UKUXELWA iyantlukwano kunye nabantu yinto efundiswa yinkolo yobuKristu, hayi, iimfuno. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi "ukunyamezelwa" kwesono. '
… [Ubizo] lwethu kukuhlangula ihlabathi liphela ebubini kwaye siliguqule kuThixo: ngomthandazo, ngokuzisola, ngothando, kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ngenceba. -Thomas Merton, Akukho mntu sisiQithi
Luthando lokunganxibisi abaze ze, ukuthuthuzela abagulayo, kunye nokutyelela ibanjwa, kodwa ukunceda umzalwana wakho hayi ukuba ze, ugule, okanye uvalelwe kuqala. Yiyo loo nto injongo yecawe ikukuchaza into embi, ukuze kukhethwe okulungileyo.
Inkululeko ayibandakanyi ukwenza into esiyithandayo, kodwa kukuba nelungelo lokwenza oko kufanelekile. —UPOPE JOHN PAUL II
