PABWINO NDI ZISANKHO
APO ndi chinthu chinanso chomwe chiyenera kunenedwa chokhudza kulengedwa kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi chomwe chidatsimikizika "pachiyambi." Ndipo ngati sitikumvetsa izi, ngati sitikumvetsa izi, ndiye kuti zokambirana zilizonse zamakhalidwe abwino, zosankha zabwino kapena zolakwika, kutsatira malingaliro a Mulungu, zitha kuyika pachiwopsezo kukambirana nkhani zakugonana mwa anthu mndandanda wazoletsa. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zithandizira kukulitsa kusiyana pakati pa ziphunzitso zokongola za Mpingo pankhani zakugonana, ndi iwo omwe amadzimva kuti alibe nawo.
Chowonadi ndichakuti sikuti tokha tidapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu, komanso:
Mulungu anayang'ana pa chilichonse chimene anachipanga, ndipo anachipeza chabwino kwambiri. (Gen 1:31)
Ndife abwino, koma tagwa
Tidapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu, chifukwa chake, tidapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Iye amene ali Wabwino. Monga wolemba Masalmo adalemba:
Munalenga mkatimo mwanga; Munandiluka m'mimba mwa amayi anga. Ndimakutamandani, chifukwa ndinapangidwa modabwitsa. (Masalmo 139: 13-14)
Namwali Wodala Mariya anali kuyang'ana pa mawonekedwe ake enieni atanyamula Khristu m'manja mwake chifukwa moyo wake wonse umagwirizana bwino ndi Mlengi wake. Mulungu afunanso mgwirizanowu kwa ifenso.
Tsopano ife tonse, pamlingo wosiyanasiyana, tili ndi kutha kuchita zomwe cholengedwa chilichonse m'chilengedwe chimachita: kudya, kugona, kusaka, kusonkhanitsa, ndi zina zambiri. Koma chifukwa tapangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu, timatha kukonda. Ndipo chifukwa chake, siziyenera kudabwitsa kupeza anthu omwe akukhalira kunja kwa banja omwe alinso makolo abwino. Kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amakhala owolowa manja. Kapenanso mwamunayo amakonda kwambiri zolaula. Kapena wokhulupirira kuti kulibe Mulungu yemwe ndi wantchito wosadzikonda wosamalira ana amasiye, ndi ena okhulupirira chisinthiko alephera kuyankha, mopitilira muyeso komanso gawo lochepa la sayansi, chifukwa chomwe timafunira kukhala abwino, kapena chikondi. Yankho la Mpingo ndikuti tinalengedwa m'chifanizo cha Iye yemwe ndi Wabwino komanso Wodzikonda, motero, pali lamulo lachilengedwe mkati mwathu lotitsogolera kuzinthu izi. [1]cf. Kugonana Kwaumunthu ndi Ufulu-Gawo I Monga momwe mphamvu yokoka imathandizira kuti dziko lizungulira mozungulira dzuwa, ndi ubwino womwewo - "kukula" kwa chikondi - komwe kumapangitsa anthu kukhala ogwirizana ndi Mulungu komanso chilengedwe chonse.
Komabe, mgwirizano womwewo ndi Mulungu, wina ndi mnzake, ndi chilengedwe chonse chidasweka ndikugwa kwa Adamu ndi Hava. Chifukwa chake timawona mfundo ina ikugwira ntchito: kuthekera kochita zoyipa, kutengeka ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zadyera. Ndipamene mkati mwamkati mwenimweni mwa pakati pa chikhumbo chochita zabwino ndi chikhumbo chochita choipa Yesu adalowa kuti "atipulumutse." Ndipo zomwe zimatimasula choonadi.
Popanda chowonadi, chikondi chimachepa
kukhala omvera. Chikondi chimakhala chipolopolo chopanda kanthu, kuti chidzazidwe mosasinthasintha. Pachikhalidwe chopanda chowonadi, uwu ndiye chiopsezo choyambitsa chikondi. Amagwera pamalingaliro amalingaliro okhudzidwa ndi malingaliro, malingaliro oti "chikondi" amachitidwa nkhanza komanso kupotozedwa, mpaka kufika potanthauza zosiyana. —PAPA BENEDICT XVI, Caritas ku Vomerezani, N. 3
Zithunzi zolaula ndi chithunzi cha "chitukuko cha chikondi" popanda chowonadi. Ndikufunitsitsa kukondedwa, kukondedwa, ndikukhala ndi ubale - koma popanda zowona zakugonana kwathu komanso tanthauzo lake. Momwemonso, mitundu ina yakugonana, pomwe ikufuna kukhala "abwino", itha kukhalanso kupotoza chowonadi. Zomwe tidayitanidwa kuchita ndikubweretsa zomwe zili mu "chisokonezo" mu "dongosolo." Ndipo chifundo ndi chisomo cha Mbuye wathu zilipo kuti zitithandize.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti tiyenera kuzindikira ndikulimbikitsa zabwino mwa ena. Komanso sitingalole zabwino zomwe tikuwona kuti zisinthe chifundo kukhala "malingaliro" pomwe zomwe zachiwerewere zimangosesedwa pansi pamphasa. Ntchito ya Ambuye ndiyonso ya Mpingo: kutenga nawo mbali pa chipulumutso cha ena. Izi sizingachitike mukadzinyenga koma mu choonadi.
KUKONZESETSA KUSINTHA KWAMBIRI
Ndipo ndipomwe makhalidwe abwino Makhalidwe, ndiko kuti, malamulo kapena malamulo, amatithandiza kuwunikira chikumbumtima chathu ndikuwongolera zochita zathu mogwirizana ndi ubwino wa onse. Komabe, ndichifukwa chiyani kuli malingaliro m'masiku athu kuti kugonana kwathu ndi "kwaulere kwa onse" komwe kuyenera kusasunthika kwathunthu pamakhalidwe amtundu uliwonse?
Monga ntchito zathu zina zathupi, kodi pali malamulo omwe amayang'anira kugonana kwathu ndikulikonza kuti tikhale athanzi ndi osangalala? Mwachitsanzo, tikudziwa ngati timamwa madzi ochulukirapo, hyponatremia imatha kulowa ndikupha. Ngati mumadya kwambiri, kunenepa kwambiri kumatha kukuphani. Ngati mupuma mofulumira kwambiri, kupuma mwauzimu kumatha kukupangitsani 
kugwa. Chifukwa chake mukuwona, tikuyenera kuwongolera ngakhale kudya kwathu zinthu monga madzi, chakudya, ndi mpweya. Nanga ndichifukwa chiyani tikuganiza kuti kulamulira molakwika chilakolako chathu chogonana sikubweretsanso mavuto? Zoonadi zimanena nkhani ina. Matenda opatsirana mwakugonana afala kwambiri, kuchuluka kwa mabanja osudzulana kukuwonjezeka, zolaula zikuwononga maukwati, ndipo kugulitsa anthu kwafalikira pafupifupi kulikonse padziko lapansi. Kodi zingakhale kuti kugonana kwathu kulinso ndi malire omwe amasunga moyenera ndi thanzi lathu lauzimu, malingaliro, ndi thanzi? Kuphatikiza apo, nchiyani ndipo ndani amatsimikizira malamulowa?
Makhalidwe amakhalidwe otsogolera machitidwe amunthu pabwino lanu komanso zabwino. Koma sizinachokere mwachisawawa, monga tafotokozera mu Gawo I. Amachokera ku lamulo lachilengedwe lomwe "limafotokoza ulemu wa munthuyo ndikukhazikitsa maziko a ufulu wake komanso ntchito zake." [2]cf. Katekisimu wa Katolika, n. Zamgululi
Koma choopsa chachikulu m'nthawi yathu ino ndikulekanitsidwa kwamakhalidwe abwino ndi malamulo achilengedwe. Vutoli limabisikanso pomwe "ufulu" umatetezedwa zokha ndi "voti yotchuka." Mbiri imatsimikizira kuti ngakhale
anthu ambiri atha kuyamba kukhala "amakhalidwe abwino" omwe amatsutsana ndi "ubwino." Musayang'ane mopitilira zaka zana zapitazi. Ukapolo unali wolungamitsidwa; momwemonso kunali kuletsa ufulu wazimayi wovota; ndipo zowonadi, Nazism idakhazikitsidwa mwa demokalase ndi anthu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti palibe chosokoneza monga malingaliro ambiri.
Izi ndi zotsatira zoyipa zakukhulupirira zomwe zikutsutsana popanda kutsutsidwa: "ufulu" umatha kukhala wotere, chifukwa sunakhazikitsidwenso ndi ulemu wosasunthika wa munthu, koma umayikidwa pansi pa chifuniro cha gawo lamphamvu. Mwanjira imeneyi demokalase, yotsutsana ndi mfundo zake, imasunthira kumachitidwe opondereza. —POPA JOHN PAUL II, Evangelium Vitae, "Uthenga Wamoyo",n. 18, 20
Izi ndi nthawi zachilendo pomwe munthu yemwe amadziwika kuti ndi "wachikunja yemwe sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu" akukayikira Tchalitchi cha Katolika ku Ireland, osati chifukwa cha ziphunzitso zake, koma chifukwa cha 'nthanthi zachipembedzo zomwe amatsatira achipembedzo.' Akupitiliza kufunsa kuti:
Kodi Akhristuwa sakuwona kuti maziko amakhalidwe abwino achikhulupiriro chawo sangafunidwe pamasamu a omwe amafufuza? … Kodi kusakhazikika pamalingaliro a anthu kungasinthe polarity pakati pa ukoma ndi zoyipa? Kodi zikadangokhala kwa kamphindi kwa Mose (osatinso Mulungu) kuti abwerere mopembedza Moloki chifukwa ndi zomwe Aisraeli ambiri amafuna kuchita? Ziyenera kukhala zachidziwikire pazachipembedzo chilichonse chachikulu padziko lapansi kuti pankhani zamakhalidwe abwino, ambiri akhoza kukhala olakwitsa… -Mateyu Parris, The Spectator, Mwina 30th, 2015
Parris akunena zoona. Chowonadi chakuti maziko amakhalidwe abwino amasiku ano akusuntha ndi nkhondo chabe chifukwa chakuti chowonadi ndi kulingalira zaphimbidwa ndi amuna ofooka a Mpingo omwe asokoneza chowonadi chifukwa cha mantha kapena kudzipindulitsa.
… Tikusowa chidziwitso, tikusowa chowonadi, chifukwa popanda izi sitingathe kulimba, sitingathe kupita patsogolo. Chikhulupiriro chopanda chowonadi sichipulumutsa, sichimapereka maziko otsimikizika. Imakhalabe nkhani yokongola, chiwonetsero cha chikhumbo chathu chachikulu chachimwemwe, china chake chotheka
zakutikhutiritsa mpaka momwe timafunira kudzinyenga tokha. —PAPA FRANCIS, Lumen Fidei, Buku Lothandizira, n. 24.
Nkhani zino zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi ufulu wa anthu zatikakamiza tonse kuti tifunse ngati tikudzinyenga tokha, ngati tatsimikiza kuti "ufulu" womwe tikusonyeza kudzera muzochitika zathu zakugonana mumawailesi, nyimbo, mu momwe timavalira, polankhula, komanso m'zipinda zathu, zili ukapolo tokha komanso ena? Njira yokhayo yothetsera funsoli ndi "kudzutsa" choonadi cha omwe ife tiri ndikupezanso maziko a makhalidwe abwino. Monga Papa Benedict anachenjeza:
Pokhapokha ngati pakhale mgwirizano pazinthu zofunika, pomwe malamulo azigwira ntchito. Mgwirizano wofunikirawu womwe tachokera ku cholowa chachikhristu uli pachiwopsezo… Kunena zowona, izi zimapangitsa kukhala osazindikira zomwe zili zofunika. Kukana kadamsana aka kaganizidwe ndikusunga kuthekera kwake kowona zofunikira, powona Mulungu ndi munthu, powona chabwino ndi chowonadi, ndichisangalalo chomwe chimafunikira kuti chigwirizanitse anthu onse okhala ndi chifuniro chabwino. Tsogolo lenileni la dziko lapansi lili pachiwopsezo. —POPE BENEDICT XVI, Kulankhula ku Roman Curia, Disembala 20, 2010
Inde! Tiyenera kudzutsa choonadi chokhudza ubwino wathu. Akhristu ayenera kupitilira kutsutsana ndikupita kudziko lapansi limodzi ndi otayika, magazi, ngakhale iwo omwe amatikana ife, 
ndi aloleni atione tikulingalira zaubwino wawo. Mwanjira imeneyi, kudzera mu chikondi, tikhoza kupeza malo ogwirizana a mbewu za choonadi. Titha kupeza kuthekera kokulitsa mwa ena "kukumbukira" zomwe tili: ana amuna ndi akazi opangidwa m'chifanizo cha Mulungu. Monga momwe Papa Francis ananenera, tikudwala "matenda amisili mdziko lathu lamasiku ano":
Funso la chowonadi ndilokumbukira kukumbukira, chikumbukiro chakuya, chifukwa chimakhudza china chake isanachitike ndipo chimatha kutigwirizanitsa m'njira yoposa kuzindikira kwathu pang'ono komanso kuchepa kwathu. Ili ndi funso lokhudza chiyambi cha zonse zomwe, mwa kuwala kwake titha kudziwa cholinga chake motero tanthauzo la njira yathu yofananira. —PAPA FRANCIS, Lumen Fidei, Kalata Yofotokozera, 25
CHOLINGA CHA ANTHU NDI KUSANGALALA
"Ife ayenera kumvera Mulungu koposa anthu. ”
Anayankha choncho Peter ndi Atumwi kwa atsogoleri amtundu wawo atalamulidwa kuti asiye ziphunzitso zawo. [3]onani. Machitidwe 5: 29 Iyeneranso kukhala yankho lamakhothi athu, nyumba zamalamulo komanso opanga malamulo lero. Malamulo achilengedwe omwe tidakambirana Gawo I sizinthu zopangidwa ndi munthu kapena Mpingo. Ndiwonso, "palibe china koma kuunika kwa kuzindikira komwe Mulungu adaika mwa ife." [4]cf. Katekisma wa Mpingo wa Katolika, N. 1955 Zachidziwikire, ena amatha kunena kuti sakhulupirira Mulungu ndipo chifukwa chake samumvera lamulo lachilengedwe. Komabe, "chikhalidwe" cholembedwa m'chilengedwe chomwe chimaposa zipembedzo zonse ndipo titha kudziwa ndi malingaliro aanthu okha.
Tenga chitsanzo cha mwana wakhanda. Sadziwa chifukwa chake ali ndi "chinthu" kumeneko. Zilibe tanthauzo kwa iye chilichonse. Komabe, akafika msinkhu wanzeru, amaphunzira "chinthu" chimenecho 
akupitiliza kupanga zopanda tanthauzo kupatula maliseche achikazi. Momwemonso, mtsikana amathanso kulingalira kuti kugonana kwake sikumveka bwino kupatula kugonana kwa amuna. Ndiwo wothandizira. Izi zitha kumveka ndi malingaliro amunthu okha. Ndikutanthauza, ngati chaka chimodzi chokha chitha kudziphunzitsa kuyika chikhomo chozungulira chozungulira, lingaliro loti kuphunzitsa zolaula zolaula mkalasi "ndizofunika" kumakhala kovuta, kuwonetsa zokambirana za mtundu wina…
Izi zati, malingaliro athu amunthu adetsedwa ndi tchimo. Chifukwa chake zowona zakugonana kwathu nthawi zambiri zimabisika.
Lamulo lachilengedwe silimadziwika ndi aliyense momveka bwino komanso nthawi yomweyo. Pakadali pano munthu wochimwa amafuna chisomo ndi vumbulutso kuti zowona zamakhalidwe ndi zachipembedzo zidziwike "ndi aliyense wokhazikika, motsimikiza osasokeretsa." -Katekisimu wa Mpingo wa Katolika (CCC), N. 1960
Ili ndiye gawo la gawo la Mpingo. Khristu adamupatsa udindo "wophunzitsa zonse" zomwe Ambuye wathu adaphunzitsa. Izi siziphatikizapo Uthenga Wabwino wachikhulupiriro wokha, komanso Uthenga Wabwino wamakhalidwe. Pakuti ngati Yesu ananena kuti chowonadi chidzatimasula, [5]onani. Juwau 8:32 Zingaoneke zofunikira kuti tidziwe ndendende zomwe zowonadi izi ndizomwe zimatimasula ife, ndi iwo omwe amatipanga akapolo. Motero Tchalitchi chinapatsidwa ntchito yophunzitsa “chikhulupiriro ndi makhalidwe.” Amachita izi mosalephera kudzera mwa Mzimu Woyera, amene ali "chikumbukiro chamoyo cha Mpingo", [6]cf. CCC, N. 1099 chifukwa cha lonjezo la Khristu:
… Pakudza iye, Mzimu wa chowonadi, adzakutsogolerani inu ku chowonadi chonse. (Yohane 16:13)
Apanso, bwanji ndikuloza izi pokambirana zakugonana? Chifukwa ndi zabwino ziti kukambirana zomwe zili zoyenera "zolondola" kapena "zolakwika" malingaliro a Mpingo pokhapokha titamvetsetsa kodi mfundo yoti Mpingo ndiyotani? Monga Bishopu Wamkulu Salvatore Cordileone waku San Francisco adati:
Chikhalidwe chikasowa kumvetsetsa zowonadi zachilengedwezi, ndiye kuti maziko omwe timaphunzitsira amasanduka nthunzi ndipo palibe chomwe tingapereke chidzakhala chomveka. -Wankhan.com, June 3rd, 2015
MAU A MPINGO Lero
Mfundo yoti Mpingo utchulidwe ndi lamulo lachilengedwe ndi vumbulutso la Mulungu kudzera mwa Yesu Khristu. Sizimasiyana koma zimaphatikizapo umodzi wa chowonadi kuchokera pagwero limodzi: Mlengi.
Lamulo lachilengedwe, ntchito yabwino kwambiri ya Mlengi, imapereka maziko olimba omwe munthu angapangire dongosolo lamakhalidwe abwino kuti athe kuwongolera zisankho zake. Zimaperekanso maziko ofunikira pakumanga gulu la anthu. Pomaliza, imapereka maziko oyenera amilandu yaboma yomwe imalumikizidwa, kaya ndi chinyezimiro chomwe chimafikira pamapeto pake pamalingaliro ake, kapena powonjezerapo zabwino komanso zalamulo. -CCC, N. 1959
Udindo wa Mpingo ndiye kuti sakupikisana ndi Boma. M'malo mwake, ndikupereka chitsogozo chaboma chaboma pantchito yake yopezera, kukonza, ndikuwongolera zabwino za anthu. Ndimakonda kunena kuti Mpingo ndi "mayi wa chimwemwe." 
Pakuti pachimake pa ntchito yake ndikubweretsa abambo ndi amai mu "ufulu waulemerero wa ana a Mulungu." [7] Rom 8: 21 chifukwa "Khristu anatimasula kuti tikhale mfulu." [8]Gal 5: 1
Ambuye samangoganizira za moyo wathu wauzimu wokha komanso thupi lathu (chifukwa moyo ndi thupi zimapanga chikhalidwe chimodzi), chifukwa chake chisamaliro cha amayi cha Mpingo chimatithandizanso pa kugonana kwathu. Kapena wina anganene kuti, nzeru zake zimafikira "kuchipinda" popeza "palibe chobisika kupatula kuti chiwonekere; Palibe chinsinsi koma chidzaululidwa. ” [9]Mark 4: 22 Izi zikutanthauza kuti zomwe zimachitika kuchipinda is nkhawa za Mpingo chifukwa zochita zathu zonse zimakhudza momwe timakhalira ndi kulumikizana ndi ena m'magulu ena, mwauzimu ndi mwamaganizidwe, kunja kuchipinda. Chifukwa chake, "ufulu wakugonana" weniweni ndi gawo limodzi la mapangidwe a Mulungu kuti tikhale achimwemwe, ndipo chisangalalo chimangirizidwa ku chowonadi.
Tchalitchichi [chikufuna] kupitilizabe kukweza mawu poteteza anthu, ngakhale mfundo za mayiko ndi malingaliro ambiri atha kutsutsana. Zowonadi, zimadzichotsera mphamvu pazokha osati pamlingo wovomerezekayo. —POPA BENEDICT XVI, Vatican, pa Marichi 20, 2006
Mu Gawo Lachitatu, zokambirana pazakugonana potengera ulemu wathu.
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