LAPHO imibhangqwana, imiphakathi, ngisho nezizwe ziya ngokuhlukana ngokwandayo, mhlawumbe kunento eyodwa cishe sonke esivumelana ngayo: inkulumo yomphakathi iyanyamalala ngokushesha.
Ukusuka kuMongameli wase-United States kuya kwiposta engaziwa, ukuxhumana ngemfudumalo kuyahlakazeka. Noma ngabe kuyindlela yokukhuluma izivakashi nababungazi abasika ngayo, noma ukuthi izingxoxo ze-Facebook, i-Youtube, noma zenkundla zivame ukwehlela kanjani ekuhlaselweni komuntu siqu, noma ulaka lwasemgwaqeni nezinye izikhubekiso zokubekezela emphakathini esikubonayo… abantu babonakala bekulungele ukudiliza abantu abangabazi nhlobo. ngaphandle. Cha, akukhona ukwanda kokuzamazama komhlaba nezintaba-mlilo, ukushaywa kwezigubhu zempi, ukuwa komnotho okuseduze noma isimo esandayo sombuso wobushiqela — kodwa uthando lwamakhaza amaningi apholayo lokho mhlawumbe kume “njengesibonakaliso sezikhathi” esiyinhloko kulelihora.
… Ngenxa yokwanda kokwenza okubi, uthando lwabaningi luzophola. (Mathewu 24:12)
Ngalokho-ke, nangokuphikisana nentando yethu, umcabango uvuka emqondweni wokuthi manje lezo zinsuku ziyasondela iNkosi yethu eyaprofetha ngazo: “Futhi ngenxa yokuthi ububi buningi, uthando lwabaningi luyophola” (Math. 24:12). —I-POPE PIUS XI, I-Miserentissimus Redemptor, Encyclical on Reparation to Sacred Heart, n. 17
Kepha ngenxa yokuthi lesi yisimo senhlalo yosuku lwethu, ngakho-ke, akusho ukuthi mina nawe kumele silandele nakanjani. Empeleni, kubalulekile ukuthi sibe ngabaholi kanye nezibonelo zokuxhumana okuhle kunanini ngaphambili.
UKUHAMBISANA KWAMAZWI
Ekufundeni kokuqala kwanamuhla, amazwi kaSt. Paul ahlobene kakhulu nalelihora:
… Ubaxwayise phambi kukaNkulunkulu ukuthi bagweme ukuphikisana ngamazwi, okungasizi ngalutho kepha okucekela phansi labo abalalelayo. (2 Thimothewu 2:14)
Ngokufika kwezinkundla zokuxhumana, ukuthambekela kobudlwangudlwangu kubambe lesi sizukulwane: kungazelelwe, wonke umuntu unebhokisi lesipho. Nge-Google ngakwesobunxele nekhibhodi ngakwesokunene, wonke umuntu unguchwepheshe, wonke umuntu "unamaqiniso," wonke umuntu wazi konke. Inkinga, noma kunjalo, akukhona ukufinyelela okwanele kolwazi, kepha ukuphatha ukuhlakanipha, ofundisa inhliziyo aqonde alinganise ulwazi. Ukuhlakanipha kweqiniso kuyisipho sikaMoya oNgcwele, ngakho-ke, kuyantuleka kakhulu esizukulwaneni sethu sokwazi sonke. Ngaphandle kobuhlakani, ngaphandle kokuzimisela ukuthobeka nokufunda, empeleni ingxoxo izophenduka impikiswano yamagama ngokushesha kunokulalela.
Hhayi ukuthi ukungavumelani kuyinto embi nakancane; yingakho sikuphonsela inselelo ukucabanga okukhubazekile futhi sandise umkhathizwe. Kepha imvamisa, izingxoxo namuhla ziyangena i-ad hominem ukuhlaselwa lapho “ingxoxo yangempela yesihloko esiseduze igwenywa ngokuthi kunalokho kuhlaselwe umlingiswa, isisusa, noma enye imfanelo yomuntu owenza ingxabano, noma abantu abahlobene nempikiswano, kunokuhlasela ingqikithi yempikiswano uqobo lwayo.” [1]wikipedia.org Uma lokhu kwenzeka emkhakheni womphakathi phakathi kwamaKristu, kuyalimaza kulabo abalalelayo. Okwe:
Ngalokho bonke bayokwazi ukuthi ningabafundi bami, uma nithandana. (Johane 13:35)
Kunjengokungathi lesi sizukulwane asisakholelwa ukuthi ukubekezela, inhlonipho, nokuzithoba kubalulekile ezingxoxweni. Esikhundleni salokho, ukuthi "ubuhle" bangempela ukuzikhulumela wena neqiniso lomuntu, noma ngabe kubonakala kanjani futhi noma ngabe kubiza malini ebuhlotsheni noma ekuhlonipheni komunye.
Lokhu kuphambene kanjani nesibonelo uKristu asinikeze sona! Lapho engaqondwa kahle, wavele wahamba. Ngenkathi emangalelwa ngamanga, wathula. Futhi ngenkathi eshushiswa, wavumela ukuphendula Kwakhe ngobumnene nokuthethelela kukhulume. Futhi lapho ehlanganisa izitha zaKhe, wenza u "Yebo" wakhe abe ngu "Yebo" kanye no "Cha" wakhe abe ngu "Cha". [2]isib. Jakobe 5:12 Uma bephikelela enkingeni noma ekuzikhukhumezeni kwabo, akazange azame ukubakholisa, noma ngabe izigxobo zaziphezulu — insindiso yabo yaphakade! Leyo kwakuyinhlonipho uJesu ayenayo ngenkululeko yokuzikhethela yendalo Yakhe.
Nalapha futhi, uSt.Paul unezeluleko ezithile esifanele thina mayelana nalabo abafuna ukulwa:
Noma ngubani ofundisa okuhlukile futhi angavumelani namazwi aphusile eNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu kanye nemfundiso yenkolo uyazikhukhumeza, akaqondi lutho, futhi unesimo esesabekayo sokuphikisana nokuphikisana ngamazwi. Kulokhu kuvela umona, umbango, ukuthukana, izinsolo ezimbi nokuxabana phakathi kwabantu abanezingqondo ezonakele… Kepha wena, muntu kaNkulunkulu, gwema konke lokhu. (bhekisa ku-1 Thim 6: 3-11)
NGENZENI?
Sidinga ukufunda ukuthi singalalela kanjani futhi komunye. Njengoba iNceku kaNkulunkulu uCatherine de Hueck Doherty ake wathi, “Singakwazi lalela umphefumulo womunye ukhona. ” Lapho uxoxa nomuntu, ingabe ubheka omunye emehlweni? Ingabe uyamisa lokhu okwenzayo bese ugxila kubo kuphela? Uyabavumela baqedele imisho yabo? Noma ingabe udlala nge-smartphone yakho, ushintshe isihloko, ubuyisele ingxoxo kuwe, ubheke igumbi, noma uwahlulele?
Ngempela, enye yezinto ezilimaza kakhulu ezenzeka njalo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana namuhla ukuthi omunye umuntu uyahlulelwa. Kepha ngizwe le ndaba encane ehlakaniphile ngolunye usuku:
Eminyakeni edlule, ngake ngangena engxoxweni yenkundla nowesifazane ngendaba yesizotha emculweni wezwe. Wayebukhali futhi enomunyu, ehlasela futhi ehlekisa. Esikhundleni sokuphendula ngendlela efanayo, ngaphendula ngomoya ophansi ku-diatribe yakhe ene-asidi thanda ngeqiniso. Wabe esexhumana nami ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, wangibonga ngokuba nomusa, waxolisa, wabe esechaza ukuthi ukhiphe isisu futhi ubedlala ngokuthukuthela. Lokho kwaqala ithuba elimangalisayo lokwabelana naye ngeVangeli (bona Iscandal Sesihe).
Uma uhlanganyela mathupha noma ku-inthanethi nomunye, musa ukuzwa nje ukuthi bathini kodwa lalela. Ungaphinda futhi lokho abasanda kukusho bese ubuza ukuthi ngabe ukuqonde kahle yini. Ngale ndlela, awugcini nje ngokulalela kodwa ngothando kubo-futhi lokho kuvumela ukuba khona kukaNkulunkulu ukungena engxoxweni. Yilokhu okushiwo uPapa Francis "ngokuhambisana" nabanye:
Kufanele sizijwayeze ubuciko bokulalela, okungaphezu kokuzwa nje. Ukulalela, ekukhulumisaneni, kungukuvuleleka kwenhliziyo okwenza ukuthi ukusondelana okungenzeki ngaphandle kokuhlangana kwangempela komoya. Ukulalela kusisiza ukuthi sithole isenzo esifanele negama elibonisa ukuthi singaphezu nje kokubukela nje. Kuphela ngokulalela okunenhlonipho nokuzwela okunjalo lapho singangena ezindleleni zokukhula kweqiniso futhi sivuse ukulangazelela umgomo wobuKristu: isifiso sokuphendula ngokugcwele othandweni lukaNkulunkulu futhi sifeze lokho akuhlwanyele ezimpilweni zethu…. Ukufinyelela ezingeni lokuvuthwa lapho abantu bangenza izinqumo ezikhululekile futhi ezibhekele kahle kudinga isikhathi esiningi nokubekezela. Njengoba uBusisiwe uPeter Faber wayevame ukuthi: "Isikhathi yisithunywa sikaNkulunkulu". -U-Evangelii Gaudium, hhayi. 171
Kepha-ke, uma umuntu engazimisele ukufaka iqiniso, noma efuna ukuthola amaphuzu enkulumompikiswano, hamba-njengoJesu. NjengamaKrestu, akumele neze siphoqelele iqiniso emiphongolweni yabantu. Lokho kusho opapa uma bethi akufanele "ukuguqula abantu. ” Uma umuntu engenasifiso sokunambitha, ingasaphathwa eyokuhlafuna iZwi likaNkulunkulu, khona-ke hamba. Musa ukuphonsa amaparele akho phambi kwezingulube, njengoba kusho isisho.
Yize kuzwakala kusobala, ukupheleliswa ngokomoya kumele kuholele abanye eduze kakhulu noNkulunkulu, esithola kuye inkululeko yangempela. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi bakhululekile uma bengamgwema uNkulunkulu; bayehluleka ukubona ukuthi bahlala beyizintandane, bengenakuzisiza, bengenamakhaya. Bayayeka ukuba ngabahambeli beze futhi babe ama-drifters, bazishaye bangene futhi bangayi ndawo. Ukuhamba nabo kungaba nomphumela ongemuhle uma kungaba uhlobo oluthile lokwelashwa olusekela ukuzithathela kwabo futhi luyeke ukuba uhambo oluya noKristu kuYise. —I-POPE FRANCIS, U-Evangelii Gaudium, hhayi. 170
Ukuguquka kwabo kuyinkinga kaNkulunkulu, hhayi eyakho. Okukhathazayo ngukungalahlekelwa ukuthula kwakho bese uwela ogibeni lokuhudulelwa kwislugfest. Thembela — ngake ngaba khona phambilini, futhi kuyaqabukela ngake ngakholisa othile ngaleyo ndlela. Kunalokho, akukhona engikushoyo, kodwa Kanjani Ngiyakusho, noma ukuthi ngiphendula kanjani ekugcineni, lokho kushukumise inhliziyo yomunye.
Uthando aluhluleki. (1 Korinte 13: 8)
Ngingahle ngibe “ongenantambo” kuFacebook. Ngingahle ngidelelwe ngabangane bami nomndeni wami. Ngingahlekwa usulu futhi ngihlekwe usulu ngabantu engisebenza nabo. Kepha noma nini lapho ngiphendula ngothando, ngitshala a Divine imbewu phakathi kwabo. Ingahle ingahlumi iminyaka noma amashumi eminyaka. Kepha bona kuthanda khumbula ngelinye ilanga ukuthi wawubekezela futhi unomusa, unesandla esivulekile futhi uthethelela. Futhi leyo mbewu ingahluma ngokuzumayo, iguqule inkambo yokuphila kwabo.
Mina ngatshala, u-Apholo wanisela, kepha uNkulunkulu wakhulisa. (1 KwabaseKorinte 3: 6)
Kepha kufanele kube yimbewu ye ukuthanda ngoba uNkulunkulu is uthando.
Uthando luyabekezela, uthando lunomusa… aluzikhukhumezi, alunomoya, alunanhlonipho, aluzifuneli izinzuzo zalo, aluthukutheli ngokushesha, alukhathaleli ukulimala, aluthokozi ngokungalungile kodwa lithokoza ngeqiniso. Lubekezelela zonke izinto, lukholwa yizinto zonke, luthemba izinto zonke, lukhuthazelela zonke izinto. (13 Kor. 4: 5-XNUMX)
INKONZO yami kuwe
Ngemuva kokuzindla, ukuthandaza nokuxoxa nomqondisi wami wezomoya, nginqume ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi ngihoxe ekuhlanganyeleni kwami ku-inthanethi. Yize ngikwazile ukukhuthaza nokusiza abanye abantu kuFacebook noma kwenye indawo, ngithola futhi ukuthi kungaba yindawo ebabazekayo, njengoba ihlala ingihlanganisa nabanye abantu "abanesimo esingesihle sezimpikiswano." Lokhu kunganciphisa ukuthula kwami futhi kungiphazamise emsebenzini wami omkhulu, okungukushumayela iVangeli — hhayi ukukholisa abanye ngalo. Lowo ngumsebenzi kaMoya oNgcwele. Ngokwami, uNkulunkulu ungibeke endaweni eyihlane eyihlane ngokomoya nangokwenyama ngalesi sikhathi empilweni yami, futhi kuyadingeka ukuhlala lapho — hhayi ukugwema noma ngubani — kepha ukubasebenzela kangcono ngeZwi likaNkulunkulu, njengokuphikisana kwami.
Futhi-ke, ngenkathi ngizoqhubeka nokuthumela engikubhalile lapha nakuFacebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, njll ukufinyelela imiphefumulo eminingi ngangokunokwenzeka, angizukubandakanya imibono noma imiyalezo lapho. Uma udinga ngithinte, ungenza kanjalo lapha.
Ngingumuntu onenkani. Nginesifiso sokulwa ngokwemvelo kimi noma nini lapho ngibona ukungabi nabulungisa. Lokhu kungaba kuhle, kepha kufanele kunciphiswe yisisa senhliziyo. Uma ngabe, ekuxhumaneni kwami nawe noma ezinkundleni zomphakathi, ngibe nokuphelelwa isineke ngandlela thile, ngazikhukhumeza, noma ngingenanhlonipho, ngicela uxolo. Ngiwumsebenzi oqhubekayo; konke engikubhalile ngenhla ngizama ukuphila kangcono mina.
Masibe uphawu lokuphikisana kulo mhlaba. Siyoba njalo lapho siba ubuso, amehlo, izindebe, ulimi, nezindlebe zikaKristu…
Nkosi, ngenze ithuluzi lokuthula kwakho,
Lapho kukhona inzondo, ake ngihlwanyele uthando;
lapho kukhona ukulimala, xola;
lapho kukhona ukungabaza, ukukholwa;
lapho kukhona ukuphelelwa yithemba, themba;
lapho kukhona khona ubumnyama, ukukhanya;
lapho kukhona ukudabuka, injabulo;
O Master Divine, ngivumele ukuthi ngingafuni kangako ukududuzwa njengokududuza;
ukuqondwa njengokuqondisisa;
ukuthandwa njengothando.
Ngoba kungukupha lapho samukela khona;
kungukuxolelwa ukuthi sixolelwe;
futhi kukufa lapho sizalelwa khona ukuphila okuphakade.
—Umkhuleko ka St Francis wase Assisi
Ngakho-ke, nina baphostoli bothando lwami, nina enikwazi ukuthanda nokuxolela, nina eningahluleli, engikhuthaza nina, yibani yisibonelo kubo bonke abangahambi endleleni yokukhanya nothando noma ichezukile kuyo. Ngempilo yakho bakhombise iqiniso. Babonise uthando ngoba uthando lwehlula bonke ubunzima, futhi zonke izingane zami zomele uthando. Ubunye bakho othandweni buyisipho kimi neNdodana yami. Kepha, zingane zami, khumbulani ukuthi ukuthanda kusho futhi ukufisela okuhle umakhelwane wakho nokufisa ukuguqulwa komphefumulo womakhelwane wakho. Njengoba ngikubuka ungihlanganyele, inhliziyo yami ibuhlungu, ngoba ngibona uthando lobuzalwane oluncane kakhulu, uthando olunesihe… -UNkosikazi wethu waseMedjugorje kuthiwa waya eMirjana, ngoJuni 2, 2018
INew Word iyinkonzo yesikhathi esigcwele leyo
iyaqhubeka ngokweseka kwakho.
Akubusise, futhi ngiyabonga.
Ukuhamba noMark in The Manje iZwi,
chofoza isibhengezo esingezansi ukuze ubhalise.
I-imeyili yakho ngeke yabiwe nanoma ngubani.
Imibhalo yaphansi
| ↑1 | wikipedia.org |
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| ↑2 | isib. Jakobe 5:12 |