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MHLAWUMBI esona silingo sinzima esijamelene naso namhlanje sisilingo sokukholelwa ukuba umthandazo ulilize, ukuba uThixo akayiphenduli imithandazo yabo. Ukunikezela kwesi sihendo sisiqalo sokwaphukelwa yinqanawa kokholo lwakho ...

Ukuphelelwa lithemba emthandazweni

Omnye umfundi undibhalele esithi kudala ethandazela ukuguqulwa kwenkosikazi yakhe, kodwa uhlala enguntamo-lukhuni njengakuqala. Omnye umfundi akasebenzi iminyaka emibini kwaye akafumani msebenzi. Omnye ujongene nokugula okungapheliyo; omnye ulilolo; omnye enabantwana abaye balushiya ukholo; omnye othe, nangona ethandaza qho, ukwamkelwa kweSakramente, nayo yonke imizamo elungileyo, aqhubeke nokukhubeka kwizono ezifanayo.

Kwaye ke, baphelelwe lithemba.

Le yimizekelo nje embalwa yezilingo ezinzima abaninzi abajamelene nazo emzimbeni kaKristu namhlanje — singasathethi ke ngabo babukele abantwana babo besifa yindlala, iintsapho zabo ziqhekeka, okanye kwezinye iimeko, bebulawa phambi ngamehlo abo.

Akunakwenzeka kuphela umthandazo kwezi meko, kodwa kunjalo kubalulekile.

Kwiindawo ezinzulu malunga noMthandazo wamaKristu kwi Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, ithi:

Ukuthembana ngokwasekhaya kuyavavanywa- kuyazibonakalisa - kwimbandezelo. Ubunzima obuphambili buchaphazela umthandazo wesikhalazo, ngokwakho okanye kwabanye ekuthetheni. Abanye bade bayeke ukuthandaza kuba becinga ukuba isicelo sabo asimanyelwa. Nantsi imibuzo emibini ekufuneka ibuzwe: Kutheni le nto sicinga ukuba isicelo sethu asimanyelwanga? Uviwa njani umthandazo wethu, kwaye "uyasebenza" njani? —N. 2734

Emva koko, kubuzwa omnye umbuzo, ofuna ukuhlolwa kwesazela:

… Xa sidumisa uThixo okanye simbulela ngezibonelelo zakhe ngokubanzi, asikhathali nokuba umthandazo wethu wamkelekile kuye na. Kwelinye icala, sifuna ukubona iziphumo zezikhalazo zethu. Nguwuphi umfanekiso kaThixo oshukumisela umthandazo wethu: isixhobo ekufuneka sisetyenzisiwe? okanye uYise weNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu? —N. 2735

Apha, sijamelene nemfihlelo engenakuphepheka: Iindlela zikaThixo aziyondlela zethu.

Inene, njengokuba izulu liwuphakamele umhlaba, ngokunjalo iindlela zam ziziphakamele iindlela zenu, neengcinga zam ziziphakamele iingcinga zenu. (Isaya 55: 9)

Ndikhumbula xa ndandineminyaka engama-35 ubudala, ndihleli ecaleni kwebhedi kamama owayebulawa ngumhlaza. Lo ibingumfazi ongcwele, uphawu lothando nobulumko kusapho lwethu. Kodwa ukufa kwakhe kwakubonakala kungcwele. Ubexinekile phambi kwethu kwinto ebibonakala ngathi ingunaphakade lemizuzu. Umfanekiso wokudlula kukamama njengentlanzi iphume emanzini utshisiwe ezingqondweni zethu. Kutheni umntu omhle kangaka ebulawa kabuhlungu ngolu hlobo? Kwakutheni ukuze udadewethu asweleke kwingozi yemoto kwiminyaka eyadlulayo eneminyaka emashumi mabini anesibini?

Andiqondi ukuba lo mbuzo — okanye nawuphi na umbuzo malunga nokubandezeleka — unokuphendulwa ngokwaneleyo ngaphandle kokuba UThixo ngokwakhe wabandezeleka. Ewe kwakungekho nto intle ngokufa kukaKristu. Nditsho nobomi baKhe baphawulwa ngovavanyo emva kwetyala.

Iimpungutye zinemingxuma, neentaka zezulu zineendawo zokuhlala; ke yena uNyana woMntu akanayo nendawo le yokufaka intloko. (Mat 8: 20)

Ukanti, lo Mkhonzi ubandezelekileyo utyhile umthombo ka-Hamandla kuthi: Wayethandaza rhoqo noBawo, kwaye waphawuleka kakhulu xa esiva ukuba uYise umshiyile.

Bawo, ukuba uyavuma, yithabathe le ndebe kum; okwangoku, hayi ukuthanda kwam kodwa okwakho makwenziwe. [Kwaza kwabonakala kuye ingelosi evela ezulwini.] (Luka 22: 42-43)

Kwanangoko, ejinga ze emnqamlezweni, Wadanduluka: “Thixo wam, Thixo wam, undishiyeleni na?” Ukuba u-Yesu wayeza kuwugqiba apho umthandazo wakhe, mhlawumbi nathi singaba nesizathu sokuphelelwa lithemba. Kodwa iNkosi yethu yongeza esinye isikhalo:

Bawo, ndiwunikela ezandleni zakho umoya wam. (ULuka 23:46)

Apha, uYesu ngokwakhe wabeka ilitye lokugqibela lendlela indlela ukuba nathi kufuneka sithathe, sijongane njengoko sinjalo nemfihlakalo yesono, ububi nokubandezeleka kulomhlaba. Kwaye ngu indlela yokuthobeka. ^[1]cf. Isitshixo sokuvula intliziyo kaThixo

INDLELA YOKUTHOBEKA

Esona silingo siqhelekileyo kodwa esifihlakeleyo sesethu ukuswela ukholo. Izichaza kancinci ngokuxela ukungakholelwa kunokhetho lwethu lokwenyani. Xa siqala ukuthandaza, iwaka lokusebenza okanye ukukhathalela sicinga ukuba kungxamisekile sibeka izinto eziphambili; Kwakhona, ngumzuzu wenyaniso entliziyweni: luthini olona thando lwayo lokwenene? Ngamanye amaxesha sibuyela eNkosini njengecebo lokugqibela, kodwa siyakholelwa ukuba injalo? Ngamanye amaxesha sibhalisa iNkosi njengehlakani, kodwa iintliziyo zethu zihlala zikhukhumala. Kwimeko nganye, ukungabi nalukholo kwethu kubonisa ukuba asikabi nasabelo kwintliziyo ethobekileyo: “Ngaphandle kwam, nto. " -ICatechism yeCawa yamaKatolika (CCC), n. I-2732

Umthandazo wokuthandabuza uyabuza ngoba? Kodwa umthandazo wokholo uyabuza Njani-undinqwenelela njani Nkosi ukuqhubeka kwindlela engaqondakaliyo phambi kwam? Uyaphendula kwiVangeli yanamhlanje:

Nabani na othobekileyo njengalo mntwana ngoyena mkhulu ebukumkanini bamazulu.

Abathobekileyo abamangaliswa kukubandezeleka kwabo; ibakhokelela ekubeni bathembele ngakumbi, babambelele rhoqo. -CCC, n. I-2733

Abathobekileyo abaziqondi zonke iindlela zikaThixo; Endaweni yoko, babamkela ngokholo, begcina uMnqamlezo noVuko njengenkwenkwezi ekhokelayo phambi kwabo kubusuku bokubandezeleka.

INKULULEKO YABANTU

Ndihlala ndicinga ngokuguquka kukaSawule (uSt. Paul). Kwakutheni ukuze iNkosi ikhethe usuku oluthe ngqo lokuya kuwisa uSawule kwihashe lakhe eliphezulu? Kutheni le nto uYesu angaveli ekukhanyeni phambi kokuba UStefano waxulutywa ngamatye? Ngaphambi kokuba ezinye iintsapho zamaKristu zichithwe bubundlobongela behlokondiba? Phambi kokuba uSawule abengamele ukungcungcuthekiswa nokubulawa kwamanye amaKristu? Thina
andinakuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa into yokuba uThixo abonakalise inceba engaka emntwini onegazi elininzi ezandleni zakhe yakhokelela ekubeni abe ngumphathi oqhubela phambili, hayi kuphela ukukhula koluntu lokuqala lobuKristu, kodwa umbhali weeleta eziqhubeka ukondla iBandla olu suku. Zabhalwa ngosiba lokuthobeka olwaluzaliswe ngeinki yomthandazo.

UThixo uyasiva isikhalo sabangamahlwempu. Kutheni le nto elinde ixesha elide maxa wambi ukuphendula ukukhala kwabo? Apha kwakhona, enye imfihlakalo iyaziveza-yeyokuthanda komntu; imfihlelo endingenayo kuphela amandla okwenza ukhetho olunamaxesha angapheliyo kunye naphakade, kodwa ngokunjalo nabo bandingqongileyo.

Ngaba sicela uThixo ukuba "asilungiselele"? UBawo wethu uyayazi into esiyidingayo phambi kokuba simcele, kodwa ulindele izicelo zethu kuba isidima sabantwana bakhe silele kwinkululeko yabo. Kufuneka sithandaze, ke ngoko, kunye noMoya wakhe wenkululeko, ukuze sikwazi ngokwenyani ukuba ufuna ntoni… kufuneka silwe ukuze sizithobe, sithembele kwaye sinyamezele… Apho kulele khona idabi, ukhetho lwenkosi emayikhonze. -CCC, 2735

Siya kuya kubani? Yesu, unamazwi obomi obungunaphakade. Lowo ngumthandazo kwaye Kukhetha wentliziyo ethobekileyo, yalowo ungenazimpendulo, akukho zisombululo, akukho kukhanya, kodwa ukukhanya kokholo.

Indawo kaThixo emphefumlweni wam ayinanto. Akukho Thixo kum. Xa iintlungu zokulangazelela zikhulu-ndilangazelela uThixo ... kwaye ke kukuba ndiziva ukuba akandifuni — Akakho — uThixo akandifuni. -Umama uTeresa, Yiza ngokuKhanya kwam, UBrian Kolodiejchuk, uMC; iphe. 2

Kodwa yonke imihla, uMama osikelelweyo uTeresa wayeza kuguqa ngamadolo, ngokungathi wayengena eGetsemane, kwaye achithe iyure kunye noYesu phambi kweSakramente.

Ngubani oza kuphikisana neziqhamo zokholo lwakhe?

UMTHANDAZO KWELI XESHA

Ndifuna ukuqukumbela ngokubeka isihloko kwimeko yethu yamaxesha esiphithiphithi. Ndiyakholelwa kwinxalenye yokulingwa kwabaninzi namhlanje ilele ngqo "kuthe cwaka kukaThixo" phambi kokuhlaselwa okuninzi kokholo. Ayikuko ukuthula njengoBawo-njengokuba mhlawumbi wakha wenza kuYesu:

Mntwana wam endimthandayo, le Ndebe ndikunika yona yeyobomi behlabathi. Isipho sokubandezeleka kwakho, isipho sika "ewe" emnqamlezweni, yindlela endiza kusindisa ngayo.

Icawa ibizwa ukuba ithathe inxaxheba kuKrestu, ukuFa, kunye noVuko ngokuchanekileyo njengabasebenzisanayo kwicebo likaBawo lokuHlangula. Ndiyaweva kwakhona loo mazwi esiprofeto esinamandla esanikwa eRoma phambi kukaPaul VI.

Kuba ndiyakuthanda, ndifuna ukukubonisa endikwenzayo emhlabeni namhlanje. Ndifuna ukunilungiselela oko kuzayo. Imihla yobumnyama iyeza ehlabathini, imihla yeembandezelo… Izakhiwo ezimileyo ngoku aziyi kuma. Iisupport ezikhoyo ebantwini bam ngoku azizubakho. Ndifuna nilungiselele, bantu bam, nazi kuphela kwam kwaye ninamathele to kwaye ube nam ngendlela enzulu kunangaphambili. Ndiza kukusa entlango… ndiza kukuhluba yonke into oxhomekeke kuyo ngoku, ke wena uxhomekeke kum. Ixesha lobumnyama liza emhlabeni, kodwa ixesha lozuko liza kwiCawe yam, ixesha lozuko liza kubantu bam. Ndiya kuthulula phezu kwakho zonke izipho zoMoya wam. Ndizokulungiselela umlo wasemoyeni; Ndizokulungiselela ixesha lokushumayela elingazange labonwa lihlabathi…. Kwaye xa ungenanto ngaphandle kwam, uya kuba nayo yonke into: umhlaba, amasimi, amakhaya, nabazalwana kunye noodade kunye nothando novuyo noxolo kunanini na ngaphambili. Hlalani nilungile, bantu bam, ndifuna ukunilungiselela… -Yanikwa nguGqirha Ralph Martin, eSt.Peter's Square, ngePentekoste ngoMvulo kaMeyi, ngo-1975

Mandiqukumbele, ke, ngamazwi kaMoses kufundo lokuqala lwanamhlanje, emva koko eSt. Yazini oku, bazalwana noodade bam abathandekayo, ukuba ndiva ubunzima kunye nani ebumnyameni bokholo. Sukuncama: indlela eya eParadesi imxinwa, kodwa ayinakwenzeka. Kuhamba ngentobeko yokholo rhoqo kwimithandazo.

Abo bathandazayo basindisiwe ngokuqinisekileyo; abo bangathandaziyo bagwetyiwe. —St. UAlphonsus Liguori, I-CCC, n. I-2744

Uya kubona, xa ixesha lilungile, ukuba ngenene, uThixo wenza zonke izinto zisebenze zilungele abo bamthandayo… ^[2]cf. Roma 8: 28 kwabo baqhubeka nomthandazo wabo, nangokuphelelwa lithemba.

NguYehova ohamba phambi kwakho; uya kuba nawe; akayi kukha akuyekele, akushiye. Musa ukoyika, ungaqhiphuki umbilini. (Ufundo lokuqala)

Zintanda, musani ukumangaliswa kukulingwa ngomlilo phakathi kwenu, ngokungathi kukho into engaqhelekanga eyenzekayo. Yithini, njengoko ningamadlelane ngeentlungu zikaKristu, nivuye; ukuze, nasekutyhilekeni kobuqaqawuli bakhe, nivuye nigcoba. (1 Pet 4: 12-13)