu awa. Ndimawawona kuti sali osiyana ndi ine ndekha kapena ena amene ndawalangiza, popeza ambiri a ife timakhala ndi mavuto ozama omwe amatilepheretsa kukhala okhazikika mwa Khristu ndikusiya wina akulimbana ndi mtendere.

Koma kodi kukhala "gay" kumabweretsa "mphatso ndi mikhalidwe" yapadera ku Thupi la Khristu? Ili ndi funso lofunikira lokhudzana ndi kusanthula kwakatanthauzoku mu nthawi yathu ino pamene anthu ochulukirachulukira amatembenukira ku mafashoni, ma tatoos, opareshoni ya pulasitiki ndi "nthano ya jenda" kuti adzifotokozere okha. ^[6]“Gender theory” ndi lingaliro lakuti biology ya munthu imatha kukhazikitsidwa pakubadwa, mwachitsanzo. wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, koma ameneyo amatha kudziwa "jenda" yake kupatula kugonana kwake. Papa Francis watsutsa chiphunzitsochi kawiri tsopano. Ndidayankha funso ili kwa bambo yemwe ndimamudziwa yemwe adakhala ndi mwamuna wina kwazaka zingapo. Anasiya moyo wawo ndipo tsopano wakhala chitsanzo chenicheni chachimuna chachikhristu kwa ambiri. Yankho lake:

Sindikuganiza kuti kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuyenera kukwezedwa pamwamba ngati mphatso komanso chuma chokha. Pali mphatso zambiri ndi chuma, chuma chamoyo, mkati ndi outside la Mpingo womwe udapangidwa mphatso izi ndi chuma mwanjira ina chifukwa cha momwe akhala ndikukhalira komanso kupsinjika kumeneku… ndafika pamalo olemekeza ndikudalitsa zovuta zomwe zidachitika paulendo wanga, osazilengeza zabwino mkati ndi okha. Chodabwitsa, kumene! Mulungu amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mikangano yaumulungu kuti apange ndikukula ndikulimbitsa ndi kutiyeretsa: chuma chake chaumulungu. Mulole moyo wanga, wokhala mokhulupirika (ndalephera panjira ndikuyenda lumo ngakhale lero) tsiku lina ndisanafe kapena nditafa, ndidzaulula njira ya chiyembekezo, njira yachisangalalo, chitsanzo chodabwitsa cha ntchito yabwino ya Mulungu muzoyembekezeredwa kwambiri ya miyoyo.

Mwanjira ina, Mtandawo - mawonekedwe aliwonse omwe angapange m'miyoyo yathu-amatisintha nthawi zonse ndikubala zipatso tikalola kuti timangirize. Ndiye kuti, pamene tikhala, ngakhale mu zofooka zathu ndi kulimbana, pomvera Khristu, timabweretsa mphatso ndi mikhalidwe kwa ena otizungulira chifukwa chakukula kwathu ngati Khristu. Chilankhulo chomwe chili mu lipoti la Synod chikuwonetsa kuti vuto lachilengedwe mwa izo zokha ndi mphatso, yomwe singakhalepo chifukwa ikusemphana ndi dongosolo la Mulungu. Kupatula apo, uwu ndiye chilankhulo chomwe Mpingo umagwiritsa ntchito pofotokozera zomwe amuna amachita:

… Abambo ndi amai omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha "akuyenera kuvomerezedwa ndi ulemu, chifundo ndi chidwi. Zizindikiro zilizonse zosankhana zopanda chilungamo ziyenera kupewedwa. ” Amayitanidwa, monga akhristu ena, kuti azikhala odzisunga. Mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "wosokonezeka kwenikweni" ndipo mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "machimo oipitsitsa otsutsana ndi kudzisunga." -Zoganizira Pamaganizidwe Opereka Mwalamulo Kuzindikiritsa Mgwirizano Pakati pa Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha; N. 4

Kufunsa anthu amtchalitchi kuti ayambe "kuyamika zomwe amakonda, osasokoneza chiphunzitso chachikatolika pa banja komanso ukwati" ndizosemphana ndi mfundo. Monga momwe amuna ndi akazi osawerengeka omwe asiya "moyo" wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angatsimikizire, ulemu wawo umapitilira kugonana kwawo lonse kukhala. Monga imodzi mwazolemba zolembedwa zokongola Njira Yachitatu anati: “Ine sindine mwamuna weniweni. Ndine Dave. "

Mphatso yoona yomwe tiyenera kupereka ndi yathu, osati kungogonana.

ULEMERERO WAKuya

Kugonana ndichimodzi chokha cha zomwe tili, ngakhale zimalankhula zakuya kuposa mnofu chabe: ndichionetsero cha chifanizo cha Mulungu.

Kulongosolanso kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi… kumatsimikizira mwaubwino mfundo zopanda pake zomwe zimafuna kuchotsa kuyanjana konse ndi umuna kapena ukazi wa munthu, ngati kuti izi ndi zinthu zachilengedwe zokha. -POPE BENEDICT XVI, WorldNetDaily, Disembala 30, 2006

Komabe, mosiyana ndi zomwe atolankhani amachita masiku ano, ulemu wathu umadalira pa kugonana kwathu. Kupangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu kumatanthauza kuti tinalengedwa chifukwa Iye ndi kuthekera kokonda Iye ndi kukondana wina ndi mnzake mu mgwirizano wa anthu. Umenewo ndiye ulemu wapamwamba kwambiri womwe uli wamwamuna kapena wamkazi.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake moyo wa opatulidwa: a ansembe, masisitere, ndi anthu wamba mmaukwati osakwatira umatchedwa mboni "yaulosi" ndi Mpingo. Chifukwa kusankha kwawo mwakufuna kwawo kukhala ndi moyo wabwino kumaloza ku chinthu chachikulu, china chopambana, china chopitilira kukongola komanso kwakanthawi kogonana, ndipo ndiko kulumikizana ndi Mulungu. ^[7]'Umboni wawo ukhale wowonekera bwino kwambiri mu Chaka chino cha Opatulidwa kuti Tchalitchi chikukhala moyo tsopano. onani. Kalata Ya Atumwi ya Papa Francis kwa Anthu Onse Opatulidwa, www.v Vatican.va Umboni wawo ndi "chizindikiro chotsutsana" m'badwo womwe umakhulupirira kuti "ndizosatheka" kukhala osangalala popanda chiwonetsero. Koma ndichifukwa choti ifenso ndife m'badwo womwe umakhulupirira zocheperako zaumulungu, motero, mocheperako ndikuchepa mphamvu zathu zaumulungu. Monga St. Paul analemba kuti:

Pakuti nonsenu amene munabatizidwa mwa Khristu mwadziveka nokha ndi Khristu. Muno mulibe Myuda kapena Mhelene, muno mulibe kapolo kapena mfulu, muno mulibe mwamuna ndi mkazi; pakuti inu nonse muli amodzi mwa Khristu Yesu. (Agal. 3: 27-28)

Monga Oyera amachitira umboni, mgwirizano ndi Mulungu umaposa zisangalalo zakanthawi kochepa monga Dzuwa limapitilira kuwala kwa nyali. Komabe, sikulakwa, mpatuko, kuwona kugonana monga "tchimo" lofunikira kwa iwo "ofooka" kuti athe kukhala moyo wosakwatira. Pakuti ngati titi tilankhule za “umodzi” ndi Khristu, tiyeneranso kuwona kuti kugonana ndi chinyezimiro chabwino komanso chiyembekezero cha mgwirizanowu: Khristu amabzala “mbewu” ya Mau ake mumtima mwa Mkwatibwi Wake, Mpingo, umene umabala "Moyo" mwa iye. Zowonadi, Malemba onse ndi nkhani ya "pangano laukwati" pakati pa Mulungu ndi anthu Ake lomwe lidzafika kumapeto kwa mbiri ya anthu mu "tsiku laukwati la Mwanawankhosa." ^[8]onani. Chiv 19:7 Mwa ichi, kudzisunga ndiye chiyembekezo cha Phwando laukwati losatha.

KUKHALA OYERA: KULIMBIKITSA KWAMBIRI

Kugonana kwathu sikutanthauza kuti ndife ndani mwa Khristu - kumatanthauzira omwe tili mwa dongosolo la chilengedwe. Chifukwa chake, munthu amene akulimbana ndi jenda sayenera kumva kuti akumanidwa chikondi cha Mulungu kapena chipulumutso chawo, bola ngati azikhala moyo wawo mogwirizana ndi lamulo lachilengedwe. Koma ziyenera kunenedwa za tonsefe. M'malo mwake, lingaliro loti kudzisunga ndi kwa "osakwatira" ndi gawo limodzi la kufooketsa kumvetsetsa kwathu kwamasiku ano zakugonana.

Kugonana kwakhala kumapeto pakokha kotero kuti m'badwo wathu sungathe ngakhale kuganiza za kuthekera kwa moyo wopatulidwa, osatinso ziwiri achinyamata amakhala oyera mpaka m'banja. Ndipo komabe, mdera lachikhristu momwe ndimasunthira, ndimawawona maanja achichepere nthawi zonse. Iwonso ndi "chizindikiro chotsutsana" m'badwo womwe wachepetsa kugonana kukhala zosangalatsa. Koma sizitanthauza kuti, mukakwatirana, chilichonse chimapita.

Carmen Marcoux, wolemba wa Mikono ya Chikondi ndi woyambitsa nawo Oyera a Mboni kamodzi anati, "Chiyero si mzere womwe tidutsa, ndi njira yomwe timapitira. ” Kuzindikira kwakukulu bwanji! Chifukwa nthawi zambiri, ngakhale akhristu omwe amafuna kukhala ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu ndi matupi awo amachepetsa izi kufunsa monga, "Kodi tingachite izi? Kodi tingachite izi? Chavuta ndi chiyani? etc. ” Ndipo inde, ndiyankha mafunso awa posachedwa mu Gawo IV. Koma sindinayambe ndi mafunso awa chifukwa chiyero sichikugwirizana kwenikweni ndi kupewa zachiwerewere komanso zambiri zokhudzana ndi Mtima. Monga Yesu adati,

Odala ali oyera mtima; chifukwa adzawona Mulungu. (Mat. 5: 8)

Lemba ili likukhudzana ndi cholinga ndi chikhumbo. Zimakhudzana ndi malingaliro okwaniritsa lamuloli: kukonda Ambuye Mulungu wako ndi mtima wako wonse… ndi mnansi wako monga iwe mwini. Ndi mtima uwu mumtima, Mulungu ndi zabwino za mnzako ndizofunikira kwambiri chirichonse, kuphatikizapo zomwe zimachitika kuchipinda. Pa nkhani yokhudza kugonana, ndiye kuti, sizokhudza zomwe ndingapeze "kuchokera kwa winayo, koma zomwe" ndingapereke. "

Chifukwa chake, kudzisunga ndichinthu chomwe chiyeneranso kukhala mbali ya ukwati wachikhristu. Kudzisunga, makamaka, ndi komwe kumatisiyanitsa ndi nyama. Mwa nyama, moyo wogonana…

… Lilipo pamlingo wachilengedwe komanso chibadwa cholumikizidwa nacho, pomwe kwa anthu chimakhalapo pamlingo wamunthu ndi chikhalidwe. —POPA JOHN PAUL II, Chikondi ndi Udindo, Kindle version ya Pauline Books & Media, Loc 516

Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mosabisa, kuti mamuna sakupanga chibwenzi, koma kuti mkazi wake. Gawo lachilengedwe lopatsidwa ndi Mulungu la chisangalalo pogonana, ndiye kuti silimaliziro pakokha, koma liyenera kulimbikitsidwa ndikulamulidwa ndi onse mwamuna ndi mkazi kwa chiyanjano cha chikondi. Chisangalalo ichi ndi thanzi la winayo, ndiye, zimaganiziranso zochitika zachilengedwe za thupi la mkaziyo komanso kuthekera kwake kwamalingaliro ndi kwakuthupi. Kudzisunga kumachitidwa ndi onse awiri amuna ndi akazi munthawi yodziletsa kuti agonane ndi ana kuti akule m'mabanja mwawo, kapena kukulitsa chikondi chawo ndikulimbikitsa zilakolako zawo kutero. ^[9]onani. "Koma ndizowona chimodzimodzi kuti ndizochitika zakale zomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi ali okonzeka kupewa kugonana panthawi yachonde nthawi zambiri ngati zifukwa zomveka zoberekera mwana wina sizofunika. Ndipo nthawi yosabereka ikabwereranso, amagwiritsa ntchito banja lawo posonyeza kukondana ndi kuteteza kukhulupirika kwawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pochita izi aperekadi umboni wa chikondi chenicheni komanso chowonadi. ” —PAPA PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, N. 16

Koma kudzisunga, chifukwa pachikhazikitso chake ndimakhalidwe amtima, iyeneranso kuwonetsedwa pa kugonana. Zikutheka bwanji? Mwa njira ziwiri. Choyamba ndikuti sizinthu zonse zomwe zimabweretsa chiwerewere ndizabwino. Kugonana kuyenera kufotokozedwa molingana ndi mamangidwe a Mlengi, potero, malinga ndi lamulo lachilengedwe, monga tafotokozera mu Gawo I ndi II. Chifukwa chake m'gawo lachinayi, tiona mwatsatanetsatane funso lololedwa ndi lomwe sililoledwa.

Mbali yachiwiri yakudziyera pa nthawi yogonana ikukhudzana ndi momwe mtima umakondera unzake: pakuwona nkhope ya Khristu mwa mnzanu.

Pankhaniyi, St. John Paul II amapereka chiphunzitso chokongola komanso chothandiza. Kugonana kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi kumasiyana kwambiri pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Ngati tisiyidwa kuthupi lathu lakugwa, a Mwamuna amatha "kugwiritsa ntchito" mkazi wake mosavuta, yemwe amatenga nthawi yayitali kuti akope. John Paul Wachiwiri adaphunzitsa kuti mwamuna ayenera kuyesetsa kuti agwirizane ndi thupi la mkazi wake kotero kuti…

… Pachimake pa chilakolako chogonana chimachitika mwa mamuna ndi mkazi, ndipo zimachitika mwa momwe angathere mwa onse okwatirana nthawi imodzi. —POPA JOHN PAUL II, Chikondi ndi Udindo, Mtundu wa Pauline Books & Media, Loc 4435f

Uku ndiye kuzindikira kwakukulu komwe kudutsa chisangalalo kwinaku ndikupatsanso ulemu powayika pachiwonetsero chaukwati podzipereka. Monga Papa Paul VI adati,

Mpingo ndiye woyamba kuyamika ndikuyamikira kugwiritsa ntchito luntha laumunthu pantchito yomwe cholengedwa chanzeru monga munthu chimagwirizana kwambiri ndi Mlengi wake. —PAPA PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, n. Zamgululi

Ndipo pali chinsinsi chomvetsetsa gawo la kudzisunga mbanja: mchitidwe waukwati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi uyenera kuwonetsa kudzipereka kwathunthu kwa Mlengi yemwe adayika moyo wake pa "kama waukwati" wa pa Mtanda. Kugonana, komwe kuli sacramenti, ayeneranso kutsogolera inayo kwa Mulungu. Munkhani yokongola yaukwati wa Tobia ndi Sarah, abambo ake amulangiza kuti akhale mkamwini posachedwa paukwati wawo:

Mutengeni ndipo mukamutengere bwino kupita naye kwa abambo anu. (Tobiti 7:12)

Izi ndi zomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi akuyenera kuchita: kutengana, ndi ana awo, kupita kwa Atate Wakumwamba bwinobwino.

Chifukwa chake, "kudzisunga mtima" sikungolimbikitsa ubale weniweni pakati pa okwatirana okha, komanso ndi Mulungu, chifukwa kumazindikira ulemu weniweni wa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Mwanjira imeneyi, ubale wawo umakhala "chizindikiro" kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso pagulu la china chake wamkulu: kuyembekezera mgwirizano wosatha pamene tonse tidzakhala "amodzi mwa Khristu"

YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA

• Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu - Gawo I

• Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu - Gawo II

• Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu - Gawo IV

• Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu - Gawo V