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UKUMISELWA indala njengembali yomntu. Kodwa into entsha ngesilingo kula maxesha wethu kukuba isono khange sifikeleleke kangako, sigcwele, kwaye samkelekile. Kunokuthiwa ngokufanelekileyo unogumbe Ukungahlambuluki kuhamba kwihlabathi. Kwaye oku kunempembelelo enzulu kuthi ngeendlela ezintathu. Inye, kukuba ihlasela ubumsulwa bomphefumlo ukuze ivezwe nje kwezona zinto zoyikekayo; Okwesibini, ukusondela rhoqo kwesono kukhokelela ekudinweni; Okwesithathu, ukuwela rhoqo komKristu kwezi zono, nkqu nokubonisa, kuyaqala ukuthomalalisa ukwaneliseka nokuzithemba kwakhe kuThixo okukhokelela kuxinzelelo, ukudana, kunye noxinzelelo, ngaloo ndlela kusitha ubungqina obonwabisayo bobuKrestu emhlabeni .
Imiphefumlo ekhethiweyo kuya kufuneka ilwe neNkosana yoBumnyama. Iya kuba sisaqhwithi esoyikisayo - hayi, hayi isaqhwithi, kodwa inkanyamba eyonakalisa yonke into! Ufuna nokuchitha ukholo kunye nokuzithemba kwabanyuliweyo. Ndiza kusoloko ndisecaleni kwakho kwisaqhwithi esiqalisa ngoku. Ndingu mama wakho. Ndingakunceda kwaye ndiyafuna. -Umyalezo ovela kwiNtombi Enyulu kaMariya usiya kuElizabeth Kindelmann (1913-1985); yamkelwe nguKhadinali Péter Erdö, intshinga yaseHungary
Esi "saqhwithi" saxelwa kwangaphambili kwiinkulungwane ngaphambili kuMama ohloniphekileyo uMariana de Jesus Torres ngokuchaneka okumangalisayo. Iya kuba sisiqhwithi esiziswe yimpembelelo eyonakalisayo ye-Order of Freemason abathi, kwizikhundla zabo eziphezulu, belungelelanisa ukungena, urhwaphilizo, kunye nokutshabalalisa kungekuphela kweCawa, kodwa idemokhrasi yokwenene uqobo.
Iminqweno engalawulekiyo iya kunikezela kurhwaphilizo olupheleleyo lwamasiko kuba uSathana uza kulawula ngamahlelo eMasonic, ejolise ebantwaneni ngokukodwa ekuqinisekiseni urhwaphilizo jikelele…. Umthendeleko womtshato, ophawula umanyano lukaKrestu neCawe, uya kuhlaselwa ngokupheleleyo kuhlanjelwe. Umsebenzi wobugcisa, emva koko ulawula, uya kuphumeza imithetho engendawo ejolise ekucimeni lo mthendeleko. Baza kwenza kube lula kubo bonke ukuba baphile esonweni, ngaloo ndlela bephinda-phinda ukuzalwa kwabantwana abangekho mthethweni ngaphandle kwentsikelelo yeCawe… Ngamaxesha lawo umoya ococekileyo uya kuthi uzaliswe ngumoya wokungcola othi, njengolwandle olungcolileyo, ugubungele izitrato neendawo zikawonke-wonke ngelayisensi engakholelekiyo.… Ukungafumani tyala kuya kufunyanwa ebantwaneni, okanye ukuthozama kubafazi. -Inenekazi lethu leMpumelelo eyiVen. Umama uMariana kuMthendeleko wokuHlanjululwa, 1634; Yabona tfp.org kwaye huinshazin.org
UPopu Benedict uthelekise lo mkhukula worhwaphilizo, obhekiswe ngokukodwa kwiCawe, njengowokufana nalowo kwiNcwadi yeSityhilelo.
Inyoka, nangona kunjalo, ikhuphe umlambo wamanzi emlonyeni wayo emva kokuba umfazi eyitshayele ngomsinga wamanzi. (ISityhi. 12:15)
Lo mlo sizifumana kuwo… [ngokuchasene] namagunya atshabalalisa umhlaba, kuthethwa ngawo kwisahluko se-12 seSityhilelo… Kuthiwa inamba ikhokelela kumjelo omkhulu wamanzi ngokuchasene nomfazi obalekayo, ukumtshayela… ndicinga ukuba Kulula ukutolika ukuba lo mlambo umeleni: yile misinga ilawula wonke umntu, kwaye ifuna ukuphelisa ukholo lweCawa, olubonakala ngathi alunandawo yokuma phambi kwamandla alomsinga azinyanzelisa njengeyona ndlela yokucinga, ekuphela kwendlela yobomi. —UPOPE BENEDICT XVI, iseshoni yokuqala yesinodi ekhethekileyo kuMbindi Mpuma, nge-10 ka-Okthobha ka-2010
Kungenxa yoko le nto, bazalwana noodade abathandekayo, ndilandulele olu bhalo Uqhwithela Loloyiko, ukuze womelezwe kukuzithemba kwakho kuthando lukaThixo ngawe. Kuba akukho namnye kuthi ongaphazamisekanga namhlanje, ojamelana phantse nayo yonke indawo, ngalo mlambo wesilingo. Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka sikhumbule amazwi ka-St Paul ukuba…
… Apho sandayo isono, lwaphuphuma ngakumbi ubabalo. (Roma 5:20)
Kwaye ekubeni uMama wethu engumlamli walo lonke ubabalo, [1]Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. I-969 Kutheni le nto singenako ukunceda kuye? Njengoko watsho kuMama Mariana:
NdinguMama weNceba kwaye kum kukho kuphela ukulunga nothando. Mabeze kum, kuba ndiza kubakhokelela kuye. -Amabali kunye neMimangaliso yeLady lethu leMpumelelo elungileyo, UMarian Horvat, uPh.D. Isithethe sisebenza, 2002, iphepha 12-13.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sithandaze kwaye sithembele kuphela, kodwa "silwe." Ngokuphathelene noku, nazi iindlela ezine ezisebenzayo zokuthintela kunye nokoyisa isilingo kula maxesha.
I. Isihlandlo esikufutshane sesono
Kwi "Act of Contrition", amaKatolika amaninzi ayathandaza ngexesha leSigramente soVuma:
Ndizimisele ngokuqinileyo, ngoncedo lobabalo lwaKho, ukunqanda isono kunye ne kufutshane nesono.
UYesu wathi, “Ndinithumela njengezimvu phakathi kweengcuka; ngoko yibani nobuqili njengeenyoka, nibe lula njengamahobe. ” [2]I-Matt 10: 16 Amaxesha amaninzi, siyabanjwa sihendwe, size ke sone, kuba besingakhange sibe nobulumko ngokwaneleyo ukuba sinokuphepha "ithuba elikufutshane" lesono kwasekuqaleni. Umdumisi unale ngcebiso:
Hayi, uyolo lwalowo ungahambi nabangendawo, okanye eme endleleni yaboni, ehleli phakathi kwabagxeki! (INdumiso 1: 1 NIV)
Le yifowuni yoku, okokuqala, thintela olo lwalamano lukukhokelele esonweni. Njengoko watsho uPaul, “Abahlobo ababi bonakalisa isimilo esihle.” (1 Kor 15:33) Ewe, kunzima oku kuba usithi awufuni kukhathaza iimvakalelo zomnye umntu. Kodwa unganyaniseka kwaye uthi, “Ngokuchanekileyo kuba Ndiyakukhathalela, andikwazi ukuqhubeka nolwalamano, olusikhokelela esonweni sobabini nanini na xa sikunye. Ukulungiselela umphefumlo wakho nowam, kufuneka sahlule ngeendlela… ”
Umba wesibini wokuphepha imeko esondeleyo yesono-kwaye le yeyona nto isengqiqweni-kukuphepha ezo meko zinokukukhokelela esonweni. I-intanethi lelinye lawona mathuba makhulu esono kumaKristu namhlanje, kwaye sonke kufuneka siphaphile kwaye silumke ngokubhekisele ekusetyenzisweni kwayo. Imithombo yeendaba kwezentlalo, iindawo zokuzonwabisa, kunye neendawo zeendaba zingamasango omlambo we-hedonism kula maxesha ethu. Khetha ii -apps kunye neefilitha ukuvimba inkunkuma, imiyalezo ethe ngqo kumfundi olula, okanye uchithe ixesha lakho nosapho kunye nabahlobo kunokuba ubambe inkohliso engenantsingiselo, ukungakhathali, kunye nokuqhutywa kweendaba. Kwaye oku kubandakanya ukuphanda kunye nokuphepha ezo bhanyabhanya ziqulathe ubunqunu okanye ukungcola okugqithisileyo nobundlobongela, ezingenakunceda kodwa zibulale umphefumlo.
Iintsapho ezininzi ziya kuguqula amakhaya abo ukuba bayisika intambo. Emakhayeni ethu, xa sasirhoxisa ezethu, abantwana bethu baqala ukufunda, ukudlala izixhobo, kunye ukudala.
II. Ukungasebenzi
Mkristu, wenza ntoni ngexesha lakho?
Ukungasebenzi yindawo yokudlala kaSathana. Ukulala ebhedini kunike ithuba elininzi lesono njengoko iingcinga zihamba kancinci ziye kwinkumbulo yamanxeba adlulileyo, ukungcola, okanye iingcinga zehlabathi. Ukufunda iimagazini kunye neencwadi ezithi thande umzimba, zisasaze ukuhleba, kwaye zijolise kwinto esinayo, yindawo yokuzaliseka kwazo zonke iintlobo zezilingo. Ukubukela umabonwakude ngesiseko sayo 
Abarhwebi, umyalezo oqhubekayo wokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo, kunye neenkqubo ezingcolileyo zihlala zithomalalisa imiphefumlo emininzi kumoya wehlabathi oxhaphake kakhulu kumaxesha ethu. Kwaye ngaba ndifuna ukuthetha nantoni na malunga nokubulala ixesha kwi-intanethi kwaye zeziphi iingozi ezihleli apho?
Upopu uFrancis wakhupha esi silumkiso silumkileyo sokuba ubumnandi behlabathi bunokusisusa njani kude nenkolo yethu…
… Ukuthanda ihlabathi yingcambu yobubi kwaye kungasikhokelela ekubeni sizilahle izithethe zethu kwaye sithethathethane ngokunyaniseka kwethu kuThixo osoloko ethembekile. Oku kubizwa ngokuba kukuwexuka, okuthi… luhlobo “lokukrexeza” olwenzekayo xa sithetha-thethana ngomongo wobukho bethu: ukunyaniseka eNkosini. —UPOPA UFRANCISI osuka kwikhaya, iVatican Radio, nge-18 kaNovemba ngo-2013
Umthandazo, ukuzincama, kunye nemisebenzi eyakhayo (enjengokuhambahamba, ukufunda incwadi elungileyo, okanye ukwenza umtsalane) kunokugcina ubuvila bungabi yindawo yokuzala yesono.
Okwangoku, abanye abafundi banokuziva ngathi ezi zilumkiso zinobuqili kwaye zibuyele umva. Kodwa isiqhamo sokuzibandakanya kwezi ndlela zingasentla "zokuzonwabisa" zithetha ngokwazo ngendlela ezisenza sizive ngayo, ukuba ziyichaphazela njani impilo yethu (xa siziingqayi), kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, baphazamisa ubudlelwane bethu noThixo, Ke ngoko uxolo lwethu.
Musani ukulithanda ihlabathi okanye izinto zehlabathi. Ukuba kukho othi alithande ihlabathi, uthando lukaYise alukho kuye. Kuko konke okusehlabathini, inkanuko yenyama, ukuhendwa ngamehlo, Kunye ubomi lokuzenzisa, ayiveli kuBawo kodwa iphuma ehlabathini. Nangona kunjalo ihlabathi kunye nomtsalane walo uyadlula. Ke yena owenza ukuthanda kukaThixo uhleli ngonaphakade. (1 Yohane 2: 15-17)
III. Iimbovane zomlo ... okanye iibhere
Yintoni elula? Kukulwa imbovane okanye ibhere? Ngokunjalo ke, kulula kakhulu ukucima isilingo xa singena kuqala kunasemva kokuvumela ukuba sikhule entliziyweni yakho. USt. James ubhala athi:
… Umntu ngamnye uhendwa xa ehendwa kwaye ehendwa ngumnqweno wakhe. Emva koko umnqweno uyakhulelwa uze uvelise isono, kwaye xa isono sifikelela ekuvuthweni sizala ukufa. (Yakobi 1: 13-15)
Isitshixo kukulwa iimbovane ngaphambi kokuba ibhere, ukucima intlantsi ngaphambi kokuba ibe lilangatye. Oko kukuthi, xa uziva umsindo wakho uvutha, kukude 
Kulula ukuthi hayi kwilizwi lokuqala lomsindo kunokucima umsinga wamagama xa “uphulukene nawo.” Xa uhendelwa ukuba ukonwabele ukuhleba, kulula kakhulu ukuba uzisuse kwincoko okanye utshintshe isihloko xa siqala kunangexesha lokubanjwa kweenkcukacha ezimnandi. Kulula kakhulu ukuhamba kwi-porn xa ingcinga nje entlokweni yakho kunokuba uhleli phambi kwekhompyuter. Ewe, izilingo zokuqala zinokuba namandla, kodwa loo mizuzwana imbalwa ayisiyonxalenye nje ibalulekileyo yedabi, kodwa lolona lubalaseleyo.
Akukho tyala lifikile kuwe ngaphandle komntu. UThixo uthembekile kwaye akazukuvumela ukuba ulingwe ngaphaya kwamandla akho; kodwa ngesilingo uya kubonelela ngendawo yokuphuma, ukuze nibe nakho ukuyinyamezela… (1 Kor. 10:13)
IV. Ukulingwa akusosono
Ngamanye amaxesha isilingo sinokuba namandla kwaye sothuse de sishiye umntu azive eneentloni ade adlule nasengqondweni yakhe-nokuba kukucinga ngokuziphindezela, ukubawa, okanye ukungcola. Kodwa le yinxalenye yeqhinga likaSathana: ukwenza kubonakale ngathi ukulingwa kuyafana nesono. Kodwa ayisiyiyo. Nokuba isilingo sinamandla kangakanani kwaye siyasiphazamisa, ukuba usichasa kwangoko, siya kuhlala siyisilingo — njengenja ejavuzelayo kwityathanga elinokukhonkotha kuwe.
Sitshabalalisa iingxoxo kunye nayo yonke inkohliso yokuziphakamisa ngokuchasene nolwazi ngoThixo, kwaye sithimba zonke iingcinga ngokuthobela uKristu. (2 Kor. 10: 5)
Musa ukulibala ukuba uYesu wayenguye "Lowo uvavanywe ngendlela efanayo, kodwa engenasono." [3]I-Heb 4: 15 Kwaye kungcono ukholelwe ukuba uninzi 
izilingo ezingendawo zathunyelwa ngendlela yakhe. Kanti ke, wayengenasono, into ethetha ukuba isilingo ngokwaso sasingeso sono. Vuyani ke, kungekuphela nje ukuba esi ayisosono, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba nilingwe.
Kubaleleni ekuthini kuluvuyo olukhulu, bazalwana bam, xa nithe nagaxeleka ezilingweni ngezilingo, nisazi nje ukuba ucikido lokholo lwenu lusebenza uqinile. (Yakobi 1: 2-3)
UKUQHUBA UMFANEKISO
Ukuvala, xa wena nam sabhaptizwa, izifungo zathethwa ngabazali bethu kunye noothixo bethu egameni lethu:
Ngaba uyasilahla isono ukuze uphile inkululeko yabantwana bakaThixo? [Ewe.] Ngaba uyabulahla ubumnandi bobubi kwaye uyala ukulawulwa sisono? [Ewe.]-Kususela kwisithethe sobhaptizo
Ukulwa nesilingo kunokudinisa… kodwa iziqhamo zokoyisa luxolo lwangaphakathi novuyo. Ukudanisa isono, kwelinye icala, akuvelisi nto ngaphandle kwesiqhamo sokungavisisani, ukungazinzi kunye neentloni.
Ukuba nithi niyigcine imithetho yam, hlalani eluthandweni lwam; njengokuba mna ndayigcinayo imithetho kaBawo, ndahlala eluthandweni lwakhe. Ezi zinto ndizithethile kuni, ukuze uvuyo lwam luhlale kuni, luthi novuyo lwenu luzaliseke. (UYohane 15: 10-11)
Ukulingwa kuyinxalenye yedabi lomKristu, kwaye kuya kuba kude kube sekupheleni kobomi bethu. Kodwa mhlawumbi akuzange ngaphambili kwimbali yomntu sibe nayo, iBandla, sidinga kakhulu ukuba sibe ziingcathu kwaye silumke kumtyholi “Bejikeleza ngokungathi yingonyama egqumayo efuna ubani angamginyayo.” (1 Pet. 5: 8) Nokuba sekunjalo, asizukujonga ebumnyameni, kodwa kuYesu “Inkokheli nemfezeko yokholo lwethu”…[4]I-Heb 12: 2 kunye nonogumbe oza kuthi ngoMama wakhe.
Ndingawuthelekisa lo mkhukula (wobabalo) kunye nePentekoste yokuqala. Iya kugubungela umhlaba ngamandla oMoya oyiNgcwele. Lonke uluntu luya kuyithathela ingqalelo lo mmangaliso. Nanku kuza ukuhamba komlilo weLangatye lothando loMama wam oyiNgcwele. Ihlabathi elimnyama sele liswele ukholo liza kudlula kwiinyikima ezinkulu kwaye abantu baya kukholelwa! Ezi jolts ziya kuvusa umhlaba omtsha ngamandla okholo. Ithemba, liqinisekiswe lukholo, liyakuthabathela iingcambu emiphefumlweni kwaye ubuso bomhlaba buya kuhlaziywa. Akuzange nanini na oko kuhanjiswa kobabalo kunikwe ngaphambili okoko iLizwi laba yinyama. Oku kuhlaziywa komhlaba, kuvavanywa kukubandezeleka, kuya kwenzeka ngamandla nokunyanzelwa kweNtombi Enyulu! -UYesu waya kuElizabeth Kindelmann
KUFUNDWA NGOKUBA
Ngaba uyawuxhasa umsebenzi wam kulo nyaka?
Ndikusikelele kwaye ndiyabulela.
Ukuhamba noMark kwi The Ngoku iLizwi,
cofa kwibhena engezantsi ukuya rhuma.
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