WE manje sebewela uhhafu wephoyinti lokuhlehla kwethu. UNkulunkulu akakaqedi, mkhulu umsebenzi okufanele wenziwe. UDokotela Wokuhlinza useqala ukufinyelela ezindaweni ezijulile zokulimala kwethu, hhayi ukuze asihluphe futhi asiphazamise, kodwa ukuze asiphulukise. Kungaba buhlungu ukubhekana nalezi zinkumbulo. Lesi yisikhathi se ukubekezela; lesi yisikhathi sokuhamba ngokukholwa hhayi ngokubona, ukuthembela ohlelweni uMoya oNgcwele oseluqalile enhliziyweni yakho. Eduze kwakho umi uMama oBusisiwe nabafowenu nodadewenu, abaNgcwele, bonke bayakuncengela. Baseduze nawe manje kunalokhu ababeyikho kulokhu kuphila, ngoba bahlanganiswe ngokugcwele kuZiqu-zintathu Ongcwele phakade, ohlala ngaphakathi kuwe ngenxa yoMbhapathizo wakho.
Nokho, ungase uzizwe uwedwa, noma ulahliwe njengoba uzama ukuphendula imibuzo noma ukuzwa iNkosi ikhuluma nawe. Kodwa njengoba umhubi esho, “Ngingayaphi ngisuka emoyeni wakho na? ngisuke ebusweni bakho, ngingabalekelaphi na?[1]IHubo 139: 7 UJesu wathembisa: “Mina nginani njalo kuze kube-sekupheleni kwezwe.”[2]I-Matt 28: 20
Ngakho-ke, njengoba sizungezwe ifu elikhulu kangaka lofakazi, masilahle yonke imithwalo nesono esisinamathele futhi siphikelele ekugijimeni umncintiswano ophambi kwethu, sigxilise amehlo ethu kuJesu, umholi nomphelelisi wokuphila. ukholo. Ngenxa yenjabulo eyayiphambi Kwakhe, wabekezelela isiphambano, edelela ihlazo laso, futhi wahlala ngakwesokunene sesihlalo sobukhosi sikaNkulunkulu. (Heb 12″1-2)
Ngenxa yenjabulo uNkulunkulu akubekele yona, kubalulekile ukuletha ukona kwethu namanxeba esiphambanweni. Ngakho-ke, mema uMoya oNgcwele futhi ukuba eze futhi aniqinise kulesi sikhathi, futhi nibekezele.
Woza Moya oNgcwele ugcwalise inhliziyo yami ebuthakathaka. Ngethemba othandweni lwakho kimi. Ngethemba ebukhoneni Bakho futhi ngisiza ebuthakathakeni bami. Ngivula inhliziyo yami Kuwe. Nginikela kuwe ubuhlungu bami. Ngiyazinikela kuWe ngoba angikwazi ukuzilungisa. Ngembulele amanxeba ami ajulile, ikakhulukazi abomndeni wami, ukuze kube nokuthula nokubuyisana. Buyisela intokozo yensindiso yakho futhi uvuse umoya olungile phakathi kwami. Woza Moya oNgcwele, ungigeze futhi ungikhulule ezibophweni ezingenampilo futhi ungikhulule njengesidalwa sakho esisha.
Nkosi Jesu, ngiza phambi konyawo lwesiphambano sakho futhi ngihlanganise amanxeba ami neyakho, ngokuba “ngamanxeba akho siphilisiwe thina.” Ngiyabonga ngeNhliziyo yakho Engcwele egwaziwe, echichima manje uthando, umusa kanye nokuphulukiswa kimi nomndeni wami. Ngivula inhliziyo yami ukuze ngithole lokhu kuphulukiswa. Jesu, ngithembela kuwe.
Manje, khuleka ngokusuka enhliziyweni ngeculo elilandelayo...
Ngilungise Amehlo Ami
Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe, Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe
Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe (phinda)
Ngiyakuthanda
Ngiholele Enhliziyweni Yakho, phelelisa ukholo lwami Kuwe
Ngikhombise Indlela
Indlela eya Enhliziyweni yakho, ngibeka ukholo lwami Kuwe
Ngikugxilise amehlo
Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe, Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe
Ngigxilise amehlo ami kuWe
Ngiyakuthanda
Ngiholele Enhliziyweni Yakho, phelelisa ukholo lwami Kuwe
Ngikhombise Indlela
Indlela eya Enhliziyweni yakho, ngibeka ukholo lwami Kuwe
Ngikugxilise amehlo
Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe, Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe
Ngigxilise amehlo ami Kuwe (phinda)
Ngiyakuthanda, ngiyakuthanda
-Mark Mallett, ovela Ngikhulule Kimi, 1999©
Umndeni kanye Nezilonda Zethu Ezijulile
Kungenxa ye- umndeni futhi ikakhulukazi abazali bethu ukuthi sifunda ukusondelana nabanye, ukwethemba, ukukhulisa ukuzethemba, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukwakha ubuhlobo bethu noNkulunkulu.
Kodwa uma ubudlelwano nabazali bethu buthikamezwa noma bungekho, angeke buthinte kuphela isithombe sethu kodwa noBaba oseZulwini. Kuyamangaza ngempela - futhi kuyasangulukisa - ukuthi abazali banethonya elingakanani ezinganeni zabo, okungcono noma okubi kakhulu. Ubuhlobo bukababa nomama nengane, phela, buhloselwe ukuba kube ukubonakaliswa okubonakalayo koZiqu-zintathu Ongcwele.
Ngisho nasesibelethweni, ukwenqatshwa kungabonwa ngomoya wethu wobungane. Uma umama enqaba ukuphila okukhulayo ngaphakathi kwakhe, futhi ikakhulukazi uma lokho kuqhubeka ngemva kokuzalwa; uma engakwazi ukuba khona ngokwengqondo noma ngokomzimba; uma engazange asabele ekukhaleni kwethu ngenxa yendlala, uthando, noma esiduduza lapho sizwa ukungabi nabulungisa kwezingane zakwethu, lesi sibopho esiphukile singashiya umuntu engalondekile, efuna uthando, ukwamukelwa nokulondeka okufanele kufundwe kuqala kithi. omama.
Ngokufanayo nobaba ongekho, noma abazali ababili abasebenzayo. Lokhu kugxambukela kobudlelwane bethu nabo kungasishiya ngokuhamba kwesikhathi empilweni nokungabaza ngothando lukaNkulunkulu kanye nokuba khona kwakhe kithi futhi kudale ukungakwazi ukuhlangana Naye. Kwesinye isikhathi sigcina sesibheka lolo thando olungenamibandela kwenye indawo. Kuyaphawuleka ocwaningweni lwaseDenmark ukuthi labo abakha ukuthambekela kobungqingili babevame ukuvela emakhaya anabazali abangazinzile noma abangekho.[3]Imiphumela yocwaningo:
• Abesilisa abashada nabangqingili banamathuba amaningi okuthi bakhuliswe emndenini onobudlelwano obungazinzile babazali — ikakhulukazi, obaba abangekho noma abangaziwa noma abazali abahlukanisile.
• Amanani emishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo akhushulwa phakathi kwabesifazane ababhekana nokushona komama ngesikhathi sobusha, abesifazane abanesikhathi esifushane somshado wabazali, kanye nabesifazane abanesikhathi eside sokuhlala ndawonye nomama nobaba.
• Abesilisa nabesifazane abanobaba "abangaziwa" babencane kakhulu amathuba okushada nomuntu wobulili obuhlukile kunontanga yabo nobaba abaziwayo.
• Amadoda athola ukushona komzali ebuntwaneni noma ebusheni ayenamanani aphansi kakhulu emishado yobungqingili kunontanga abazali babo bobabili ababephila ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa lwe-18.
• Uma isikhathi esifushane semishado yabazali sifushane, kwaba ngcono amathuba okushada kwabantu bobungqingili.
• Abesilisa abanabazali abahlukanisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwabo kweminyaka eyisithupha babenamathuba angama-6% okushada ongqingili kunontanga abavela emishadweni yobuzali eqinile.
Isethenjwa: “Ukuhlangana Komndeni Wobuntwana Kwemishado Yobungqingili Nobungqingili: Isifundo Sikazwelonke Seqembu LamaDanes Ayizigidi Ezimbili,”Ngu-Morten Frisch no-Anders Hviid; I-Archives yokuziphatha ngokocansi, Oct 13, 2006. Ukubuka konke okutholakele, iya ku: http://www.narth.com/docs/influencing.html
Kamuva ekuphileni, njengoba sihlulekile ukwakha izibopho ezingokomzwelo ezinempilo ebuntwaneni bethu, singavala, sivale izinhliziyo zethu, sakhe udonga, futhi sivimbele noma ubani ukuba angene. Singenza izifungo kithi ngokwethu njengokuthi “Ngeke ngiphinde ngivumele muntu ukuba angene,” “Ngeke ngizivumele ngibe sengozini, “Akekho oyophinde angilimaze,” njll. Futhi-ke, lezi zizosebenza nakuNkulunkulu. Noma singazama ukudambisa izikhala ezinhliziyweni zethu noma ukungakwazi kwethu ukuzihlanganisa noma ukuzizwa sihloniphekile ngokuzisebenzisa ngezinto ezibonakalayo, utshwala, izidakamizwa, ukuhlangana okungenalutho, noma ubudlelwano obuncikene nabo. Ngamanye amazwi, “ukufuna uthando kuzo zonke izindawo ezingalungile.” Noma sizozama ukuthola injongo nencazelo ngezimpumelelo, isikhundla, impumelelo, ingcebo, njll. — lobo bunikazi bamanga esikhulume ngabo izolo.
UBaba
Kodwa uNkulunkulu uBaba usithanda kanjani?
UJehova unesihe, unomusa, wephuza ukuthukuthela, ucebile ngesihawu. Ngeke njalo athole iphutha; futhi ungahlali entukuthelweni yakhe kuze kube phakade. Akasiphathi njengokwamacala ethu… Njengokuba impumalanga ikude nentshonalanga, udedisela kude izono zethu kithi… Uyakwazi esidaliwe; uyakhumbula ukuthi siluthuli. (Funda iHubo 103:8-14.)
Ingabe lona umfanekiso wakho kaNkulunkulu? Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi silwa “nesilonda sikababa.”
Uma obaba bethu bebekude ngokomzwelo, bengenalo uzwelo, noma bechitha isikhathi esincane nathi, khona-ke singase sikuveze lokhu kuNkulunkulu, ngaleyo ndlela sizizwe ukuthi konke kuncike kithina empilweni. Noma uma bebefuna ngenkani futhi benokhahlo, beshesha ukuthukuthela futhi begxeka, bengalindele lutho olungaphansi kokuphelela, singase sikhule sinomuzwa wokuthi uNkulunkulu uBaba akathetheleli noma yimaphi amaphutha nobuthakathaka, futhi ukulungele ukusiphatha ngokuvumelana namaphutha ethu—uNkulunkulu. ukwesatshwa kulokuthandwa. Singase sibe ne-inferiority complex, singazethembi, sizizwe sesaba ukuzifaka engozini. Noma uma kungekho okwenzile okwake kwaba kuhle ngokwanele kubazali bakho, noma babonisa umusa owengeziwe kumfowenu, noma baze baklolodela noma baklolodela ngezipho nemizamo yakho, khona-ke singakhula singalondekile ngokujulile, sizizwa simibi, singafunwa, futhi sizabalazela ukukwenza. izibopho ezintsha nobungane.
Futhi, lezi zinhlobo zamanxeba zingachichima zibe izilinganiso kuNkulunkulu. ISakramente Lokubuyisana, kunokuba libe yisiqalo esisha, liba ivalvu yokuhlehlisa isijeziso saphezulu - size sona futhi. Kodwa lowomcabango awuhambisani neHubo 103, akunjalo?
UNkulunkulu ungcono kunabo bonke oBaba. Ungubaba ophelele. Ukuthanda ngokungenamibandela, njengoba unjalo.
ningangilahli, ningangishiyi; O Nkulunkulu usizo lwami! Noma ubaba nomama bangishiyile, kodwa uJehova uzongamukela. ( IHubo 27:9-10 )
Ukusuka Ebuhlungu Kuya Ekuphulukiseni
Ngiyakhumbula kwenye imishini yepherishi eminyakeni edlule ngenkathi ngikhuleka nabantu ukuze ngiphulukiswe, owesifazane owayesecela eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu weza kimi. Ebuzwa ubuhlungu, uthe uyise wayemhlukumeza esemncane futhi wayethukuthele kakhulu futhi engakwazi ukumxolela. Ngokushesha, ngaba nesithombe engqondweni yami. Ngathi kuye, “Cabanga ingane yomfana ilele embhedeni. Bheka izinwele zakhe ezigoqene, izibhakela zakhe ezincane ezigoqiwe njengoba elele ngokuthula. Kwakungubaba wakho lowo… kodwa ngolunye usuku, othile wayilimaza naleyo ngane, futhi waphinda okufanayo nakuwe. Ungamxolela?” Wehla izinyembezi, ngase ngikhala. Sangana, futhi wadedela amashumi eminyaka obuhlungu njengoba ngangimholela emithandazweni yokuthethelela.
Lokhu akukhona ukululaza izinqumo ezenziwa abazali bethu noma ukuzenza sengathi abanasibopho ngezinqumo zabo. Kunjalo. Kodwa njengoba sekushiwo, “Ukulimaza abantu kulimaza abantu.” Njengabazali, sivame ukuba abazali ngendlela esakhuliswa ngayo. Eqinisweni, ukungasebenzi kahle kungase kwenzeke. U-Exorcist Msgr. UStephen Rossetti uyabhala:
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ubhapathizo luyamhlanza umuntu ebaleni Lesono Sokuqala. Nokho, ayisusi yonke imiphumela yayo. Isibonelo, ukuhlupheka nokufa kuhlala emhlabeni wethu ngenxa yesono sokuqala, naphezu kwamandla obhapathizo. Abanye bafundisa ukuthi asinacala ngezono zezizukulwane ezidlule. Yiqiniso lokhu. Kodwa imiphumela yezono zabo ingasithinta futhi iyasithinta. Ngokwesibonelo, uma abazali bami bobabili babeyimilutha yezidakamizwa, anginacala ngezono zabo. Kodwa imiphumela emibi yokukhulela emkhayeni oyimilutha yezidakamizwa ngokuqinisekile iyongithinta. — “Idayari ye-Exorcist #233: Iziqalekiso Zesizukulwane?”, Mashi 27, 2023; catholicexorcism.org
Ngakho nazi Izindaba Ezinhle: UJesu angaphilisa konke la manxeba. Akuyona indaba yokuthola umuntu ozosola ngokushiyeka kwethu, njengabazali bethu, noma ukuba isisulu. Ukuqaphela nje ukuthi ukunganakwa, ukuntula uthando olungenamibandela, ukuzizwa ungaphephile, ukugxekwa, ukunganakwa, njll. kusilimaze kanjani kanye nekhono lethu lokuvuthwa ngokomzwelo nokusondelana ngendlela enempilo. Lawa amanxeba adinga ukupholiswa uma singakahlangani nawo. Kungenzeka ukuthi ziyakuthinta njengamanje mayelana nomshado wakho nempilo yomndeni kanye nekhono lakho lokuthanda nokusondelana nomuntu oshade naye noma izingane, noma ukwakha nokugcina ubudlelwano obuhle.
Kodwa kungenzeka futhi silimaze abanye, kuhlanganise nezingane zethu, umlingani wethu, njll. Lapho sinakho, kungase kudingeke sicele intethelelo.
Ngakho-ke, uma uletha umnikelo wakho e-altare, bese ukhumbula lapho ukuthi umfowenu unokuthile ngawe, shiya lapho isipho sakho e-altare, uye kuqala ubuyisane nomfowenu, andukuba uze unikele umnikelo wakho. ( Mathewu 5:21-23 )
Kungase kungabi ukuhlakanipha ngaso sonke isikhathi noma kungenzeki ukucela intethelelo komunye, ikakhulukazi uma ulahlekelwe ukuthintwa noma sebedlulile emhlabeni. Tshela uMoya oNgcwele nje ukuthi uyaxolisa ngobubi obenzile futhi unikeze ithuba lokubuyisana uma kungenzeka, futhi wenze isinxephezelo (ukuphenduka) ngokuvuma izono.
Okubalulekile kule Retreat Healing ukuthi ulethe konke lamanxeba enhliziyo yakho ungene ekukhanyeni ukuze uJesu abahlambulule ngeGazi Lakhe Eliligugu.
Uma sihamba ekukhanyeni njengalokhu yena esekukhanyeni, khona-ke sinenhlanganyelo omunye nomunye, negazi leNdodana yakhe uJesu liyasihlambulula kuso sonke isono. ( 1 Johane 5:7 )
UJesu uze “ukuzoletha izindaba ezinhle kwabampofu . . . ukumemezela inkululeko kwabathunjiweyo
nokuzinika ukubona kwezimpumputhe, ukukhulula abacindezelweyo… ukubanika umqhele esikhundleni somlotha, amafutha entokozo esikhundleni sokulila, ingubo yokudumisa esikhundleni somoya odangele…” (Luka 4:18) 61:3). UyaMkholwa na? Uyafuna lokhu?
Bese kujenali yakho...
• Bhala phansi izinkumbulo ezinhle zobuntwana bakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziyini. Bonga uNkulunkulu ngalezi zinkumbulo eziyigugu nezikhathi.
• Cela uMoya oNgcwele ukuba akwambulele noma yiziphi izinkumbulo ezidinga ukuphulukiswa. Letha abazali bakho nomndeni wakho wonke phambi kukaJesu, futhi uthethelele ngamunye wabo nganoma iyiphi indlela abakulimaze ngayo, bakudumaze, noma behlulekile ukukuthanda njengoba kudingeka.
• Cela uJesu akuthethelele nganoma iyiphi indlela ongabathandanga ngayo, ongabahloniphi, noma ungabasebenzelanga ngayo abazali bakho nomndeni wakho ngendlela obufanele uyenze. Cela uJehova ababusise futhi abathinte futhi alethe ukukhanya nempilo phakathi kwenu.
• Phenduka kunoma yiziphi izifungo ozenzile, njengokuthi “Ngeke ngivumele noma ubani asondele ngokwanele ukuze angizwise ubuhlungu” noma “Akekho ozongithanda” noma “Ngifuna ukufa” noma “Angisoze ngaphulukiswa,” njll. Cela uMoya oNgcwele ukuba akhulule inhliziyo yakho othandweni, futhi uthandwe.
Sengivala, zibone umi phambi kwesiphambano sikaKristu owabethelwa esiphambanweni nomndeni wakho wonke, bese ucela uJesu ukuba avumele isihe sigeleze phezu kwelungu ngalinye, futhi aphulukise isihlahla somndeni wakho njengoba ukhuleka ngaleliculo...
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Intando KaBaba
Nokho lezi zandla - Ngiyazi ukuthi zizophinda futhi
Lapho Usuvukile
NoMusa uzogeleza, kumele ngimdedele
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Nakhu ngimi, Jesu wami, yelula isandla sakho...
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| ↑1 | IHubo 139: 7 |
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| ↑2 | I-Matt 28: 20 |
| ↑3 | Imiphumela yocwaningo:
• Abesilisa abashada nabangqingili banamathuba amaningi okuthi bakhuliswe emndenini onobudlelwano obungazinzile babazali — ikakhulukazi, obaba abangekho noma abangaziwa noma abazali abahlukanisile. • Amanani emishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo akhushulwa phakathi kwabesifazane ababhekana nokushona komama ngesikhathi sobusha, abesifazane abanesikhathi esifushane somshado wabazali, kanye nabesifazane abanesikhathi eside sokuhlala ndawonye nomama nobaba. • Abesilisa nabesifazane abanobaba "abangaziwa" babencane kakhulu amathuba okushada nomuntu wobulili obuhlukile kunontanga yabo nobaba abaziwayo. • Amadoda athola ukushona komzali ebuntwaneni noma ebusheni ayenamanani aphansi kakhulu emishado yobungqingili kunontanga abazali babo bobabili ababephila ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa lwe-18. • Uma isikhathi esifushane semishado yabazali sifushane, kwaba ngcono amathuba okushada kwabantu bobungqingili. • Abesilisa abanabazali abahlukanisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwabo kweminyaka eyisithupha babenamathuba angama-6% okushada ongqingili kunontanga abavela emishadweni yobuzali eqinile. Isethenjwa: “Ukuhlangana Komndeni Wobuntwana Kwemishado Yobungqingili Nobungqingili: Isifundo Sikazwelonke Seqembu LamaDanes Ayizigidi Ezimbili,”Ngu-Morten Frisch no-Anders Hviid; I-Archives yokuziphatha ngokocansi, Oct 13, 2006. Ukubuka konke okutholakele, iya ku: http://www.narth.com/docs/influencing.html |