UJoseph wam, nguTianna (Mallett) Williams
UKUPHELELWA KWE-ST. UYOSEFU
UMTSHATO WENTOMBI YENTSIKELELO MARIYA
AS Utata osemncinci, ndifunde ingxelo ebandayo kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo endingazange ndiyilibale:
Cinga ngobomi bamadoda amabini. Omnye wabo, uMax Jukes, wayehlala eNew York. Wayengakholelwa kuKristu okanye anike uqeqesho lobuKristu kubantwana bakhe. Akavumanga ukuthatha abantwana bakhe bayise ecaweni, naxa becela ukuya. Wayenenzala engama-1026 — abangama-300 kubo bavalelwa iminyaka eli-13 entolongweni, abali-190 babengoonongogo esidlangalaleni, yaye abangama-680 babelinxila. Amalungu osapho lwakhe axabisa uRhulumente ngaphezulu kwe- $ 420,000 yeedola-ukuza kuthi ga ngoku-kwaye bebengenzanga galelo liqinisekileyo eluntwini.
UJonathan Edwards wayehlala kwilizwe elinye ngaxeshanye. Wayeyithanda iNkosi kwaye wabona ukuba abantwana bakhe basecaweni rhoqo ngeCawe. Wayekhonza iNkosi ngokusemandleni akhe. Kwinzala yakhe engama-929, abangama-430 babengabalungiseleli, abangama-86 baba ngoonjingalwazi baseyunivesithi, abali-13 baba ngoomongameli baseyunivesithi, abangama-75 babhala iincwadi ezincomekayo, abangama-7 banyulwa kwiCongress yaseUnited States, omnye wabo waba nguSekela-Mongameli waseUnited States. Usapho lwakhe aluzange lubize Rhulumente isenti enye, kodwa banegalelo elingenakulinganiswa kwinzuzo elungileyo.
Zibuze… ukuba usapho lwam luqale ngam, sesiphi isiqhamo esinokuthwala kwiminyaka engama-200 ukusukela ngoku? -Incwadi encinci kaThixo yokuNikela ooTata (Hlonipha iincwadi), iphe. 91
Ngaphandle kwezithethe zethu zokuzama ukukhupha ubudoda nokuphelisa ukuba ngutata, uyilo lukaThixo kusapho lomntu alunakuze luthintelwe, nokuba "usapho" lunokudlula kwimeko enzima. Kukho imigaqo yendalo kunye neyasemoyeni ekusebenzeni engenakuphinda ityeshelwe njengomthetho womxhuzulane. Ayisiyo kuphela indima yamadoda hayi iphelelwe lixesha, ibaluleke kakhulu kunakuqala. Inyani yile yokuba oonyana bakho neentombi bukela wena. Umfazi wakho kulinda yeyakho. Kwaye ihlabathi linjalo ngethemba yeyakho. Bakhangela ntoni bonke?
yenene amadoda.
AMADODA OKWENENE
La magama mabini avelisa imifanekiso emininzi, kwaye uninzi lwawo alusileli: yimisipha, yomelele, inesibindi, 
uzimisele, ungoyiki, njalo njalo. Kwaye uyakubona kulutsha namhlanje umfanekiso ongalunganga kakhulu "oyindoda yokwenyani": u-sexy, techy, umnini wezinto zokudlala ezinkulu, ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwegama elithi "f", virile, ambitious, njl. Ngapha koko, ngelixa iintshukumo ezininzi zobuKrestu zenze lukhulu ukunceda amadoda ukuba abe ngamadoda kwakhona, kunokubakho nesilingo sokusebenza kwesi sihlwele sibe luhlobo lomlwi, ijoni elingumKristu, i-go-take-on-the-world-froth. Ngelixa ukukhusela ubomi nenyaniso kufanelekile, nako oku kusilela kubudoda bokwenyani.
Endaweni yoko, uYesu utyhila ubuninzi bobudoda ngobusuku benkanuko yakhe:
Uphakame esidlweni sangokuhlwa wakhulula iimpahla zakhe zangaphandle. Uthathe itawuli wayibopha esinqeni. Emveni koko wagalela amanzi esityeni sokuhlambela, waqalisa ukuzihlamba iinyawo zabafundi, wazomisa ngetawuli esinqeni sakhe. Ke kaloku, xeshikweni ebezihlambile iinyawo zabo, waziphinda iingubo zakhe, wabuya wangqengqa etafileni; , "...Ngoko ke, ukuba mna nenkosi nomfundisi ndizihlambile iinyawo zenu, nani nifanele ukuhlambana iinyawo. Ndikunike umzekelo ukuba ulandele, ukuze, njengoko ndenze ngako kuwe, nawe wenze. ” (UYohane 13: 4-15)
Kuqala, umfanekiso unokubonakala ngathi uyathakatha, kwaye uyacaphukisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo yamkhupha uPetros. Kodwa ukuba ngokwenene 
qala ukuphila ngento eyenziwe nguYesu, emva koko uqaphela ngokukhawuleza amandla aluhlaza kunye nokuzimisela okuyimfuneko kulala ubomi bomntu…. Ukubeka izixhobo zakho ukutshintsha ilweyile. Ukuvala ikhompyuter ukuze ufundele abantwana bakho ibali. Ukuphumla umdlalo ukulungisa impompo eyaphukileyo. Ukubeka bucala umsebenzi wakho wokwenza isaladi. Ukuvala umlomo xa unomsindo. Ukukhupha inkunkuma ngaphandle kokucelwa. Ukufosela ikhephu okanye ukuchetywa kwengca ngaphandle kokukhalaza. Ukucela uxolo xa usazi ukuba wenze impazamo. Ukungaqalekisi xa ucaphukile. Ukunceda ngezitya. Ukuthantamisa nokuxolela xa umfazi wakho engekho. Ukuya kuVuma rhoqo. Kwaye uguqe ngamadolo uchithe ixesha kunye neNkosi yinke imihla.
UYesu wachaza umfanekiso we a yenene umntu kwaba kanye konke konke:
Niyazi ukuba abo babonwa njengabalawuli kwiiNtlanga bazigagamela, nabo bazizikhulu benza ngegunya kubo bazive. Ze kungabi njalo ke phakathi kwenu. Osukuba efuna ukuba mkhulu phakathi kwenu, makabe ngumlungiseleli wenu; (UMateyu 10: 42-43)
Kwaye emva koko walala emnqamlezweni wakufela.
Nasi isitshixo sokuba kutheni ubomi Inkonzo yayingengokuba luhlobo oluthile lwedinostini eyabelweyo:
Akukho namnye ubuhluthayo kum ubomi bam, ndibuncama ngokwam. Ndinegunya lokubuncama, ndinegunya lokubuya ndibuthabathe; (UYohane 10:18)
UYesu akazange anyanzelwe ukuba akhonze: Wakhetha ukuba likhoboka lokutyhila uthando oluyinyani.
Nangona wayekwimo kaThixo, akazange athabathe ukulingana noThixo njengento anokuyiqonda. Endaweni yokuba aziqongqothe, ethabatha ubume bekhoboka… (Phil 2: 8-9)
Nangona ungaba ngumbingeleli wekhaya lakho kunye nentloko yomfazi wakho, xelisa ukuthobeka zikaYesu. Zithulule uze uzifumane; yiba likhoboka, uze ube yindoda; ncama ubomi bakho ngenxa yabanye, kwaye uya kubufumana kwakhona, njengoko kufanelekile: wenziwe ngokomfanekiso kaThixo.
Kuba umfanekiselo wakhe ukwangumboniso indoda yokwenene.
I-EPILOGUE
Ngelixa singenawo amagama abhaliweyo ka-St. Joseph esiBhalweni, kukho umzuzu obalulekileyo ebomini bakhe xa waba yindoda yokwenyani. Yayingumhla awaphupha ngawo amaphupha akhe-xa esiva ukuba uMariya ukhulelwe.
Ingelosi yabonakala kuye ephupheni yatyhila indlela yakhe yexesha elizayo: ukuncama ubomi bakhe ngenxa yomfazi wakhe kunye noMntwana wakhe. Kuthetha utshintsho olukhulu kwizicwangciso. Kwakuthetha ukuthotywa okuthile. Kwakuthetha ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kuThixo 
Ukubonelela.
Wavuka uYosefu, wenza njengoko isithunywa seNkosi samwisele umthetho, wamthabathela kuye umfazi wakhe. (Mat 1: 24)
Ukuba unqwenela ukuba yindoda yokwenene, ungapheleli nje ekulingiseni uYesu kodwa Thatha uMariya umngenise ekhayeni lakho nayeOko kukuthi, eyakho intliziyo. Vumela umama wakhe akufundise, kwaye akukhokelele kwindlela eya kumanyano noThixo. St. Joseph wenza. UYesu wenjenjalo. Kanjalo noSt.
Nanku unyoko. ” Wathi kwakwelo lixa, umfundi lowo wamthabatha, wamsa kwikhaya lakhe. (UYohane 19:27)
Zingcwalise kulo mfazi, njengoko benzayo, kwaye uya kukunceda ngokwenyani ukuba ube ngumntu kaThixo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba ubonwa efanelekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba angakhulisa uNyana kaThixo, kufanelekile ukuba nathi sinjalo.
St. Joseph… St. John… uMariya, uMama kaThixo, sithandazeleni.
KUFUNDWA NGOKUBA
Umbingeleli kwikhaya lam - Icandelo I & Icandelo II
Ukuba ungathanda ukuxhasa iimfuno zosapho lwethu,
Cofa nje kwiqhosha elingezantsi kwaye ubandakanye amagama
"Kwintsapho" kwicandelo lokuphawula.
Ndikusikelele kwaye ndiyabulela!
Ukuhamba noMark kwi The Ngoku iLizwi,
cofa kwibhena engezantsi ukuya rhuma.
I-imeyile yakho ayizokwabelwana naye nabani na.
