Ukuphulukana nabantwana bethu

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kaJanuwari we-5 ukuya kwe-10, 2015
Epiphany

Imibhalo yeLigugu Apha

I banabazali abaninzi beza kum buqu okanye bandibhalele besithi, “Andiqondi. Sasihamba nabantwana bethu siye kwiMisa rhoqo ngeCawa. Abantwana bam bathandaza iRosari kunye nathi. Bebesiya kwimisebenzi yokomoya… kodwa ngoku, bayishiyile iCawe. ”

Umbuzo kukuba kutheni? Njengomzali wabantwana abasibhozo ngokwam, iinyembezi zaba bazali ngamanye amaxesha ziye zandikhathaza. Ke kutheni kungenjalo bantwana bam? Enyanisweni, ngamnye wethu unenkululeko yokuzikhethela. Akukho forumla, ngomntu ngamnye, ukuba wenza oku, okanye uthi lo mthandazo, isiphumo sobungcwele. Hayi, ngamanye amaxesha isiphumo kukungakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo, njengoko bendibonile kusapho lwam olubanzi.

Kodwa ufundo olunamandla lwale veki kwincwadi yokuqala kaYohane lutyhila iyeza Uwexuko oluyimpendulo yokwenene yendlela yokuzigcina wena kunye nabo ubathandayo ekuweni.

UYohane oNgcwele ucacisa ukuba elona themba lokusindiswa kwethu kukuba uThixo wasithanda kuqala.

Olu uthando lukukuba samthandayo uThixo thina, ikukuba wasithandayo yena, wamthuma uNyana wakhe ukuba abe sisicamagushelo sezono zethu. (ufundo lokuqala lwangoLwesibini)

Ngoku, le yinyaniso ecacileyo. Kwaye kulapho ingxaki kwiintsapho ezininzi iqala khona: ihlala i Injongo inyaniso. Siya kwisikolo samaKatolika, iMisa yangeCawa, iCatekesi, njl. Injongo inyaniso. Oko kukuthi, amaKatolika amaninzi akhuliswa ubomi bawo bonke ngaphandle kokumenywa, ukukhuthazwa, nokufundiswa ukuba kufuneka alwenze olu thando lukaThixo lube luthando. thobela inyaniso. Kufuneka bangene kubudlelwane, a siqu ulwalamano lwabo noThixo ngokuzithandela kwabo ukuze amandla ezi nyaniso zinenjongo ‘azikhulule.

Ngamanye amaxesha amaKatolika aphulukene okanye akaze abe nethuba lokuzibonela u-Kristu ngokobuqu: hayi u-Kristu njenge 'paradigm' okanye 'ixabiso', kodwa njengeNkosi ephilayo, 'indlela, nenyaniso, nobomi'. —UPOPE JOHN PAUL II, L’Osservatore Romano (Uhlelo lwesiNgesi lwephephandaba laseVatican), kaMatshi 24, 1993, iphe.3.

Obu bubuhle, ummangaliso, kunye nomahluko obalulekileyo owahlula ubuKristu kuzo zonke ezinye iinkolo. Simenywa nguThixo ngokwaKhe kubudlelwane obuguqulayo nobuthambileyo kunye naye. Yiyo loo nto, iSt. John ibeka ingongoma ebalulekileyo yokuba uloyiso lwakhe phezu kwehlabathi luvela ekubeni enze inyaniso enenjongo a thobela Nye.

Sifikelele ekwazini nasekukholweni eluthandweni uThixo analo ngathi. (ufundo lokuqala lwangoLwesithathu)

Into endiyithethayo kukuba, njengabazali, kufuneka senze konke esinako ukuzisa abantwana bethu kwi-a siqu ubudlelwane noYesu, onguye indlela kuYise ngamandla oMoya oyiNgcwele. Kufuneka sibameme ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuze benze ukholo lwabo lube lolwabo. Kufuneka sibafundise ukuba ubudlelwane noYesu asikokukholelwa nje ukuba ukho (kuba nosathana uyakukholelwa oku); kunokuba, kufuneka bahlakulele olu lwalamano ngomthandazo nokufunda iSibhalo, esiyileta yothando lukaThixo kuthi.

…umthandazo lubudlelwane obuphilayo babantwana bakaThixo kunye noYise wabo olungileyo ngaphaya komlinganiselo, kunye noNyana wakhe uYesu Krestu kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Ubabalo loBukumkani “lukumanyana kukaBathathu Emnye ongcwele nowasebukhosini . . . ngawo wonke umoya womntu.” -Katekisiki yeCawa yamaKatolika, n. I-2565

Intliziyo yam iyaqaqamba xa ndifunda la mazwi. UThixo ufuna ukuzimanya naye me. Oku kuyamangalisa. Ewe, njengoko iCatechism ifundisa, “Umthandazo kukudibana konxano lukaThixo nolwethu. UThixo unxanelwe ukuba simnxanelwe. ^[1]cf. I-CCC, n. I-2560 Njengabazali, sifanele sifundise abantwana bethu indlela yokuthandaza, indlela yokusondela kuThixo, indlela yokuphelisa ukunxanelwa kwabo intsingiselo yeQula LikaKristu—kungekuphela nje ngemithandazo eviwayo nemigaqo, enendawo yayo—kodwa ngentliziyo. UYesu usibiza ngokuba “ngabahlobo.” Kufuneka sibancede abantwana bethu bafumanise ukuba uYesu akangolo “mhlobo osesibhakabhakeni” kuphela, kodwa ukufuphi, olindileyo, osithandayo, okhathalayo, osiphilisayo. njengoko siMmema ebomini bethu, kwaye, njengoko siqala ukumthanda Yena nabanye njengoko wasithandayo.

... ukuba sithi sithandane, uThixo uhleli kuthi, nothando lwakhe lugqibelele ngaphakathi kwethu. (ufundo lokuqala lwangoLwesithathu)

Kananjalo kufuneka sikhumbule njengabazali ukuba asingomsindisi wabantwana bethu. Kufuneka ekugqibeleni sibanikele kukhathalelo lukaThixo kwaye sibakhulule, kunokuba sibalawule.

Kwaye kufuneka sikhumbule nokuba singamalungu omzimba, kwaye kukho izipho ezininzi kunye nemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo emzimbeni kaKristu. Ebomini bam, nokuba kubantwana bam, ndiyasibona isiqhamo sokuhlangana namanye amaKristu anengqondo efanayo, abanye abavutha umlilo kuThixo, abanye banentambiso yokushumayela, ukukhokela, ukuvuselela iintliziyo zethu. Ngokufuthi abazali benza impazamo yokucinga ukuba kwanele ukuthumela abantwana babo kwisikolo samaKatolika okanye kwiqela lolutsha lerhamente. Kodwa enyanisweni, izikolo zamaKatolika maxa wambi zinokuba ngabahedeni ngakumbi kunezo zikawonke-wonke, yaye amaqela olutsha ayafana nje namandongomane, iipopcorn, nokutyibiliza ekhephini. Hayi, kufuneka ufumanise apho imijelo yamanzi aphilileyo ziyaqukuqela, apho kukho elo “yeza” lobuthixo sifunda ngalo kwiVangeli yanamhlanje. Fumana apho abantwana baguqulwa khona kwaye batshintshwe, apho kukho utshintshiselwano oluyinyani lothando, ubulungiseleli kunye nobabalo.

Okokugqibela, ngaba akubonakali ke ngoko, ukuba ukuze sifundise abantwana bethu indlela yokuba nolwalamano lobuqu noYesu, simele sibe nalo ngokwethu? Kuba ukuba asikwenzi oko, amazwi ethu akabi bubuvila nje kuphela, kodwa abe ngamasikizi, kuba basibona sithetha enye into, sisenza enye. Enye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo utata anokufundisa ngazo abantwana bakhe ukuthandaza kukuba baye kwigumbi lakhe lokulala okanye eofisini baze bambone eguqe ngamadolo xa encokola noThixo. Oko kukufundisa oonyana bakho! Oko kuyala iintombi zakho!

Masibize uMariya noYosefu ukuba basincede, kungekuphela nje ukuzisa abantwana bethu kulwalamano lobuqu noYesu, kodwa basincede ukuba sithandane noThixo ukuze yonke into esiyithethayo nesiyenzayo ibe yimbonakaliso yothando nobukho bakhe obunamandla. .

Kuyimfuneko ukuba singene kubuhlobo bokwenene noYesu kubudlelwane bobuqu kunye naye kwaye singazi ukuba ngubani uYesu ovela kwabanye okanye ezincwadini, kodwa ukuba siphile ubudlelwane obunzulu ngakumbi noYesu, apho sinokuqala khona ukuqonda ukuba ungubani ukubuza kuthi… Ukwazi uThixo akwanele. Ukuhlangana okwenyani naye kufuneka naye umthande. Ulwazi kufuneka lube luthando. —UPOPE BENEDICT XVI, Intlanganiso nolutsha lwaseRoma, ngoAprili 6, 2006; vatican.va

…uloyiso oluleyisayo ihlabathi lukholo lwethu. (ufundo lokuqala lwangoLwesine)

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