IF uyafunda Ukugcinwa kwentliziyo, emva koko uyazi ngoku ukuba kukangaphi sisilela ukuyigcina! Kulula ukuba siphazanyiswe yinto encinci, sisuswe eluxolweni, kwaye siphume kwiminqweno yethu engcwele. Kwakhona, kunye noPaul Paul siyakhala:
Andenzi le ndiyifunayo, kodwa ndenza le ndiyithiyileyo…! (Roma 7:14)
Kodwa kufuneka sive kwakhona amazwi kaSt.
Kubaleleni ekuthini kuluvuyo olukhulu, bazalwana bam, xa nithe nagaxeleka ezilingweni ngezilingo, nisazi nje ukuba ucikido lokholo lwenu lusebenza umonde. Umonde ke mawube ngogqibeleleyo, ukuze nibe ngabazalisekileyo abagqibeleleyo, ningaswele nto. (Yakobi 1: 2-4)
UGrace akatshiphu, unikezelwa njengokutya okukhawulezayo okanye ucofe imouse. Kufuneka siyilwele! Ukukhumbula, okuphinda kugcine intliziyo, kuhlala kungumzabalazo phakathi kweminqweno yenyama kunye neminqweno kaMoya. Kwaye ke, kuya kufuneka sifunde ukulandela iindlela kaMoya…
ULAWULO
Kwakhona, ugcino lwentliziyo luthetha ukuphepha ezo zinto zinokukutsalela umke ebusweni bukaThixo; phaphama, uyiphaphele imigibe eya kukukhokelela esonweni.
Ndisikelelwe ngokufunda esi sicatshulwa silandelayo izolo emva Ndipapashe Ukugcinwa kwentliziyo. Sisiqinisekiso esichukumisayo sento endiyibhalileyo ekuqaleni kosuku:
Ngaba ungathanda ukuba ndikufundise ukukhula ukusuka kwisidima ukuya kwisidima kwaye njani, ukuba sele ukhunjulwe emthandazweni, ungamamela ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo, kwaye ke unike uThixo unqulo olukholisa ngakumbi? Phulaphulani, ndinixelele. Ukuba intlantsi encinane yothando lukaThixo sele ivutha ngaphakathi kuwe, musa ukuyibek’ esichengeni emoyeni, kuba inokuphephetheka. Sivale ngokuqinileyo isitovu ukuze singaphulukani nobushushu kwaye sigodole. Ngamanye amazwi, ziphephe iziphazamiso kangangoko unako. Hlala uthe cwaka noThixo. Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho kwincoko engenamsebenzi. —ISt. UCharles Borromeo, Ubungakanani bamaxesha eeyure, iphe. 1544, iSikhumbuzo saseSt. Charles Borromeo, ngoNovemba 4.
Kodwa, ngenxa yokuba sibuthathaka kwaye sityekele kwiinkanuko zenyama, iinkanuko zehlabathi, nekratshi, iziphazamiso zifika kuthi naxa sizama ukuziphepha. Kodwa khumbula oku; yibhale phantsi, yiphinde kuwe de ungaze uyilibale:
Zonke izilingo ezisehlabathini azilingani nesono esinye.
USathana okanye ihlabathi lisenokuphosa ezona ngcinga zingcolileyo engqondweni yakho, eyona minqweno inomtsalane, 
eyona migibe ichuliweyo yesono kangangokuba ingqondo nomzimba wakho uphela uthinjwe kumlo omkhulu. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba ubonwabise okanye unikezele ngokupheleleyo, isimbuku sezo zilingo asilingani nesono esinye. USathana utshabalalise imiphefumlo emininzi ngenxa yokuba eyeyisela ekubeni isilingo yinto enye nesono; ukuba ngenxa yokuba uhendwa okanye wanikelwa kancinci, ukuze ube “nokukulandela.” Kodwa obu bubuxoki. Kuba nokuba uthe wanikela ngentwana, wathi wakubuya wayizuza intliziyo yakho, wazuza iinceba neentsikelelo ezininzi kunokuba uzinikele ngokupheleleyo ngokuthanda kwakho.
Isithsaba soMvuzo asigcinelwanga abo bahamba ngomkhumbi ubomi ngaphandle kokunyamekela (ngaba imiphefumlo enjalo ikhona?), Kodwa kulabo balwa nengwe kwaye banyamezele kude kube sekupheleni, nangona bewa kwaye bezabalaza phakathi.
Unoyolo umntu ohlala enyamezele ukulingwa, kuba xa athe wavavanywa, uya kwamkela isithsaba sobomi, awabuthembisa abo bamthandayo. (Yakobi 1:12)
Apha kufuneka silumke; ngokuba imfazwe asiyeyethu, yekaYehova. Ngaphandle kwakhe, asinakwenza nto. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokusukuzana nezilawuli namagunya, izithunywa zezulu eziwileyo ezikrelekrele kufana nokuba bezingamafu nje othuli avuthululwe ekuqaleni kokuxhathisa, uya kwandula ke ugawulwe njengengca yengca. Mamela ubulumko bukaMama weCawa:
Ukumisa ngokuzingela iziphazamiso kuya kuba kukuwela emgibeni wabo, xa konke okufunekayo kukubuyela ezintliziyweni zethu: kuba isiphazamiso sityhila kuthi into esinamathele kuyo, kwaye oku kuqonda okuthobekileyo phambi kweNkosi kufuneka kuvuse ukhetho lwethu. simthande kwaye asikhokelele ngokuzimisela ukuba simnikele iintliziyo zethu ukuba zihlanjululwe. Apho kulele idabi, ukhetho lwenkosi ekufanele ikhonze. -IKatekism yeCawa yamaKatolika, 2729
UKUBUYELA EMVA
Obona bunzima buphambili ekusebenzeni komthandazo kukuphazamiseka nokomisa. Isicombululo siselukholweni, inguquko, kunye nokuphaphama kwentliziyo. -IKatekism yeCawa yamaKatolika, 2754
ukholo
Nalapha, phakathi kweziphazamiso, simele sibe njengabantwana abancinane. Ukufumana ukholo. Kwanele nje ukuthi, “Nkosi, ndiyaya kwakhona, nditsalwe kude ekuthandeni ngenxa yesi siphazamiso. Ndixolele Thixo, ndingowakho, ndingowakho ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye kunye 
ukuba, nibuyele kwinto eniyenzayo ngothando, ngokungathi niyenzela yena. Kodwa ‘ummangaleli wabazalwana’ akayi kuba semva kumphefumlo ongekafundi ukukholosa ngenceba kaThixo. Nguwo lo ke ukudibana kokholo; lo ngumzuzu wesigqibo: mhlawumbi ndiya kubukholelwa ubuxoki bokuba ndilihlazo nje kuThixo ondinyamezelayo-okanye ukuba usanda kundixolela, kwaye undithanda ngokwenene, kungekhona ngenxa yento endiyenzayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba wandidala. .
Umphefumlo obuthathaka, nonesono mawungabi naloyiko lokusondela kum, kuba nokuba ubunezono ezininzi kunentlabathi esehlabathini, zonke ziya kurhaxwa kubunzulu obungenakulinganiswa benceba yam.. —UYesu ukuya eSt. Faustina, Inceba kaThixo kumphefumlo wam, Iidayari yeSt Faustina, n. 1059
Izono zakho, nokuba zinzulu, zinjengentlabathi ephambi kolwandle lwenceba kaThixo. Hayi indlela ekububudenge ngayo ukucinga ukuba ukhozo lwentlabathi lungalushukumisa uLwandle! Olunjani lona uloyiko olungenasiseko! Ndaweni yaloo nto, ukholo lwenu oluncinane, lunjengokhozo lwemostade, luyakwazi ukususa iintaba. Inokukutyhala unyuke iNtaba yoLuthando ukuya kwiNgqungquthela kanye...
Lumka ungalahleki naliphi na ithuba ubonelelo lwam ekubonelela ngalo ngokungcwaliswa. Ukuba awuphumeleli ekusebenziseni ithuba, musa ukuphulukana noxolo lwakho, kodwa zithobe kakhulu phambi kwam kwaye, ngokuzithemba okukhulu, zitshonise ngokupheleleyo kwinceba yam. Ngale ndlela, uzuza ngaphezulu kokulahlekileyo, kuba uyawongwa umphefumlo othobekileyo kunokuba umphefumlo ucele ... —Ibhid. n. 1361
Ukuguquka
Kodwa ukuba isiphazamiso siyazingisa, asisoloko siphuma kumtyholi. Khumbula, uYesu waqhutyelwa entlango ngoMoya
apho Wahendwa khona. Ngamanye amaxesha uMoya oyiNgcwele usikhokelela ekungeneni Intlango yesihendo ukuze iintliziyo zethu zibe nyulu. “Isiphazamiso” sinokubonisa ukuba ndinamathele kwinto endithintelayo ekubhabheleni kuThixo—kungekhona “uhlaselo lokomoya” ngomntu ngamnye. NguMoya oyiNgcwele otyhila oku kuba uyandithanda kwaye ufuna ukuba ndikhululeke ngokupheleleyo.
Intaka ingabanjwa ngetyathanga okanye ngentambo, kodwa ayikwazi ukubhabha. —St. UYohane woMnqamlezo, op. cit ., ikepusi. xi. (cf. Ukunyuka kweNtaba yeKarmele, Incwadi I, n. 4)
Kwaye ke, lixesha lokukhetha. Apha, ndingaphendula njengomfana osisityebi, kwaye ndihambe ndibuhlungu kuba ndifuna ukugcina ubuhlobo bam ... kwaye ngoncedo lwaKhe, khululeka.
Kulungile ukucamngca rhoqo ngesiphelo sobomi bakho. Gcina loo ngcinga phambi kwakho rhoqo. Izinto ozincamatheleyo kobu bomi ziya kunyuka zibe ngumphunga njengenkungu ekupheleni kobomi bakho (enokuba bubusuku obu). Aziyi kuba nantsingiselo zize zilityalwe kubomi obuzayo, nangona siye sacinga ngazo ngokufuthi ngoxa sasisemhlabeni. Kodwa isenzo sokulahlwa esikwahlula kubo, siya kuhlala ngonaphakade.
Ngenxa yakhe ndamkele ukulahleka kwezinto zonke kwaye ndizithatha njengenkunkuma, ukuze ndimzuze uKristu ndifumaneke kuye… (Phil 3: 8-9)
Ukuphaphama kweNtliziyo
Njengoko umhlaba ophoswe phezu kwawo ucima umlilo ovuthayo esitovini, ngoko iinkxalabo zehlabathi kunye nalo lonke uhlobo lokunamathela kwinto ethile, nokuba incinci kangakanani kwaye ingabalulekanga, itshabalalisa ukufudumala kwentliziyo okwakukho ekuqaleni.. —ISt. USimeyon uMfundi wezakwalizwi omtsha,Abangcwele abacaphulwayo, Ronda De Sola Chervin, iphe. 147
Umthendeleko weSivumo sisipho sentlantsi entsha. Njengomlilo wesitovu, ngokufuthi simele songeze esinye isigodo size sivuthele phezu kwamalahle ukuze sivuthe iinkuni.
Ukulinda okanye ukugcinwa kwentliziyo kufuna konke oku. Okokuqala, simele 
sibe nentlantsi yobuThixo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba sityekele ekuweni rhoqo, kufuneka siye kwi-Confession rhoqo. Kanye ngeveki yeyona nto ifanelekileyo, utshilo uJohn Paul II. Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukuba ngcwele, ukuba ufuna ukuba yiloo nto uyiyo ngokwenyani, kuya kufuneka uhlale utshintshiselana ngothuthu oluqhumayo lwesono kunye nokuzingca kwintlantsi yoThando.
Kungayinto engekhoyo ukufuna ubungcwele, ngokobizo umntu alufumene kuThixo, ngaphandle kokutya rhoqo kule sakramente yenguquko noxolelwaniso. —UPopu John Paul Omkhulu; IVatican, ngoMatshi 29, CWNews.com
Kodwa kulula ukuba le ntlantsi yobuthixo ithintelwe kukungcola kwehlabathi ukuba asiphaphanga. Ukuvuma izono ayisosiphelo, kodwa sisiqalo. Kufuneka sithabathe imvula yobabalo ngezandla zozibini: isandla sika mthandazo kunye nesandla se sa. Ngelinye icala, nditsala iinceba endizidingayo ngomthandazo: ukuphulaphula iLizwi likaThixo, ukuvula intliziyo yam kuMoya oyiNgcwele. Kwelinye icala, ndifikelela kwimisebenzi emihle, ndisenza umsebenzi welo xesha ngenxa yothando nenkonzo kuThixo nommelwane. Ngale ndlela, ilangatye lothando entliziyweni yam livuthiswa ngumoya woMoya osebenza “kwinto” yam kwintando kaThixo. Kwi ukucamngca, ndivula izandi nditsala uthando lukaThixo ngaphakathi; kwi inyathelo, Ndivuthela phezu kwamalahle entliziyo yommelwane wam ngolo Thando lufanayo, lutshisa ihlabathi elindingqongileyo.
INQAKU
Ukukhumbula, ke, akugcini nje ukuphepha iziphazamiso, kodwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba intliziyo yam inakho konke ekufunayo ukukhula kwisidima. Kuba xa ndikhula esidimani, ndikhula ngolonwabo, yiyo loo nto uYesu weza.
Mna ndizele ukuze babe nobomi, babe nabo ke ngokugqithiseleyo. ( Yohane 10:10 )
Obu Bomi, obumanyene noThixo, yinjongo yethu. Yinjongo yethu ke eyokugqibela, neentlungu zobomi bangoku aziyonto xa zithelekiswa nozuko olusilindeleyo.
Ukufikelelwa kweenjongo zethu kufuna ukuba singaze sime kule ndlela, nto leyo ethetha ukuba kufuneka siqhubeke silahla izinto esizifunayo kunokuba siziyeke. Kuba ukuba asizikhuphi ngokupheleleyo, asiyi kulufikelela ngokupheleleyo usukelo lwethu. Isigodo somthi asinakuguqulwa sibe ngumlilo ukuba akukho neqondo elinye lobushushu ekulungiseleleni oku. Umphefumlo, ngokufanayo, awuyi kuguqulwa kuThixo nokuba unokungafezeki okunye... inguqu. —St. UYohane woMnqamlezo, Ukunyuka kweNtaba yeKarmele, Incwadi I, Ch. 11, n. 6
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