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UKULAHLELWA INGXELO
Kukho i ibali elijikelezayo kuzo zonke iinkonzo eziphambili zeendaba kwilizwe laseNtshona malunga 'nendoda' ekucingelwa ukuba inomntwana. Ingxaki nje kweli bali kukuba asiyondoda kwaphela kodwa ngumfazi oye wakhutshwa amabele, nowathatha amadlala ukuze akhule iinwele zobuso.
Ebenomntwana kule veki. Oku kukodwa akumangalisi, nangona wafakwa ngesirinji ngokuqhelekileyo esetyenziselwa ukondla iintaka. Eyona nto imangalisayo kukuba phantse onke amajelo eendaba anyanzelisa ukubiza lo mfazi ngokuthi “yindoda” okanye abhekise kuye ngokuthi “yena” ngokungathi le yinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.
UKUGOBEKA INYANISO
Ngenxa nje yokuba amajelo eendaba—okanye abezopolitiko nenkundla zamalungelo abantu—zifuna ukubiza iapile ngepesika, ayitshintshi into yokuba iapile liseyi-apile (nokuba linentwana yepesika esilevini). Injongo yesicwangciso esinjalo samajelo eendaba, ewe, kukutyhafisa uluntu. Ukuba sibiza iapile ukuba yipesika ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo, ngoko abantu abaninzi baya kuqala ukuyamkela le nto, nangona ingqiqo, isizathu, kunye nendalo ngokwayo iyalela ukuba i-apula ayikho, kwaye ayinakuze ibe yipesika. Ukuba indoda ibinokumilisela umsila wekati ngasemva ize ifake amabhovu, ize igxininise kumajelo eendaba ukuba iyinkabi, ngaba baya kuqalisa ukubika ukuba yikati?
Eso sisiqhamo soluntu oluye lwamkela ulungelelwaniso lokuziphatha njengengcamango yalo engundoqo. Ukuba yonke into inxulumene, ngoko yonke into, okanye kunoko nantoni na, inokwamkeleka ngokokuziphatha inikwe ixesha elaneleyo kunye novelwano olwaneleyo (okanye ukungakhathali) luluntu ngokubanzi. Ingqiqo nengqiqo asiyomigaqo esisikhokelo, ingengomthetho wendalo nowokuziphatha. Yaye oko uThixo akutshoyo akukho nokuba kude emfanekisweni. Ukuba ilizwi laKhe is iqukiwe, kukutolikwa koko umntu uvakalelwa UThixo uthetha, hayi le nto uyithethileyo.
Ke, umhlaba ngoku ukwindlela ezimeleyo apho abafazi banokuthi bangamadoda, izazinzulu zinokwenza umxube abantu/iihagu, kunye abaqhomfa ezifana Canada Dr. Henry Morgentaler kungaba wawongwa elona wonga liphezulu loluntu elizweni—indoda ebekek’ ityala ngokobuqu ngokufa kwabantwana abangekazalwa abangaphezu kwe-100 000. Kuba zonke zihlobene. Akukho zingqinisiso. Kunyaka ozayo, mhlawumbi iya kuba ngumntu/ihagu efumana Umyalelo waseCanada.
Kuba kuya kubakho ixesha abangayi kuyinyamezela imfundiso ephilileyo; baya kulandelana neenkanuko zabo, bazinqande abafundisi, bayeke ukumamela inyaniso, baphambukele ke kuzo iintsomi. (2 Tim 4: 3-4)
IBHODI ELIKHUBEKAYO
Mnye kuphela umqobo osisikhubekiso kolu nqulo lwehlabathi elitsha: iCawa yamaKatolika. Ngelixa inani elibalulekileyo lamalungu eli Bandla lithe lawela kumaxhoba emilinganiselo yokuziphatha, iBandla ngomntu ngamnye khange. Iimfundiso zobuKatolika zinjengokuba uYesu wathi ziya kuba njalo: zakhelwe phezu kolwalwa, zingashukumi kwiinkqwithela eziye zayihlasela kwinkulungwane nganye.
IBandla aliyi kuthetha, kwaye alinakutsho konke, ukuba iapile yipesika. Uya kuyithanda i-apula, kwaye uya kuyithanda i-peach, kodwa akayi kuze abe buxoki kwaye athi enye enye.
IBandla lamkela abantu njengoko benjalo. UYesu uthi ibandla lifana nomnatha, litsala wonke umntu, wonke umntu ungoweBandla, kukho aboni, kukho abangcwele, kukho abantu abaneengcinga ezigwenxa. Kodwa iBandla liyaqhubeka ukuvakalisa oko uYesu wakufundisayo. Akukho ndawo eCaweni yokwamkelwa kweengcamango ezigwenxa. Kukho indawo eCaweni yokwamkela, ukuqonda nokuthanda abantu nokuba bangoobani na. Hayi ukubaxelela ukuba oko bakuthethelelayo kulungile, kungekhona ukukuthethelela. Oko kwahluke kakhulu…Kukho abantu abathi iCawe ayinyamezeli—hayi! Siyabamkela abantu kodwa asinako ukungathembeki kuKristu. Asiyi kwamkela umtshato gay. ICawe iye yakucacisa oku ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye kuya kufuneka iqhubeke ukucacisa. — UKhadinali uJustin Rigali, uBhishophu omkhulu wasePhiladelphia, I-LifeSiteNews.comNge-28 kaJuni ngo-2008
Ungenzi mpazamo: iintshaba zeCawa ziyasiqonda esi sikhundla singenakushukunyiswa. Kwi- evulekileyo Inqaku lomhleli ligxeka umfundisi waseKhanada othetha ngokungafihlisiyo, uBhishophu uFred Henry, amalungu elinye lawona maqela anamandla eCanada athethelela abantu abathandana namafanasini wabhala:
… Siqikelela ukuba umtshato wabantu abathandana namanye amadoda uza kukhokelela ekukhuleni kokwamkelwa kobufanasini obuqhubekayo ngoku, njengoko uHenry esoyika. Kodwa ukulingana emtshatweni kuya kuba negalelo ekushiyekeni kweenkolo ezinetyhefu, kukhulule uluntu kubandlululo nakwinzondo eye yangcolisa inkcubeko ixesha elide, enkosi kwinxalenye kaFred Henry nohlobo lwakhe. -UKevin Bourassa noJoe Varnell, Ukucoca iNkolo enetyhefu eCanada; Ngomhla kaJanuwari 18, 2005; IXESHA (Ukulingana kwabantu abathandana besini esinye nabathandana nabo kuyo yonke indawo)
Inetyhefu. Ucalucalulo. Abenzi bentiyo. Abangcolisi. Kwaye kufuneka songeze kuluhlu "zi sidenge“, kuba oko koko iNgcwele uPawulos yathi siya kubizwa lihlabathi ngokubambelela enyanisweni.
UKUBAMBE NGOKUQINILE
Ndikhumbula enye incwadi eyanikelwa ngumfundisi ngomtshato wamafanasini. Yayilula, kodwa inamandla. Uthe,
Siyazi ukuba xa udibanisa blue and yellow kunye, ufumana luhlaza. Kodwa kukho abathile kuluntu lwethu abagxininisa ukuba xa udibanisa umthubi kunye nomthubi kunye, uya kuba luhlaza. Kodwa ayitshintshi into yokuba kuphela eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nomthubi kunokwenza luhlaza, njengoko bafuna ukuthetha oku akunjalo.
ICawa ibophelelekile ukuba ithethe inyaniso ngomtshato nangobuntu, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ingumgcini wemithetho, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ingumlondolozi nomsasazi wenyaniso—inyaniso esikhululayo!
Umntu udinga isimilo ukuze abe nguye. —UPOPE BENEDICT XVI (UKhadinali Ratzinger), Benedictus, iphe. 207
Iapile liapile. Ipesika yipesika. Blue kunye netyheli zenza luhlaza. Kwaye njengoko umfazi wam esitsho, "I-DNA inelizwi lokugqibela." Siyilento siyiyo. Ezi ziinyaniso iBandla eliya kuzixhasa, nokuba kuphalazwe igazi lakhe. Kuba ngaphandle kwenyaniso, akunakuze kubekho inkululeko, kwaye loo nkululeko yathengwa ngexabiso… igazi loMntu omsulwa, uThixo ngokwaKhe.
Ukuba siyazixelela ukuba iCawa ayifanele ingenelele kwimiba enjalo, asinakusuka siphendule: ngaba asizikhathazi na ngomntu? Ngaba amakholwa, ngenxa yenkcubeko enkulu yokholo lwawo, akanalo na ilungelo lokuvakalisa konke oku? Ngaba ayingowabo-yethu-Umsebenzi wokuphakamisa amazwi ethu ukukhusela umntu, eso sidalwa, ngokukodwa kubunye obungenakwahlulwa bomzimba nomoya, ngumfanekiso kaThixo? -IPOPE BENEDICT XVI, Idilesi kwi-Curia yaseRomaNge-22 kaDisemba ngo-2006
Othe wawulahla umphefumlo wakhe ngenxa yam, nangenxa yeendaba ezilungileyo ezi, wowusindisa. ( Marko 8:35 )
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